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The Role of BDsM/Fetish in Sexual Pleasure
Dominic Davies Director - Pink Therapy
Wismeijer, A. van Assen, M. (2013) Psychological Characteristics of BDSM Practitioners J Sex Med 2013;10:1943–1952
Terminology• BDsM - Bondage & Discipline, Dominance &
submission, Sadism & Masochism
Roles:
• Top, Master/Mistress, Dominant, Dom(me), Dad, Mum, Boss, Lord, Lady, Sir, Madam, Handler
• bottom, slave, sub, boi, girl, pet, son, daughter. pup
"THE TOTAL CONSTELLATION OF THOUGHTS, IMAGES, BEHAVIORS, SOUNDS, SMELLS, SIGHTS, FANTASIES, AND OBJECTS THAT AROUSE US SEXUALLY." THIS CONSTELLATION ENCOMPASSES VAST CATEGORIES OF STIMULI THAT COME FROM OUR EARLY EXPERIENCES WITH FAMILY, FRIENDS, RELIGIOUS AFFILIATIONS, MEDIA, AND TEACHERS. MUCH OF WHAT IS AROUSING TO US REGISTERS SUBCONSCIOUSLY-A PERSON'S PHEROMONES, THE TENOR OF HER VOICE, THE FEEL OF HIS SKIN, THE WAY SHE CARRIES HERSELF. ONE IS OFTEN AWARE OF BEING ATTRACTED TO A 'TYPE': BLOND AND BUSTY, SLIM AND INTELLECTUAL, OR INTENSE AND OUTSPOKEN.
Arousal Template
THE ROLE OF BDSM/FETISH
PURPOSE
FUNCTION
enhancing pleasure
increasing repertoire of activities
Managing performance anxietyabrogating responsibility
and decisions
giving up power or
taking power
FUN!
SEXUAL PLEASUREDesire
Subjective
Whose?
Arousal
FantasyTransgressive
Location Challenge
Political & Social Histories of BDsM
Acetylcholine comfort & soothing
Phenyl ethylamine
euphoria of love
DHEA > desire, energy
< stress
Oestrogen & Testosterone motivate sexual
interest
Prostaglandins contract smooth
muscle sharpen senses
Negotiation
‘Safewords’
Aftercare
SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual)
RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
Connection to Kink Community
Re-enactment
Abuse
Dangerous
SafeguardsPrevious Trauma
PROBLEMATIC SEX
Gloria Brame, William Brame and Jon Jacobs
Different Loving: an exploration of the world of sexual dominance and submission
Darren Langdridge & Meg Barker
Safe, Sane and Consensual: Contemporary Perspectives on SadoMasochism
David M Ortmann and Richard A Sprott
Sexual Outsiders: Understanding BDSM Sexualities and Communities
Scientific Evidence given to the WHO for reforming ICD 11 F65 http://www.revisef65.org/supportWHO2.html
Dossie Easton and Catherine A Lizst
When Someone You Love is Kinky
The New Bottoming Book
Dossie Easton & Janet W Hardy
The New Topping Book
Dossie Easton & Janet W Hardy
www.fetlife.com
Barbara CarellasEcstasy is necessary
Not about the Whip: love spirituality in the BDSM SceneDossie Easton & Janet W
Hardy
Radical Ecstasy
Sensuous Sadie
www.fetlife.com
Not Kinky but Urban Tantra
http://sacredpleasures.co.uk
http://urbantantra.org