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© 2019 Million Dollar Round Table Million Dollar Round Table 325 West Touhy Ave. Park Ridge, IL 60068 USA 2019 MDRT Top of the Table Annual Meeting e-Handout Material Title: Personality Isn’t Permanent Speaker: Dr. Benjamin Hardy Presentation Date: Friday September 27, 2019 Presentation Time: 8:30 a.m.-10:00 a.m. Session Room: Congressional Ballroom B-C The Million Dollar Round Table ® (MDRT) does not guarantee the accuracy of tax and legal matters and is not liable for errors and omissions. You are urged to check with tax and legal professionals in your state, province or country. MDRT also suggests you consult local insurance and security regulations and your company’s compliance department pertaining to the use of any new sales materials with your clients. The information contained in this handout is unedited; errors, omissions and misspellings may exist. Content may be altered during the delivery of this presentation.

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© 2019 Million Dollar Round Table Million Dollar Round Table 325 West Touhy Ave. Park Ridge, IL 60068 USA

2019 MDRT Top of the Table Annual Meeting e-Handout Material Title: Personality Isn’t Permanent Speaker: Dr. Benjamin Hardy Presentation Date: Friday September 27, 2019 Presentation Time: 8:30 a.m.-10:00 a.m. Session Room: Congressional Ballroom B-C The Million Dollar Round Table® (MDRT) does not guarantee the accuracy of tax and legal matters and is not liable for errors and omissions. You are urged to check with tax and legal professionals in your state, province or country. MDRT also suggests you consult local insurance and security regulations and your company’s compliance department pertaining to the use of any new sales materials with your clients. The information contained in this handout is unedited; errors, omissions and misspellings may exist. Content may be altered during the delivery of this presentation.

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What We’re Going To Cover

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What We’re Going To Cover•PART 1: Dispelling the Myths of Motivation & Confidence•PART 2: Optimal Routines for Productivity and Success•PART 3: Increasing Your Courage and Creating Your Future•PART 4: Never Getting Stuck AGAIN!

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What We’re Going To Cover

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Who am I?

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Dispelling Myths Of Motivation & Success

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“You’re more likely to act yourself into feeling, than feeling yourself into action.” — Jerome Bruner, Harvard psychologist

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“This is the other secret that real artists know and wannabe writers don’t. When we sit down each day and do our work, power concentrates around us. The Muse takes note of our dedication. She approves.” — Steven Pressfield

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“Personal confidence comes from making progress toward goals that are far bigger than your present capabilities.”—Dan Sullivan

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“Human beings are works in progress that mistakenly think they're finished.”— Dr. Daniel Gilbert

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Optimal Routines for Productivity and Success

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“Lose an hour in the morning, and you will spend all day looking for it.” — Richard Whately

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• Test Text

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“When you change the way you see things, the things you see change.” — Dr. Wayne Dyer• Re-frame your past (“Gap and Gain”—Dan Sullivan)• Reshape your brain and body for your future

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• Visualization and meditation need to be “emotional.”

• Your subconscious is accessed through emotions and emotional experiences

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“You've got to be before you can do, and do before you can have.” – Zig Ziglar

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Increasing Your Courage and Creating Your Future

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It’s easier to hold to your principles 100 percent of the time than it is to hold to them 98 percent of the time. Decide what you stand for. And then stand for it all the time.” — Clayton Christensen

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“Every person who wins in any undertaking must be willing to burn his ships and cut all sources of retreat. Only by so doing can one be sure of maintaining that state of mind known as a burning desire to win.”—Napoleon Hill

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“If there are meaningful choices, there is uncertainty. If there is no choice, there is no uncertainty.”— Dr. Ellen Langer, Harvard psychologist

“To venture causes anxiety, but not to venture is to lose one’s self. Anxiety is the dizziness of freedom.”— Søren Kierkegaard

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“Expect everything and attach to nothing!” —Carrie Campbell

• Emotional attachment to outcomes is the problem• The biggest ”PRO’s” have shortest memories

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Never Getting Stuck AGAIN!

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•Your past changes as you advance forward, and this is healthy

• If your past hasn’t changed, you haven’t learned

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“Peak experiences as rare, exciting, oceanic, deeply moving, exhilarating, elevating experiences that generate an advanced form of perceiving reality, and are even mystic and magical in their effect upon the experimenter.” — Abraham Maslow

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“A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions.”— Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr.

• People become “less open to new experiences”• Prediction errors are how you learn

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Buzz Aldrin vs. Elon Musk

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“How can you achieve your 10 year plan in the next 6 months?”— Peter Thiel

• How much are you learning?• How different is your life from 12 months ago?• Measure the gain, not the gap.

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“Every next level of your life will demand a different you.”—Leonardo DiCaprio

“Consistency is the hallmark of the unimaginative.”—Oscar Wilde

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“The unconscious will allow us to have only what we believe we deserve. If we have a small view of ourselves, then what we deserve is poverty. And our unconscious will see to it that we have that actuality.” — Dr. David Hawkins

• Subconscious enhancing experiences• Acting as and toward your future self

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What would your life be like in 12 months if you “Lived”

these 20 Pictures?

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Thank you!