Personal Theory SOLUTION FOCUSED COUNSELING
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PERSONAL THEORY PAPER
SOLUTION FOCUSED COUNSELING
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A Paper
Presented to
Professor Max Mills
Liberty Theological Seminary
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In Partial Fulfillment
of the Requirements for PACO600
Survey of Christian Counseling Theories
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by
Carla Antoine
August 14, 2009
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Table of Contents
I. Abstract
II. Introduction
III. Personality
IV. Development of Personality
A. Concentric Circles
V. Motivation
VI. Human Development
VII. Individual Differences
VIII. Health and Healing
A. Definition of Health
B. Definition of Illness
IX. The Therapeutic Process
X. Effectiveness
XI. Theory as it Relates to Worldview
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XII. Multitasking
A. Spiritual Formation
B. Integration and Rationale
XIII. Conclusion
XIV. References
XV. Grading Guideline
ABSTRACT
This personal theory paper presents a Biblically based
comprehensive counseling model. The integrated model of choice
is Solution-Focused Counseling. The goal of Solution-Focused
Pastoral Counseling (SFPC) is to see the counselee change into
the image of Christ by establishing him or her on the path of
righteousness. Progress is measured by observing the work of the
Holy Spirit as He begins to produce spiritual fruit in the life
of the counselee. The by-product of this spiritual growth will be
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satisfaction and joy in Jesus (Kollar 1997, 61). The conclusion
reiterates why only a biblical approach to counseling is an
effective approach for the total transformation of the
counselees. The apostle Paul announces a totally unanticipated
new beginning. What he describes in his letter to the church at
Corinth reflects a profound change. In Christ, the believer’s
personal control is being reestablished and hope has been
restored. All this happens in spite of the problems the new
believer is facing. Often the solution that Paul offers does not
seem to have any direct connection to the problem at all. The
solution amounts to an entirely new way of perceiving life—an
extraordinary shift of paradigms (Kollar 1997, 19).
INTRODUCTION
The goal of Solution-Focused Pastoral Counseling (SFPC) is
to see the counselee change into the image of Christ by
establishing him or her on the path of righteousness. Change may
take place quickly or in small incremental steps. Progress is
measured by observing the work of the Holy Spirit as He begins to
produce spiritual fruit in the life of the counselee. The by-
product of this spiritual growth will be satisfaction and joy in
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Jesus (Kollar 1997, 61).
SFPC is brief, usually five to eight sessions, because we
recognize that it is God’s job to change a person (Phil 1:6) and
the counselee’s job to work through the sanctification process
(Phil 2:12-13). The counselee, with the guidance of the counselor
will set limited and specific goals and maintain clear, specific
treatment focus with clearly defined outcomes. Therefore, the
counselee will be given homework assignments and asked to journal
or take notes each day for the counselor to review with the
counselee during each session. This is very important in order to
keep alive the process of focusing on a solution.
SFPC also realizes that therapy is not timeless but may be
intermittent throughout a person’s life. Termination of
counseling therefore, is based on the counselee meeting the
specific and limited goal set at the beginning. In the future, if
the counselee fails progress or regresses in their spiritual
walk, they may need to come back to better define the solution or
discover a better one.
Solution-Focused Pastoral Counseling (SFPC) introduces a
fresh, effective, and timesaving approach that will benefit
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pastors overtaxed by counseling demands. Solution-Focused
Pastoral Counseling (SFPC) shifts the emphasis from the problem
to the strengths, vision and practical solutions that lie within
the individual. The Solution’s Focus is a powerful, practical
and proven approach to positive change with people, teams and
organizations. It offers an alternative to all problem-focused
counseling approaches, whether they come from the Bible or from
secular counseling models. Its intention is to provide
counselors with the how-to’s for staying on track during the
counseling interview-as well as helping individuals, couples, or
families get unstuck and back on track.
We use the solution-focused approach in pastoral
counseling because it forces the counselee to identify all
components of their problem and take responsibility. It is very
difficult to find happiness in an unresolved problem and it would
be very difficult to focus on strength as the Positive Psychology
model would suggest. If a person were being counseled, it would
be very difficult to move towards progress if they are encouraged
to focus only on the good or happiness. There are many
assumptions underlying my approach. First, all people are
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created in the image of God and, as his image bearers, have
infinite value and worth. Romans 3:23 says, “For all have sinned
and come short of the glory of God”. This passage of scripture
supports why the most effective pastoral counseling takes into
account the whole person: body, soul, and spirit. The solution
focused pastoral counseling (SFPC) is to listen attentively,
collaborate with counselee, execute, connect, and reconnect with
others. There are six assumptions guiding the counseling
experience. The six assumptions are: (1) If it works, do more
of it. If it does not work, do something different, (2) Every
client is unique, resourceful, and capable of changing, (3)
Cooperative relationships enhance solutions, (4) Client feedback
improves outcomes, (5) No problem is constant, and (6) Big
problems do not always require big solutions.
The strategy for the counseling session should focus on
attentive listening, diagnosing the problem, determining the need
for change, and creating a vision to achieve change. In the
counseling structure/strategy, I realize that the counselee talks
while the counselor actively listens for Counselee’s
understanding of life with the problem.
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MULTITASKING
“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who
have been called according to his purpose” Romans 8:28. Development of a
theory should reflect the ability to multi-task. Multitasking
requires that the counselor views “a person’s problems form
several perspectives at the same time” (Comprehensive Theory,
PACO600_D01_200930, Week 2, Slide 7). The theory should
integrate responsibly the insight from theology, psychology, and
giving preference to scriptural theological truth as the
fundamental truth in resolving what appear to be contradictions
between Scripture and psychology (Comprehensive Theory,
PACO600_D01_200930, Week 2, Slide 7).
This entails seeing a “problem through the lens of a
theological…psychological…and a spiritual perspective” all at the
same time which amounts to holistic counseling. “Jesus can meet
every problem a human being can have, but it takes wisdom and
discernment on the part of the counselor to hear how He wants
each person handled” (Backus & Chapian, 2000, 177).
Spiritual Formation
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new
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creation; the old has goine, the new has come 2
Corinthians 5:17. The apostle Paul announces a totally
unanticipated new beginning. What he describes in his
letter to the church at Corinth reflects a profound
change. In Christ, the believer’s personal control is
being reestablished and hope has been restored. All
this happens in spite of the problems the new believer
is facing. Often the solution that Paul offers does
not seem to have any direct connection to the problem
at all. The solution amounts to an entirely new way of
perceiving life (Kollar 1997, 19).
God is doing a new thing in our lives (Isa. 43:18-19). He
gives us a new song (Ps. 40:3), a new name (Isa. 62:2), and He
makes a new covenant with us (Jer. 31:31). He gives us a new
spirit (Ezek. 11:19) and a new heart (36:26). In Christ we are a
new creation (2 Cor. 5:27) through a new birth (1 Peter 1:3) in
which we put on a new self (Eph. 4:23-24). He will create new
heavens and a new earth (Isa. 65:17). Indeed, He will ultimagely
make all things new (Rev. 21:5) (Kollar 1997, 55).
Paul wrote in Colossians 1:28 that his verbal interaction
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with people (counseling?) always was designed to promote
Christian maturity. Only the maturing believer is entering more
deeply into the ultimate purpose of his life, namely, worship and
service. Biblical counseling therefore will adopt as its major
strategy the promotion of spiritual and psychological maturity
(Crabb 1977, 22). Maturity involves two elements: (1) immediate
obedience in specific situations and long-range character growth.
The transformation process requires one “to offer your
bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God” as
demonstrated by turning away from “the pattern of this world”
through the “renewing of your mind” Romans 12:1-2. In doing so,
one receives the filling of the Holy Spirit and He helps the
person gain self-control. “Self-control, a fruit of the Spirit,
will become a part of your life as you diligently cultivate it,
as you reject discouragement, and as you teach yourself to reward
yourself for your successes” (Backus & Chapian 2000, 102).
Integration and Rationale
Solution-focused therapy (SFT) is a counseling model that
puts the client into the driver’s seat as an expert of self-care.
Endorsed by a wide range of health care professionals, SFT is a
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brief model of counseling that incorporates certain key
assumptions that flavor all counseling interaction. Perhaps the
most interesting of these include a belief that understanding all
components of a problem is not essential before resolution can
begin; clients are capable of making change in addition,
experiencing solution behavior very early on in the counseling
process; change is contagious and once identified, labeled and
reinforced, often triggers more change; and helpers are in the
unique position of being enablers of change by recognizing,
reinforcing, amplifying and complimenting it for clients
(Greenberg, 2289-2295)
My approach to Integration most closely resembles the
“Spoiling The Egyptian” approach as summarized by Crabb. I like
this approach because it is a needed balance between the
unintended carelessness of Tossed Salad and the overreaction of
Nothing Buttery (Crabb, 47). A Christian who has spoiled the
Egyptians of secular psychology, carefully weeding out the
elements, which oppose his commitment to the revelation of
Scripture, will be better equipped to counsel than either the
Tossed Salad counselor who mixes concepts, as they seem called
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fro or the Nothing Butterist counselor who refuses to benefit
from the insights of secular study (Crabb, 52). My desire is to
utilize the best counseling approaches and tools to reap the best
results of spiritual formation and maturity.
PERSONALITY
One understanding of the image of God is that it refers to
qualities or attributes present in the person. Thus, the image
of God is identified as human reason, will, or personality.
Others believe the image is something present when the person is
in a relationship to God, and in fact, is that relationship
(Youngblood 1995, 593).
We especially need to learn that God created everyone with
unique personalities. No personality is better than the other.
It's what we do with our personalities that matters. By
understanding the way God "wired" us, we can discover why people
do what they do. The Bible confirms that you were "wonderfully"
made (Psalms 139:14). God's plan and purpose was to create each
person uniquely. We were gifted glorify Him with specific
influences - naturally and supernaturally. As a Christian, we
have God-given personality and spiritual gifts that serves as
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motivation. Discovering the gifts and influences can aid in
personal growth and help to avoid and resolve conflict
(http://www.uniquelyyou.net/ accessed 8-17-09).
DEVELOPMENT OF PERSONALITY
How is personality formed? There have been many debates and
theories about this question. At the present time, it is Eric
Erickson’s theories that primarily influence the practice of
counseling. Erickson stressed a psycho-social approach (Kollar
1997, 54). Erickson envisioned eight developmental stages to
give structure to the formation of human personality. They
follow through the entire life progression. Trust/Mistrust (age
0-1), Autonomy/Doubt (age 1-3), Initiative/Guilt (age 3-5),
Industry/Inferiority (age 6-11), Identity/Role Confusion (age 11-
18), Intimacy/Isolation (young adult), Generativity/Stagnation
(middle age). Each stage has both a healthy outcome and an
unhealthy outcome (Kollar 1997, 54).
Concentric Circles
In Hawkins’ concentric circle illustration, we seek to
highlight the elements that contribute to the structuring and
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shaping of the self. If you start at the center or the core of
the self for the person who is a born again believer we find the
Image of God, the Holy Spirit, the human spirit and sin or the
old sin nature. All persons are image bearers and it is that
reality that lends dignity to all human beings. Only believers
are indwelt by the Holy Spirit. His presence at the core brings
great power to the transformation process when he is provisioned
with the Word of God in the mind of the believer and a commitment
in the will to obey the word of God. Pastoral Counselors are
obligated to share the Gospel with clients. Only through
believing the Gospel will persons know the power of the Holy
Spirit at work in the Core.
Also in the core are the elements of the conscience,
thinking, deciding and feeling. Much of what persons become is
shaped by their thoughts and their choices. The Pastoral
counselor reshapes persons by assisting them with the ingrafting
of the word of God in the mind and the rehabituation of behaviors
in the pursuit of the master goal of the imitation of the Christ.
Feelings enrich our lives and help us knows where we and others
are in the pursuit of this goal.
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Persons live inside of Bodies. Our bodies are the vessels
with which we serve the Lord and others. They are the source of
great blessing but can also be the source of problems for care-
seekers who have developed addictions or ways of behaving that
detract from the achievement of the master goal. These behaviors
can be changed through the power of the Holy Spirit, commitment
to obeying the truth of the word of God and through redecisioning
for conformity. These commitments to acting from truth when
joined to the power of the Holy Spirit operating from the core
and commitment to communities of accountability provide the
foundation for the transformation of our bodies into vessels that
honor our God.
Persons are shaped significantly by the systems in which
they have been parented in and in which they live. Cultures,
churches, jobs, schools friends and family all contribute to the
shaping of the self. This shaping either facilitates or hinders
our efforts at achieving the master goal of the imitation of the
Christ. The impact of these systems will need to be examined.
Often significant work will be required to deal with the negative
shaping influences experienced in these systems. Dealing with
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those negative experiences in accordance with Biblical teachings
will be very important as we seek to put ourselves and others on
the path for achieving the master goal.
Supernatural systems also shape the self. God, the Holy
Spirit and angels are constantly at work in our world. Satan and
his demons are also constantly at work in our world. These
forces, good and evil, will be encountered as we engage care-
seekers in the pursuit of the imitation of the Christ. We must
learn and teach the art of dependence upon God and Spiritual
Warfare.
The Concentric Circles are designed to assist us with the
process of identifying all of the potential areas that contribute
to the shaping of the self that may represent areas of strength
or struggle for the persons we are seeking to assist with their
personal pursuit of the imitation of the Christ.
Developing a Comprehensive Pastoral Assessment of the Self.
If we aim at nothing in our Pastoral Counseling we will hit
it every time (Comprehensive Theory, slide 1). The Pastoral
Counselor has one overarching goal. The goal/his aim is the
imitation of the Christ (Eph. 5:1). He seeks to assist persons
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with the dehabituation of behaviors that detract from the
achievement of that goal and the habituation of behaviors that
serve the achievement of that Goal. In fulfilling this objective
the counselor is dependent upon the careseekers willingness to
obey the Word of God and receive the enabling instruction and
empowerment of the Holy Sprit. Much of the real work in personal
transformation takes place because of the power that is at work
in the inner world of the care-seeker─in his spirit and in his
soul.
Care of the soul can be understood as the support and
restoration of the well-being of a person in his or her depth and
totality, with particular concern for the inner life (Benner
2007, 14).
MOTIVATION
Motivation perhaps can best be understood as an energy to do
something which the person believes will lead to need
gratification. People develop ideas from interaction with a
false world system about what is required to meet their personal
needs of significance and security. Their beliefs then determine
the goals they live for (Crabb 1997, 85).
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HUMAN DEVELOPMENT
Any biblical view of how personality develops must be
founded upon sin, separation from God, redemption, and new life.
That is, it must be founded upon God’s grace and sovereighn plan
for each individual (Kollar 1997, 55).
HEALTH AND HEALING
Healing is the process of applying preventive and remedial
practices to maintain good health. The Hebrews tended to think
of health primarily in terms of physical strength and well-being
(Youngblood 1995, 547). The people of Old Testament tended to
think of sickness as punishment for sin. But Jesus was firmly
convinced that His Father’s purpose for humankind was health,
wholeness, and salvation. He did not teach that disease was a
punishment sent by God. And Jesus was always concerned to heal
the sick in body, He also paid close attention the minds and the
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spirit of those who suffered.
Definition of Health
Dallas Willard emphases that the cause of the distressed
human condition, individual and social—and its only possible cure
is a spiritual one. Amid a flood of techniques for self-
fulfillment there is an epidemic of depression, suicide, personal
emptiness, and escapism through drugs and alcohol, cultic
obsession, consumerism, and sex and violence (Willard viii)
The three factors to determining health according to McMinn
are accurate awareness of self, accurate awareness of needs, and
involvement in healthy relationships. Healing involves efforts
to help someone overcome an impairment and move toward wholeness.
These curative efforts can involve physical healing as well as
spiritual healing, but the focus is always on the total person,
whole and holy (Benner 15).
Definition of Illness
Hart explained how illness can develop in individuals when
there is an unbalance between the sad messenger cortisol and the
happy messengers of: (a) serotonin; (b) dopamine; and (c)
noradrenaline that produce “overstress” (Hart, 22). Hart
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declared panic anxiety disorder is a condition which individuals
with Type-A personalities develop that may further develop into
agoraphobia if not treated early.
From a Christian perspective, Backus and Chapian believes
that there are religious folk who insist emotional trouble is
always due to unrepented sin and lack o faith. Other religious
people may locate the cause in the spirit, under the assumption
that infestation by evil spirits is inevitable, especially in
cases they do not understand such as dysolgic syndrome and
schizophrenia (Backus and Chapian, 178).
Anderson has an approach that views illness not as a problem
of the soul, but as a struggle in the supernatural systems,
specifically the demonic realm. Anderson views mental and
emotional health as being both psychological and spiritual.
Secular counselors and all too often Christian counselors as well
fail to see that “what the early church called demonic activity
we now understand to be mental illness” (Anderson, 2000, 20).
THE THERAPEUTIC PROCESS
Jay Adams’ presents a four step biblical process to change.
Through the sufficiency of Scripture, change is taught, which
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brings conviction, yields correction, and ultimately results in
disciplined training in discipleship. The four-step biblical
process that Adams puts forth is based on sound interpretations
of the Scriptures. His views are distinctively biblical and are
likely to be best applied by church leaders, clergy, Elders, and
Pastors. While some choose to integrate Psychology or Philosophy,
Adams thoroughly rejects the idea of integration. In his model,
all that is needed for counseling is found in the pages of
Scripture and anything outside the realm of Scripture should be
soundly rejected. "Strangely enough, many of the most prominent
defenders of biblical inerrancy and authority are the very
pastors who, in biblical counseling, treat the Scriptures as an
insufficient source, in need of supplementation from psychiatry
and psychology. Sad to say, they implicitly deny the Scriptures'
credentials for helping people change." (Adams, 21)
Adams sees the need for change primarily as the result of
deficiency of instruction in biblical truth - a shortfall of
Christian discipleship. In this system, the true goal of
Christian counseling is sanctification through the power of the
Holy Spirit. Adams maintains that Scripture is the only thing
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necessary in counseling, insisting that psychology has no place
in counseling and that "...the counselor must neither add to nor
subtract from God's Word, but offer those needing help `the whole
counsel of God,' which Paul declared `beneficial' to the church
(Acts 20:20, 27) (Adams, 46)."
The Counseling Structure/Strategy
(Session 1 -Attentive Listening ) Counselee talks;
Counselor actively listens for Counselee’s understanding of life
with the problem
(Session 1-2 – Diagnosing the problem ) Counselee Tacks and
sets the direction; Counselor Tests reality/do ability and
utilizes Kollar’s Tracking Options
(Session 2-3 – Determining the need for change) Counselee
and Counselor actively participate together in the pursuit of a
hope-filled common goal/solution.
(Final Sessions 4-5 – Create, communicate, and navigate
vision to achieve change) Counselee commits to a community of
accountability during pattern dehabituation & rehabituation
leading to changes directed at overarching goal; Counselor
reinforces commitment to change through supportive feedback and
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by arranging accountability through Pastoral Care and Small Group
Ministries of a local church. Referral decisions are made after
the final session.
Before the booked appointment time, reception has
called Bruce to remind him of his 10:00 a.m. counseling session
and to confirm receipt of his prescreening paperwork. The
receptionist assured Bruce that she had received his signed
acknowledgement of our statement of beliefs, ethical guidelines,
informed consent and confidentiality agreement and his completed
intake form. Bruce acknowledged confirmation.
EFFECTIVENESS
Progress is measured by observing the work of the Holy
Spirit as He begins to produce spiritual fruit in the life of the
counselee. The by-product of this spiritual growth will be
satisfaction and joy in Jesus (Kollar 1997, 61).
CONCLUSION
The goal of biblical counseling is to promote Christian
maturity, to help people enter into a richer experience of
worship and a more effective life of service. In broad terms,
Christian maturity is developed by (1) dealing with any immediate
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problem circumstances in a manner consistent with Scripture and
(2) developing an inward character which conforms to the
character (attitudes, beliefs, purposes) of Christ (Crabb 1997,
29-30).
APPENDIX – Key Assumptions Underlying Our Approach
1. All people are created in the image of God and, as his image
bearers, have infinite value and worth.
2. All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God (Romans
3:23).
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3. For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only
Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but
have eternal life (Jn. 3:16, WEB).
4. The most effective pastoral counseling takes into account
the whole person: body, soul, and spirit.
5. Different approaches can be helpful with different kinds of
people struggling with different kinds of problems.
6. People have various strengths and resources to help them
solve their problems.
7. Small changes are all that are necessary. Small changes lead
to large changes. A change in one part of a system usually
leads to a change in other parts of the system.
8. Problems are solved; people are not cured.
9. Change is inevitable, growth is optional
- Competent Christian Counseling (2002), p.
351
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