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Transcript of Women's place in Human Society with Special Reference to India
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Published in Contemporary Vibes, July 2015
An Article
5960 words
Women’s Place in Human Society with Special Reference
to India
Let me begin by excerpts from a short story by Maxim Gorky titled
“Exposure” which tells the tale of woman in Russia at that time.
This was particularly worst but women’s place was not radically
different in other parts of the world. Large numbers of women in
India have been subjected to various types of neglect and
domestic torture over the time.
The Story
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“The procession moved slowly, like an enormous wave, and in front
of it walked a mangy horse with drooping head. . . .
“A young woman scarcely out of her teens, very small and
stark naked, was tied by the wrists to the dashboard of the cart.
She walked sidewise, her knees trembling and threatening to give
way under her; her head, covered with dishevelled dark hair, was
tipped upwards and her wide-open eyes gazed into space with a
blank inhuman stare. Her body was striped and dotted with black-
and-blue marks; her firm maiden like left breast had been
gashed . . . . It was as if a long narrow ribbon of skin had been
stripped off the woman’s body. And no doubt her belly had been
beaten with a club or trampled on by booted feet, so horribly
swollen and discoloured was it.
“A tall muzhik was standing in the cart. He was wearing a
white Russian blouse and a black Astrakhan hat . . . . In one
hand he held the reins, in the other a whip with which he
systematically struck out first at the horse, then at the little
woman . . . . The man’s eyes were bloodshot and flashed with
vindictive triumph . . . . His mouth was open, showing two rows
of sharp white teeth, and from time to time he would shout
hoarsely:
“Take that, you beach! Ha-ha! And that!
“Behind the woman and the cart came the crowd- shrieking,
laughing, hooting, whistling, goading, jeering. Urchins darted
here and there. Occasionally one of them would run ahead and
shout filthy words into the woman’s face. Then a burst of
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laughter from the crowd would drown out the thin whistle of the
whip through the air. The faces of the women in the crowd wore a
look of unusual animation and their eyes sparkled with pleasure.
The men kept shouting obscenities to the muzhik standing in the
cart. He would turn round to them and laugh loudly, opening his
mouth as wide as possible. Suddenly a whip lashed out at the
woman’s body. Long and thin, it circled round her shoulders and
struck her under the arm. At that the muzhik gave it a sudden
jerk, and with a shrill cry the woman fell on her back in the
dust. People from the crowd sprang forward and hid her body from
view as they bent over her.
“The horse came to a halt, but a moment later it was
plodding ahead again and the shamed woman was walking behind
it. . . .”
At the end of the story the writer explains:
“What I have written is not a picture of . . . my
imagination . . . . It is called “Exposure,” and is a means by
which husbands punish unfaithful wives. It is a picture taken
from life . . . I was witness to it on the 15th of July, 1891, in
the village of Kandybovka , Kherson Gubernia, Nikolayevsky
District.
“I had heard that in the Volga region where I come from,
women who deceived their husbands were tarred and feathered. I
know that there had been cases of innovative husbands and father-
in-laws smearing unfaithful wives with treacle in the summer time
and tying them to trees to be stung and bitten by insects. I had
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also heard that occasionally such women were bound and thrown on
to ant-hills.
“Now the witness of my own eyes has proved to me that such
things are really possible among ignorant, heartless people whose
dog-eat-dog way of life has turned them into wild beasts consumed
by greed and envy.” (Gorky /212-216)
Maxim Gorkey was a young communist writer who had the dream
of emancipating oppressed humanity from the clutches of all
capitalist torturers and of giving them freedom under the sky. He
did not live to see when a different type of oppression began to
be operative against the victims of the communist dictators,
specially how the women were treated in the Siberian labour camps
or in China under the supervision of Mao Tse Tung, along with the
other unfortunate victims. To know them he was to live to read
another writer of his own country; Alexander Solzhenitsyn and of
China, Jung Chang.
Casting our glance at women of other countries including
India we find that the situations are gruesome sometimes up to
the present decade though crimes are not done so openly and in
that scale as in Gorky against the huge cry for human rights and
woman rights.
Neglect and abuse of women in countries around the world
The first European country which granted women right to vote was
Finland in 1906. Most other countries in Europe and America
granted it between 1915 and 1920. Ladies who wanted voting right
in Canada were tortured brutally- it was not until 1920 that
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women were granted the right to go to the polls and vote in
Canada. They weren’t treated as persons earlier.
In June 2009 a Pakistani mother of five, Asia Bibi, was out
picking fruit in the fields. At midday she went to the nearest
well, picked up a cup, and took a drink of cool water, and then
offered it to another woman. Suddenly, one of her fellow workers
cried out that the water belonged to Muslim women and that Bibi—
who is Christian—had contaminated it. “Blasphemy!” . . . . Bibi
was then thrown into prison after inhuman torture and sentenced
to be hanged.1
Though she was not hanged in November 2010 as decreed, her
clemency petition was not coming up for hearing. It seems still
pending at the highest court of that country. A younger girl of
11 has also been charged under the same Act. The case of Mallala
Yousafzai receiving bullets on her head for doing her studies is
well known throughout the world. The perpetrators of the crime
have been sentenced to life imprisoned now. 2
“The Supreme Court verdict acquitting five of the six men
accused of raping Mukhtaran Mai in an act of honour revenge is
'deeply disappointing', said a leading Pakistani daily . . . .
Mukhtaran Mai became a symbol of the country's oppressed women
after her gang-rape on the orders of a village council in 2002.”
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A 25-year old Norwegian woman has been awarded a 16-
month jail sentence in Dubai after she told the local cops that
she had been raped . . . .
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“According to the Sharia-based laws of the UAE, a rapist can
only be convicted if he himself confesses to the crime or if
there are four adult, male Muslim witnesses who can provide
evidence that the sex was non-consensual.” 4 More such incidents
occurred there.
Susmita Banerjee of Kolkata was married to a Pathan doing
his lending business in Kolkata, and settled with him as his wife
in Afghanistan for years as a devout wife. She found the children
and ladies of the land quite lovable who heavily depended on her
when she worked as health worker amongst such helpless ladies and
children, neglected by their men folk, and supplied them
medicines establishing her own pharmacy, running it profitably.
She fought bravely to help and find how democracy might work
there. Susmita settled in such alien land, fighting with
Kalashnikov rifle in hand loaded with 60 bullets against a mass
of such solid tribal base under threatening circumstances. She
was finally put to death after torture at the dead of the night
on 5 September 2013, betrayed perhaps by her husband. 5
Afghanistan has recently passed a law permitting Shia men to
deny their wives food and sustenance if they refuse to obey their
husband’s sexual demands, despite their international outrage.
The new final draft of the legislation also grants guardianship
of children exclusively to their fathers and grandfathers
requiring women to get permission from their husbands to work.
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“It also effectively allows a rapist to avoid prosecution by
paying ‘blood money’ to a girl who was injured when he raped
her,” The US charity Human Rights Watch said. 6
The rage of the day is the abduction of about 300 girl
students in Nigeria on April 14, 2014 from a school where
examinations were being conducted, by the Islamist militants Boko
Haram.
The girls have been abused variously and most of them are not
traceable till now. 7
An American feminist writer Naomi Wolf has recently said in
an interview that, “Two million women are clitorally excised
every year-I say ‘Women’ but the average age of this trauma is
seven-100,000 die of it annually.” 8
Indian Women
Talking about Indian women of the past, an Indian becomes
nostalgic remembering Vedic women like Ghosha, Maitreyi, Gargeyi
and lopamudra and the great mythical figure, Radha. Then comes to
mind the women of the epics like Savitri, Sita, Kunti, Draupadi
and Gandhari; saints of the South like Karaikkal Ammaiyar and
Andal. Krishna’s ardent devotee Mira Bai comes to our mind.
There were the galaxy of woman saints at different ages. One
remembers such great fighters in their own domain like the queen
of Jhansi, Laxmi Bai, Kittur Rani Chennamma, Begum Hazrat Mahal
of Oudh and the fierce freedom fighters of the recent time like
Madam Bhikaji Rustom Cama, Kanaklata Barua, Kalpana Dutta,
Sarojini Naidu, Matangini Hazra, Aruna Asaf Ali and down memory
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lane many others in different provinces of India. Apart from the
Indian women of the past there have been other great names of
women in science, sports, management and social work of the
present. We remember the women of Rajasthan who self-immolated
themselves before being captured by the enemy forces under the
vows of Jauhar. Many such women ended their lives by jumping into
the wells during the partition years. Their lives became
miserable mainly due to partition of the Indian subcontinent.
Women of great wisdom and genius, of tremendous devotion,
memory, courage, perseverance and endurance are often remembered.
During the Vedic ages women were respected and given equal status
on many occasions. There was fall in their status during the
medieval ages. During the prevalence of Kaulinya pratha of the
distorted Brahmanic Order, large number of brahmin women were
married to one man at whose death they became widows hardly
knowing what was a married life. Sati rite was prevalent during
this time. Child marriage too is a curse on woman’s life.
It may be said that from the end of the nineteenth and
beginning of twentieth century women of India are gradually
getting modern education. But still now large numbers of women
are illiterate compared to their male counterparts.
Present situation in India
The vulnerable condition of women around the world is repeated in
India but in more miserable ways. The position of women in the
developed world is certainly better. More and more attention is
drawn towards raping the innocent victims in India. So many are
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the records of such crimes published that one cannot repeat them
as they simply pour in. More are the happenings unrecorded for
unless something creates uproar in the society interfered by
political voice they go unnoticed. This act is perpetrated in
different guises; sometimes these are individual actions and
sometimes they take the form under the guidance of such illegal
bodies as Khap Panchayet or Kangaroo courts. Many times politics
intervene making the cases worst. The fatal gang-rape of a 23-
year-old student on a moving bus in New Delhi in December 2012
sparked nationwide outrage. It is still happening in Delhi buses.
Near Moga in Punjab a girl in a bus was attacked with intention
of molestation and either she jumped or the staff of the bus
pushed her out with her mother. The girl died instantly and the
mother has been struggling to live in a hospital. The bus belongs
to a ruling leader’s family. People’s agitation observing bundh
has happened. Buses of the company have been off the route and
the staff are sent for orientation course. 9 But the case of
murder should be dealt with accordingly. The Indian parliament
has since passed tougher laws to punish rapists but there remains
a great lacuna when a minor person according to law, though
perpetrates the most ghastly part in it, is not seriously
punished. Instead, he gets interviewed and filmed for world
audience by the Western World. Certainly such law has to be
suitably amended. Though not often, the same crime still happens
in the West too. In early April this year (2015) a strong minded
20 year old Oxford University student was severely abused and
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raped. The criminal has been arrested. 10 The governments of
countries must act very strictly dealing severely with rape and
murder. There cannot be any laxity under any plea if it is
desired to stop such violence which is recurring; challenging the
sane fabric of the society.
Crimes scattered
The owner and manager of a children's boarding school in
Maharashtra was arrested after five minors had reportedly been
raped, forced to watch pornographic films and act them out with
one another, police and charity workers said. It tells of more
stories. The report adds that in May 2012 serious sexual abuse
was uncovered at a well-established residential care home for
orphans called Apna Ghar (Our Home) in Rohtak on the outskirts of
Delhi. 11
An Indian teenager was gang-raped in two separate attacks
and then died after being set on fire, sparking protests in the
eastern city of Kolkata.
Activists say rape victims in India often face severe
threats and intimidation from their attackers after the assault,
while police often discourage them from lodging complaints. 12
Two minor girls who were cousins, aged 14 and 15 years, went
missing from their house last night and their bodies were found
hanging from a mango tree in the Katra village in Ushait area of
U.P. near Budaun on Wednesday, 28.5.2014 in the morning. 13
Khap Panchayet Raj
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In Mehrana village of U.P. a young man of 20 years belonging to
Jadav caste fled to nearby State of Rajasthan with his 15 years
old girl friend of Jath caste, helped by a friend of his caste.
The local Panchayet (Khap Panchayet) took it very seriously as
the low caste man could not flee with a high caste Jath girl for
any fake reason like love. Panchayet passed an order to hang them
to death. And immediately they were hanged, all the three. In all
such cases family or village prestige is considered of higher
value than human love and human life. This was in 1992, as
reported in the editorial of Ananda Bazar Patrika, Kolkata. 14
Tribal Justice
In Tamil Nadu’s hamlets it is quite common for caste leaders and
elders to hold court in the village square and pass their
verdicts in cases of inter-case marriages and elopements. The
parents of the girl or boy who fall in love or marry out of caste
against the wishes of their parents are compelled by the village
elders to murder their ‘errant’ son or daughter or force them to
commit suicide. Karishma and Sudhakar were beaten to death for
eloping in Nagapattinam district. 15
The gang-rape of the 20-year-old woman was allegedly ordered
by a kangaroo court (Shalishi Sabha) in Lovepur, Birbhum district
of West Bengal as punishment for falling in love with a man
outside the community. The victim and her paramour were caught,
tied to a tree and the gang-rape took place. Punitive actions
have been taken against the criminals. 16
Honour Killing
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Haryana is one of the marked parts of the country where not only
brides are bought but honour killings are much in vogue due to
prevalence of tight caste system as in UP, Punjab and adjacent
Pakistan. Whether caste or class, such differences are very much
prevalent in the other parts of the globe like Jordan, Pakistan
and sometimes in the modern Western countries. Such killings by
or engineered by the family members of the girl are frequent.
Sometimes they are reported but mostly go unnoticed as suicide or
other reasons for death like missing. Honour killing is prevalent
in modern world carried out from the dark ages.
Irom Chanu Sharmila of Manipur has been fasting from the
beginning of twenty-first century demanding the repeal of Armed
Forces Special Power Act which is, it is said, against woman’s
rights and basic human rights. She does not eat or drink
anything, it is being force-fed by pipe. This continues in spite
of innumerable appeals by social activists and other dignitaries
throughout the world to repeal the Act and restore normalcy in
the life of Sharmila, thereby reestablishing human rights.
Trafficking
According to the International Labour Organisation, two million
people are taken or sold from their homes into a life of forced
labour and sexual abuse every year. The overwhelming majority are
women and children. More than half of all people enslaved are
turned into sex workers who endure lives of incalculable misery
before disease and deaths; most often dying early. In India the
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problem is acute. Trafficking is perhaps the most nefarious human
activity against humanity.
Buying Brides through Trafficking and using them as a Commodity
for family use
Bought like a commodity costing less than a cattle and treated
like chattel, the majority among thousands of procured brides in
Haryana have a quick transition into the degenerated existence of
a ‘Paro’ or the bought one. Abject poverty compels the guardians
to sell their daughters as they could not be married otherwise.
They originate from Bengal, Assam, Bihar, Jharkhand and even
Bangladesh. Their numbers may be 50,000 or more there.
With fake marriage such girls serve all purposes in a
family; all works of a maid servant and more. They are wife to
the husband and concubine to his brothers and others. The bought
brides face acute social isolation and deprivation. Their
children are not given proper rights to the family property.
Agents who help procure them engineer their escapes sometimes so
that they can sell them again with profit. 17
Destroying Female Fetuses and eliminating new-born Girl Children
The British medical journal Lancet conducted a national survey of
1.1 million Indian households in 1998 and estimated that 10
million female fetuses had been aborted in 20 years. Out of
71,000 children born every day in India, just 31,000 are girls
giving a sex ratio of 882 girls to 1000 boys. But the global sex
ratio is 954 girls to 1000 boys. In 14 districts across Haryana
and Punjab, there are even fewer than 800 girls per 1000 boys.
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Noted economist Amartya Sen calculated that in India alone
there were 37 million ‘missing’ women already in 1986 when he did
the first estimation. “Using the same Sub-Saharan standard, China
had 44 million missing women, and it was evident that for the
world as a whole, the magnitude of shortfall easily exceeded 100
million.” Economists Kalsen and Wink have noted that this number
of missing people was larger than all the people who died during
the combined famines in the 20th century, and the death toll of
World War 1 and 2 combined. According to the World Bank, in
demographic terms a100 million missing women represented 70 per
cent of the current female population in the US. 18
Selling a Child
In the prevailing situation it is no wonder that the “Slumdog
Millionaire” fame 9 years old child actress Rubina Ali was
proposed to be sold by her poor father at a price of two lakh
dollars.
This would be another illegal trafficking. 19
Women are simply the Victims of Greed and Lust
Women have always suffered as victims of men’s greed and lust in
various ways. There were times when Nawabs ordered to pick up
women of their choice anywhere within their jurisdiction and made
them captives in their harems. How Japanese military treated
women during the Second World War Years is known. Recently a
pathetic case has come to notice.
A 19 years old very poor blind girl of Malda district, West
Bengal, whose father has been ailing for long and they have
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almost no means to survive, lived with a man with a thin hope of
survival and betterment of life by marriage, as allured by him.
After she gave birth to a child the man left. Utterly dejected,
she tried to sell her baby as she would not be able to rear it
but failed. The district Child Welfare Committee volunteered to
accept the child for rearing through any scheme of the
Government. 20
Woman’s Position has Improved with Digital Development Keeping
its Primitive Stand
“Talaq” uttered thrice by a Muslim man on a mobile phone will be
considered valid even if his wife is unable to hear it all the
three times due to network and other problems . . . .
This ruling was given by the Darul Ifta, the fatwa
department of leading Sunni Islamic seminary Darul Uloom Deoband,
in reply to a question posed by a man. 21
Women’s position is vulnerable in India and elsewhere under
the famous Shariat Personal Act. While havocs are happening in
the lives of women, particularly in the third world countries,
there are some solaces somewhere to note:
Towards Establishing Woman’s Legal Rights
The 2005 amendment under Hindu Succession (Amendment) Act 2005
grants to all daughters, including married daughters, the same
rights in co-parcenary property as those enjoyed by sons, also
making them subject to similar liabilities. In case of
inheritance of joint family property, where there is no will, a
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daughter will now receive the same share in HUF property as the
son. 22
Living Together
A three judge bench of the Indian Supreme Court in a case in
early 2010 observed that “Living together is a (part of) right to
life. When two adults want to live together, it is not an
offence. It cannot be illegal.” The judges also cited Article 21
of the constitution which guaranteed the right to life with
dignity, liberty and respect, and stressed that the perceived
immorality by a few protagonists of morality cannot brand it as
offence.
Two judges of the Allahabad High Court in a judgment in 2001
said, “In our opinion, a man and a woman, even without getting
married, can live together if they wish to. This may be regarded
as immoral by society, but is not illegal. There is a difference
between law and morality.” 23
Right of Expression
As men women have been using slang words in literature, even in
poetry. Wild Girls Wicked Words is a bilingual collection of poetry by
four feminist Tamil poetesses. They used slang words and
expressions in their poetry as Kamala Das used in a more
meaningful way. This signifies the women’s right to express in
erotic and slang ways too. There are large numbers of such
examples to be found even among Booker winning novelists.
Transgenders have been recently given the right to vote by the
Supreme Court of India.
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Kangaroo Courts: The authority of Khap panchayets have been
nullified by the Supreme Court of India.
Women’s Charter in Singapore is synonymous to their right. It has
recently proposed amendment to give right to a man towards
maintenance charges from a divorced wife if he is incapacitated.
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Lesbianism and Gay marriage
The Supreme Court of India has not allowed such things to be
legal in India. However much uproar may be made by the lesbians
and the Gay people, such tendency, called abnormal sex, are
deviations from Nature and its norms even when they aren’t termed
perversions.
The Supreme Court of the most liberal country, United
States, has split on same sex marriage recently even when 36 of
its States have allowed it and 14 have not. 25
Through such practices future progeny will be abolished
unless Nature takes another turn. If such tendency increases
among men and women it must have to be taken as definite steps of
Nature towards evolutionary change. Man or woman themselves
cannot engineer it. However, as it is now, adults have every
right to live together. There is no bar in such adults living
together legally. So where is the hurdle in living that way? What
is the need for legal sanction for that, particularly when there
won’t be any offspring out of the relationship?
High sounding support for women are often partial and verbose.
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Kalpana Sharma’s latest feature in The Hindu, titled “What should
we expect?” - written in support the women of the country is a
bizarre article, a political vendetta. It begins like this, “The
shouting is over. The voters have voted . . . . . And for the
majority, who did not cast their votes in favour of the party now
in power, this is a time for reflection.” The majority did not
vote for but the party in power received the majority vote as
declared by the Election Commission. The inside pages of The
Hindu do not conform to this idea as it has to conform to facts.
The claim for reservation of seats for women in the Parliament
which had been dragging on for years without any positive result
has to be seen how it comes up during the days to come. The
result depends on the choice of the legislatures. When deserving
candidates are not available reserving positions in favour of the
weak and undesirable only weakens the nation.
How many times the so called progressive people would
condemn the ritual of 300 years old Sati? How long would they
make a name by making films on it or acting Sati? Is it not known
that thousands of women are suffering more than Sati in the hands
of politicians, womanisers and other goons? 26
Women should not utilise the sentiment in their favour as weapon
to victimise her opponent.
While assaults on women and other sorts of discrimination against
them are often reported, sometimes men are unduly accused of
assaulting women thus making them victims of law for some
purpose; political or otherwise.
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We may consider the case of Justice A. K. Ganguly who was
retired judge of the Apex judicial body. The Supreme Court of
India after his retirement appointed him as the Chairman of West
Bengal State Human Rights Commission. Such a person is usually
held in high esteem for their integrity in service towards the
nation, for their lifelong service in delivering justice. When in
service nothing was heard against him about his untoward
activities. It is strange that after retirement an untoward
charge is made against him on the basis of verbal statement or
blog. He was charged under various sections of Indian Penal Code
for “Unwelcome behavior” and “Conduct of Sexual Nature”. Though
charged by various authorities, the Chief Justice of the Supreme
Court said that since he was not in service when the incident
occurred it was not necessary to follow up the case. By constant
pressure from various powerful corners he had to resign as the
Chairman of the Human Rights Commission even before the charge
sheet was filed against him. Finally the case was dropped as
there was no complaint made by the victim. The one who accused
him should be answerable now. 27
Christian Doctrine defining Womanhood
“In a major document released yesterday, Pope John Paul defended
the dignity of women but said firmly they could not become
priests because Jesus Christ chose only men as his apostles,
reports Reuter.
“In the 2800 word Mulieris Dignitatem (dignity of woman) document
the Pope said women were men’s ‘sisters in humanity’ but the
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relationship between them regarding the priesthood was ‘willed by
God’. . . .
“In calling only men as his apostles, Christ acted in a
completely free and sovereign manner,” he said.
“…in the name of liberation from male domination women must not
appropriate to themselves male characteristics contrary to their
own feminine originality,” he said. 28
Development of Women through Man-Woman relationship
The position of woman in society is dependent on their
relationship with man which is the core issue. The Mother of Sri
Aurobindo Ashram wrote thoughtfully for a real solution of
woman’s problems from her rational and spiritual points of view.
She wrote, “The indisputable fact remains: man feels superior and
wants to dominate, woman feels oppressed and revolts, openly and
secretly; and the eternal quarrel between the sexes is
perpetuated from age to age, identical in essence, innumerable in
its forms and hues. . . .
“In their mutual relationships, man and woman are at once
rather despotic masters and somewhat pitiable slaves to each
other. . . .
“The woman is enslaved to man because of the attraction she
feels for the male and his strength, because of the desire for a
home and the security it brings, and lastly because of the
attachment to motherhood. Man too on his side is enslaved to
women, because of his possessiveness, his thirst for power and
domination, because of his desire for sexual relations and
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because of his attachment to the little comforts and conveniences
of married life.
“That is why no law can liberate women unless they liberate
themselves; likewise, men too, in spite of all their habits of
domination, will cease to be slaves only when they have freed
themselves from all inner enslavement.” (Mother /103-104)
Womanhood in Human Society
Women are physically exploited, sold and bought in spite of
abolition of slave trade. The nefarious primitive trade of
prostitution continues in spite of all rational arguments against
it. It is doubtless that men have roughly behaved against women
throughout the ages under whatever plea like domination due to
physical superiority, whimsical act or show of virility. Usually
women are not ruffians, dacoits, murderers nor they play
mercenary roles, they never take any supari contract by
themselves (as the men of underground world do) for they require
brute physical force which women do not usually have. Women are
sometimes politicians as good or as bad as men. They have
capacity to do many or all the things that men in the mental and
vital world do. Sure it is that on an average women are
physically weaker than men and they cannot and do not usually
gang up to do all crimes against men. Womanhood and Manhood are
exactly not the same. In spite of many resemblances there are
some subtle differences; many are due to tradition and practices,
some are inherent. The rape and such things are usually criminal
activities which may be dealt with accordingly, may be abolished
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or minimized systematically by the state or woman welfare bodies
and the society in general.
But for all such ills shouting against or quarreling with
the word Patriarchal will not serve any real purpose. Even the
traces of Matriarchal society in Kerala is tending towards
Patriarchal, it is said. Matriarchal societies are tending
towards changing to Patriarchal as a forceful body; may be with
some rare exceptions in some minor societies. It is a natural
tendency as are evolving in different societies at different
times. Men and women both participate in it. Women also sometimes
play their part in downgrading their position like utilising
their body vis-à-vis men or by decrying their womanhood. It may
be said with some justification that for the progress of the
state of womanhood man and woman both have to act and work
towards that position as women are equally responsible for
women’s position. Let us recall the relevant portion of the story
by Gorky we began with:
“Behind the woman and the cart came the crowd- shrieking,
laughing, hooting, whistling, goading, jeering. Urchins darted
here and there. Occasionally one of them would run ahead and
shout filthy words into the woman’s face. Then a burst of
laughter from the crowd would drown out the thin whistle of the
whip through the air. The faces of the women in the crowd wore a
look of unusual animation and their eyes sparkled with
pleasure. . . .
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“Such things are really possible among ignorant, heartless
people whose dog-eat-dog way of life has turned them into wild
beasts consumed by greed and envy.”
Let us see another example from the modern world, incredible
though it seems.
Tamilians Justify Wife Beating
A study by International Institute of Population Sciences reveals
that 51 per cent of young men and 56 per cent of young women in
Tamil Nadu justify wife beating. . . .
Youngsters from both the sexes justify wife beating under
four circumstances- If the husband suspects the wife’s fidelity;
if the wife disagrees with the husband’s opinion; if wife goes
out without telling the husband; if the wife refuses to have
sexual relations with the husband. . . .
About 31 per cent men believe they will be right in
assaulting their wives if they go out without informing them or
disagree with their opinion.
And beating the men in the opinion stakes, 38 per cent women
believe they deserve to be beaten if they do not agree with their
husbands. 29
I may say that women like men or more relished the pitiable
condition of the tortured woman and such dog-eat-dog condition of
man was and still is a reality, improved to whatever extent by
the evolution of human consciousness which is not uniform
everywhere. There are still humans of the same mentality as they
were 125 years ago and there are humans of divine nature.
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To improve the women’s position in society no publicity or
political propaganda is required. But all out efforts are needed
by all concerned to improve the position through art and culture
and proper utilization of science and technology. Consciousness
is the cardinal point for human development. Civilisation means
the cultivation of consciousness to ever higher regions.
Notes and Refernces
1. Blasphemy: A Memoir: Sentenced to Death Over a Cup of Water
Paperback by Asia Bibi (Author), Anne-Isabelle Tollet (Author);
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http://www.amazon.com/Blasphemy-Memoir-Sentenced-Death-Water/dp/1
613748892 and The Hindu, dated 1.1.2011
2. The Times of India, dated, 1.5.2015
3. Indo Asian News Service | IANS – Sat, Apr 23, 2011 11:26 AM IST
4 https://in.news.yahoo.com/norwegian-woman-jailed-for-16-months-
in-dubai-for-reporting-being-raped-075006052.html
5 Kabuliwalar Bangali Bau or Bengali wife of a Kabuliwala and other
books by her
6. The Guardian as reproduced in The Sunday Herald on 14. 8.2009
7.http://www.thestar.com/news/world/2014/05/31/
for_parents_of_abducted_nigerian_schoolgirls_seven_weeks_of_waiti
ng_and_worrying.html
8. The Hindu Magazine, dated 5.1.2014
9. The Times of India, dated 1.5.2015 and The Hindu, dated
3.5.2015
10. The Times of India, dated 1.5.2015
11. Reuters- By By Nita Bhalla | Reuters – Fri 30 May, 2014
12. http://www.thenational.ae/world/south-asia/outrage-as-indian-
girl-16-gang-raped-twice-and-burned-alive#ixzz33Dck3bf5
13. http://indiatoday.intoday.in/story/two-dalit-sisters-
gangraped-bodies-found-hanging-from-tr2e-up-village/1/364162.html
14. Ananda Bazar Patrika-Editorial. 23 Chaitra, 1397-Bengali Era
15. The Times of India; The Crest Edition. 21.7.2012
16. http://zeenews.india.com/news/west-bengal/sc-seeks-chief-
secretary-report-on-birbhum-gang-rape-case_908146.html and
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http://www.firstpost.com/india/birbhum-gangrape-sc-asks-wb-govt-
to-pay-rs-5-lakh-to-victim1454889.html?utm_source=ref_article
17. Sunday Herald dated, 5.8.2007
18. The New Indian Express—7.8.2007
19 Times of India, dated 20.4.2009
20. The Statesman, dated 7.12.2013
21. The Hindu, dated 16.11.2010
22. The New Indian Express dated 17. 10.2005
23. quoted from Deccan Herald, 28.10.2014
24. The Straits Times, dated 14 July, 2014
25. The Times of India, dated, 1.5.2015
26. The Hindu, dated, 25.5.2014
27. The Statesman, dated, 7.12.13
28. The Statesman, dated 2.10.1988
29. The New Indian Express, dated 23.9.2009
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2. The Mother. On Education. Collected Works of the Mother. Centenary
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© Aju Mukhopadhyay, 2014