B-133202 Need for a National Weather Modification Reseach ...
Reseach paper with cartoon
Transcript of Reseach paper with cartoon
Jeff Riddlebaugh
Lin Ryan- Thomson
Enlish112C
Research paper
11/28/2005
“The Hidden Abuse No One Talks or Cares About”
“Domestic Violence Women Are Not the Only Victim”
There is a hidden conspiracy to hide an abuse that has been
occurring since recorded time. This conspiracy is just becoming
known due to new laws and more victims are reporting the crime.
This abuse is something women do not what anyone to know about,
and men would never dare talk about it or admit that it has ever
happened to them. This abuse is very real and occurs more often
and more severe than anyone is willing to admit. Men will not
admit to it happening to them, women will not admit that it
happens at all, the police at best look the other way when it
happens and all too often make rude and demeaning remarks to the
victim. The court system wants nothing to do with it. Society
as a whole ignores the abuse, therefore, as fellow human beings
Riddlebaugh
something must be done to stop this injustice and let the truth
be known!
The hidden abuse talked about is husband and boyfriend
abuse, not wife abuse and wife beating instead about wives and
girlfriends abusing there husbands and boyfriends. The first
reaction from most people to hearing about the battering of men
is unbelief or laughter, with jokes made at the expense of the
victims, but no one would dare make those jokes about a battered
woman. Does this society believe its ok for a woman to hurt and
abuse a man just because this person is male not female?
Battered husbands are a topic for jokes (like cartoon images of a
woman chasing her husband with a rolling pin). Wives were the
perpetrators in 73% of the cartoons showing domestic violence in
newspaper comics (Saenger 1963 p3).
2
Riddlebaugh
Daryl Cagle’s professional cartoonists index http://www.cagle.com/
Battered husbands have historically been both ignored or
subjected to ridicule and abuse. In 18th-century France, a
battered husband was made to wear an outlandish outfit and ride
backwards around the village on a donkey (Steinmetz & Lucca 1988
p21). Even those of us who like to consider ourselves liberated
and open-minded often have a difficult time even imagining that
husband battering could take place. One of our greatest
Presidents Abraham Lincoln was a victim of female violence by his
wife Marry, if having your wife smack you in the nose with a
chunk of firewood, throw coffee in your face, beat on you with
broomsticks and fling potatoes and books at you doesn't qualify a
guy for 'battered husband' status, what does? Many people who
knew him often said he only became active in politics to get away
from his abusive wife.
One reason researchers and others have not chosen to
investigate husband battering is because it was thought to be a
rare occurrence. Police reports seemed to bear this out
3
Riddlebaugh
(Steinmetz 1977 p25), with in some cases a ratio of 12 to 14.5
female victims to every one male victim.
Nevertheless, another reason is that because women were seen
as weaker and more helpless than men due to sex roles, and men on
the other hand, were seen as more sturdy and self-reliant, the
study of abused husbands seemed relatively unimportant. In 1974,
a study was done which compared male and female domestic
violence. In that study, it was found that 47% of husbands had
used physical violence on their wives, and 33% of wives had used
violence on their husbands (Gelles 1974 p12). Also in 1974, a
study was released showing that the number of murders of women by
men (17.5% of total homicides) was about the same as the number
of murders of men by women (16.4% of total homicides). These
statistics came from police records. The murder statistics was
no big news, by the way. In 1958, an investigation of spousal
homicide between 1948 and 1952 found that 7.8% of murder victims
were husbands murdered by wives, and 8% were wives murdered by
husbands (Wolfgang 1958 p111). More recently, in a study of
spousal homicide in the period from 1976 to 1985, it was found
that there was an overall ratio of 1.3:1.0 of murdered wives to
4
Riddlebaugh
murdered husbands, and that "Black husbands were at greater risk
of spouse homicide than Black wives or White spouses of either
sex" (Mercy & Saltzman 1989 p30). The subject of husband
battering had finally been addressed, but not to the great
satisfaction of anyone. Although it had finally been shown that
both wives and husbands were perpetrating violence, there was no
information about how often or the severity of the abusive, and
who initiated the abuse and who was acting in self-defense.
For instance, in 1976, the Curtis report (which
found women less likely to assault, but as likely to murder, as
men). Wilt & Bannon wrote that "nonfatal violence committed by
women against men is less likely to be reported to the police
than is violence by men against women; thus, women assaulters who
come to the attention of the police are likely to be those who
have produced a fatal result.” In 1977, Suzanne Steinmetz
released results from several studies showing that the percentage
of wives who have used physical violence is higher than the
percentage of husbands, and that the wives' average violence
score tended to be higher, although men were somewhat more likely
to cause greater injury. She also found that women were as
5
Riddlebaugh
likely as men to initiate physical violence, and that they had
similar motives for their violent acts (Steinmetz 1977-78 p42).
Steinmetz concluded that "the most unreported crime is not wife
beating -- it's husband beating" (Langley & Levy 1977 p85).
In addition, a 1979 telephone survey was conducted in which
subjects were asked about their experiences of domestic violence
(Nisonoff & Bitman 1979 p4). 15.5% of the men and 11.3% of the
women reported having hit their spouse; 18.6% of the men and
12.7% of the women reported having been hit by their spouse. In
1980, a team of researchers, including Steinmetz, attempted to
address some concerns about the earlier surveys (Straus, Gelles &
Steinmetz, 1980 p47). They created a national study of family
violence and found that the total violence scores seemed to be
about even between husbands and wives, and those wives tended to
be more abusive in almost all areas except pushing and shoving.
In A follow up survey in 1985, comparing their data to a 1975
survey (Strauss & Gelles 1986 p 8) found in that domestic
violence against women dropped from 12.1% of women to 11.3% while
domestic violence against men rose from 11.6% to 12.1%. The rate
6
Riddlebaugh
of severely violent incidents dropped for both groups: From 3.8%
to 3.0% of women victimized and from 4.6% to 4.4% for men.
In relation to that report, a 1986 report appeared in Social
Work, the Journal of the National Association of Social Workers
(Nov. /Dec. 1986 p 126) on violence in adolescent dating
relationships, in which it was found that girls were violent more
frequently than boys were. Another report on premarital violence
(O'Leary, et al) found that 34% of the males and 40% of the
females reported engaging in some form of physical aggression
against their mates in a year. 17% of women and 7% of men
reported engaging in severe physical aggression. 35% of the men
and 30% of the women reported having been abused. The Journal of
the American Medical Association has published a report, which
was recently picked up by the Associated Press, and it deserves
attention that is more detailed primarily because it challenges
common assumptions about a serious health and social issue. The
study examined 516 patients seeking services in the emergency
room of Charity Hospital in New Orleans, Louisiana. Out of these
numbers, a slightly greater number of men were victims of
physical domestic violence than were women (20% vs. 19%). The
7
Riddlebaugh
doctors also said, "We determined that women experienced
significantly more past and present nonphysical violence, but not
physical violence than men."
Supplementary, it is significant to note that the rate for
intimate partner domestic violence may be greater than what this
survey shows. This is because the relationship between victim
and assailant was unknown fully a third of the time for men, and
a fifth of the time for women. In addition, male victims of
partner violence may be even more likely than women victims to
attribute such injuries to strangers or others. Males also seek
medical attention for all types of ailments at a lower rate than
women do. These emergency room admissions studies do not of
course, represent the totality of domestic violence, nor do law
enforcement reports or even the Justice Departments own National
Crime Victimization Survey, which surveys crime victims who may
not have reported anything to police. Many domestic violence
victims do not go to the emergency room, report to police, or
answer honestly when asked to list intimate violence by a current
partner or former partner. This is especially true when their
current partner may be present when filling out the Justice
8
Riddlebaugh
Department survey. This is why domestic violence advocates
frequently point to work funded by the National Institute of
Mental Health and conducted by the Family Research Laboratory at
the University of New Hampshire. These surveys show that nearly
two million women are victims of severe domestic violence each
year. This is twice the number reported by the Justice
Department National Crime Victimization Survey and much more than
the 204,400 women injured in the Justice Department emergency
room study. The Family Research Laboratory is the source of the
often-quoted statistic that a woman is battered by her intimate
partner every 15 seconds. The trouble with quoting this source
however is that most advocates have taken to ignoring the
complete and most recent result of 1.8 million women victims of
severe violence and two million male victims. Alternatively, to
put in another way, a man is severely assaulted by his mate every
15 seconds; a woman is similarly assaulted every 18 seconds.
These reports have been upheld by thirty other independent
studies. Such reports even when limited to just what women
respondents say show that women hit first 53 percent of the time.
The women also report that a quarter of the time, only they were
9
Riddlebaugh
violent, a quarter of the time it was only the man who was, and
the remainder of the incidents involved mutual violence. The
U.S. Justice Department shows that 62 percent of the times, wives
were the victims, but 38 percent of the victims were men. The
Justice Department also reported, that for black family spouse
murders, "Wives were just about as likely to kill their husbands
as husbands were to kill their wives.” Criminologists like Dr.
Coramae Richey Mann, now retired from Florida State University,
also point out that when women kill their mates. The statistics
may not be as representative as when it is the other way around.
We do not know the level of hidden homicide by women who use
poison on their mates, since this method is often undetected,
hence, there would be no arrest.
In addition, the justice system has a history of chivalry
and paternalism toward women. Certainly, there are many examples
where a man is charged with homicide, while a woman committing a
similar act is charged with a lesser offense. A case in point
would be the following in which "When Shane Seyer was twelve
years old, he was sexually molested, repeatedly, over a period of
several months, by his babysitter. Colleen Hermesmann, the
10
Riddlebaugh
babysitter, was initially charged with statutory rape ("indecent
liberties with a child" in Kansas) but plea-bargained to a lesser
charge -- "contributing to a child's misconduct.” When Colleen
Hermesmann and her new baby went on welfare, the state did what
it usually does in cases of single mothers seeking state
assistance -- it tried to find the father, in this case young
Shane Seyer, and to get him to pay child support. In March, the
Kansas state supreme court ruled that when Shane Seyer was
molested by his babysitter at age 12, he consented to 18 years of
child-support payments. "We conclude," the court, wrote, "that
the issue of consent to sexual activity under the criminal
statutes is irrelevant in a civil action to determine paternity
and for support of the minor child of such activity.” The court
ruled that " an action by the State against a minor father for
reimbursement of funds paid for support of his child, the fault
or wrongdoing of the mother at the time of conception, even if
criminal, has no bearing on the father's duty to support such
child.” State ex re. Hermesmann v. Seyer & parents, Kans. Supr.
Ct. No. 67,978 (1993).
11
Riddlebaugh
The Justice Department reports also do not count as a
spousal murder, cases in which one partner induced a third party
to kill their mate for them a tactic that is used more frequently
by women than men.
The idea of women being violent is a hard thing for many
people to believe. It goes against the stereotype of the passive
and helpless female. This, in spite of the fact that women are
known to be more likely than men to commit child abuse and child
murder. A Daly & Wilson 1988 report showed that the mother
committed 54% of parent-child murders where the child is under
17.
Furthermore, a study in a doctoral dissertation by
psychologist Vallerie Coleman of 90 lesbian couples showed that
46% had experienced repeated violent acts (Garcia, 1991 p62). So
domestic violence is an issue framed in the media and in the
political arena as one of male perpetrators and female victims.
Violence in gay and lesbian relationships is rarely discussed,
and violence against men in heterosexual relationships even less.
The terms "wife beating" and "battered women" have become
political expressions, rather than descriptions of reality. In a
12
Riddlebaugh
book on domestic violence, Roger Langley and Richard C. Levy
conclude a chapter on battered husbands by saying, "Husband abuse
should not be viewed as merely the opposite side of the coin to
wife abuse. Both are part of the same problem, which should be
described as one person abusing another person. “The problem
must be faced and dealt with not in terms of sex but in terms of
humanity" (Langley & Levy 1977, p. 208). Ironically, the book in
which this quote appears is entitled "Wife Beating: The Silent
Crisis.” Legislation about domestic violence is always
orientated toward the female victim. For instance, in 1991,
Senator Joseph Biden again introduced the "Violence against Women
Act" It has a section called "Safe homes for Women" which
allocates funds to "women's" shelters (Biden 1991, also see Boxer
1990 p 328).
Further note, actions like that of Ohio Governor Richard F.
Celeste who granted clemency to 25 women who were in prison for
murdering their husbands. The reason he gave for this was the
"Battered Woman Syndrome" which, obviously, no man can claim as
his defense (Wilkerson 1990 p 125). There is very little concern
shown either for the idea that perhaps some of the men who murder
13
Riddlebaugh
their spouses might be suffering from “Battered Men Syndrome.”
There is only one case known of at this time in which a man was
able to use a similar defense. Warren Farrell writes about it in
his book “Why Men Are the Way They Are” (Farrell 1986, p. 231):
“Betty King had beaten, slashed, stabbed, thrown dry acid
on, and
shot her husband. Eddie King had not sought prosecution
when she
slashed his face with a carpet knife, nor when she left him
in a parking
lot with a blade in his back. Neither of these incidents
even made the
police records as statistics. She was only arrested twice,
when she
stabbed him so severely in the back and so publicly (in a
bar) that the
incidents had to be reported. All these stabbings,
shootings, and
acid-throwings happened during a four-year marriage. During
a
14
Riddlebaugh
subsequent shouting match on the porch of a friend's house,
Betty King
once again reached into her purse. This time Eddie King
shot her.
When an investigation led to a verdict of self-defense,
there was an
outcry of opposition from feminists and the media.’ Farrell
compares this case, in which "a two-second delay could have meant
his death," to that of the celebrated case, which was made into
the television movie The Burning Bed in which the wife murdered her
husband while he slept.
It is clear that this information shows that husband
battering is a serious problem, Even if the data in the last
several years were completely wrong and only one in 14 victims of
spousal abuse are men, these are fellow humans that are being
abused even if they are just men. Men who are hurting and need
services that are currently not available. The stigma attached
to male victims of battering is so severe that 835,000 men who
where battered each year are remain silent because they are
assumed to be the guilty one, not that they are the victim.
15
Riddlebaugh
Special attention should be paid to reaching out to these
victims. Simply opening up "Women's Shelters" to men is not
enough. Given the historical background of the fight to win
domestic violence a place, as a significant social problem there
was a need to concentrate primarily on services and recognition
solely for women victims and none for male victims this must
change. To move forward today towards more effective help for
anyone caught in the domestic violence trap this society must
recognize that domestic violence is a human problem, not a gender
problem.
WORKS CITED
The Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men offers a nationwide (US)
hotline for all victim's of domestic violence. They are
particularly sensitive to the plight of those who traditionally
have not been believed when they call, such as battered men, same
sex victims, and so on.
Barry Daniels “Abraham Lincoln a VICTIM of female violence”
Mon, 12 Sep 1994 23:12:05 GMT [email protected]
16
Riddlebaugh
Biden, Joseph "Violence against Women Act of 1990" (S. 15)
1991.
Boxer, Barbara "A Bill to combat violence and crimes against women on the streets
and in homes" (H.R. 5468) 101st Congress, 2nd Session, August
3, 1990
Curtis, L.A. Criminal violence: National patterns and behavior
Lexington Books, Lexington MA, 1974
Daly, M. & Wilson, M. "Parent-Offspring Homicides in Canada, 1974-1983"
Science v. 242, pp. 519-524, 1988
Daryl Cagle’s professional cartoonists index
http://www.cagle.com/
Farrell, Warren Why Men Are the Way They Are Graw-Hill, New York,
1986, p. 231
Garcia, Jane "The Cost of Escaping Domestic Violence" Los Angeles
Times May 6, 1991
Gelles, R.J. The violent home: A study of physical aggression between
husbands and wives Sage, Beverly Hills CA, 1974
Kingsley G. Morse Jr. [email protected] State ex re.
Hermesmann v. Seyer & parents, Kans. Supr. Ct. No. 67,978
(1993).
17
Riddlebaugh
Langley, Roger & Levy, Richard C. Wife Beating: The Silent Crisis Pocket
Books, New York 1977
Marriage and Divorce Today "First Large-Scale Study Reveals Elder Abuse is
Primarily by Wives against Husbands" December 15, 1986
Abused men homepage JAMA article is 1997; 278; 620 from an
original article in Annals of Emergency Medicine, Official Journal of
the American College of Emergency Physicians Vol. 30 number 2.
http://home.comcast.net/~philip.cook/essays/Emergency_Rooms.
html
Mercy, J.A. & Saltzman, L.E. "Fatal violence among spouses in the
United States, 1976-85" American Journal of Public Health 79(5):
595-9 May 1989
Nagi, Saad Child Maltreatment in the United States Columbia
University Press, New York, p. 47, 1977
Nisonoff, L. & Bitman, I "Spouse Abuse: Incidence and
Relationship to Selected Demographic Variables" Victimology
4, 1979, pp. 131-140
O'Leary, K. Daniel; Arias, Ilena; Rosenbaum, Alan & Barling,
Julian "Premarital Physical Aggression" State University of
New York at Stony Brook & Syracuse University
18
Riddlebaugh
Rooke, Margaret Violence in the Home Radio Times 16-22 March 1991 p.
8.
Saenger, G. "Male and female relation in the American comic strips" in The
funnies: An American idiom M. White & R.H. Abel editors, The
Free Press, Glencoe IL, 1963, p. 219-223
Sexuality Today Newsletter "Violence in Adolescent Dating Relationships
Common, New Survey Reveals" December 22, 1986 (reporting on a
report in Social Work contact Karen Brockopp) p 2-3.
Statistical Abstract of the United States 1987 table 277
Steinmetz, Suzanne K. The cycle of violence: Assertive, aggressive, and abusive
family. Interaction Praeger Press, New York, 1977
Strauss, M.A., Gelles, R.J., and Steinmetz, S.K. Behind closed
doors: Violence in American families. Doubleday, New York,
1980
Strauss, M.A. & Gelles, R.J. "Societal change and change in
family violence from 1975 to 1985 as revealed by two
national surveys" Journal of Marriage and the Family 48, po. 465-
479, 1986
Rates of Severe Spousal Violence by Gender
19
Riddlebaugh
Rates per year per 1000 couples of various forms of violence.
CTS
Survey #1 CTS Survey #2 Kentucky
1975
(N=2143) 1985 (N=3520) 1979
Wife
husband wife husband wife husband
Victim vicitm
victim victim victim victim
1) Threw something 28 52
28 43 29 48
2) Pushed, grabbed, or shoved 107 83 93
89 85 86
3) Slapped 51 46
29 41 48 45
4) Kicked, bit, or hit with fist 24 31
15 24 14 16
5) Hit or tried to hit with something 22 30
17 30 22 24
20
Riddlebaugh
6) Beat up 11
6 8 4 18 21
7) Threat with gun or knife 4 6
4 6 14 18
8) Used gun or knife 3 2
2 2 4 6
Overall violence (1-8) 121 116
113 121 115 121
Severe violence (5-8) 38 46
30 44 33 46
The data below from Behind Closed Doors have husband reports and
wife reports of violence. It has now been clearly shown that
there is no evidence of differential reporting; at least not with
the methods/methodology used by Straus and Gelles, (it remains
possible there is some sort of similar effect that could
influence a less well-designed methodology).
21