Issue 14, 1 July 2019 - Men's HUB

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Transcript of Issue 14, 1 July 2019 - Men's HUB

stIssue 14 1 July 2019

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From the Desk ofEditor Main Attractions

The mens HUB was an initiative to publishexperience by common men the objective will continueas main attractions of the magazine Articles shared byvarious readers as well as professional authours will bepublished language can be either hindi or english Thearticles can cover any resent incident event or experienceof the readers Although we are morally bound to staywith our main abjective but to cover more areas weourself limit to number or articles or number or pages Inany edition we limit ourself to cover 3 to 4 article in max20 pages

Keshav amp Sharma

Keshav amp Sharma is a cartoon series originallystarted by Daaman Welfare Society with the help ofVolunteers Mr Diljeet amp Mr Anupam Dubey are mainartists of the series and the scripts is written byvolunteers Keshav amp Sharma are two main chractersreprsenting out societies biased against men There aremany more chracters with these two leading chractersEvery issue now onward will cover atleast 2 scripts and 1graphic reprsentation of Keshav amp Sharma

Mens Panchtantra

The section is newly introduced section In thissection volunteers will try to rise mens issue they face indaily life with the help of animals Animals will be used asreprsentatives Every issue will cover atleast one of suchstory An Important Person

The section will cover a special person irrespactiveof male or female working in society for the betterment ofMen or he can be just a normal men well aware of issuesfaced by men in daily life The currest issue is covering MrUpendra Dhull

Special Coverage

This section is introductory section to tell aboutsomething special The section will be in slides formatand will cover important points in brief we wont go intodetail but we will try to cover the important facts aboutthe topic and also we will try to speak about the source ofthe fact This issue we are talking about Father amp Kidrelations

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Inspirational Story

An inspirationa story for the betterment of men which can motivate men to fight for theirrights and justice

Social Media

This section is to cover various activities by various NGO working for men on social mediaThis wont be a seprate section but will be intigral part of other topics

Editorial

Election 2019

When we are working on the issue the general election 2019 are going on So there is aquestion who will be in power after election For me it does not matter but what really matter forus is to whom we are casting our vote and why

Another burning issue is sexual harassment allegations on Chief Justice of India

It is right that before voting one must be aware of his rights but it is also important that heknow the bigger picture very well During the current election 2019 menrsquos right organizationasked to vote NOTA which is basically denying all candidates They have reasons to do so If westudy the manifesto of major parties like BJP amp Congress we find that there is nothing aboutmen Political parties are not interested in men anymore They care for womenrsquos vote but theydonrsquot care for menrsquos vote

I would like to share one example When Mr Modi visited Varanasi for his Namakan hemeet kids The news was all over Indian media Did he really meet kids Technically yes but if welook the news deeply he meet only Female Kids There was not even one Male Kid What doesthat mean

Now the question is if we are cast our vote to nota who is going to get benefit and who willbe in power also it is important if it can damage Indias growth

Last election was in 2014 and BJP get a bumper majority in Lok Sabha The majority BJPget was after a long time and BJP get majority because of various reasons one of them was thepromises made by Mr Modi as well as his publicity management

Once BJP get a bumper majority and it become the strongest govt in recent years weexpect a very good work too But if we analyze 5 year report card of BJP govt my finding is thework done by BJP govt is just normal one I can not remember a single issue where they were ableto use their bumper majority They could have used their majority for solving Kashmir issue orthey could have solved Ram Mandir issue The majority could have been used in many way butunfortunately the govt choose to work like any other govt and outcome is also normal Many willrise a question that BJP was not having majority in RS but expert will be able to explain that BJPwas having bumper majority in LS and they could have worked freely without having majority inRS We give bumper majority and BJP did not used it now if we give just sufficient majority thesituation will be more or less same That means if we are casting nota and BJP did not get bumpermajority still the situation will be same

But main question is what if BJP just goes out of equation because of nota as they goes outin Rajasthan My view is it does not matter who comes into power BJP performed well when weare talking about Railway Services but they failed at the job front I agree that BJP govt has takenhard step for security but govt is not just for safai amp security Govt is for a wider reason and whenwe look widely their performance was not extraordinary but their 5 year record is just normal just

like last govt (Manmohan Singhrsquos) In short I can say if for next 5 year BJP comes into power orCongress or any other front it may not matter as long as we are expecting a normal performanceand I can not see any leader who can give a push

So if Menrsquos Right organizations asking for cast Nota to put forward their demands ofHuman Rightrsquos Violations of Men I am ok with that and request every Menrsquos Right Supporter todo so without thinking that they may be damaging something

Sexual Harassment allegations against Chief Justice of India (CJI) Another burning issuetoday is sexual harassment allegation against CJI A former employee of SC of India has madeallegations of Sexual harassment against CJI Ranjan Gogoi in an affidavit The affidavit is sent toall the judges of SC on Apr 19 2019 For detail anyone can google In past we have observed thata large number of false allegations of Sexual Harassment or Rape are framed because of variousreason Does that mean I am saying allegations on CJI are false Well CJI denied the allegationsbut my concern is not about the truthfulness of allegations but my concern is about how thesituation handled CJI continue working on his post and in-house investigation going on I canremember a recent incident from Gurgaon where an employee was suspended from his post assoon as company get complain I also can recite 1000s cases where men get suspended as soonas allegations were made Even I can remember Bollywood cases where people come forward anddenied working with the directoractor etc who get allegations during MeToo movement Buthere we are looking at very different scenario We are facing a situation where CJI is on his postworking without any problem even after allegations and parallel investigation going on Why onlyCJI is getting this special treatment why not all Indian men deserve the same respect till they areproven guilty When a men get suspended or sent to jail just because of allegation it is directattack on his Human Rights as well as his dignity

I stand with CJI with full support but I also demand the same treatment for other men too

INDEX

1 Law News 1

2 Crime News 8

3 InformationResearch 10

4 DAAMAN ndash Progress Report 11

5 MRA ndash Catch Them Young 14

6 Marriage amp Divorce 18

7 MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed 24

8 And Miles to Go 31

9 Special Coverage ndash Marriage 34

10 K amp S Visa Problem 45

11 K amp S ndash Speak Loudly 47

12 Menrsquos Panchtantra ndash Why Love amp Arrange Marriage Fail 49

13 Do You Know 51

14 K amp S Life After Divorce 52

15 The Watching Dog 57

16 The Indian Society EP 003 - All is Well 59

17 Science 60

18 After G ndash War Ep 003 61

19 The Land of Kings Chapter 01 ndash The Cave 62

Law NewsWitness can be called interested only when heshederives some benefit seeing an accused person punished

April 26 2019

A witness cannot be said to be an interestedwitness merely by virtue of being a relative of the victim

The witness may be called interested only whenhe or she derives some benefit from the result of alitigation in the decree in a civil case or in seeing anaccused person punished the Supreme Court observedwhile rejecting a defence contention in a criminal appeal

Defense had raised an argument that thetestimonies of interested witnesses who are relatives ofthe deceased should not have been relied upon by theTrial Court Sadyappan was convicted by the Trial Court(which was later upheld by the High Court) for the murderof his neighbour Selvam Thangaraj

In the appeal filed by the accused the court thattheir testimonies has stood the rigour of cross-examination and though they may be related but theycould not be labelled as interested witnesses It saidCriminal law jurisprudence makes a clear distinctionbetween a related and interested witness A witnesscannot be said to be an interested witness merely byvirtue of being a relative of the victim The witness maybe called interested only when he or she derives somebenefit from the result of a litigation in the decree in acivil case or in seeing an accused person punished

Referring to their testimonies which corroboratedthe prosecution version the bench dismissed the appealand observed Though they are related to each other andto the deceased as well their evidence cannot bediscarded by simply labelling them as interestedwitnesses After thoroughly scrutinizing their evidencewe do not find any direct or indirect interest of thesewitnesses to get the accused punished by falselyimplicating him so as to meet out any vested interest

Some witnesses in this case had stated that as thedeceased did not turn up after leaving home at 11 pm on

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the previous night they went in search of himand found his dead body in Vaalaithope Oneof them who is a nephew of the deceased alsodeposed in his statement that when he went toSirumugai Police Station he saw the accusedpersons there and witnessed their confessionalstatements recorded by the policeThe wife ofthe deceased had stated that the deceased waslast seen together with the accused

SC of INDIA

Sec 498A amp 306 IPC Incidents which happenedmuch before wifes death cant be treated asconduct which drove her to suicide

Apr 26 2019

The Supreme Court has observed thatthe incidents which had taken place betweenhusband and wife much before latters death bysuicide could not be treated as the conductwhich drove her to commit suicide

Jagdishraj Khatta was convicted by theHimachal Pradesh High Court under Sections498A and 306 of the Indian Penal Code byoverturning the acquittal recorded by the TrialCourt Khatta was convicted by the High Courtrelying on (1) the testimonies of the relatives ofthe deceased that the accused husband actedin a cruel manner against the deceased in frontof her relatives and (2) the letter allegedlywritten by the deceased around the time of herdeath to her parents

The court observed that the incidentsnarrated by the relatives had taken place muchbefore the deceaseds death It said As theHigh Court itself indicated somewhatcontradictorily reliance on the instancestestified to by the witnesses would not beappropriate as the said incidents had takenplace much before the deceaseds death and

could not be treated as conduct which drovethe deceased to commit suicide

The High Court had also observed thatall those incidents had taken place much beforethe commission of the suicide by the deceasedand therefore they cannot be treated as theimmediate cause of provocation for thedeceased to take the extreme step

As regards the reliance placed on letterthe bench agreed with the accused contentionthat the letter has not been proved to havebeen written by the deceased and issurrounded by suspicious circumstances Thefact that the deceased had never written anyother letter to her family after her marriage buthad rather been in touch with her relativesthrough the telephone further strengthens thecase of the appellant the bench added

Setting aside the High Court judgmentthe bench restored the Trial Court order ofacquittal

SC of INDIA

HC suggests to exclude consensual sex withgirl aged above 16 from rigours of POCSO Act

Apr 26 2019

Redefine child exclude consensual sexafter the age of 16 from POCSO Madras HCMore liberal provision can be introduced in theAct itself in order to distinguish the cases ofteenage relationship after 16 years from thecases of sexual assault on children below 16years

The Madras High Court has suggested toredefine the definition of Child under Section2(d) of the POCSO Act as a person below 16

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 2

years of age instead of 18 years so that anyconsensual sex after the age of 16 or bodilycontact or allied acts can be excluded from therigorous provisions of the POCSO Act

The Judge took note of a report thatmajority of cases involving minor girls are dueto relationship between adolescent boys andgirls Though under Section 2(d) of the ActChild is defined as a person below the age of18 years and in case of any love affair betweena girl and a boy where the girl happened to be16 or 17 years old either in the school final orentering the college the relationship invariablyassumes the penal character by subjecting theboy to the rigours of POCSO Act the courtsaid The judge further observed When thegirl below 18 years is involved in a relationshipwith the teen age boy or little over the teenage it is always a question mark as to how suchrelationship could be defined though suchrelationship would be the result of mutualinnocence and biological attraction Suchrelationship cannot be construed as anunnatural one or alien to between relationshipof opposite sexes But in such cases where theage of the girl is below 18 years even thoughshe was capable of giving consent forrelationship being mentally maturedunfortunately the provisions of the POCSO Actget attracted if such relationship transcendsbeyond platonic limits attracting strong arm oflaw sanctioned by the provisions of POCSOAct catching up with the so called offender ofsexual assault warranting a severeimprisonment of 710 years

The court said that more liberalprovision can be introduced in the Act itself inorder to distinguish the cases of teen agerelationship after 16 years from the cases ofsexual assault on children below 16 years

The Act can be amended to the effectthat the age of the offender ought not to bemore than five years or so than the consensualvictim girl of 16 years or more So that theimpressionable age of the victim girl cannot betaken advantage of by a person who is mucholder and crossed the age of presumableinfatuation or innocence

The Judge further said that more thantreating such growing incidence of sexualassault on women and children as a legal issuedealing with the offenders of sexual assault byresorting to most deterrent provisions of Penallaws the cause for such perverse and wickedbehaviour among some men who wereotherwise normal in their disposition need tobe examined and studied

The Society must collectively introspectwhat is it that drives some men to unleash theirlibidinous rage on hapless children and womenof all age The cause for such abominabledeviant conduct on the part of the perpetratorsof sexual crime on children and women isperhaps became of access to uncensoredpornographic and erotic materials that areavailable on the internet 24 X 7 Access to suchprovocative and lewd sites lead to criminalsensuality that drives the perpetrators tocommit such appalling crimes on children andwomen in complete depravity When mindsare filled with lust smouldering all the time bywatching pornographic site of all kinds on thehandset or otherwise such crimes are thenatural result of the depraved minds

The judge also suggested constituting ahigh level committee comprising persons ofeminence from various walks of life like Socialauditor psychologists Social Scientist etc toinvestigate and study the malady afflicting theSociety

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 3

HC of MADRAS

Divorced wife cannot file application underDomestic Violence Act application filed underSs 12 and 18 rejected in absence of ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo

Apr 18 2019

The High Court refused to interfere withan order of the Judicial Magistrate asconfirmed by the Sessions Judge whereby theapplication filed by the applicant under Section12 and 18 of the Protection of Women fromDomestic Violence Act 2005 was dismissed

The applicant married to the respondentin 1999 However a decree of divorce underSection 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 hadbeen passed by the family court in 2008 at theinstance of the husband The application underthe DV Act was filed by the applicant in 2009ie subsequent to the grant of divorce Therespondent resisted the application on theground that there was no ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo between them and therefore anyapplication under DV Act was not maintainableThe application was rejected by the JudicialMagistrate as well as the Sessions JudgeAggrieved thereby the applicant filed thepresent revision application

After perusing a conspectus of decisionsof the Supreme Court as well as High Courtsthe Court came to the conclusion that no reliefcould be granted to the applicant It wasobserved ldquoIn the present case divorce wasgranted by the family Court vide order dated30-06- 2008 Application under the DV Actwas filed in the year 2009 At the time of filingof application under the DV Act the applicantwas not the wife There was no domestic

relationship between them Hence orderspassed by the learned JMFC Nagpur andmaintained by Additional Sessions JudgeNagpur in Criminal Appeal No 235 of 2015 areperfectly legal and correctrdquo In such view of thematter the revision application was dismissed

HC of Maharastra

Transwoman a Bride under Hindu MarriageAct

Apr 22 2019

The marriage between a cisgender manand a transgender woman on Monday receivedthe blessing of the Madras High Court in amanner of speaking Sitting at the MaduraiBench Justice GR Swaminathan observed ldquoAmarriage solemnized between a male and atranswoman both professing Hindu religion isa valid marriage in terms of Section 5 of theHindu Marriage Act 1955 and the Registrar ofMarriages is bound to register the same

By holding so this Court is not breakingany new ground It is merely stating theobvious Sometimes to see the obvious oneneeds not only physical vision in the eye butalso love in the heartrdquo

The Court had been moved byArunkumar and Srija after the state authoritiesrefused to register their October 2018marriage In this case Srija was a transgenderwoman While she had been born intersex shehad identified herself as a woman which wasalso reflected in her state Ids

The government authorities took thestance that the marriage between Arunkumarand Srija could not be recognised as Srija is atransgender person This was interpreted by

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 4

the authorities to mean the Srija is not awoman

Justice Swaminathan howeverdisagreed emphatically particularly in view ofthe Supreme Courtrsquos 2014 NALSA judgmentwhich had recognised the self-identificationrights of transgender persons He states in hisjudgment

ldquoI am unable to agree with the stand ofthe learned Government Advocate hellip As rightlypointed out by the learned counsel appearingfor the writ petitioner the issue on hand is nolonger res integra In the decision reported in(2014) 5 SCC 438 (National Legal ServicesAuthority vs Union of India) the HonrsquobleSupreme Court upheld the transgenderpersonsrsquo right to decide their self identifiedgender The central and State governmentswere directed to grant legal recognition of theirgender identity such as male female or thirdgenderhellip hellipWhen the right of the transgenderpersons to marry has been upheld by theHonrsquoble Supreme Court in the very nature ofthings they cannot be kept out of the purviewof the Hindu Marriage Act One can have a civilmarriage One can also have a sacramentalmarriagehelliprdquo

Sex and Gender are not the same

Recalling the principles affirmed in theNALSA judgment Justice Swaminathanproceeded to observe ldquoSex and gender are notone and the same A personrsquos sex is biologicallydetermined at the time of birth Not so in thecase of genderhellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Courtheld that Article 14 of the Constitution of Indiawhich affirms that the State shall not deny toldquoany personrdquo equality before the law or theequal protection of the laws within the territoryof India would apply to transgenders also

Transgender persons who are neithermalefemale fall within the expression lsquopersonrsquoand hence entitled to legal protection of laws inall spheres of State activity as enjoyed by anyother citizen of this country

Discrimination on the ground of sexualorientation or gender identity thereforeimpairs equality before law and equalprotection of law and violates Article 14 of theConstitution of India Article 19(1)(a) and Article21 were expansively interpreted so as toencompass onersquos gender identity alsordquo

It was noted that the NALSA judgmentwas also cited with approval in the Right toPrivacy case as well as Navtej Joharrsquos caseconcerning the decriminalisation ofhomosexuality in India

Coming to the instant case the Courtpointed out that after Srija identified herself asa woman the state does not have the power todeny her of that identity

ldquoIn the case on hand the secondpetitioner herein has chosen to express hergender identity as that of a woman As held bythe Honrsquoble Supreme Court this falls within thedomain of her personal autonomy and involvesher right to privacy and dignity It is not for theState authorities to question this selfdeterminationrdquo

ldquoBriderdquo under Hindu Marriage Actincludes transwomen

The Court went on to reject the Statersquoscontention that a transgender woman couldnot be viewed as a ldquoBriderdquo under the HinduMarriage Act

ldquoThe expression ldquobriderdquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955cannot have a static or immutable meaning As

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 5

noted in Justice GPSinghrsquos Principles ofStatutory Interpretation the court is free toapply the current meaning of a statute topresent day conditions A statute must beinterpreted in the light of the legal system as itexists todayhellip hellip Seen in the light of the marchof law the expression ldquobridersquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 willhave to include within its meaning not only awoman but also a transwoman It would alsoinclude an intersex persontransgender personwho identifies herself as a woman The onlyconsideration is how the person perceivesherselfrdquo

Transpersonrsquos right to marry has beenrecognised by the Supreme Court

The Court further pointed out that theSupreme Court has specifically recognised theright of marriage for transgender persons inparagraph 119 of the NALSA judgmentMoreover the right of persons to marry aperson of choice has also been specificallyendorsed in Hadiyarsquos case the High Courtjudgment highlights

The Court proceeded to remark ldquoFortoo long the transgender personsintersexpeople have been languishing in the marginsThe Constitution of India is an enablingdocument It is inviting them to join themainstream Therefore it would be absurd todeny the transgenders the benefit of the socialinstitutions already in place in themainstreamldquo

In view of these observations the Courtallowed the writ petition and directed the stateto register the marriage of the petitioners

Further the judge also pointed out thatthe marriage in the case was an inter-castemarriage Therefore the petitioners were alsoeligible for benefits provided by the state to

encourage inter-caste marriages under theDrAmbedkar Scheme for Social Integrationthrough Inter- Caste Marriages

Issue GO against forced SexReassignment Surgery (SRS) on Intersexchildren

While dealing with the case JusticeSwaminathan also took note that the SupremeCourtrsquos mandate against forced surgicalprocedures on intersex children was beingobserved more in breach than compliance Asobserved in his judgment rdquo [intersex children]must be given their time and space to find theirtrue gender identity But the parents make theinfant undergo sex reassignment surgery (SRS)hellip hellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Court in NALSA casecategorically stated that no one shall be forcedto undergo medical procedures including SRSsterilisation or hormonal therapy as arequirement for legal recognition of theirgender identity But what is happening inreality is more in breach of this judgementgiven by the Honrsquoble Supreme Courtldquo

He went on to observe that a particulargender cannot be forcibly thrust on non-binarypersons

ldquoA person who is in the Third Category isentitled to remain beyond the duality ofmalefemale or opt to identify oneself as maleor female It is entirely the choice of theindividual concernedrdquo

In view of the same the Court has nowdirected the Tamil Nadu government to issue aGovernment Order to uphold the NALSAjudgment and to ldquoeffectively ban sexreassignment surgeries on intersex infants andchildrenrdquo The government is expected tosubmit a compliance report regarding thissame within eight weeks

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 6

The Court also noted that the stateshould undertake awareness programmes tode-stigmatise the birth of intersex children

ldquoThe parents must be encouraged to feelthat the birth of an intersex child is not a matterof embarrassment or shame It lies in the handsof the Government to launch a sustainedawareness campaign in this regardldquo

In this backdrop the Court alsoexpressed its appreciation for recent Tamilfilms that involved transgender characters

ldquoRecent Tamil Films such as ldquoPeranburdquowhere Mamooty marries a transgender andldquoSuper Deluxrdquo where Vijay Sethupathi plays therole of a transgender and is also a parent to thechild he has fathered are encouraging trendsrdquoremarked Justice Swaminathan

Before parting with the matter JusticeSwaminathan also expressed gratitude tointersex activist Gopi Shankar from Madurainoting that his work has had been a humblingand enlightening experience for the Court

Madras HC

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 7

Crime News MeToo movement Police closes Nana Patekarrsquos sexualharassment case filed by Tanushree Dutta

June 13 2019

After Tanushree Dutta rubbished reports of police givinga clean chit to actor Nana Patekar on the sexualharassment case filed by actress it is now official that theNana Patekar sexual harassment case has been closed bythe police This marks the first official MeToo case thathas reportedly collapsed

According to reports in Times Now the sexualharassment case filed against actor Nana Patekar wasclosed by cops on grounds that there was no lsquono primafacie case against the actor

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

June 12 2019

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

आशिक क साथ मिलकर पतनी न परी रात पतित को पीटा सबह उतारा ौत क घाट

June 08 2019

फिललौर (भाखड़ी) फिललौर क गाव अकालपर म पतनी न परमी सग मिमल कर पहल पफि की बरी रह स मारपीट की और उसक बाद उस मौ क घाट

उार दिदया पराप जानकारी अनसार पलिलस को दी लिकाय म मक खपाल सिसह (40) क भाई कलव सिसह और गरमल सिसह न बाया फिक

उसक भाई की ादी 15 वरष2 पहल सखविवदर कौर क साथ हई जिजसक दो बचच ह उनहोन बाया फिक 4 वरष2 पहल उनका भाई काम क सबध म साउदी अरब चला गया

मक क भाईयो न बाया फिक ग आधी रा को उनह पा चला फिक उसक भाई क घर स रोन और चीखन लिचललान की आवाज बाहर क आ रही ह

वह दोनो भाई बबस अपन घर म पड़ रह कयोफिक वह जब भी उनक झगड़ म घर जा ो उनकी भाभी उनको ही बरा भला बोल कर वाफिपस भज दी थीपरा 8 बज उनक चाचा न उनह ोन कर कहा फिक खपाल क साथ उसक

घर म काी मारपीट हो रही ह पड़ोसी न भी उनह रोकना चाहा लफिकन

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उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 15

provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

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Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 19

समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

From the Desk ofEditor Main Attractions

The mens HUB was an initiative to publishexperience by common men the objective will continueas main attractions of the magazine Articles shared byvarious readers as well as professional authours will bepublished language can be either hindi or english Thearticles can cover any resent incident event or experienceof the readers Although we are morally bound to staywith our main abjective but to cover more areas weourself limit to number or articles or number or pages Inany edition we limit ourself to cover 3 to 4 article in max20 pages

Keshav amp Sharma

Keshav amp Sharma is a cartoon series originallystarted by Daaman Welfare Society with the help ofVolunteers Mr Diljeet amp Mr Anupam Dubey are mainartists of the series and the scripts is written byvolunteers Keshav amp Sharma are two main chractersreprsenting out societies biased against men There aremany more chracters with these two leading chractersEvery issue now onward will cover atleast 2 scripts and 1graphic reprsentation of Keshav amp Sharma

Mens Panchtantra

The section is newly introduced section In thissection volunteers will try to rise mens issue they face indaily life with the help of animals Animals will be used asreprsentatives Every issue will cover atleast one of suchstory An Important Person

The section will cover a special person irrespactiveof male or female working in society for the betterment ofMen or he can be just a normal men well aware of issuesfaced by men in daily life The currest issue is covering MrUpendra Dhull

Special Coverage

This section is introductory section to tell aboutsomething special The section will be in slides formatand will cover important points in brief we wont go intodetail but we will try to cover the important facts aboutthe topic and also we will try to speak about the source ofthe fact This issue we are talking about Father amp Kidrelations

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Inspirational Story

An inspirationa story for the betterment of men which can motivate men to fight for theirrights and justice

Social Media

This section is to cover various activities by various NGO working for men on social mediaThis wont be a seprate section but will be intigral part of other topics

Editorial

Election 2019

When we are working on the issue the general election 2019 are going on So there is aquestion who will be in power after election For me it does not matter but what really matter forus is to whom we are casting our vote and why

Another burning issue is sexual harassment allegations on Chief Justice of India

It is right that before voting one must be aware of his rights but it is also important that heknow the bigger picture very well During the current election 2019 menrsquos right organizationasked to vote NOTA which is basically denying all candidates They have reasons to do so If westudy the manifesto of major parties like BJP amp Congress we find that there is nothing aboutmen Political parties are not interested in men anymore They care for womenrsquos vote but theydonrsquot care for menrsquos vote

I would like to share one example When Mr Modi visited Varanasi for his Namakan hemeet kids The news was all over Indian media Did he really meet kids Technically yes but if welook the news deeply he meet only Female Kids There was not even one Male Kid What doesthat mean

Now the question is if we are cast our vote to nota who is going to get benefit and who willbe in power also it is important if it can damage Indias growth

Last election was in 2014 and BJP get a bumper majority in Lok Sabha The majority BJPget was after a long time and BJP get majority because of various reasons one of them was thepromises made by Mr Modi as well as his publicity management

Once BJP get a bumper majority and it become the strongest govt in recent years weexpect a very good work too But if we analyze 5 year report card of BJP govt my finding is thework done by BJP govt is just normal one I can not remember a single issue where they were ableto use their bumper majority They could have used their majority for solving Kashmir issue orthey could have solved Ram Mandir issue The majority could have been used in many way butunfortunately the govt choose to work like any other govt and outcome is also normal Many willrise a question that BJP was not having majority in RS but expert will be able to explain that BJPwas having bumper majority in LS and they could have worked freely without having majority inRS We give bumper majority and BJP did not used it now if we give just sufficient majority thesituation will be more or less same That means if we are casting nota and BJP did not get bumpermajority still the situation will be same

But main question is what if BJP just goes out of equation because of nota as they goes outin Rajasthan My view is it does not matter who comes into power BJP performed well when weare talking about Railway Services but they failed at the job front I agree that BJP govt has takenhard step for security but govt is not just for safai amp security Govt is for a wider reason and whenwe look widely their performance was not extraordinary but their 5 year record is just normal just

like last govt (Manmohan Singhrsquos) In short I can say if for next 5 year BJP comes into power orCongress or any other front it may not matter as long as we are expecting a normal performanceand I can not see any leader who can give a push

So if Menrsquos Right organizations asking for cast Nota to put forward their demands ofHuman Rightrsquos Violations of Men I am ok with that and request every Menrsquos Right Supporter todo so without thinking that they may be damaging something

Sexual Harassment allegations against Chief Justice of India (CJI) Another burning issuetoday is sexual harassment allegation against CJI A former employee of SC of India has madeallegations of Sexual harassment against CJI Ranjan Gogoi in an affidavit The affidavit is sent toall the judges of SC on Apr 19 2019 For detail anyone can google In past we have observed thata large number of false allegations of Sexual Harassment or Rape are framed because of variousreason Does that mean I am saying allegations on CJI are false Well CJI denied the allegationsbut my concern is not about the truthfulness of allegations but my concern is about how thesituation handled CJI continue working on his post and in-house investigation going on I canremember a recent incident from Gurgaon where an employee was suspended from his post assoon as company get complain I also can recite 1000s cases where men get suspended as soonas allegations were made Even I can remember Bollywood cases where people come forward anddenied working with the directoractor etc who get allegations during MeToo movement Buthere we are looking at very different scenario We are facing a situation where CJI is on his postworking without any problem even after allegations and parallel investigation going on Why onlyCJI is getting this special treatment why not all Indian men deserve the same respect till they areproven guilty When a men get suspended or sent to jail just because of allegation it is directattack on his Human Rights as well as his dignity

I stand with CJI with full support but I also demand the same treatment for other men too

INDEX

1 Law News 1

2 Crime News 8

3 InformationResearch 10

4 DAAMAN ndash Progress Report 11

5 MRA ndash Catch Them Young 14

6 Marriage amp Divorce 18

7 MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed 24

8 And Miles to Go 31

9 Special Coverage ndash Marriage 34

10 K amp S Visa Problem 45

11 K amp S ndash Speak Loudly 47

12 Menrsquos Panchtantra ndash Why Love amp Arrange Marriage Fail 49

13 Do You Know 51

14 K amp S Life After Divorce 52

15 The Watching Dog 57

16 The Indian Society EP 003 - All is Well 59

17 Science 60

18 After G ndash War Ep 003 61

19 The Land of Kings Chapter 01 ndash The Cave 62

Law NewsWitness can be called interested only when heshederives some benefit seeing an accused person punished

April 26 2019

A witness cannot be said to be an interestedwitness merely by virtue of being a relative of the victim

The witness may be called interested only whenhe or she derives some benefit from the result of alitigation in the decree in a civil case or in seeing anaccused person punished the Supreme Court observedwhile rejecting a defence contention in a criminal appeal

Defense had raised an argument that thetestimonies of interested witnesses who are relatives ofthe deceased should not have been relied upon by theTrial Court Sadyappan was convicted by the Trial Court(which was later upheld by the High Court) for the murderof his neighbour Selvam Thangaraj

In the appeal filed by the accused the court thattheir testimonies has stood the rigour of cross-examination and though they may be related but theycould not be labelled as interested witnesses It saidCriminal law jurisprudence makes a clear distinctionbetween a related and interested witness A witnesscannot be said to be an interested witness merely byvirtue of being a relative of the victim The witness maybe called interested only when he or she derives somebenefit from the result of a litigation in the decree in acivil case or in seeing an accused person punished

Referring to their testimonies which corroboratedthe prosecution version the bench dismissed the appealand observed Though they are related to each other andto the deceased as well their evidence cannot bediscarded by simply labelling them as interestedwitnesses After thoroughly scrutinizing their evidencewe do not find any direct or indirect interest of thesewitnesses to get the accused punished by falselyimplicating him so as to meet out any vested interest

Some witnesses in this case had stated that as thedeceased did not turn up after leaving home at 11 pm on

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the previous night they went in search of himand found his dead body in Vaalaithope Oneof them who is a nephew of the deceased alsodeposed in his statement that when he went toSirumugai Police Station he saw the accusedpersons there and witnessed their confessionalstatements recorded by the policeThe wife ofthe deceased had stated that the deceased waslast seen together with the accused

SC of INDIA

Sec 498A amp 306 IPC Incidents which happenedmuch before wifes death cant be treated asconduct which drove her to suicide

Apr 26 2019

The Supreme Court has observed thatthe incidents which had taken place betweenhusband and wife much before latters death bysuicide could not be treated as the conductwhich drove her to commit suicide

Jagdishraj Khatta was convicted by theHimachal Pradesh High Court under Sections498A and 306 of the Indian Penal Code byoverturning the acquittal recorded by the TrialCourt Khatta was convicted by the High Courtrelying on (1) the testimonies of the relatives ofthe deceased that the accused husband actedin a cruel manner against the deceased in frontof her relatives and (2) the letter allegedlywritten by the deceased around the time of herdeath to her parents

The court observed that the incidentsnarrated by the relatives had taken place muchbefore the deceaseds death It said As theHigh Court itself indicated somewhatcontradictorily reliance on the instancestestified to by the witnesses would not beappropriate as the said incidents had takenplace much before the deceaseds death and

could not be treated as conduct which drovethe deceased to commit suicide

The High Court had also observed thatall those incidents had taken place much beforethe commission of the suicide by the deceasedand therefore they cannot be treated as theimmediate cause of provocation for thedeceased to take the extreme step

As regards the reliance placed on letterthe bench agreed with the accused contentionthat the letter has not been proved to havebeen written by the deceased and issurrounded by suspicious circumstances Thefact that the deceased had never written anyother letter to her family after her marriage buthad rather been in touch with her relativesthrough the telephone further strengthens thecase of the appellant the bench added

Setting aside the High Court judgmentthe bench restored the Trial Court order ofacquittal

SC of INDIA

HC suggests to exclude consensual sex withgirl aged above 16 from rigours of POCSO Act

Apr 26 2019

Redefine child exclude consensual sexafter the age of 16 from POCSO Madras HCMore liberal provision can be introduced in theAct itself in order to distinguish the cases ofteenage relationship after 16 years from thecases of sexual assault on children below 16years

The Madras High Court has suggested toredefine the definition of Child under Section2(d) of the POCSO Act as a person below 16

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years of age instead of 18 years so that anyconsensual sex after the age of 16 or bodilycontact or allied acts can be excluded from therigorous provisions of the POCSO Act

The Judge took note of a report thatmajority of cases involving minor girls are dueto relationship between adolescent boys andgirls Though under Section 2(d) of the ActChild is defined as a person below the age of18 years and in case of any love affair betweena girl and a boy where the girl happened to be16 or 17 years old either in the school final orentering the college the relationship invariablyassumes the penal character by subjecting theboy to the rigours of POCSO Act the courtsaid The judge further observed When thegirl below 18 years is involved in a relationshipwith the teen age boy or little over the teenage it is always a question mark as to how suchrelationship could be defined though suchrelationship would be the result of mutualinnocence and biological attraction Suchrelationship cannot be construed as anunnatural one or alien to between relationshipof opposite sexes But in such cases where theage of the girl is below 18 years even thoughshe was capable of giving consent forrelationship being mentally maturedunfortunately the provisions of the POCSO Actget attracted if such relationship transcendsbeyond platonic limits attracting strong arm oflaw sanctioned by the provisions of POCSOAct catching up with the so called offender ofsexual assault warranting a severeimprisonment of 710 years

The court said that more liberalprovision can be introduced in the Act itself inorder to distinguish the cases of teen agerelationship after 16 years from the cases ofsexual assault on children below 16 years

The Act can be amended to the effectthat the age of the offender ought not to bemore than five years or so than the consensualvictim girl of 16 years or more So that theimpressionable age of the victim girl cannot betaken advantage of by a person who is mucholder and crossed the age of presumableinfatuation or innocence

The Judge further said that more thantreating such growing incidence of sexualassault on women and children as a legal issuedealing with the offenders of sexual assault byresorting to most deterrent provisions of Penallaws the cause for such perverse and wickedbehaviour among some men who wereotherwise normal in their disposition need tobe examined and studied

The Society must collectively introspectwhat is it that drives some men to unleash theirlibidinous rage on hapless children and womenof all age The cause for such abominabledeviant conduct on the part of the perpetratorsof sexual crime on children and women isperhaps became of access to uncensoredpornographic and erotic materials that areavailable on the internet 24 X 7 Access to suchprovocative and lewd sites lead to criminalsensuality that drives the perpetrators tocommit such appalling crimes on children andwomen in complete depravity When mindsare filled with lust smouldering all the time bywatching pornographic site of all kinds on thehandset or otherwise such crimes are thenatural result of the depraved minds

The judge also suggested constituting ahigh level committee comprising persons ofeminence from various walks of life like Socialauditor psychologists Social Scientist etc toinvestigate and study the malady afflicting theSociety

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HC of MADRAS

Divorced wife cannot file application underDomestic Violence Act application filed underSs 12 and 18 rejected in absence of ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo

Apr 18 2019

The High Court refused to interfere withan order of the Judicial Magistrate asconfirmed by the Sessions Judge whereby theapplication filed by the applicant under Section12 and 18 of the Protection of Women fromDomestic Violence Act 2005 was dismissed

The applicant married to the respondentin 1999 However a decree of divorce underSection 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 hadbeen passed by the family court in 2008 at theinstance of the husband The application underthe DV Act was filed by the applicant in 2009ie subsequent to the grant of divorce Therespondent resisted the application on theground that there was no ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo between them and therefore anyapplication under DV Act was not maintainableThe application was rejected by the JudicialMagistrate as well as the Sessions JudgeAggrieved thereby the applicant filed thepresent revision application

After perusing a conspectus of decisionsof the Supreme Court as well as High Courtsthe Court came to the conclusion that no reliefcould be granted to the applicant It wasobserved ldquoIn the present case divorce wasgranted by the family Court vide order dated30-06- 2008 Application under the DV Actwas filed in the year 2009 At the time of filingof application under the DV Act the applicantwas not the wife There was no domestic

relationship between them Hence orderspassed by the learned JMFC Nagpur andmaintained by Additional Sessions JudgeNagpur in Criminal Appeal No 235 of 2015 areperfectly legal and correctrdquo In such view of thematter the revision application was dismissed

HC of Maharastra

Transwoman a Bride under Hindu MarriageAct

Apr 22 2019

The marriage between a cisgender manand a transgender woman on Monday receivedthe blessing of the Madras High Court in amanner of speaking Sitting at the MaduraiBench Justice GR Swaminathan observed ldquoAmarriage solemnized between a male and atranswoman both professing Hindu religion isa valid marriage in terms of Section 5 of theHindu Marriage Act 1955 and the Registrar ofMarriages is bound to register the same

By holding so this Court is not breakingany new ground It is merely stating theobvious Sometimes to see the obvious oneneeds not only physical vision in the eye butalso love in the heartrdquo

The Court had been moved byArunkumar and Srija after the state authoritiesrefused to register their October 2018marriage In this case Srija was a transgenderwoman While she had been born intersex shehad identified herself as a woman which wasalso reflected in her state Ids

The government authorities took thestance that the marriage between Arunkumarand Srija could not be recognised as Srija is atransgender person This was interpreted by

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the authorities to mean the Srija is not awoman

Justice Swaminathan howeverdisagreed emphatically particularly in view ofthe Supreme Courtrsquos 2014 NALSA judgmentwhich had recognised the self-identificationrights of transgender persons He states in hisjudgment

ldquoI am unable to agree with the stand ofthe learned Government Advocate hellip As rightlypointed out by the learned counsel appearingfor the writ petitioner the issue on hand is nolonger res integra In the decision reported in(2014) 5 SCC 438 (National Legal ServicesAuthority vs Union of India) the HonrsquobleSupreme Court upheld the transgenderpersonsrsquo right to decide their self identifiedgender The central and State governmentswere directed to grant legal recognition of theirgender identity such as male female or thirdgenderhellip hellipWhen the right of the transgenderpersons to marry has been upheld by theHonrsquoble Supreme Court in the very nature ofthings they cannot be kept out of the purviewof the Hindu Marriage Act One can have a civilmarriage One can also have a sacramentalmarriagehelliprdquo

Sex and Gender are not the same

Recalling the principles affirmed in theNALSA judgment Justice Swaminathanproceeded to observe ldquoSex and gender are notone and the same A personrsquos sex is biologicallydetermined at the time of birth Not so in thecase of genderhellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Courtheld that Article 14 of the Constitution of Indiawhich affirms that the State shall not deny toldquoany personrdquo equality before the law or theequal protection of the laws within the territoryof India would apply to transgenders also

Transgender persons who are neithermalefemale fall within the expression lsquopersonrsquoand hence entitled to legal protection of laws inall spheres of State activity as enjoyed by anyother citizen of this country

Discrimination on the ground of sexualorientation or gender identity thereforeimpairs equality before law and equalprotection of law and violates Article 14 of theConstitution of India Article 19(1)(a) and Article21 were expansively interpreted so as toencompass onersquos gender identity alsordquo

It was noted that the NALSA judgmentwas also cited with approval in the Right toPrivacy case as well as Navtej Joharrsquos caseconcerning the decriminalisation ofhomosexuality in India

Coming to the instant case the Courtpointed out that after Srija identified herself asa woman the state does not have the power todeny her of that identity

ldquoIn the case on hand the secondpetitioner herein has chosen to express hergender identity as that of a woman As held bythe Honrsquoble Supreme Court this falls within thedomain of her personal autonomy and involvesher right to privacy and dignity It is not for theState authorities to question this selfdeterminationrdquo

ldquoBriderdquo under Hindu Marriage Actincludes transwomen

The Court went on to reject the Statersquoscontention that a transgender woman couldnot be viewed as a ldquoBriderdquo under the HinduMarriage Act

ldquoThe expression ldquobriderdquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955cannot have a static or immutable meaning As

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noted in Justice GPSinghrsquos Principles ofStatutory Interpretation the court is free toapply the current meaning of a statute topresent day conditions A statute must beinterpreted in the light of the legal system as itexists todayhellip hellip Seen in the light of the marchof law the expression ldquobridersquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 willhave to include within its meaning not only awoman but also a transwoman It would alsoinclude an intersex persontransgender personwho identifies herself as a woman The onlyconsideration is how the person perceivesherselfrdquo

Transpersonrsquos right to marry has beenrecognised by the Supreme Court

The Court further pointed out that theSupreme Court has specifically recognised theright of marriage for transgender persons inparagraph 119 of the NALSA judgmentMoreover the right of persons to marry aperson of choice has also been specificallyendorsed in Hadiyarsquos case the High Courtjudgment highlights

The Court proceeded to remark ldquoFortoo long the transgender personsintersexpeople have been languishing in the marginsThe Constitution of India is an enablingdocument It is inviting them to join themainstream Therefore it would be absurd todeny the transgenders the benefit of the socialinstitutions already in place in themainstreamldquo

In view of these observations the Courtallowed the writ petition and directed the stateto register the marriage of the petitioners

Further the judge also pointed out thatthe marriage in the case was an inter-castemarriage Therefore the petitioners were alsoeligible for benefits provided by the state to

encourage inter-caste marriages under theDrAmbedkar Scheme for Social Integrationthrough Inter- Caste Marriages

Issue GO against forced SexReassignment Surgery (SRS) on Intersexchildren

While dealing with the case JusticeSwaminathan also took note that the SupremeCourtrsquos mandate against forced surgicalprocedures on intersex children was beingobserved more in breach than compliance Asobserved in his judgment rdquo [intersex children]must be given their time and space to find theirtrue gender identity But the parents make theinfant undergo sex reassignment surgery (SRS)hellip hellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Court in NALSA casecategorically stated that no one shall be forcedto undergo medical procedures including SRSsterilisation or hormonal therapy as arequirement for legal recognition of theirgender identity But what is happening inreality is more in breach of this judgementgiven by the Honrsquoble Supreme Courtldquo

He went on to observe that a particulargender cannot be forcibly thrust on non-binarypersons

ldquoA person who is in the Third Category isentitled to remain beyond the duality ofmalefemale or opt to identify oneself as maleor female It is entirely the choice of theindividual concernedrdquo

In view of the same the Court has nowdirected the Tamil Nadu government to issue aGovernment Order to uphold the NALSAjudgment and to ldquoeffectively ban sexreassignment surgeries on intersex infants andchildrenrdquo The government is expected tosubmit a compliance report regarding thissame within eight weeks

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The Court also noted that the stateshould undertake awareness programmes tode-stigmatise the birth of intersex children

ldquoThe parents must be encouraged to feelthat the birth of an intersex child is not a matterof embarrassment or shame It lies in the handsof the Government to launch a sustainedawareness campaign in this regardldquo

In this backdrop the Court alsoexpressed its appreciation for recent Tamilfilms that involved transgender characters

ldquoRecent Tamil Films such as ldquoPeranburdquowhere Mamooty marries a transgender andldquoSuper Deluxrdquo where Vijay Sethupathi plays therole of a transgender and is also a parent to thechild he has fathered are encouraging trendsrdquoremarked Justice Swaminathan

Before parting with the matter JusticeSwaminathan also expressed gratitude tointersex activist Gopi Shankar from Madurainoting that his work has had been a humblingand enlightening experience for the Court

Madras HC

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Crime News MeToo movement Police closes Nana Patekarrsquos sexualharassment case filed by Tanushree Dutta

June 13 2019

After Tanushree Dutta rubbished reports of police givinga clean chit to actor Nana Patekar on the sexualharassment case filed by actress it is now official that theNana Patekar sexual harassment case has been closed bythe police This marks the first official MeToo case thathas reportedly collapsed

According to reports in Times Now the sexualharassment case filed against actor Nana Patekar wasclosed by cops on grounds that there was no lsquono primafacie case against the actor

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

June 12 2019

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

आशिक क साथ मिलकर पतनी न परी रात पतित को पीटा सबह उतारा ौत क घाट

June 08 2019

फिललौर (भाखड़ी) फिललौर क गाव अकालपर म पतनी न परमी सग मिमल कर पहल पफि की बरी रह स मारपीट की और उसक बाद उस मौ क घाट

उार दिदया पराप जानकारी अनसार पलिलस को दी लिकाय म मक खपाल सिसह (40) क भाई कलव सिसह और गरमल सिसह न बाया फिक

उसक भाई की ादी 15 वरष2 पहल सखविवदर कौर क साथ हई जिजसक दो बचच ह उनहोन बाया फिक 4 वरष2 पहल उनका भाई काम क सबध म साउदी अरब चला गया

मक क भाईयो न बाया फिक ग आधी रा को उनह पा चला फिक उसक भाई क घर स रोन और चीखन लिचललान की आवाज बाहर क आ रही ह

वह दोनो भाई बबस अपन घर म पड़ रह कयोफिक वह जब भी उनक झगड़ म घर जा ो उनकी भाभी उनको ही बरा भला बोल कर वाफिपस भज दी थीपरा 8 बज उनक चाचा न उनह ोन कर कहा फिक खपाल क साथ उसक

घर म काी मारपीट हो रही ह पड़ोसी न भी उनह रोकना चाहा लफिकन

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उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 9

Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 15

provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 16

Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

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शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

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क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

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अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

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ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

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Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 32

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 33

MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

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Inspirational Story

An inspirationa story for the betterment of men which can motivate men to fight for theirrights and justice

Social Media

This section is to cover various activities by various NGO working for men on social mediaThis wont be a seprate section but will be intigral part of other topics

Editorial

Election 2019

When we are working on the issue the general election 2019 are going on So there is aquestion who will be in power after election For me it does not matter but what really matter forus is to whom we are casting our vote and why

Another burning issue is sexual harassment allegations on Chief Justice of India

It is right that before voting one must be aware of his rights but it is also important that heknow the bigger picture very well During the current election 2019 menrsquos right organizationasked to vote NOTA which is basically denying all candidates They have reasons to do so If westudy the manifesto of major parties like BJP amp Congress we find that there is nothing aboutmen Political parties are not interested in men anymore They care for womenrsquos vote but theydonrsquot care for menrsquos vote

I would like to share one example When Mr Modi visited Varanasi for his Namakan hemeet kids The news was all over Indian media Did he really meet kids Technically yes but if welook the news deeply he meet only Female Kids There was not even one Male Kid What doesthat mean

Now the question is if we are cast our vote to nota who is going to get benefit and who willbe in power also it is important if it can damage Indias growth

Last election was in 2014 and BJP get a bumper majority in Lok Sabha The majority BJPget was after a long time and BJP get majority because of various reasons one of them was thepromises made by Mr Modi as well as his publicity management

Once BJP get a bumper majority and it become the strongest govt in recent years weexpect a very good work too But if we analyze 5 year report card of BJP govt my finding is thework done by BJP govt is just normal one I can not remember a single issue where they were ableto use their bumper majority They could have used their majority for solving Kashmir issue orthey could have solved Ram Mandir issue The majority could have been used in many way butunfortunately the govt choose to work like any other govt and outcome is also normal Many willrise a question that BJP was not having majority in RS but expert will be able to explain that BJPwas having bumper majority in LS and they could have worked freely without having majority inRS We give bumper majority and BJP did not used it now if we give just sufficient majority thesituation will be more or less same That means if we are casting nota and BJP did not get bumpermajority still the situation will be same

But main question is what if BJP just goes out of equation because of nota as they goes outin Rajasthan My view is it does not matter who comes into power BJP performed well when weare talking about Railway Services but they failed at the job front I agree that BJP govt has takenhard step for security but govt is not just for safai amp security Govt is for a wider reason and whenwe look widely their performance was not extraordinary but their 5 year record is just normal just

like last govt (Manmohan Singhrsquos) In short I can say if for next 5 year BJP comes into power orCongress or any other front it may not matter as long as we are expecting a normal performanceand I can not see any leader who can give a push

So if Menrsquos Right organizations asking for cast Nota to put forward their demands ofHuman Rightrsquos Violations of Men I am ok with that and request every Menrsquos Right Supporter todo so without thinking that they may be damaging something

Sexual Harassment allegations against Chief Justice of India (CJI) Another burning issuetoday is sexual harassment allegation against CJI A former employee of SC of India has madeallegations of Sexual harassment against CJI Ranjan Gogoi in an affidavit The affidavit is sent toall the judges of SC on Apr 19 2019 For detail anyone can google In past we have observed thata large number of false allegations of Sexual Harassment or Rape are framed because of variousreason Does that mean I am saying allegations on CJI are false Well CJI denied the allegationsbut my concern is not about the truthfulness of allegations but my concern is about how thesituation handled CJI continue working on his post and in-house investigation going on I canremember a recent incident from Gurgaon where an employee was suspended from his post assoon as company get complain I also can recite 1000s cases where men get suspended as soonas allegations were made Even I can remember Bollywood cases where people come forward anddenied working with the directoractor etc who get allegations during MeToo movement Buthere we are looking at very different scenario We are facing a situation where CJI is on his postworking without any problem even after allegations and parallel investigation going on Why onlyCJI is getting this special treatment why not all Indian men deserve the same respect till they areproven guilty When a men get suspended or sent to jail just because of allegation it is directattack on his Human Rights as well as his dignity

I stand with CJI with full support but I also demand the same treatment for other men too

INDEX

1 Law News 1

2 Crime News 8

3 InformationResearch 10

4 DAAMAN ndash Progress Report 11

5 MRA ndash Catch Them Young 14

6 Marriage amp Divorce 18

7 MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed 24

8 And Miles to Go 31

9 Special Coverage ndash Marriage 34

10 K amp S Visa Problem 45

11 K amp S ndash Speak Loudly 47

12 Menrsquos Panchtantra ndash Why Love amp Arrange Marriage Fail 49

13 Do You Know 51

14 K amp S Life After Divorce 52

15 The Watching Dog 57

16 The Indian Society EP 003 - All is Well 59

17 Science 60

18 After G ndash War Ep 003 61

19 The Land of Kings Chapter 01 ndash The Cave 62

Law NewsWitness can be called interested only when heshederives some benefit seeing an accused person punished

April 26 2019

A witness cannot be said to be an interestedwitness merely by virtue of being a relative of the victim

The witness may be called interested only whenhe or she derives some benefit from the result of alitigation in the decree in a civil case or in seeing anaccused person punished the Supreme Court observedwhile rejecting a defence contention in a criminal appeal

Defense had raised an argument that thetestimonies of interested witnesses who are relatives ofthe deceased should not have been relied upon by theTrial Court Sadyappan was convicted by the Trial Court(which was later upheld by the High Court) for the murderof his neighbour Selvam Thangaraj

In the appeal filed by the accused the court thattheir testimonies has stood the rigour of cross-examination and though they may be related but theycould not be labelled as interested witnesses It saidCriminal law jurisprudence makes a clear distinctionbetween a related and interested witness A witnesscannot be said to be an interested witness merely byvirtue of being a relative of the victim The witness maybe called interested only when he or she derives somebenefit from the result of a litigation in the decree in acivil case or in seeing an accused person punished

Referring to their testimonies which corroboratedthe prosecution version the bench dismissed the appealand observed Though they are related to each other andto the deceased as well their evidence cannot bediscarded by simply labelling them as interestedwitnesses After thoroughly scrutinizing their evidencewe do not find any direct or indirect interest of thesewitnesses to get the accused punished by falselyimplicating him so as to meet out any vested interest

Some witnesses in this case had stated that as thedeceased did not turn up after leaving home at 11 pm on

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the previous night they went in search of himand found his dead body in Vaalaithope Oneof them who is a nephew of the deceased alsodeposed in his statement that when he went toSirumugai Police Station he saw the accusedpersons there and witnessed their confessionalstatements recorded by the policeThe wife ofthe deceased had stated that the deceased waslast seen together with the accused

SC of INDIA

Sec 498A amp 306 IPC Incidents which happenedmuch before wifes death cant be treated asconduct which drove her to suicide

Apr 26 2019

The Supreme Court has observed thatthe incidents which had taken place betweenhusband and wife much before latters death bysuicide could not be treated as the conductwhich drove her to commit suicide

Jagdishraj Khatta was convicted by theHimachal Pradesh High Court under Sections498A and 306 of the Indian Penal Code byoverturning the acquittal recorded by the TrialCourt Khatta was convicted by the High Courtrelying on (1) the testimonies of the relatives ofthe deceased that the accused husband actedin a cruel manner against the deceased in frontof her relatives and (2) the letter allegedlywritten by the deceased around the time of herdeath to her parents

The court observed that the incidentsnarrated by the relatives had taken place muchbefore the deceaseds death It said As theHigh Court itself indicated somewhatcontradictorily reliance on the instancestestified to by the witnesses would not beappropriate as the said incidents had takenplace much before the deceaseds death and

could not be treated as conduct which drovethe deceased to commit suicide

The High Court had also observed thatall those incidents had taken place much beforethe commission of the suicide by the deceasedand therefore they cannot be treated as theimmediate cause of provocation for thedeceased to take the extreme step

As regards the reliance placed on letterthe bench agreed with the accused contentionthat the letter has not been proved to havebeen written by the deceased and issurrounded by suspicious circumstances Thefact that the deceased had never written anyother letter to her family after her marriage buthad rather been in touch with her relativesthrough the telephone further strengthens thecase of the appellant the bench added

Setting aside the High Court judgmentthe bench restored the Trial Court order ofacquittal

SC of INDIA

HC suggests to exclude consensual sex withgirl aged above 16 from rigours of POCSO Act

Apr 26 2019

Redefine child exclude consensual sexafter the age of 16 from POCSO Madras HCMore liberal provision can be introduced in theAct itself in order to distinguish the cases ofteenage relationship after 16 years from thecases of sexual assault on children below 16years

The Madras High Court has suggested toredefine the definition of Child under Section2(d) of the POCSO Act as a person below 16

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 2

years of age instead of 18 years so that anyconsensual sex after the age of 16 or bodilycontact or allied acts can be excluded from therigorous provisions of the POCSO Act

The Judge took note of a report thatmajority of cases involving minor girls are dueto relationship between adolescent boys andgirls Though under Section 2(d) of the ActChild is defined as a person below the age of18 years and in case of any love affair betweena girl and a boy where the girl happened to be16 or 17 years old either in the school final orentering the college the relationship invariablyassumes the penal character by subjecting theboy to the rigours of POCSO Act the courtsaid The judge further observed When thegirl below 18 years is involved in a relationshipwith the teen age boy or little over the teenage it is always a question mark as to how suchrelationship could be defined though suchrelationship would be the result of mutualinnocence and biological attraction Suchrelationship cannot be construed as anunnatural one or alien to between relationshipof opposite sexes But in such cases where theage of the girl is below 18 years even thoughshe was capable of giving consent forrelationship being mentally maturedunfortunately the provisions of the POCSO Actget attracted if such relationship transcendsbeyond platonic limits attracting strong arm oflaw sanctioned by the provisions of POCSOAct catching up with the so called offender ofsexual assault warranting a severeimprisonment of 710 years

The court said that more liberalprovision can be introduced in the Act itself inorder to distinguish the cases of teen agerelationship after 16 years from the cases ofsexual assault on children below 16 years

The Act can be amended to the effectthat the age of the offender ought not to bemore than five years or so than the consensualvictim girl of 16 years or more So that theimpressionable age of the victim girl cannot betaken advantage of by a person who is mucholder and crossed the age of presumableinfatuation or innocence

The Judge further said that more thantreating such growing incidence of sexualassault on women and children as a legal issuedealing with the offenders of sexual assault byresorting to most deterrent provisions of Penallaws the cause for such perverse and wickedbehaviour among some men who wereotherwise normal in their disposition need tobe examined and studied

The Society must collectively introspectwhat is it that drives some men to unleash theirlibidinous rage on hapless children and womenof all age The cause for such abominabledeviant conduct on the part of the perpetratorsof sexual crime on children and women isperhaps became of access to uncensoredpornographic and erotic materials that areavailable on the internet 24 X 7 Access to suchprovocative and lewd sites lead to criminalsensuality that drives the perpetrators tocommit such appalling crimes on children andwomen in complete depravity When mindsare filled with lust smouldering all the time bywatching pornographic site of all kinds on thehandset or otherwise such crimes are thenatural result of the depraved minds

The judge also suggested constituting ahigh level committee comprising persons ofeminence from various walks of life like Socialauditor psychologists Social Scientist etc toinvestigate and study the malady afflicting theSociety

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 3

HC of MADRAS

Divorced wife cannot file application underDomestic Violence Act application filed underSs 12 and 18 rejected in absence of ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo

Apr 18 2019

The High Court refused to interfere withan order of the Judicial Magistrate asconfirmed by the Sessions Judge whereby theapplication filed by the applicant under Section12 and 18 of the Protection of Women fromDomestic Violence Act 2005 was dismissed

The applicant married to the respondentin 1999 However a decree of divorce underSection 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 hadbeen passed by the family court in 2008 at theinstance of the husband The application underthe DV Act was filed by the applicant in 2009ie subsequent to the grant of divorce Therespondent resisted the application on theground that there was no ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo between them and therefore anyapplication under DV Act was not maintainableThe application was rejected by the JudicialMagistrate as well as the Sessions JudgeAggrieved thereby the applicant filed thepresent revision application

After perusing a conspectus of decisionsof the Supreme Court as well as High Courtsthe Court came to the conclusion that no reliefcould be granted to the applicant It wasobserved ldquoIn the present case divorce wasgranted by the family Court vide order dated30-06- 2008 Application under the DV Actwas filed in the year 2009 At the time of filingof application under the DV Act the applicantwas not the wife There was no domestic

relationship between them Hence orderspassed by the learned JMFC Nagpur andmaintained by Additional Sessions JudgeNagpur in Criminal Appeal No 235 of 2015 areperfectly legal and correctrdquo In such view of thematter the revision application was dismissed

HC of Maharastra

Transwoman a Bride under Hindu MarriageAct

Apr 22 2019

The marriage between a cisgender manand a transgender woman on Monday receivedthe blessing of the Madras High Court in amanner of speaking Sitting at the MaduraiBench Justice GR Swaminathan observed ldquoAmarriage solemnized between a male and atranswoman both professing Hindu religion isa valid marriage in terms of Section 5 of theHindu Marriage Act 1955 and the Registrar ofMarriages is bound to register the same

By holding so this Court is not breakingany new ground It is merely stating theobvious Sometimes to see the obvious oneneeds not only physical vision in the eye butalso love in the heartrdquo

The Court had been moved byArunkumar and Srija after the state authoritiesrefused to register their October 2018marriage In this case Srija was a transgenderwoman While she had been born intersex shehad identified herself as a woman which wasalso reflected in her state Ids

The government authorities took thestance that the marriage between Arunkumarand Srija could not be recognised as Srija is atransgender person This was interpreted by

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 4

the authorities to mean the Srija is not awoman

Justice Swaminathan howeverdisagreed emphatically particularly in view ofthe Supreme Courtrsquos 2014 NALSA judgmentwhich had recognised the self-identificationrights of transgender persons He states in hisjudgment

ldquoI am unable to agree with the stand ofthe learned Government Advocate hellip As rightlypointed out by the learned counsel appearingfor the writ petitioner the issue on hand is nolonger res integra In the decision reported in(2014) 5 SCC 438 (National Legal ServicesAuthority vs Union of India) the HonrsquobleSupreme Court upheld the transgenderpersonsrsquo right to decide their self identifiedgender The central and State governmentswere directed to grant legal recognition of theirgender identity such as male female or thirdgenderhellip hellipWhen the right of the transgenderpersons to marry has been upheld by theHonrsquoble Supreme Court in the very nature ofthings they cannot be kept out of the purviewof the Hindu Marriage Act One can have a civilmarriage One can also have a sacramentalmarriagehelliprdquo

Sex and Gender are not the same

Recalling the principles affirmed in theNALSA judgment Justice Swaminathanproceeded to observe ldquoSex and gender are notone and the same A personrsquos sex is biologicallydetermined at the time of birth Not so in thecase of genderhellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Courtheld that Article 14 of the Constitution of Indiawhich affirms that the State shall not deny toldquoany personrdquo equality before the law or theequal protection of the laws within the territoryof India would apply to transgenders also

Transgender persons who are neithermalefemale fall within the expression lsquopersonrsquoand hence entitled to legal protection of laws inall spheres of State activity as enjoyed by anyother citizen of this country

Discrimination on the ground of sexualorientation or gender identity thereforeimpairs equality before law and equalprotection of law and violates Article 14 of theConstitution of India Article 19(1)(a) and Article21 were expansively interpreted so as toencompass onersquos gender identity alsordquo

It was noted that the NALSA judgmentwas also cited with approval in the Right toPrivacy case as well as Navtej Joharrsquos caseconcerning the decriminalisation ofhomosexuality in India

Coming to the instant case the Courtpointed out that after Srija identified herself asa woman the state does not have the power todeny her of that identity

ldquoIn the case on hand the secondpetitioner herein has chosen to express hergender identity as that of a woman As held bythe Honrsquoble Supreme Court this falls within thedomain of her personal autonomy and involvesher right to privacy and dignity It is not for theState authorities to question this selfdeterminationrdquo

ldquoBriderdquo under Hindu Marriage Actincludes transwomen

The Court went on to reject the Statersquoscontention that a transgender woman couldnot be viewed as a ldquoBriderdquo under the HinduMarriage Act

ldquoThe expression ldquobriderdquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955cannot have a static or immutable meaning As

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 5

noted in Justice GPSinghrsquos Principles ofStatutory Interpretation the court is free toapply the current meaning of a statute topresent day conditions A statute must beinterpreted in the light of the legal system as itexists todayhellip hellip Seen in the light of the marchof law the expression ldquobridersquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 willhave to include within its meaning not only awoman but also a transwoman It would alsoinclude an intersex persontransgender personwho identifies herself as a woman The onlyconsideration is how the person perceivesherselfrdquo

Transpersonrsquos right to marry has beenrecognised by the Supreme Court

The Court further pointed out that theSupreme Court has specifically recognised theright of marriage for transgender persons inparagraph 119 of the NALSA judgmentMoreover the right of persons to marry aperson of choice has also been specificallyendorsed in Hadiyarsquos case the High Courtjudgment highlights

The Court proceeded to remark ldquoFortoo long the transgender personsintersexpeople have been languishing in the marginsThe Constitution of India is an enablingdocument It is inviting them to join themainstream Therefore it would be absurd todeny the transgenders the benefit of the socialinstitutions already in place in themainstreamldquo

In view of these observations the Courtallowed the writ petition and directed the stateto register the marriage of the petitioners

Further the judge also pointed out thatthe marriage in the case was an inter-castemarriage Therefore the petitioners were alsoeligible for benefits provided by the state to

encourage inter-caste marriages under theDrAmbedkar Scheme for Social Integrationthrough Inter- Caste Marriages

Issue GO against forced SexReassignment Surgery (SRS) on Intersexchildren

While dealing with the case JusticeSwaminathan also took note that the SupremeCourtrsquos mandate against forced surgicalprocedures on intersex children was beingobserved more in breach than compliance Asobserved in his judgment rdquo [intersex children]must be given their time and space to find theirtrue gender identity But the parents make theinfant undergo sex reassignment surgery (SRS)hellip hellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Court in NALSA casecategorically stated that no one shall be forcedto undergo medical procedures including SRSsterilisation or hormonal therapy as arequirement for legal recognition of theirgender identity But what is happening inreality is more in breach of this judgementgiven by the Honrsquoble Supreme Courtldquo

He went on to observe that a particulargender cannot be forcibly thrust on non-binarypersons

ldquoA person who is in the Third Category isentitled to remain beyond the duality ofmalefemale or opt to identify oneself as maleor female It is entirely the choice of theindividual concernedrdquo

In view of the same the Court has nowdirected the Tamil Nadu government to issue aGovernment Order to uphold the NALSAjudgment and to ldquoeffectively ban sexreassignment surgeries on intersex infants andchildrenrdquo The government is expected tosubmit a compliance report regarding thissame within eight weeks

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 6

The Court also noted that the stateshould undertake awareness programmes tode-stigmatise the birth of intersex children

ldquoThe parents must be encouraged to feelthat the birth of an intersex child is not a matterof embarrassment or shame It lies in the handsof the Government to launch a sustainedawareness campaign in this regardldquo

In this backdrop the Court alsoexpressed its appreciation for recent Tamilfilms that involved transgender characters

ldquoRecent Tamil Films such as ldquoPeranburdquowhere Mamooty marries a transgender andldquoSuper Deluxrdquo where Vijay Sethupathi plays therole of a transgender and is also a parent to thechild he has fathered are encouraging trendsrdquoremarked Justice Swaminathan

Before parting with the matter JusticeSwaminathan also expressed gratitude tointersex activist Gopi Shankar from Madurainoting that his work has had been a humblingand enlightening experience for the Court

Madras HC

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 7

Crime News MeToo movement Police closes Nana Patekarrsquos sexualharassment case filed by Tanushree Dutta

June 13 2019

After Tanushree Dutta rubbished reports of police givinga clean chit to actor Nana Patekar on the sexualharassment case filed by actress it is now official that theNana Patekar sexual harassment case has been closed bythe police This marks the first official MeToo case thathas reportedly collapsed

According to reports in Times Now the sexualharassment case filed against actor Nana Patekar wasclosed by cops on grounds that there was no lsquono primafacie case against the actor

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

June 12 2019

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

आशिक क साथ मिलकर पतनी न परी रात पतित को पीटा सबह उतारा ौत क घाट

June 08 2019

फिललौर (भाखड़ी) फिललौर क गाव अकालपर म पतनी न परमी सग मिमल कर पहल पफि की बरी रह स मारपीट की और उसक बाद उस मौ क घाट

उार दिदया पराप जानकारी अनसार पलिलस को दी लिकाय म मक खपाल सिसह (40) क भाई कलव सिसह और गरमल सिसह न बाया फिक

उसक भाई की ादी 15 वरष2 पहल सखविवदर कौर क साथ हई जिजसक दो बचच ह उनहोन बाया फिक 4 वरष2 पहल उनका भाई काम क सबध म साउदी अरब चला गया

मक क भाईयो न बाया फिक ग आधी रा को उनह पा चला फिक उसक भाई क घर स रोन और चीखन लिचललान की आवाज बाहर क आ रही ह

वह दोनो भाई बबस अपन घर म पड़ रह कयोफिक वह जब भी उनक झगड़ म घर जा ो उनकी भाभी उनको ही बरा भला बोल कर वाफिपस भज दी थीपरा 8 बज उनक चाचा न उनह ोन कर कहा फिक खपाल क साथ उसक

घर म काी मारपीट हो रही ह पड़ोसी न भी उनह रोकना चाहा लफिकन

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उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 9

Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 12

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 15

provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 16

Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

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शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 23

MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 28

A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 29

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 32

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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Editorial

Election 2019

When we are working on the issue the general election 2019 are going on So there is aquestion who will be in power after election For me it does not matter but what really matter forus is to whom we are casting our vote and why

Another burning issue is sexual harassment allegations on Chief Justice of India

It is right that before voting one must be aware of his rights but it is also important that heknow the bigger picture very well During the current election 2019 menrsquos right organizationasked to vote NOTA which is basically denying all candidates They have reasons to do so If westudy the manifesto of major parties like BJP amp Congress we find that there is nothing aboutmen Political parties are not interested in men anymore They care for womenrsquos vote but theydonrsquot care for menrsquos vote

I would like to share one example When Mr Modi visited Varanasi for his Namakan hemeet kids The news was all over Indian media Did he really meet kids Technically yes but if welook the news deeply he meet only Female Kids There was not even one Male Kid What doesthat mean

Now the question is if we are cast our vote to nota who is going to get benefit and who willbe in power also it is important if it can damage Indias growth

Last election was in 2014 and BJP get a bumper majority in Lok Sabha The majority BJPget was after a long time and BJP get majority because of various reasons one of them was thepromises made by Mr Modi as well as his publicity management

Once BJP get a bumper majority and it become the strongest govt in recent years weexpect a very good work too But if we analyze 5 year report card of BJP govt my finding is thework done by BJP govt is just normal one I can not remember a single issue where they were ableto use their bumper majority They could have used their majority for solving Kashmir issue orthey could have solved Ram Mandir issue The majority could have been used in many way butunfortunately the govt choose to work like any other govt and outcome is also normal Many willrise a question that BJP was not having majority in RS but expert will be able to explain that BJPwas having bumper majority in LS and they could have worked freely without having majority inRS We give bumper majority and BJP did not used it now if we give just sufficient majority thesituation will be more or less same That means if we are casting nota and BJP did not get bumpermajority still the situation will be same

But main question is what if BJP just goes out of equation because of nota as they goes outin Rajasthan My view is it does not matter who comes into power BJP performed well when weare talking about Railway Services but they failed at the job front I agree that BJP govt has takenhard step for security but govt is not just for safai amp security Govt is for a wider reason and whenwe look widely their performance was not extraordinary but their 5 year record is just normal just

like last govt (Manmohan Singhrsquos) In short I can say if for next 5 year BJP comes into power orCongress or any other front it may not matter as long as we are expecting a normal performanceand I can not see any leader who can give a push

So if Menrsquos Right organizations asking for cast Nota to put forward their demands ofHuman Rightrsquos Violations of Men I am ok with that and request every Menrsquos Right Supporter todo so without thinking that they may be damaging something

Sexual Harassment allegations against Chief Justice of India (CJI) Another burning issuetoday is sexual harassment allegation against CJI A former employee of SC of India has madeallegations of Sexual harassment against CJI Ranjan Gogoi in an affidavit The affidavit is sent toall the judges of SC on Apr 19 2019 For detail anyone can google In past we have observed thata large number of false allegations of Sexual Harassment or Rape are framed because of variousreason Does that mean I am saying allegations on CJI are false Well CJI denied the allegationsbut my concern is not about the truthfulness of allegations but my concern is about how thesituation handled CJI continue working on his post and in-house investigation going on I canremember a recent incident from Gurgaon where an employee was suspended from his post assoon as company get complain I also can recite 1000s cases where men get suspended as soonas allegations were made Even I can remember Bollywood cases where people come forward anddenied working with the directoractor etc who get allegations during MeToo movement Buthere we are looking at very different scenario We are facing a situation where CJI is on his postworking without any problem even after allegations and parallel investigation going on Why onlyCJI is getting this special treatment why not all Indian men deserve the same respect till they areproven guilty When a men get suspended or sent to jail just because of allegation it is directattack on his Human Rights as well as his dignity

I stand with CJI with full support but I also demand the same treatment for other men too

INDEX

1 Law News 1

2 Crime News 8

3 InformationResearch 10

4 DAAMAN ndash Progress Report 11

5 MRA ndash Catch Them Young 14

6 Marriage amp Divorce 18

7 MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed 24

8 And Miles to Go 31

9 Special Coverage ndash Marriage 34

10 K amp S Visa Problem 45

11 K amp S ndash Speak Loudly 47

12 Menrsquos Panchtantra ndash Why Love amp Arrange Marriage Fail 49

13 Do You Know 51

14 K amp S Life After Divorce 52

15 The Watching Dog 57

16 The Indian Society EP 003 - All is Well 59

17 Science 60

18 After G ndash War Ep 003 61

19 The Land of Kings Chapter 01 ndash The Cave 62

Law NewsWitness can be called interested only when heshederives some benefit seeing an accused person punished

April 26 2019

A witness cannot be said to be an interestedwitness merely by virtue of being a relative of the victim

The witness may be called interested only whenhe or she derives some benefit from the result of alitigation in the decree in a civil case or in seeing anaccused person punished the Supreme Court observedwhile rejecting a defence contention in a criminal appeal

Defense had raised an argument that thetestimonies of interested witnesses who are relatives ofthe deceased should not have been relied upon by theTrial Court Sadyappan was convicted by the Trial Court(which was later upheld by the High Court) for the murderof his neighbour Selvam Thangaraj

In the appeal filed by the accused the court thattheir testimonies has stood the rigour of cross-examination and though they may be related but theycould not be labelled as interested witnesses It saidCriminal law jurisprudence makes a clear distinctionbetween a related and interested witness A witnesscannot be said to be an interested witness merely byvirtue of being a relative of the victim The witness maybe called interested only when he or she derives somebenefit from the result of a litigation in the decree in acivil case or in seeing an accused person punished

Referring to their testimonies which corroboratedthe prosecution version the bench dismissed the appealand observed Though they are related to each other andto the deceased as well their evidence cannot bediscarded by simply labelling them as interestedwitnesses After thoroughly scrutinizing their evidencewe do not find any direct or indirect interest of thesewitnesses to get the accused punished by falselyimplicating him so as to meet out any vested interest

Some witnesses in this case had stated that as thedeceased did not turn up after leaving home at 11 pm on

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the previous night they went in search of himand found his dead body in Vaalaithope Oneof them who is a nephew of the deceased alsodeposed in his statement that when he went toSirumugai Police Station he saw the accusedpersons there and witnessed their confessionalstatements recorded by the policeThe wife ofthe deceased had stated that the deceased waslast seen together with the accused

SC of INDIA

Sec 498A amp 306 IPC Incidents which happenedmuch before wifes death cant be treated asconduct which drove her to suicide

Apr 26 2019

The Supreme Court has observed thatthe incidents which had taken place betweenhusband and wife much before latters death bysuicide could not be treated as the conductwhich drove her to commit suicide

Jagdishraj Khatta was convicted by theHimachal Pradesh High Court under Sections498A and 306 of the Indian Penal Code byoverturning the acquittal recorded by the TrialCourt Khatta was convicted by the High Courtrelying on (1) the testimonies of the relatives ofthe deceased that the accused husband actedin a cruel manner against the deceased in frontof her relatives and (2) the letter allegedlywritten by the deceased around the time of herdeath to her parents

The court observed that the incidentsnarrated by the relatives had taken place muchbefore the deceaseds death It said As theHigh Court itself indicated somewhatcontradictorily reliance on the instancestestified to by the witnesses would not beappropriate as the said incidents had takenplace much before the deceaseds death and

could not be treated as conduct which drovethe deceased to commit suicide

The High Court had also observed thatall those incidents had taken place much beforethe commission of the suicide by the deceasedand therefore they cannot be treated as theimmediate cause of provocation for thedeceased to take the extreme step

As regards the reliance placed on letterthe bench agreed with the accused contentionthat the letter has not been proved to havebeen written by the deceased and issurrounded by suspicious circumstances Thefact that the deceased had never written anyother letter to her family after her marriage buthad rather been in touch with her relativesthrough the telephone further strengthens thecase of the appellant the bench added

Setting aside the High Court judgmentthe bench restored the Trial Court order ofacquittal

SC of INDIA

HC suggests to exclude consensual sex withgirl aged above 16 from rigours of POCSO Act

Apr 26 2019

Redefine child exclude consensual sexafter the age of 16 from POCSO Madras HCMore liberal provision can be introduced in theAct itself in order to distinguish the cases ofteenage relationship after 16 years from thecases of sexual assault on children below 16years

The Madras High Court has suggested toredefine the definition of Child under Section2(d) of the POCSO Act as a person below 16

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years of age instead of 18 years so that anyconsensual sex after the age of 16 or bodilycontact or allied acts can be excluded from therigorous provisions of the POCSO Act

The Judge took note of a report thatmajority of cases involving minor girls are dueto relationship between adolescent boys andgirls Though under Section 2(d) of the ActChild is defined as a person below the age of18 years and in case of any love affair betweena girl and a boy where the girl happened to be16 or 17 years old either in the school final orentering the college the relationship invariablyassumes the penal character by subjecting theboy to the rigours of POCSO Act the courtsaid The judge further observed When thegirl below 18 years is involved in a relationshipwith the teen age boy or little over the teenage it is always a question mark as to how suchrelationship could be defined though suchrelationship would be the result of mutualinnocence and biological attraction Suchrelationship cannot be construed as anunnatural one or alien to between relationshipof opposite sexes But in such cases where theage of the girl is below 18 years even thoughshe was capable of giving consent forrelationship being mentally maturedunfortunately the provisions of the POCSO Actget attracted if such relationship transcendsbeyond platonic limits attracting strong arm oflaw sanctioned by the provisions of POCSOAct catching up with the so called offender ofsexual assault warranting a severeimprisonment of 710 years

The court said that more liberalprovision can be introduced in the Act itself inorder to distinguish the cases of teen agerelationship after 16 years from the cases ofsexual assault on children below 16 years

The Act can be amended to the effectthat the age of the offender ought not to bemore than five years or so than the consensualvictim girl of 16 years or more So that theimpressionable age of the victim girl cannot betaken advantage of by a person who is mucholder and crossed the age of presumableinfatuation or innocence

The Judge further said that more thantreating such growing incidence of sexualassault on women and children as a legal issuedealing with the offenders of sexual assault byresorting to most deterrent provisions of Penallaws the cause for such perverse and wickedbehaviour among some men who wereotherwise normal in their disposition need tobe examined and studied

The Society must collectively introspectwhat is it that drives some men to unleash theirlibidinous rage on hapless children and womenof all age The cause for such abominabledeviant conduct on the part of the perpetratorsof sexual crime on children and women isperhaps became of access to uncensoredpornographic and erotic materials that areavailable on the internet 24 X 7 Access to suchprovocative and lewd sites lead to criminalsensuality that drives the perpetrators tocommit such appalling crimes on children andwomen in complete depravity When mindsare filled with lust smouldering all the time bywatching pornographic site of all kinds on thehandset or otherwise such crimes are thenatural result of the depraved minds

The judge also suggested constituting ahigh level committee comprising persons ofeminence from various walks of life like Socialauditor psychologists Social Scientist etc toinvestigate and study the malady afflicting theSociety

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HC of MADRAS

Divorced wife cannot file application underDomestic Violence Act application filed underSs 12 and 18 rejected in absence of ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo

Apr 18 2019

The High Court refused to interfere withan order of the Judicial Magistrate asconfirmed by the Sessions Judge whereby theapplication filed by the applicant under Section12 and 18 of the Protection of Women fromDomestic Violence Act 2005 was dismissed

The applicant married to the respondentin 1999 However a decree of divorce underSection 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 hadbeen passed by the family court in 2008 at theinstance of the husband The application underthe DV Act was filed by the applicant in 2009ie subsequent to the grant of divorce Therespondent resisted the application on theground that there was no ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo between them and therefore anyapplication under DV Act was not maintainableThe application was rejected by the JudicialMagistrate as well as the Sessions JudgeAggrieved thereby the applicant filed thepresent revision application

After perusing a conspectus of decisionsof the Supreme Court as well as High Courtsthe Court came to the conclusion that no reliefcould be granted to the applicant It wasobserved ldquoIn the present case divorce wasgranted by the family Court vide order dated30-06- 2008 Application under the DV Actwas filed in the year 2009 At the time of filingof application under the DV Act the applicantwas not the wife There was no domestic

relationship between them Hence orderspassed by the learned JMFC Nagpur andmaintained by Additional Sessions JudgeNagpur in Criminal Appeal No 235 of 2015 areperfectly legal and correctrdquo In such view of thematter the revision application was dismissed

HC of Maharastra

Transwoman a Bride under Hindu MarriageAct

Apr 22 2019

The marriage between a cisgender manand a transgender woman on Monday receivedthe blessing of the Madras High Court in amanner of speaking Sitting at the MaduraiBench Justice GR Swaminathan observed ldquoAmarriage solemnized between a male and atranswoman both professing Hindu religion isa valid marriage in terms of Section 5 of theHindu Marriage Act 1955 and the Registrar ofMarriages is bound to register the same

By holding so this Court is not breakingany new ground It is merely stating theobvious Sometimes to see the obvious oneneeds not only physical vision in the eye butalso love in the heartrdquo

The Court had been moved byArunkumar and Srija after the state authoritiesrefused to register their October 2018marriage In this case Srija was a transgenderwoman While she had been born intersex shehad identified herself as a woman which wasalso reflected in her state Ids

The government authorities took thestance that the marriage between Arunkumarand Srija could not be recognised as Srija is atransgender person This was interpreted by

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the authorities to mean the Srija is not awoman

Justice Swaminathan howeverdisagreed emphatically particularly in view ofthe Supreme Courtrsquos 2014 NALSA judgmentwhich had recognised the self-identificationrights of transgender persons He states in hisjudgment

ldquoI am unable to agree with the stand ofthe learned Government Advocate hellip As rightlypointed out by the learned counsel appearingfor the writ petitioner the issue on hand is nolonger res integra In the decision reported in(2014) 5 SCC 438 (National Legal ServicesAuthority vs Union of India) the HonrsquobleSupreme Court upheld the transgenderpersonsrsquo right to decide their self identifiedgender The central and State governmentswere directed to grant legal recognition of theirgender identity such as male female or thirdgenderhellip hellipWhen the right of the transgenderpersons to marry has been upheld by theHonrsquoble Supreme Court in the very nature ofthings they cannot be kept out of the purviewof the Hindu Marriage Act One can have a civilmarriage One can also have a sacramentalmarriagehelliprdquo

Sex and Gender are not the same

Recalling the principles affirmed in theNALSA judgment Justice Swaminathanproceeded to observe ldquoSex and gender are notone and the same A personrsquos sex is biologicallydetermined at the time of birth Not so in thecase of genderhellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Courtheld that Article 14 of the Constitution of Indiawhich affirms that the State shall not deny toldquoany personrdquo equality before the law or theequal protection of the laws within the territoryof India would apply to transgenders also

Transgender persons who are neithermalefemale fall within the expression lsquopersonrsquoand hence entitled to legal protection of laws inall spheres of State activity as enjoyed by anyother citizen of this country

Discrimination on the ground of sexualorientation or gender identity thereforeimpairs equality before law and equalprotection of law and violates Article 14 of theConstitution of India Article 19(1)(a) and Article21 were expansively interpreted so as toencompass onersquos gender identity alsordquo

It was noted that the NALSA judgmentwas also cited with approval in the Right toPrivacy case as well as Navtej Joharrsquos caseconcerning the decriminalisation ofhomosexuality in India

Coming to the instant case the Courtpointed out that after Srija identified herself asa woman the state does not have the power todeny her of that identity

ldquoIn the case on hand the secondpetitioner herein has chosen to express hergender identity as that of a woman As held bythe Honrsquoble Supreme Court this falls within thedomain of her personal autonomy and involvesher right to privacy and dignity It is not for theState authorities to question this selfdeterminationrdquo

ldquoBriderdquo under Hindu Marriage Actincludes transwomen

The Court went on to reject the Statersquoscontention that a transgender woman couldnot be viewed as a ldquoBriderdquo under the HinduMarriage Act

ldquoThe expression ldquobriderdquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955cannot have a static or immutable meaning As

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 5

noted in Justice GPSinghrsquos Principles ofStatutory Interpretation the court is free toapply the current meaning of a statute topresent day conditions A statute must beinterpreted in the light of the legal system as itexists todayhellip hellip Seen in the light of the marchof law the expression ldquobridersquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 willhave to include within its meaning not only awoman but also a transwoman It would alsoinclude an intersex persontransgender personwho identifies herself as a woman The onlyconsideration is how the person perceivesherselfrdquo

Transpersonrsquos right to marry has beenrecognised by the Supreme Court

The Court further pointed out that theSupreme Court has specifically recognised theright of marriage for transgender persons inparagraph 119 of the NALSA judgmentMoreover the right of persons to marry aperson of choice has also been specificallyendorsed in Hadiyarsquos case the High Courtjudgment highlights

The Court proceeded to remark ldquoFortoo long the transgender personsintersexpeople have been languishing in the marginsThe Constitution of India is an enablingdocument It is inviting them to join themainstream Therefore it would be absurd todeny the transgenders the benefit of the socialinstitutions already in place in themainstreamldquo

In view of these observations the Courtallowed the writ petition and directed the stateto register the marriage of the petitioners

Further the judge also pointed out thatthe marriage in the case was an inter-castemarriage Therefore the petitioners were alsoeligible for benefits provided by the state to

encourage inter-caste marriages under theDrAmbedkar Scheme for Social Integrationthrough Inter- Caste Marriages

Issue GO against forced SexReassignment Surgery (SRS) on Intersexchildren

While dealing with the case JusticeSwaminathan also took note that the SupremeCourtrsquos mandate against forced surgicalprocedures on intersex children was beingobserved more in breach than compliance Asobserved in his judgment rdquo [intersex children]must be given their time and space to find theirtrue gender identity But the parents make theinfant undergo sex reassignment surgery (SRS)hellip hellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Court in NALSA casecategorically stated that no one shall be forcedto undergo medical procedures including SRSsterilisation or hormonal therapy as arequirement for legal recognition of theirgender identity But what is happening inreality is more in breach of this judgementgiven by the Honrsquoble Supreme Courtldquo

He went on to observe that a particulargender cannot be forcibly thrust on non-binarypersons

ldquoA person who is in the Third Category isentitled to remain beyond the duality ofmalefemale or opt to identify oneself as maleor female It is entirely the choice of theindividual concernedrdquo

In view of the same the Court has nowdirected the Tamil Nadu government to issue aGovernment Order to uphold the NALSAjudgment and to ldquoeffectively ban sexreassignment surgeries on intersex infants andchildrenrdquo The government is expected tosubmit a compliance report regarding thissame within eight weeks

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 6

The Court also noted that the stateshould undertake awareness programmes tode-stigmatise the birth of intersex children

ldquoThe parents must be encouraged to feelthat the birth of an intersex child is not a matterof embarrassment or shame It lies in the handsof the Government to launch a sustainedawareness campaign in this regardldquo

In this backdrop the Court alsoexpressed its appreciation for recent Tamilfilms that involved transgender characters

ldquoRecent Tamil Films such as ldquoPeranburdquowhere Mamooty marries a transgender andldquoSuper Deluxrdquo where Vijay Sethupathi plays therole of a transgender and is also a parent to thechild he has fathered are encouraging trendsrdquoremarked Justice Swaminathan

Before parting with the matter JusticeSwaminathan also expressed gratitude tointersex activist Gopi Shankar from Madurainoting that his work has had been a humblingand enlightening experience for the Court

Madras HC

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 7

Crime News MeToo movement Police closes Nana Patekarrsquos sexualharassment case filed by Tanushree Dutta

June 13 2019

After Tanushree Dutta rubbished reports of police givinga clean chit to actor Nana Patekar on the sexualharassment case filed by actress it is now official that theNana Patekar sexual harassment case has been closed bythe police This marks the first official MeToo case thathas reportedly collapsed

According to reports in Times Now the sexualharassment case filed against actor Nana Patekar wasclosed by cops on grounds that there was no lsquono primafacie case against the actor

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

June 12 2019

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

आशिक क साथ मिलकर पतनी न परी रात पतित को पीटा सबह उतारा ौत क घाट

June 08 2019

फिललौर (भाखड़ी) फिललौर क गाव अकालपर म पतनी न परमी सग मिमल कर पहल पफि की बरी रह स मारपीट की और उसक बाद उस मौ क घाट

उार दिदया पराप जानकारी अनसार पलिलस को दी लिकाय म मक खपाल सिसह (40) क भाई कलव सिसह और गरमल सिसह न बाया फिक

उसक भाई की ादी 15 वरष2 पहल सखविवदर कौर क साथ हई जिजसक दो बचच ह उनहोन बाया फिक 4 वरष2 पहल उनका भाई काम क सबध म साउदी अरब चला गया

मक क भाईयो न बाया फिक ग आधी रा को उनह पा चला फिक उसक भाई क घर स रोन और चीखन लिचललान की आवाज बाहर क आ रही ह

वह दोनो भाई बबस अपन घर म पड़ रह कयोफिक वह जब भी उनक झगड़ म घर जा ो उनकी भाभी उनको ही बरा भला बोल कर वाफिपस भज दी थीपरा 8 बज उनक चाचा न उनह ोन कर कहा फिक खपाल क साथ उसक

घर म काी मारपीट हो रही ह पड़ोसी न भी उनह रोकना चाहा लफिकन

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उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 12

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

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provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

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Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

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Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

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The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

like last govt (Manmohan Singhrsquos) In short I can say if for next 5 year BJP comes into power orCongress or any other front it may not matter as long as we are expecting a normal performanceand I can not see any leader who can give a push

So if Menrsquos Right organizations asking for cast Nota to put forward their demands ofHuman Rightrsquos Violations of Men I am ok with that and request every Menrsquos Right Supporter todo so without thinking that they may be damaging something

Sexual Harassment allegations against Chief Justice of India (CJI) Another burning issuetoday is sexual harassment allegation against CJI A former employee of SC of India has madeallegations of Sexual harassment against CJI Ranjan Gogoi in an affidavit The affidavit is sent toall the judges of SC on Apr 19 2019 For detail anyone can google In past we have observed thata large number of false allegations of Sexual Harassment or Rape are framed because of variousreason Does that mean I am saying allegations on CJI are false Well CJI denied the allegationsbut my concern is not about the truthfulness of allegations but my concern is about how thesituation handled CJI continue working on his post and in-house investigation going on I canremember a recent incident from Gurgaon where an employee was suspended from his post assoon as company get complain I also can recite 1000s cases where men get suspended as soonas allegations were made Even I can remember Bollywood cases where people come forward anddenied working with the directoractor etc who get allegations during MeToo movement Buthere we are looking at very different scenario We are facing a situation where CJI is on his postworking without any problem even after allegations and parallel investigation going on Why onlyCJI is getting this special treatment why not all Indian men deserve the same respect till they areproven guilty When a men get suspended or sent to jail just because of allegation it is directattack on his Human Rights as well as his dignity

I stand with CJI with full support but I also demand the same treatment for other men too

INDEX

1 Law News 1

2 Crime News 8

3 InformationResearch 10

4 DAAMAN ndash Progress Report 11

5 MRA ndash Catch Them Young 14

6 Marriage amp Divorce 18

7 MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed 24

8 And Miles to Go 31

9 Special Coverage ndash Marriage 34

10 K amp S Visa Problem 45

11 K amp S ndash Speak Loudly 47

12 Menrsquos Panchtantra ndash Why Love amp Arrange Marriage Fail 49

13 Do You Know 51

14 K amp S Life After Divorce 52

15 The Watching Dog 57

16 The Indian Society EP 003 - All is Well 59

17 Science 60

18 After G ndash War Ep 003 61

19 The Land of Kings Chapter 01 ndash The Cave 62

Law NewsWitness can be called interested only when heshederives some benefit seeing an accused person punished

April 26 2019

A witness cannot be said to be an interestedwitness merely by virtue of being a relative of the victim

The witness may be called interested only whenhe or she derives some benefit from the result of alitigation in the decree in a civil case or in seeing anaccused person punished the Supreme Court observedwhile rejecting a defence contention in a criminal appeal

Defense had raised an argument that thetestimonies of interested witnesses who are relatives ofthe deceased should not have been relied upon by theTrial Court Sadyappan was convicted by the Trial Court(which was later upheld by the High Court) for the murderof his neighbour Selvam Thangaraj

In the appeal filed by the accused the court thattheir testimonies has stood the rigour of cross-examination and though they may be related but theycould not be labelled as interested witnesses It saidCriminal law jurisprudence makes a clear distinctionbetween a related and interested witness A witnesscannot be said to be an interested witness merely byvirtue of being a relative of the victim The witness maybe called interested only when he or she derives somebenefit from the result of a litigation in the decree in acivil case or in seeing an accused person punished

Referring to their testimonies which corroboratedthe prosecution version the bench dismissed the appealand observed Though they are related to each other andto the deceased as well their evidence cannot bediscarded by simply labelling them as interestedwitnesses After thoroughly scrutinizing their evidencewe do not find any direct or indirect interest of thesewitnesses to get the accused punished by falselyimplicating him so as to meet out any vested interest

Some witnesses in this case had stated that as thedeceased did not turn up after leaving home at 11 pm on

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the previous night they went in search of himand found his dead body in Vaalaithope Oneof them who is a nephew of the deceased alsodeposed in his statement that when he went toSirumugai Police Station he saw the accusedpersons there and witnessed their confessionalstatements recorded by the policeThe wife ofthe deceased had stated that the deceased waslast seen together with the accused

SC of INDIA

Sec 498A amp 306 IPC Incidents which happenedmuch before wifes death cant be treated asconduct which drove her to suicide

Apr 26 2019

The Supreme Court has observed thatthe incidents which had taken place betweenhusband and wife much before latters death bysuicide could not be treated as the conductwhich drove her to commit suicide

Jagdishraj Khatta was convicted by theHimachal Pradesh High Court under Sections498A and 306 of the Indian Penal Code byoverturning the acquittal recorded by the TrialCourt Khatta was convicted by the High Courtrelying on (1) the testimonies of the relatives ofthe deceased that the accused husband actedin a cruel manner against the deceased in frontof her relatives and (2) the letter allegedlywritten by the deceased around the time of herdeath to her parents

The court observed that the incidentsnarrated by the relatives had taken place muchbefore the deceaseds death It said As theHigh Court itself indicated somewhatcontradictorily reliance on the instancestestified to by the witnesses would not beappropriate as the said incidents had takenplace much before the deceaseds death and

could not be treated as conduct which drovethe deceased to commit suicide

The High Court had also observed thatall those incidents had taken place much beforethe commission of the suicide by the deceasedand therefore they cannot be treated as theimmediate cause of provocation for thedeceased to take the extreme step

As regards the reliance placed on letterthe bench agreed with the accused contentionthat the letter has not been proved to havebeen written by the deceased and issurrounded by suspicious circumstances Thefact that the deceased had never written anyother letter to her family after her marriage buthad rather been in touch with her relativesthrough the telephone further strengthens thecase of the appellant the bench added

Setting aside the High Court judgmentthe bench restored the Trial Court order ofacquittal

SC of INDIA

HC suggests to exclude consensual sex withgirl aged above 16 from rigours of POCSO Act

Apr 26 2019

Redefine child exclude consensual sexafter the age of 16 from POCSO Madras HCMore liberal provision can be introduced in theAct itself in order to distinguish the cases ofteenage relationship after 16 years from thecases of sexual assault on children below 16years

The Madras High Court has suggested toredefine the definition of Child under Section2(d) of the POCSO Act as a person below 16

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 2

years of age instead of 18 years so that anyconsensual sex after the age of 16 or bodilycontact or allied acts can be excluded from therigorous provisions of the POCSO Act

The Judge took note of a report thatmajority of cases involving minor girls are dueto relationship between adolescent boys andgirls Though under Section 2(d) of the ActChild is defined as a person below the age of18 years and in case of any love affair betweena girl and a boy where the girl happened to be16 or 17 years old either in the school final orentering the college the relationship invariablyassumes the penal character by subjecting theboy to the rigours of POCSO Act the courtsaid The judge further observed When thegirl below 18 years is involved in a relationshipwith the teen age boy or little over the teenage it is always a question mark as to how suchrelationship could be defined though suchrelationship would be the result of mutualinnocence and biological attraction Suchrelationship cannot be construed as anunnatural one or alien to between relationshipof opposite sexes But in such cases where theage of the girl is below 18 years even thoughshe was capable of giving consent forrelationship being mentally maturedunfortunately the provisions of the POCSO Actget attracted if such relationship transcendsbeyond platonic limits attracting strong arm oflaw sanctioned by the provisions of POCSOAct catching up with the so called offender ofsexual assault warranting a severeimprisonment of 710 years

The court said that more liberalprovision can be introduced in the Act itself inorder to distinguish the cases of teen agerelationship after 16 years from the cases ofsexual assault on children below 16 years

The Act can be amended to the effectthat the age of the offender ought not to bemore than five years or so than the consensualvictim girl of 16 years or more So that theimpressionable age of the victim girl cannot betaken advantage of by a person who is mucholder and crossed the age of presumableinfatuation or innocence

The Judge further said that more thantreating such growing incidence of sexualassault on women and children as a legal issuedealing with the offenders of sexual assault byresorting to most deterrent provisions of Penallaws the cause for such perverse and wickedbehaviour among some men who wereotherwise normal in their disposition need tobe examined and studied

The Society must collectively introspectwhat is it that drives some men to unleash theirlibidinous rage on hapless children and womenof all age The cause for such abominabledeviant conduct on the part of the perpetratorsof sexual crime on children and women isperhaps became of access to uncensoredpornographic and erotic materials that areavailable on the internet 24 X 7 Access to suchprovocative and lewd sites lead to criminalsensuality that drives the perpetrators tocommit such appalling crimes on children andwomen in complete depravity When mindsare filled with lust smouldering all the time bywatching pornographic site of all kinds on thehandset or otherwise such crimes are thenatural result of the depraved minds

The judge also suggested constituting ahigh level committee comprising persons ofeminence from various walks of life like Socialauditor psychologists Social Scientist etc toinvestigate and study the malady afflicting theSociety

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 3

HC of MADRAS

Divorced wife cannot file application underDomestic Violence Act application filed underSs 12 and 18 rejected in absence of ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo

Apr 18 2019

The High Court refused to interfere withan order of the Judicial Magistrate asconfirmed by the Sessions Judge whereby theapplication filed by the applicant under Section12 and 18 of the Protection of Women fromDomestic Violence Act 2005 was dismissed

The applicant married to the respondentin 1999 However a decree of divorce underSection 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 hadbeen passed by the family court in 2008 at theinstance of the husband The application underthe DV Act was filed by the applicant in 2009ie subsequent to the grant of divorce Therespondent resisted the application on theground that there was no ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo between them and therefore anyapplication under DV Act was not maintainableThe application was rejected by the JudicialMagistrate as well as the Sessions JudgeAggrieved thereby the applicant filed thepresent revision application

After perusing a conspectus of decisionsof the Supreme Court as well as High Courtsthe Court came to the conclusion that no reliefcould be granted to the applicant It wasobserved ldquoIn the present case divorce wasgranted by the family Court vide order dated30-06- 2008 Application under the DV Actwas filed in the year 2009 At the time of filingof application under the DV Act the applicantwas not the wife There was no domestic

relationship between them Hence orderspassed by the learned JMFC Nagpur andmaintained by Additional Sessions JudgeNagpur in Criminal Appeal No 235 of 2015 areperfectly legal and correctrdquo In such view of thematter the revision application was dismissed

HC of Maharastra

Transwoman a Bride under Hindu MarriageAct

Apr 22 2019

The marriage between a cisgender manand a transgender woman on Monday receivedthe blessing of the Madras High Court in amanner of speaking Sitting at the MaduraiBench Justice GR Swaminathan observed ldquoAmarriage solemnized between a male and atranswoman both professing Hindu religion isa valid marriage in terms of Section 5 of theHindu Marriage Act 1955 and the Registrar ofMarriages is bound to register the same

By holding so this Court is not breakingany new ground It is merely stating theobvious Sometimes to see the obvious oneneeds not only physical vision in the eye butalso love in the heartrdquo

The Court had been moved byArunkumar and Srija after the state authoritiesrefused to register their October 2018marriage In this case Srija was a transgenderwoman While she had been born intersex shehad identified herself as a woman which wasalso reflected in her state Ids

The government authorities took thestance that the marriage between Arunkumarand Srija could not be recognised as Srija is atransgender person This was interpreted by

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 4

the authorities to mean the Srija is not awoman

Justice Swaminathan howeverdisagreed emphatically particularly in view ofthe Supreme Courtrsquos 2014 NALSA judgmentwhich had recognised the self-identificationrights of transgender persons He states in hisjudgment

ldquoI am unable to agree with the stand ofthe learned Government Advocate hellip As rightlypointed out by the learned counsel appearingfor the writ petitioner the issue on hand is nolonger res integra In the decision reported in(2014) 5 SCC 438 (National Legal ServicesAuthority vs Union of India) the HonrsquobleSupreme Court upheld the transgenderpersonsrsquo right to decide their self identifiedgender The central and State governmentswere directed to grant legal recognition of theirgender identity such as male female or thirdgenderhellip hellipWhen the right of the transgenderpersons to marry has been upheld by theHonrsquoble Supreme Court in the very nature ofthings they cannot be kept out of the purviewof the Hindu Marriage Act One can have a civilmarriage One can also have a sacramentalmarriagehelliprdquo

Sex and Gender are not the same

Recalling the principles affirmed in theNALSA judgment Justice Swaminathanproceeded to observe ldquoSex and gender are notone and the same A personrsquos sex is biologicallydetermined at the time of birth Not so in thecase of genderhellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Courtheld that Article 14 of the Constitution of Indiawhich affirms that the State shall not deny toldquoany personrdquo equality before the law or theequal protection of the laws within the territoryof India would apply to transgenders also

Transgender persons who are neithermalefemale fall within the expression lsquopersonrsquoand hence entitled to legal protection of laws inall spheres of State activity as enjoyed by anyother citizen of this country

Discrimination on the ground of sexualorientation or gender identity thereforeimpairs equality before law and equalprotection of law and violates Article 14 of theConstitution of India Article 19(1)(a) and Article21 were expansively interpreted so as toencompass onersquos gender identity alsordquo

It was noted that the NALSA judgmentwas also cited with approval in the Right toPrivacy case as well as Navtej Joharrsquos caseconcerning the decriminalisation ofhomosexuality in India

Coming to the instant case the Courtpointed out that after Srija identified herself asa woman the state does not have the power todeny her of that identity

ldquoIn the case on hand the secondpetitioner herein has chosen to express hergender identity as that of a woman As held bythe Honrsquoble Supreme Court this falls within thedomain of her personal autonomy and involvesher right to privacy and dignity It is not for theState authorities to question this selfdeterminationrdquo

ldquoBriderdquo under Hindu Marriage Actincludes transwomen

The Court went on to reject the Statersquoscontention that a transgender woman couldnot be viewed as a ldquoBriderdquo under the HinduMarriage Act

ldquoThe expression ldquobriderdquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955cannot have a static or immutable meaning As

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 5

noted in Justice GPSinghrsquos Principles ofStatutory Interpretation the court is free toapply the current meaning of a statute topresent day conditions A statute must beinterpreted in the light of the legal system as itexists todayhellip hellip Seen in the light of the marchof law the expression ldquobridersquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 willhave to include within its meaning not only awoman but also a transwoman It would alsoinclude an intersex persontransgender personwho identifies herself as a woman The onlyconsideration is how the person perceivesherselfrdquo

Transpersonrsquos right to marry has beenrecognised by the Supreme Court

The Court further pointed out that theSupreme Court has specifically recognised theright of marriage for transgender persons inparagraph 119 of the NALSA judgmentMoreover the right of persons to marry aperson of choice has also been specificallyendorsed in Hadiyarsquos case the High Courtjudgment highlights

The Court proceeded to remark ldquoFortoo long the transgender personsintersexpeople have been languishing in the marginsThe Constitution of India is an enablingdocument It is inviting them to join themainstream Therefore it would be absurd todeny the transgenders the benefit of the socialinstitutions already in place in themainstreamldquo

In view of these observations the Courtallowed the writ petition and directed the stateto register the marriage of the petitioners

Further the judge also pointed out thatthe marriage in the case was an inter-castemarriage Therefore the petitioners were alsoeligible for benefits provided by the state to

encourage inter-caste marriages under theDrAmbedkar Scheme for Social Integrationthrough Inter- Caste Marriages

Issue GO against forced SexReassignment Surgery (SRS) on Intersexchildren

While dealing with the case JusticeSwaminathan also took note that the SupremeCourtrsquos mandate against forced surgicalprocedures on intersex children was beingobserved more in breach than compliance Asobserved in his judgment rdquo [intersex children]must be given their time and space to find theirtrue gender identity But the parents make theinfant undergo sex reassignment surgery (SRS)hellip hellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Court in NALSA casecategorically stated that no one shall be forcedto undergo medical procedures including SRSsterilisation or hormonal therapy as arequirement for legal recognition of theirgender identity But what is happening inreality is more in breach of this judgementgiven by the Honrsquoble Supreme Courtldquo

He went on to observe that a particulargender cannot be forcibly thrust on non-binarypersons

ldquoA person who is in the Third Category isentitled to remain beyond the duality ofmalefemale or opt to identify oneself as maleor female It is entirely the choice of theindividual concernedrdquo

In view of the same the Court has nowdirected the Tamil Nadu government to issue aGovernment Order to uphold the NALSAjudgment and to ldquoeffectively ban sexreassignment surgeries on intersex infants andchildrenrdquo The government is expected tosubmit a compliance report regarding thissame within eight weeks

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 6

The Court also noted that the stateshould undertake awareness programmes tode-stigmatise the birth of intersex children

ldquoThe parents must be encouraged to feelthat the birth of an intersex child is not a matterof embarrassment or shame It lies in the handsof the Government to launch a sustainedawareness campaign in this regardldquo

In this backdrop the Court alsoexpressed its appreciation for recent Tamilfilms that involved transgender characters

ldquoRecent Tamil Films such as ldquoPeranburdquowhere Mamooty marries a transgender andldquoSuper Deluxrdquo where Vijay Sethupathi plays therole of a transgender and is also a parent to thechild he has fathered are encouraging trendsrdquoremarked Justice Swaminathan

Before parting with the matter JusticeSwaminathan also expressed gratitude tointersex activist Gopi Shankar from Madurainoting that his work has had been a humblingand enlightening experience for the Court

Madras HC

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 7

Crime News MeToo movement Police closes Nana Patekarrsquos sexualharassment case filed by Tanushree Dutta

June 13 2019

After Tanushree Dutta rubbished reports of police givinga clean chit to actor Nana Patekar on the sexualharassment case filed by actress it is now official that theNana Patekar sexual harassment case has been closed bythe police This marks the first official MeToo case thathas reportedly collapsed

According to reports in Times Now the sexualharassment case filed against actor Nana Patekar wasclosed by cops on grounds that there was no lsquono primafacie case against the actor

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

June 12 2019

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

आशिक क साथ मिलकर पतनी न परी रात पतित को पीटा सबह उतारा ौत क घाट

June 08 2019

फिललौर (भाखड़ी) फिललौर क गाव अकालपर म पतनी न परमी सग मिमल कर पहल पफि की बरी रह स मारपीट की और उसक बाद उस मौ क घाट

उार दिदया पराप जानकारी अनसार पलिलस को दी लिकाय म मक खपाल सिसह (40) क भाई कलव सिसह और गरमल सिसह न बाया फिक

उसक भाई की ादी 15 वरष2 पहल सखविवदर कौर क साथ हई जिजसक दो बचच ह उनहोन बाया फिक 4 वरष2 पहल उनका भाई काम क सबध म साउदी अरब चला गया

मक क भाईयो न बाया फिक ग आधी रा को उनह पा चला फिक उसक भाई क घर स रोन और चीखन लिचललान की आवाज बाहर क आ रही ह

वह दोनो भाई बबस अपन घर म पड़ रह कयोफिक वह जब भी उनक झगड़ म घर जा ो उनकी भाभी उनको ही बरा भला बोल कर वाफिपस भज दी थीपरा 8 बज उनक चाचा न उनह ोन कर कहा फिक खपाल क साथ उसक

घर म काी मारपीट हो रही ह पड़ोसी न भी उनह रोकना चाहा लफिकन

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उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 9

Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 12

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 15

provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 16

Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 23

MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 28

A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 29

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 32

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

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INDEX

1 Law News 1

2 Crime News 8

3 InformationResearch 10

4 DAAMAN ndash Progress Report 11

5 MRA ndash Catch Them Young 14

6 Marriage amp Divorce 18

7 MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed 24

8 And Miles to Go 31

9 Special Coverage ndash Marriage 34

10 K amp S Visa Problem 45

11 K amp S ndash Speak Loudly 47

12 Menrsquos Panchtantra ndash Why Love amp Arrange Marriage Fail 49

13 Do You Know 51

14 K amp S Life After Divorce 52

15 The Watching Dog 57

16 The Indian Society EP 003 - All is Well 59

17 Science 60

18 After G ndash War Ep 003 61

19 The Land of Kings Chapter 01 ndash The Cave 62

Law NewsWitness can be called interested only when heshederives some benefit seeing an accused person punished

April 26 2019

A witness cannot be said to be an interestedwitness merely by virtue of being a relative of the victim

The witness may be called interested only whenhe or she derives some benefit from the result of alitigation in the decree in a civil case or in seeing anaccused person punished the Supreme Court observedwhile rejecting a defence contention in a criminal appeal

Defense had raised an argument that thetestimonies of interested witnesses who are relatives ofthe deceased should not have been relied upon by theTrial Court Sadyappan was convicted by the Trial Court(which was later upheld by the High Court) for the murderof his neighbour Selvam Thangaraj

In the appeal filed by the accused the court thattheir testimonies has stood the rigour of cross-examination and though they may be related but theycould not be labelled as interested witnesses It saidCriminal law jurisprudence makes a clear distinctionbetween a related and interested witness A witnesscannot be said to be an interested witness merely byvirtue of being a relative of the victim The witness maybe called interested only when he or she derives somebenefit from the result of a litigation in the decree in acivil case or in seeing an accused person punished

Referring to their testimonies which corroboratedthe prosecution version the bench dismissed the appealand observed Though they are related to each other andto the deceased as well their evidence cannot bediscarded by simply labelling them as interestedwitnesses After thoroughly scrutinizing their evidencewe do not find any direct or indirect interest of thesewitnesses to get the accused punished by falselyimplicating him so as to meet out any vested interest

Some witnesses in this case had stated that as thedeceased did not turn up after leaving home at 11 pm on

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the previous night they went in search of himand found his dead body in Vaalaithope Oneof them who is a nephew of the deceased alsodeposed in his statement that when he went toSirumugai Police Station he saw the accusedpersons there and witnessed their confessionalstatements recorded by the policeThe wife ofthe deceased had stated that the deceased waslast seen together with the accused

SC of INDIA

Sec 498A amp 306 IPC Incidents which happenedmuch before wifes death cant be treated asconduct which drove her to suicide

Apr 26 2019

The Supreme Court has observed thatthe incidents which had taken place betweenhusband and wife much before latters death bysuicide could not be treated as the conductwhich drove her to commit suicide

Jagdishraj Khatta was convicted by theHimachal Pradesh High Court under Sections498A and 306 of the Indian Penal Code byoverturning the acquittal recorded by the TrialCourt Khatta was convicted by the High Courtrelying on (1) the testimonies of the relatives ofthe deceased that the accused husband actedin a cruel manner against the deceased in frontof her relatives and (2) the letter allegedlywritten by the deceased around the time of herdeath to her parents

The court observed that the incidentsnarrated by the relatives had taken place muchbefore the deceaseds death It said As theHigh Court itself indicated somewhatcontradictorily reliance on the instancestestified to by the witnesses would not beappropriate as the said incidents had takenplace much before the deceaseds death and

could not be treated as conduct which drovethe deceased to commit suicide

The High Court had also observed thatall those incidents had taken place much beforethe commission of the suicide by the deceasedand therefore they cannot be treated as theimmediate cause of provocation for thedeceased to take the extreme step

As regards the reliance placed on letterthe bench agreed with the accused contentionthat the letter has not been proved to havebeen written by the deceased and issurrounded by suspicious circumstances Thefact that the deceased had never written anyother letter to her family after her marriage buthad rather been in touch with her relativesthrough the telephone further strengthens thecase of the appellant the bench added

Setting aside the High Court judgmentthe bench restored the Trial Court order ofacquittal

SC of INDIA

HC suggests to exclude consensual sex withgirl aged above 16 from rigours of POCSO Act

Apr 26 2019

Redefine child exclude consensual sexafter the age of 16 from POCSO Madras HCMore liberal provision can be introduced in theAct itself in order to distinguish the cases ofteenage relationship after 16 years from thecases of sexual assault on children below 16years

The Madras High Court has suggested toredefine the definition of Child under Section2(d) of the POCSO Act as a person below 16

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years of age instead of 18 years so that anyconsensual sex after the age of 16 or bodilycontact or allied acts can be excluded from therigorous provisions of the POCSO Act

The Judge took note of a report thatmajority of cases involving minor girls are dueto relationship between adolescent boys andgirls Though under Section 2(d) of the ActChild is defined as a person below the age of18 years and in case of any love affair betweena girl and a boy where the girl happened to be16 or 17 years old either in the school final orentering the college the relationship invariablyassumes the penal character by subjecting theboy to the rigours of POCSO Act the courtsaid The judge further observed When thegirl below 18 years is involved in a relationshipwith the teen age boy or little over the teenage it is always a question mark as to how suchrelationship could be defined though suchrelationship would be the result of mutualinnocence and biological attraction Suchrelationship cannot be construed as anunnatural one or alien to between relationshipof opposite sexes But in such cases where theage of the girl is below 18 years even thoughshe was capable of giving consent forrelationship being mentally maturedunfortunately the provisions of the POCSO Actget attracted if such relationship transcendsbeyond platonic limits attracting strong arm oflaw sanctioned by the provisions of POCSOAct catching up with the so called offender ofsexual assault warranting a severeimprisonment of 710 years

The court said that more liberalprovision can be introduced in the Act itself inorder to distinguish the cases of teen agerelationship after 16 years from the cases ofsexual assault on children below 16 years

The Act can be amended to the effectthat the age of the offender ought not to bemore than five years or so than the consensualvictim girl of 16 years or more So that theimpressionable age of the victim girl cannot betaken advantage of by a person who is mucholder and crossed the age of presumableinfatuation or innocence

The Judge further said that more thantreating such growing incidence of sexualassault on women and children as a legal issuedealing with the offenders of sexual assault byresorting to most deterrent provisions of Penallaws the cause for such perverse and wickedbehaviour among some men who wereotherwise normal in their disposition need tobe examined and studied

The Society must collectively introspectwhat is it that drives some men to unleash theirlibidinous rage on hapless children and womenof all age The cause for such abominabledeviant conduct on the part of the perpetratorsof sexual crime on children and women isperhaps became of access to uncensoredpornographic and erotic materials that areavailable on the internet 24 X 7 Access to suchprovocative and lewd sites lead to criminalsensuality that drives the perpetrators tocommit such appalling crimes on children andwomen in complete depravity When mindsare filled with lust smouldering all the time bywatching pornographic site of all kinds on thehandset or otherwise such crimes are thenatural result of the depraved minds

The judge also suggested constituting ahigh level committee comprising persons ofeminence from various walks of life like Socialauditor psychologists Social Scientist etc toinvestigate and study the malady afflicting theSociety

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HC of MADRAS

Divorced wife cannot file application underDomestic Violence Act application filed underSs 12 and 18 rejected in absence of ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo

Apr 18 2019

The High Court refused to interfere withan order of the Judicial Magistrate asconfirmed by the Sessions Judge whereby theapplication filed by the applicant under Section12 and 18 of the Protection of Women fromDomestic Violence Act 2005 was dismissed

The applicant married to the respondentin 1999 However a decree of divorce underSection 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 hadbeen passed by the family court in 2008 at theinstance of the husband The application underthe DV Act was filed by the applicant in 2009ie subsequent to the grant of divorce Therespondent resisted the application on theground that there was no ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo between them and therefore anyapplication under DV Act was not maintainableThe application was rejected by the JudicialMagistrate as well as the Sessions JudgeAggrieved thereby the applicant filed thepresent revision application

After perusing a conspectus of decisionsof the Supreme Court as well as High Courtsthe Court came to the conclusion that no reliefcould be granted to the applicant It wasobserved ldquoIn the present case divorce wasgranted by the family Court vide order dated30-06- 2008 Application under the DV Actwas filed in the year 2009 At the time of filingof application under the DV Act the applicantwas not the wife There was no domestic

relationship between them Hence orderspassed by the learned JMFC Nagpur andmaintained by Additional Sessions JudgeNagpur in Criminal Appeal No 235 of 2015 areperfectly legal and correctrdquo In such view of thematter the revision application was dismissed

HC of Maharastra

Transwoman a Bride under Hindu MarriageAct

Apr 22 2019

The marriage between a cisgender manand a transgender woman on Monday receivedthe blessing of the Madras High Court in amanner of speaking Sitting at the MaduraiBench Justice GR Swaminathan observed ldquoAmarriage solemnized between a male and atranswoman both professing Hindu religion isa valid marriage in terms of Section 5 of theHindu Marriage Act 1955 and the Registrar ofMarriages is bound to register the same

By holding so this Court is not breakingany new ground It is merely stating theobvious Sometimes to see the obvious oneneeds not only physical vision in the eye butalso love in the heartrdquo

The Court had been moved byArunkumar and Srija after the state authoritiesrefused to register their October 2018marriage In this case Srija was a transgenderwoman While she had been born intersex shehad identified herself as a woman which wasalso reflected in her state Ids

The government authorities took thestance that the marriage between Arunkumarand Srija could not be recognised as Srija is atransgender person This was interpreted by

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the authorities to mean the Srija is not awoman

Justice Swaminathan howeverdisagreed emphatically particularly in view ofthe Supreme Courtrsquos 2014 NALSA judgmentwhich had recognised the self-identificationrights of transgender persons He states in hisjudgment

ldquoI am unable to agree with the stand ofthe learned Government Advocate hellip As rightlypointed out by the learned counsel appearingfor the writ petitioner the issue on hand is nolonger res integra In the decision reported in(2014) 5 SCC 438 (National Legal ServicesAuthority vs Union of India) the HonrsquobleSupreme Court upheld the transgenderpersonsrsquo right to decide their self identifiedgender The central and State governmentswere directed to grant legal recognition of theirgender identity such as male female or thirdgenderhellip hellipWhen the right of the transgenderpersons to marry has been upheld by theHonrsquoble Supreme Court in the very nature ofthings they cannot be kept out of the purviewof the Hindu Marriage Act One can have a civilmarriage One can also have a sacramentalmarriagehelliprdquo

Sex and Gender are not the same

Recalling the principles affirmed in theNALSA judgment Justice Swaminathanproceeded to observe ldquoSex and gender are notone and the same A personrsquos sex is biologicallydetermined at the time of birth Not so in thecase of genderhellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Courtheld that Article 14 of the Constitution of Indiawhich affirms that the State shall not deny toldquoany personrdquo equality before the law or theequal protection of the laws within the territoryof India would apply to transgenders also

Transgender persons who are neithermalefemale fall within the expression lsquopersonrsquoand hence entitled to legal protection of laws inall spheres of State activity as enjoyed by anyother citizen of this country

Discrimination on the ground of sexualorientation or gender identity thereforeimpairs equality before law and equalprotection of law and violates Article 14 of theConstitution of India Article 19(1)(a) and Article21 were expansively interpreted so as toencompass onersquos gender identity alsordquo

It was noted that the NALSA judgmentwas also cited with approval in the Right toPrivacy case as well as Navtej Joharrsquos caseconcerning the decriminalisation ofhomosexuality in India

Coming to the instant case the Courtpointed out that after Srija identified herself asa woman the state does not have the power todeny her of that identity

ldquoIn the case on hand the secondpetitioner herein has chosen to express hergender identity as that of a woman As held bythe Honrsquoble Supreme Court this falls within thedomain of her personal autonomy and involvesher right to privacy and dignity It is not for theState authorities to question this selfdeterminationrdquo

ldquoBriderdquo under Hindu Marriage Actincludes transwomen

The Court went on to reject the Statersquoscontention that a transgender woman couldnot be viewed as a ldquoBriderdquo under the HinduMarriage Act

ldquoThe expression ldquobriderdquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955cannot have a static or immutable meaning As

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 5

noted in Justice GPSinghrsquos Principles ofStatutory Interpretation the court is free toapply the current meaning of a statute topresent day conditions A statute must beinterpreted in the light of the legal system as itexists todayhellip hellip Seen in the light of the marchof law the expression ldquobridersquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 willhave to include within its meaning not only awoman but also a transwoman It would alsoinclude an intersex persontransgender personwho identifies herself as a woman The onlyconsideration is how the person perceivesherselfrdquo

Transpersonrsquos right to marry has beenrecognised by the Supreme Court

The Court further pointed out that theSupreme Court has specifically recognised theright of marriage for transgender persons inparagraph 119 of the NALSA judgmentMoreover the right of persons to marry aperson of choice has also been specificallyendorsed in Hadiyarsquos case the High Courtjudgment highlights

The Court proceeded to remark ldquoFortoo long the transgender personsintersexpeople have been languishing in the marginsThe Constitution of India is an enablingdocument It is inviting them to join themainstream Therefore it would be absurd todeny the transgenders the benefit of the socialinstitutions already in place in themainstreamldquo

In view of these observations the Courtallowed the writ petition and directed the stateto register the marriage of the petitioners

Further the judge also pointed out thatthe marriage in the case was an inter-castemarriage Therefore the petitioners were alsoeligible for benefits provided by the state to

encourage inter-caste marriages under theDrAmbedkar Scheme for Social Integrationthrough Inter- Caste Marriages

Issue GO against forced SexReassignment Surgery (SRS) on Intersexchildren

While dealing with the case JusticeSwaminathan also took note that the SupremeCourtrsquos mandate against forced surgicalprocedures on intersex children was beingobserved more in breach than compliance Asobserved in his judgment rdquo [intersex children]must be given their time and space to find theirtrue gender identity But the parents make theinfant undergo sex reassignment surgery (SRS)hellip hellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Court in NALSA casecategorically stated that no one shall be forcedto undergo medical procedures including SRSsterilisation or hormonal therapy as arequirement for legal recognition of theirgender identity But what is happening inreality is more in breach of this judgementgiven by the Honrsquoble Supreme Courtldquo

He went on to observe that a particulargender cannot be forcibly thrust on non-binarypersons

ldquoA person who is in the Third Category isentitled to remain beyond the duality ofmalefemale or opt to identify oneself as maleor female It is entirely the choice of theindividual concernedrdquo

In view of the same the Court has nowdirected the Tamil Nadu government to issue aGovernment Order to uphold the NALSAjudgment and to ldquoeffectively ban sexreassignment surgeries on intersex infants andchildrenrdquo The government is expected tosubmit a compliance report regarding thissame within eight weeks

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The Court also noted that the stateshould undertake awareness programmes tode-stigmatise the birth of intersex children

ldquoThe parents must be encouraged to feelthat the birth of an intersex child is not a matterof embarrassment or shame It lies in the handsof the Government to launch a sustainedawareness campaign in this regardldquo

In this backdrop the Court alsoexpressed its appreciation for recent Tamilfilms that involved transgender characters

ldquoRecent Tamil Films such as ldquoPeranburdquowhere Mamooty marries a transgender andldquoSuper Deluxrdquo where Vijay Sethupathi plays therole of a transgender and is also a parent to thechild he has fathered are encouraging trendsrdquoremarked Justice Swaminathan

Before parting with the matter JusticeSwaminathan also expressed gratitude tointersex activist Gopi Shankar from Madurainoting that his work has had been a humblingand enlightening experience for the Court

Madras HC

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Crime News MeToo movement Police closes Nana Patekarrsquos sexualharassment case filed by Tanushree Dutta

June 13 2019

After Tanushree Dutta rubbished reports of police givinga clean chit to actor Nana Patekar on the sexualharassment case filed by actress it is now official that theNana Patekar sexual harassment case has been closed bythe police This marks the first official MeToo case thathas reportedly collapsed

According to reports in Times Now the sexualharassment case filed against actor Nana Patekar wasclosed by cops on grounds that there was no lsquono primafacie case against the actor

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

June 12 2019

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

आशिक क साथ मिलकर पतनी न परी रात पतित को पीटा सबह उतारा ौत क घाट

June 08 2019

फिललौर (भाखड़ी) फिललौर क गाव अकालपर म पतनी न परमी सग मिमल कर पहल पफि की बरी रह स मारपीट की और उसक बाद उस मौ क घाट

उार दिदया पराप जानकारी अनसार पलिलस को दी लिकाय म मक खपाल सिसह (40) क भाई कलव सिसह और गरमल सिसह न बाया फिक

उसक भाई की ादी 15 वरष2 पहल सखविवदर कौर क साथ हई जिजसक दो बचच ह उनहोन बाया फिक 4 वरष2 पहल उनका भाई काम क सबध म साउदी अरब चला गया

मक क भाईयो न बाया फिक ग आधी रा को उनह पा चला फिक उसक भाई क घर स रोन और चीखन लिचललान की आवाज बाहर क आ रही ह

वह दोनो भाई बबस अपन घर म पड़ रह कयोफिक वह जब भी उनक झगड़ म घर जा ो उनकी भाभी उनको ही बरा भला बोल कर वाफिपस भज दी थीपरा 8 बज उनक चाचा न उनह ोन कर कहा फिक खपाल क साथ उसक

घर म काी मारपीट हो रही ह पड़ोसी न भी उनह रोकना चाहा लफिकन

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उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 9

Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 12

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

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provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

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Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

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Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

Law NewsWitness can be called interested only when heshederives some benefit seeing an accused person punished

April 26 2019

A witness cannot be said to be an interestedwitness merely by virtue of being a relative of the victim

The witness may be called interested only whenhe or she derives some benefit from the result of alitigation in the decree in a civil case or in seeing anaccused person punished the Supreme Court observedwhile rejecting a defence contention in a criminal appeal

Defense had raised an argument that thetestimonies of interested witnesses who are relatives ofthe deceased should not have been relied upon by theTrial Court Sadyappan was convicted by the Trial Court(which was later upheld by the High Court) for the murderof his neighbour Selvam Thangaraj

In the appeal filed by the accused the court thattheir testimonies has stood the rigour of cross-examination and though they may be related but theycould not be labelled as interested witnesses It saidCriminal law jurisprudence makes a clear distinctionbetween a related and interested witness A witnesscannot be said to be an interested witness merely byvirtue of being a relative of the victim The witness maybe called interested only when he or she derives somebenefit from the result of a litigation in the decree in acivil case or in seeing an accused person punished

Referring to their testimonies which corroboratedthe prosecution version the bench dismissed the appealand observed Though they are related to each other andto the deceased as well their evidence cannot bediscarded by simply labelling them as interestedwitnesses After thoroughly scrutinizing their evidencewe do not find any direct or indirect interest of thesewitnesses to get the accused punished by falselyimplicating him so as to meet out any vested interest

Some witnesses in this case had stated that as thedeceased did not turn up after leaving home at 11 pm on

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the previous night they went in search of himand found his dead body in Vaalaithope Oneof them who is a nephew of the deceased alsodeposed in his statement that when he went toSirumugai Police Station he saw the accusedpersons there and witnessed their confessionalstatements recorded by the policeThe wife ofthe deceased had stated that the deceased waslast seen together with the accused

SC of INDIA

Sec 498A amp 306 IPC Incidents which happenedmuch before wifes death cant be treated asconduct which drove her to suicide

Apr 26 2019

The Supreme Court has observed thatthe incidents which had taken place betweenhusband and wife much before latters death bysuicide could not be treated as the conductwhich drove her to commit suicide

Jagdishraj Khatta was convicted by theHimachal Pradesh High Court under Sections498A and 306 of the Indian Penal Code byoverturning the acquittal recorded by the TrialCourt Khatta was convicted by the High Courtrelying on (1) the testimonies of the relatives ofthe deceased that the accused husband actedin a cruel manner against the deceased in frontof her relatives and (2) the letter allegedlywritten by the deceased around the time of herdeath to her parents

The court observed that the incidentsnarrated by the relatives had taken place muchbefore the deceaseds death It said As theHigh Court itself indicated somewhatcontradictorily reliance on the instancestestified to by the witnesses would not beappropriate as the said incidents had takenplace much before the deceaseds death and

could not be treated as conduct which drovethe deceased to commit suicide

The High Court had also observed thatall those incidents had taken place much beforethe commission of the suicide by the deceasedand therefore they cannot be treated as theimmediate cause of provocation for thedeceased to take the extreme step

As regards the reliance placed on letterthe bench agreed with the accused contentionthat the letter has not been proved to havebeen written by the deceased and issurrounded by suspicious circumstances Thefact that the deceased had never written anyother letter to her family after her marriage buthad rather been in touch with her relativesthrough the telephone further strengthens thecase of the appellant the bench added

Setting aside the High Court judgmentthe bench restored the Trial Court order ofacquittal

SC of INDIA

HC suggests to exclude consensual sex withgirl aged above 16 from rigours of POCSO Act

Apr 26 2019

Redefine child exclude consensual sexafter the age of 16 from POCSO Madras HCMore liberal provision can be introduced in theAct itself in order to distinguish the cases ofteenage relationship after 16 years from thecases of sexual assault on children below 16years

The Madras High Court has suggested toredefine the definition of Child under Section2(d) of the POCSO Act as a person below 16

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years of age instead of 18 years so that anyconsensual sex after the age of 16 or bodilycontact or allied acts can be excluded from therigorous provisions of the POCSO Act

The Judge took note of a report thatmajority of cases involving minor girls are dueto relationship between adolescent boys andgirls Though under Section 2(d) of the ActChild is defined as a person below the age of18 years and in case of any love affair betweena girl and a boy where the girl happened to be16 or 17 years old either in the school final orentering the college the relationship invariablyassumes the penal character by subjecting theboy to the rigours of POCSO Act the courtsaid The judge further observed When thegirl below 18 years is involved in a relationshipwith the teen age boy or little over the teenage it is always a question mark as to how suchrelationship could be defined though suchrelationship would be the result of mutualinnocence and biological attraction Suchrelationship cannot be construed as anunnatural one or alien to between relationshipof opposite sexes But in such cases where theage of the girl is below 18 years even thoughshe was capable of giving consent forrelationship being mentally maturedunfortunately the provisions of the POCSO Actget attracted if such relationship transcendsbeyond platonic limits attracting strong arm oflaw sanctioned by the provisions of POCSOAct catching up with the so called offender ofsexual assault warranting a severeimprisonment of 710 years

The court said that more liberalprovision can be introduced in the Act itself inorder to distinguish the cases of teen agerelationship after 16 years from the cases ofsexual assault on children below 16 years

The Act can be amended to the effectthat the age of the offender ought not to bemore than five years or so than the consensualvictim girl of 16 years or more So that theimpressionable age of the victim girl cannot betaken advantage of by a person who is mucholder and crossed the age of presumableinfatuation or innocence

The Judge further said that more thantreating such growing incidence of sexualassault on women and children as a legal issuedealing with the offenders of sexual assault byresorting to most deterrent provisions of Penallaws the cause for such perverse and wickedbehaviour among some men who wereotherwise normal in their disposition need tobe examined and studied

The Society must collectively introspectwhat is it that drives some men to unleash theirlibidinous rage on hapless children and womenof all age The cause for such abominabledeviant conduct on the part of the perpetratorsof sexual crime on children and women isperhaps became of access to uncensoredpornographic and erotic materials that areavailable on the internet 24 X 7 Access to suchprovocative and lewd sites lead to criminalsensuality that drives the perpetrators tocommit such appalling crimes on children andwomen in complete depravity When mindsare filled with lust smouldering all the time bywatching pornographic site of all kinds on thehandset or otherwise such crimes are thenatural result of the depraved minds

The judge also suggested constituting ahigh level committee comprising persons ofeminence from various walks of life like Socialauditor psychologists Social Scientist etc toinvestigate and study the malady afflicting theSociety

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HC of MADRAS

Divorced wife cannot file application underDomestic Violence Act application filed underSs 12 and 18 rejected in absence of ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo

Apr 18 2019

The High Court refused to interfere withan order of the Judicial Magistrate asconfirmed by the Sessions Judge whereby theapplication filed by the applicant under Section12 and 18 of the Protection of Women fromDomestic Violence Act 2005 was dismissed

The applicant married to the respondentin 1999 However a decree of divorce underSection 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 hadbeen passed by the family court in 2008 at theinstance of the husband The application underthe DV Act was filed by the applicant in 2009ie subsequent to the grant of divorce Therespondent resisted the application on theground that there was no ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo between them and therefore anyapplication under DV Act was not maintainableThe application was rejected by the JudicialMagistrate as well as the Sessions JudgeAggrieved thereby the applicant filed thepresent revision application

After perusing a conspectus of decisionsof the Supreme Court as well as High Courtsthe Court came to the conclusion that no reliefcould be granted to the applicant It wasobserved ldquoIn the present case divorce wasgranted by the family Court vide order dated30-06- 2008 Application under the DV Actwas filed in the year 2009 At the time of filingof application under the DV Act the applicantwas not the wife There was no domestic

relationship between them Hence orderspassed by the learned JMFC Nagpur andmaintained by Additional Sessions JudgeNagpur in Criminal Appeal No 235 of 2015 areperfectly legal and correctrdquo In such view of thematter the revision application was dismissed

HC of Maharastra

Transwoman a Bride under Hindu MarriageAct

Apr 22 2019

The marriage between a cisgender manand a transgender woman on Monday receivedthe blessing of the Madras High Court in amanner of speaking Sitting at the MaduraiBench Justice GR Swaminathan observed ldquoAmarriage solemnized between a male and atranswoman both professing Hindu religion isa valid marriage in terms of Section 5 of theHindu Marriage Act 1955 and the Registrar ofMarriages is bound to register the same

By holding so this Court is not breakingany new ground It is merely stating theobvious Sometimes to see the obvious oneneeds not only physical vision in the eye butalso love in the heartrdquo

The Court had been moved byArunkumar and Srija after the state authoritiesrefused to register their October 2018marriage In this case Srija was a transgenderwoman While she had been born intersex shehad identified herself as a woman which wasalso reflected in her state Ids

The government authorities took thestance that the marriage between Arunkumarand Srija could not be recognised as Srija is atransgender person This was interpreted by

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the authorities to mean the Srija is not awoman

Justice Swaminathan howeverdisagreed emphatically particularly in view ofthe Supreme Courtrsquos 2014 NALSA judgmentwhich had recognised the self-identificationrights of transgender persons He states in hisjudgment

ldquoI am unable to agree with the stand ofthe learned Government Advocate hellip As rightlypointed out by the learned counsel appearingfor the writ petitioner the issue on hand is nolonger res integra In the decision reported in(2014) 5 SCC 438 (National Legal ServicesAuthority vs Union of India) the HonrsquobleSupreme Court upheld the transgenderpersonsrsquo right to decide their self identifiedgender The central and State governmentswere directed to grant legal recognition of theirgender identity such as male female or thirdgenderhellip hellipWhen the right of the transgenderpersons to marry has been upheld by theHonrsquoble Supreme Court in the very nature ofthings they cannot be kept out of the purviewof the Hindu Marriage Act One can have a civilmarriage One can also have a sacramentalmarriagehelliprdquo

Sex and Gender are not the same

Recalling the principles affirmed in theNALSA judgment Justice Swaminathanproceeded to observe ldquoSex and gender are notone and the same A personrsquos sex is biologicallydetermined at the time of birth Not so in thecase of genderhellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Courtheld that Article 14 of the Constitution of Indiawhich affirms that the State shall not deny toldquoany personrdquo equality before the law or theequal protection of the laws within the territoryof India would apply to transgenders also

Transgender persons who are neithermalefemale fall within the expression lsquopersonrsquoand hence entitled to legal protection of laws inall spheres of State activity as enjoyed by anyother citizen of this country

Discrimination on the ground of sexualorientation or gender identity thereforeimpairs equality before law and equalprotection of law and violates Article 14 of theConstitution of India Article 19(1)(a) and Article21 were expansively interpreted so as toencompass onersquos gender identity alsordquo

It was noted that the NALSA judgmentwas also cited with approval in the Right toPrivacy case as well as Navtej Joharrsquos caseconcerning the decriminalisation ofhomosexuality in India

Coming to the instant case the Courtpointed out that after Srija identified herself asa woman the state does not have the power todeny her of that identity

ldquoIn the case on hand the secondpetitioner herein has chosen to express hergender identity as that of a woman As held bythe Honrsquoble Supreme Court this falls within thedomain of her personal autonomy and involvesher right to privacy and dignity It is not for theState authorities to question this selfdeterminationrdquo

ldquoBriderdquo under Hindu Marriage Actincludes transwomen

The Court went on to reject the Statersquoscontention that a transgender woman couldnot be viewed as a ldquoBriderdquo under the HinduMarriage Act

ldquoThe expression ldquobriderdquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955cannot have a static or immutable meaning As

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noted in Justice GPSinghrsquos Principles ofStatutory Interpretation the court is free toapply the current meaning of a statute topresent day conditions A statute must beinterpreted in the light of the legal system as itexists todayhellip hellip Seen in the light of the marchof law the expression ldquobridersquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 willhave to include within its meaning not only awoman but also a transwoman It would alsoinclude an intersex persontransgender personwho identifies herself as a woman The onlyconsideration is how the person perceivesherselfrdquo

Transpersonrsquos right to marry has beenrecognised by the Supreme Court

The Court further pointed out that theSupreme Court has specifically recognised theright of marriage for transgender persons inparagraph 119 of the NALSA judgmentMoreover the right of persons to marry aperson of choice has also been specificallyendorsed in Hadiyarsquos case the High Courtjudgment highlights

The Court proceeded to remark ldquoFortoo long the transgender personsintersexpeople have been languishing in the marginsThe Constitution of India is an enablingdocument It is inviting them to join themainstream Therefore it would be absurd todeny the transgenders the benefit of the socialinstitutions already in place in themainstreamldquo

In view of these observations the Courtallowed the writ petition and directed the stateto register the marriage of the petitioners

Further the judge also pointed out thatthe marriage in the case was an inter-castemarriage Therefore the petitioners were alsoeligible for benefits provided by the state to

encourage inter-caste marriages under theDrAmbedkar Scheme for Social Integrationthrough Inter- Caste Marriages

Issue GO against forced SexReassignment Surgery (SRS) on Intersexchildren

While dealing with the case JusticeSwaminathan also took note that the SupremeCourtrsquos mandate against forced surgicalprocedures on intersex children was beingobserved more in breach than compliance Asobserved in his judgment rdquo [intersex children]must be given their time and space to find theirtrue gender identity But the parents make theinfant undergo sex reassignment surgery (SRS)hellip hellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Court in NALSA casecategorically stated that no one shall be forcedto undergo medical procedures including SRSsterilisation or hormonal therapy as arequirement for legal recognition of theirgender identity But what is happening inreality is more in breach of this judgementgiven by the Honrsquoble Supreme Courtldquo

He went on to observe that a particulargender cannot be forcibly thrust on non-binarypersons

ldquoA person who is in the Third Category isentitled to remain beyond the duality ofmalefemale or opt to identify oneself as maleor female It is entirely the choice of theindividual concernedrdquo

In view of the same the Court has nowdirected the Tamil Nadu government to issue aGovernment Order to uphold the NALSAjudgment and to ldquoeffectively ban sexreassignment surgeries on intersex infants andchildrenrdquo The government is expected tosubmit a compliance report regarding thissame within eight weeks

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The Court also noted that the stateshould undertake awareness programmes tode-stigmatise the birth of intersex children

ldquoThe parents must be encouraged to feelthat the birth of an intersex child is not a matterof embarrassment or shame It lies in the handsof the Government to launch a sustainedawareness campaign in this regardldquo

In this backdrop the Court alsoexpressed its appreciation for recent Tamilfilms that involved transgender characters

ldquoRecent Tamil Films such as ldquoPeranburdquowhere Mamooty marries a transgender andldquoSuper Deluxrdquo where Vijay Sethupathi plays therole of a transgender and is also a parent to thechild he has fathered are encouraging trendsrdquoremarked Justice Swaminathan

Before parting with the matter JusticeSwaminathan also expressed gratitude tointersex activist Gopi Shankar from Madurainoting that his work has had been a humblingand enlightening experience for the Court

Madras HC

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Crime News MeToo movement Police closes Nana Patekarrsquos sexualharassment case filed by Tanushree Dutta

June 13 2019

After Tanushree Dutta rubbished reports of police givinga clean chit to actor Nana Patekar on the sexualharassment case filed by actress it is now official that theNana Patekar sexual harassment case has been closed bythe police This marks the first official MeToo case thathas reportedly collapsed

According to reports in Times Now the sexualharassment case filed against actor Nana Patekar wasclosed by cops on grounds that there was no lsquono primafacie case against the actor

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

June 12 2019

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

आशिक क साथ मिलकर पतनी न परी रात पतित को पीटा सबह उतारा ौत क घाट

June 08 2019

फिललौर (भाखड़ी) फिललौर क गाव अकालपर म पतनी न परमी सग मिमल कर पहल पफि की बरी रह स मारपीट की और उसक बाद उस मौ क घाट

उार दिदया पराप जानकारी अनसार पलिलस को दी लिकाय म मक खपाल सिसह (40) क भाई कलव सिसह और गरमल सिसह न बाया फिक

उसक भाई की ादी 15 वरष2 पहल सखविवदर कौर क साथ हई जिजसक दो बचच ह उनहोन बाया फिक 4 वरष2 पहल उनका भाई काम क सबध म साउदी अरब चला गया

मक क भाईयो न बाया फिक ग आधी रा को उनह पा चला फिक उसक भाई क घर स रोन और चीखन लिचललान की आवाज बाहर क आ रही ह

वह दोनो भाई बबस अपन घर म पड़ रह कयोफिक वह जब भी उनक झगड़ म घर जा ो उनकी भाभी उनको ही बरा भला बोल कर वाफिपस भज दी थीपरा 8 बज उनक चाचा न उनह ोन कर कहा फिक खपाल क साथ उसक

घर म काी मारपीट हो रही ह पड़ोसी न भी उनह रोकना चाहा लफिकन

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उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 15

provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 16

Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 19

समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 23

MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 28

A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 32

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

the previous night they went in search of himand found his dead body in Vaalaithope Oneof them who is a nephew of the deceased alsodeposed in his statement that when he went toSirumugai Police Station he saw the accusedpersons there and witnessed their confessionalstatements recorded by the policeThe wife ofthe deceased had stated that the deceased waslast seen together with the accused

SC of INDIA

Sec 498A amp 306 IPC Incidents which happenedmuch before wifes death cant be treated asconduct which drove her to suicide

Apr 26 2019

The Supreme Court has observed thatthe incidents which had taken place betweenhusband and wife much before latters death bysuicide could not be treated as the conductwhich drove her to commit suicide

Jagdishraj Khatta was convicted by theHimachal Pradesh High Court under Sections498A and 306 of the Indian Penal Code byoverturning the acquittal recorded by the TrialCourt Khatta was convicted by the High Courtrelying on (1) the testimonies of the relatives ofthe deceased that the accused husband actedin a cruel manner against the deceased in frontof her relatives and (2) the letter allegedlywritten by the deceased around the time of herdeath to her parents

The court observed that the incidentsnarrated by the relatives had taken place muchbefore the deceaseds death It said As theHigh Court itself indicated somewhatcontradictorily reliance on the instancestestified to by the witnesses would not beappropriate as the said incidents had takenplace much before the deceaseds death and

could not be treated as conduct which drovethe deceased to commit suicide

The High Court had also observed thatall those incidents had taken place much beforethe commission of the suicide by the deceasedand therefore they cannot be treated as theimmediate cause of provocation for thedeceased to take the extreme step

As regards the reliance placed on letterthe bench agreed with the accused contentionthat the letter has not been proved to havebeen written by the deceased and issurrounded by suspicious circumstances Thefact that the deceased had never written anyother letter to her family after her marriage buthad rather been in touch with her relativesthrough the telephone further strengthens thecase of the appellant the bench added

Setting aside the High Court judgmentthe bench restored the Trial Court order ofacquittal

SC of INDIA

HC suggests to exclude consensual sex withgirl aged above 16 from rigours of POCSO Act

Apr 26 2019

Redefine child exclude consensual sexafter the age of 16 from POCSO Madras HCMore liberal provision can be introduced in theAct itself in order to distinguish the cases ofteenage relationship after 16 years from thecases of sexual assault on children below 16years

The Madras High Court has suggested toredefine the definition of Child under Section2(d) of the POCSO Act as a person below 16

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years of age instead of 18 years so that anyconsensual sex after the age of 16 or bodilycontact or allied acts can be excluded from therigorous provisions of the POCSO Act

The Judge took note of a report thatmajority of cases involving minor girls are dueto relationship between adolescent boys andgirls Though under Section 2(d) of the ActChild is defined as a person below the age of18 years and in case of any love affair betweena girl and a boy where the girl happened to be16 or 17 years old either in the school final orentering the college the relationship invariablyassumes the penal character by subjecting theboy to the rigours of POCSO Act the courtsaid The judge further observed When thegirl below 18 years is involved in a relationshipwith the teen age boy or little over the teenage it is always a question mark as to how suchrelationship could be defined though suchrelationship would be the result of mutualinnocence and biological attraction Suchrelationship cannot be construed as anunnatural one or alien to between relationshipof opposite sexes But in such cases where theage of the girl is below 18 years even thoughshe was capable of giving consent forrelationship being mentally maturedunfortunately the provisions of the POCSO Actget attracted if such relationship transcendsbeyond platonic limits attracting strong arm oflaw sanctioned by the provisions of POCSOAct catching up with the so called offender ofsexual assault warranting a severeimprisonment of 710 years

The court said that more liberalprovision can be introduced in the Act itself inorder to distinguish the cases of teen agerelationship after 16 years from the cases ofsexual assault on children below 16 years

The Act can be amended to the effectthat the age of the offender ought not to bemore than five years or so than the consensualvictim girl of 16 years or more So that theimpressionable age of the victim girl cannot betaken advantage of by a person who is mucholder and crossed the age of presumableinfatuation or innocence

The Judge further said that more thantreating such growing incidence of sexualassault on women and children as a legal issuedealing with the offenders of sexual assault byresorting to most deterrent provisions of Penallaws the cause for such perverse and wickedbehaviour among some men who wereotherwise normal in their disposition need tobe examined and studied

The Society must collectively introspectwhat is it that drives some men to unleash theirlibidinous rage on hapless children and womenof all age The cause for such abominabledeviant conduct on the part of the perpetratorsof sexual crime on children and women isperhaps became of access to uncensoredpornographic and erotic materials that areavailable on the internet 24 X 7 Access to suchprovocative and lewd sites lead to criminalsensuality that drives the perpetrators tocommit such appalling crimes on children andwomen in complete depravity When mindsare filled with lust smouldering all the time bywatching pornographic site of all kinds on thehandset or otherwise such crimes are thenatural result of the depraved minds

The judge also suggested constituting ahigh level committee comprising persons ofeminence from various walks of life like Socialauditor psychologists Social Scientist etc toinvestigate and study the malady afflicting theSociety

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 3

HC of MADRAS

Divorced wife cannot file application underDomestic Violence Act application filed underSs 12 and 18 rejected in absence of ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo

Apr 18 2019

The High Court refused to interfere withan order of the Judicial Magistrate asconfirmed by the Sessions Judge whereby theapplication filed by the applicant under Section12 and 18 of the Protection of Women fromDomestic Violence Act 2005 was dismissed

The applicant married to the respondentin 1999 However a decree of divorce underSection 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 hadbeen passed by the family court in 2008 at theinstance of the husband The application underthe DV Act was filed by the applicant in 2009ie subsequent to the grant of divorce Therespondent resisted the application on theground that there was no ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo between them and therefore anyapplication under DV Act was not maintainableThe application was rejected by the JudicialMagistrate as well as the Sessions JudgeAggrieved thereby the applicant filed thepresent revision application

After perusing a conspectus of decisionsof the Supreme Court as well as High Courtsthe Court came to the conclusion that no reliefcould be granted to the applicant It wasobserved ldquoIn the present case divorce wasgranted by the family Court vide order dated30-06- 2008 Application under the DV Actwas filed in the year 2009 At the time of filingof application under the DV Act the applicantwas not the wife There was no domestic

relationship between them Hence orderspassed by the learned JMFC Nagpur andmaintained by Additional Sessions JudgeNagpur in Criminal Appeal No 235 of 2015 areperfectly legal and correctrdquo In such view of thematter the revision application was dismissed

HC of Maharastra

Transwoman a Bride under Hindu MarriageAct

Apr 22 2019

The marriage between a cisgender manand a transgender woman on Monday receivedthe blessing of the Madras High Court in amanner of speaking Sitting at the MaduraiBench Justice GR Swaminathan observed ldquoAmarriage solemnized between a male and atranswoman both professing Hindu religion isa valid marriage in terms of Section 5 of theHindu Marriage Act 1955 and the Registrar ofMarriages is bound to register the same

By holding so this Court is not breakingany new ground It is merely stating theobvious Sometimes to see the obvious oneneeds not only physical vision in the eye butalso love in the heartrdquo

The Court had been moved byArunkumar and Srija after the state authoritiesrefused to register their October 2018marriage In this case Srija was a transgenderwoman While she had been born intersex shehad identified herself as a woman which wasalso reflected in her state Ids

The government authorities took thestance that the marriage between Arunkumarand Srija could not be recognised as Srija is atransgender person This was interpreted by

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the authorities to mean the Srija is not awoman

Justice Swaminathan howeverdisagreed emphatically particularly in view ofthe Supreme Courtrsquos 2014 NALSA judgmentwhich had recognised the self-identificationrights of transgender persons He states in hisjudgment

ldquoI am unable to agree with the stand ofthe learned Government Advocate hellip As rightlypointed out by the learned counsel appearingfor the writ petitioner the issue on hand is nolonger res integra In the decision reported in(2014) 5 SCC 438 (National Legal ServicesAuthority vs Union of India) the HonrsquobleSupreme Court upheld the transgenderpersonsrsquo right to decide their self identifiedgender The central and State governmentswere directed to grant legal recognition of theirgender identity such as male female or thirdgenderhellip hellipWhen the right of the transgenderpersons to marry has been upheld by theHonrsquoble Supreme Court in the very nature ofthings they cannot be kept out of the purviewof the Hindu Marriage Act One can have a civilmarriage One can also have a sacramentalmarriagehelliprdquo

Sex and Gender are not the same

Recalling the principles affirmed in theNALSA judgment Justice Swaminathanproceeded to observe ldquoSex and gender are notone and the same A personrsquos sex is biologicallydetermined at the time of birth Not so in thecase of genderhellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Courtheld that Article 14 of the Constitution of Indiawhich affirms that the State shall not deny toldquoany personrdquo equality before the law or theequal protection of the laws within the territoryof India would apply to transgenders also

Transgender persons who are neithermalefemale fall within the expression lsquopersonrsquoand hence entitled to legal protection of laws inall spheres of State activity as enjoyed by anyother citizen of this country

Discrimination on the ground of sexualorientation or gender identity thereforeimpairs equality before law and equalprotection of law and violates Article 14 of theConstitution of India Article 19(1)(a) and Article21 were expansively interpreted so as toencompass onersquos gender identity alsordquo

It was noted that the NALSA judgmentwas also cited with approval in the Right toPrivacy case as well as Navtej Joharrsquos caseconcerning the decriminalisation ofhomosexuality in India

Coming to the instant case the Courtpointed out that after Srija identified herself asa woman the state does not have the power todeny her of that identity

ldquoIn the case on hand the secondpetitioner herein has chosen to express hergender identity as that of a woman As held bythe Honrsquoble Supreme Court this falls within thedomain of her personal autonomy and involvesher right to privacy and dignity It is not for theState authorities to question this selfdeterminationrdquo

ldquoBriderdquo under Hindu Marriage Actincludes transwomen

The Court went on to reject the Statersquoscontention that a transgender woman couldnot be viewed as a ldquoBriderdquo under the HinduMarriage Act

ldquoThe expression ldquobriderdquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955cannot have a static or immutable meaning As

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noted in Justice GPSinghrsquos Principles ofStatutory Interpretation the court is free toapply the current meaning of a statute topresent day conditions A statute must beinterpreted in the light of the legal system as itexists todayhellip hellip Seen in the light of the marchof law the expression ldquobridersquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 willhave to include within its meaning not only awoman but also a transwoman It would alsoinclude an intersex persontransgender personwho identifies herself as a woman The onlyconsideration is how the person perceivesherselfrdquo

Transpersonrsquos right to marry has beenrecognised by the Supreme Court

The Court further pointed out that theSupreme Court has specifically recognised theright of marriage for transgender persons inparagraph 119 of the NALSA judgmentMoreover the right of persons to marry aperson of choice has also been specificallyendorsed in Hadiyarsquos case the High Courtjudgment highlights

The Court proceeded to remark ldquoFortoo long the transgender personsintersexpeople have been languishing in the marginsThe Constitution of India is an enablingdocument It is inviting them to join themainstream Therefore it would be absurd todeny the transgenders the benefit of the socialinstitutions already in place in themainstreamldquo

In view of these observations the Courtallowed the writ petition and directed the stateto register the marriage of the petitioners

Further the judge also pointed out thatthe marriage in the case was an inter-castemarriage Therefore the petitioners were alsoeligible for benefits provided by the state to

encourage inter-caste marriages under theDrAmbedkar Scheme for Social Integrationthrough Inter- Caste Marriages

Issue GO against forced SexReassignment Surgery (SRS) on Intersexchildren

While dealing with the case JusticeSwaminathan also took note that the SupremeCourtrsquos mandate against forced surgicalprocedures on intersex children was beingobserved more in breach than compliance Asobserved in his judgment rdquo [intersex children]must be given their time and space to find theirtrue gender identity But the parents make theinfant undergo sex reassignment surgery (SRS)hellip hellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Court in NALSA casecategorically stated that no one shall be forcedto undergo medical procedures including SRSsterilisation or hormonal therapy as arequirement for legal recognition of theirgender identity But what is happening inreality is more in breach of this judgementgiven by the Honrsquoble Supreme Courtldquo

He went on to observe that a particulargender cannot be forcibly thrust on non-binarypersons

ldquoA person who is in the Third Category isentitled to remain beyond the duality ofmalefemale or opt to identify oneself as maleor female It is entirely the choice of theindividual concernedrdquo

In view of the same the Court has nowdirected the Tamil Nadu government to issue aGovernment Order to uphold the NALSAjudgment and to ldquoeffectively ban sexreassignment surgeries on intersex infants andchildrenrdquo The government is expected tosubmit a compliance report regarding thissame within eight weeks

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The Court also noted that the stateshould undertake awareness programmes tode-stigmatise the birth of intersex children

ldquoThe parents must be encouraged to feelthat the birth of an intersex child is not a matterof embarrassment or shame It lies in the handsof the Government to launch a sustainedawareness campaign in this regardldquo

In this backdrop the Court alsoexpressed its appreciation for recent Tamilfilms that involved transgender characters

ldquoRecent Tamil Films such as ldquoPeranburdquowhere Mamooty marries a transgender andldquoSuper Deluxrdquo where Vijay Sethupathi plays therole of a transgender and is also a parent to thechild he has fathered are encouraging trendsrdquoremarked Justice Swaminathan

Before parting with the matter JusticeSwaminathan also expressed gratitude tointersex activist Gopi Shankar from Madurainoting that his work has had been a humblingand enlightening experience for the Court

Madras HC

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Crime News MeToo movement Police closes Nana Patekarrsquos sexualharassment case filed by Tanushree Dutta

June 13 2019

After Tanushree Dutta rubbished reports of police givinga clean chit to actor Nana Patekar on the sexualharassment case filed by actress it is now official that theNana Patekar sexual harassment case has been closed bythe police This marks the first official MeToo case thathas reportedly collapsed

According to reports in Times Now the sexualharassment case filed against actor Nana Patekar wasclosed by cops on grounds that there was no lsquono primafacie case against the actor

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

June 12 2019

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

आशिक क साथ मिलकर पतनी न परी रात पतित को पीटा सबह उतारा ौत क घाट

June 08 2019

फिललौर (भाखड़ी) फिललौर क गाव अकालपर म पतनी न परमी सग मिमल कर पहल पफि की बरी रह स मारपीट की और उसक बाद उस मौ क घाट

उार दिदया पराप जानकारी अनसार पलिलस को दी लिकाय म मक खपाल सिसह (40) क भाई कलव सिसह और गरमल सिसह न बाया फिक

उसक भाई की ादी 15 वरष2 पहल सखविवदर कौर क साथ हई जिजसक दो बचच ह उनहोन बाया फिक 4 वरष2 पहल उनका भाई काम क सबध म साउदी अरब चला गया

मक क भाईयो न बाया फिक ग आधी रा को उनह पा चला फिक उसक भाई क घर स रोन और चीखन लिचललान की आवाज बाहर क आ रही ह

वह दोनो भाई बबस अपन घर म पड़ रह कयोफिक वह जब भी उनक झगड़ म घर जा ो उनकी भाभी उनको ही बरा भला बोल कर वाफिपस भज दी थीपरा 8 बज उनक चाचा न उनह ोन कर कहा फिक खपाल क साथ उसक

घर म काी मारपीट हो रही ह पड़ोसी न भी उनह रोकना चाहा लफिकन

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उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 15

provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 16

Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

years of age instead of 18 years so that anyconsensual sex after the age of 16 or bodilycontact or allied acts can be excluded from therigorous provisions of the POCSO Act

The Judge took note of a report thatmajority of cases involving minor girls are dueto relationship between adolescent boys andgirls Though under Section 2(d) of the ActChild is defined as a person below the age of18 years and in case of any love affair betweena girl and a boy where the girl happened to be16 or 17 years old either in the school final orentering the college the relationship invariablyassumes the penal character by subjecting theboy to the rigours of POCSO Act the courtsaid The judge further observed When thegirl below 18 years is involved in a relationshipwith the teen age boy or little over the teenage it is always a question mark as to how suchrelationship could be defined though suchrelationship would be the result of mutualinnocence and biological attraction Suchrelationship cannot be construed as anunnatural one or alien to between relationshipof opposite sexes But in such cases where theage of the girl is below 18 years even thoughshe was capable of giving consent forrelationship being mentally maturedunfortunately the provisions of the POCSO Actget attracted if such relationship transcendsbeyond platonic limits attracting strong arm oflaw sanctioned by the provisions of POCSOAct catching up with the so called offender ofsexual assault warranting a severeimprisonment of 710 years

The court said that more liberalprovision can be introduced in the Act itself inorder to distinguish the cases of teen agerelationship after 16 years from the cases ofsexual assault on children below 16 years

The Act can be amended to the effectthat the age of the offender ought not to bemore than five years or so than the consensualvictim girl of 16 years or more So that theimpressionable age of the victim girl cannot betaken advantage of by a person who is mucholder and crossed the age of presumableinfatuation or innocence

The Judge further said that more thantreating such growing incidence of sexualassault on women and children as a legal issuedealing with the offenders of sexual assault byresorting to most deterrent provisions of Penallaws the cause for such perverse and wickedbehaviour among some men who wereotherwise normal in their disposition need tobe examined and studied

The Society must collectively introspectwhat is it that drives some men to unleash theirlibidinous rage on hapless children and womenof all age The cause for such abominabledeviant conduct on the part of the perpetratorsof sexual crime on children and women isperhaps became of access to uncensoredpornographic and erotic materials that areavailable on the internet 24 X 7 Access to suchprovocative and lewd sites lead to criminalsensuality that drives the perpetrators tocommit such appalling crimes on children andwomen in complete depravity When mindsare filled with lust smouldering all the time bywatching pornographic site of all kinds on thehandset or otherwise such crimes are thenatural result of the depraved minds

The judge also suggested constituting ahigh level committee comprising persons ofeminence from various walks of life like Socialauditor psychologists Social Scientist etc toinvestigate and study the malady afflicting theSociety

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HC of MADRAS

Divorced wife cannot file application underDomestic Violence Act application filed underSs 12 and 18 rejected in absence of ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo

Apr 18 2019

The High Court refused to interfere withan order of the Judicial Magistrate asconfirmed by the Sessions Judge whereby theapplication filed by the applicant under Section12 and 18 of the Protection of Women fromDomestic Violence Act 2005 was dismissed

The applicant married to the respondentin 1999 However a decree of divorce underSection 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 hadbeen passed by the family court in 2008 at theinstance of the husband The application underthe DV Act was filed by the applicant in 2009ie subsequent to the grant of divorce Therespondent resisted the application on theground that there was no ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo between them and therefore anyapplication under DV Act was not maintainableThe application was rejected by the JudicialMagistrate as well as the Sessions JudgeAggrieved thereby the applicant filed thepresent revision application

After perusing a conspectus of decisionsof the Supreme Court as well as High Courtsthe Court came to the conclusion that no reliefcould be granted to the applicant It wasobserved ldquoIn the present case divorce wasgranted by the family Court vide order dated30-06- 2008 Application under the DV Actwas filed in the year 2009 At the time of filingof application under the DV Act the applicantwas not the wife There was no domestic

relationship between them Hence orderspassed by the learned JMFC Nagpur andmaintained by Additional Sessions JudgeNagpur in Criminal Appeal No 235 of 2015 areperfectly legal and correctrdquo In such view of thematter the revision application was dismissed

HC of Maharastra

Transwoman a Bride under Hindu MarriageAct

Apr 22 2019

The marriage between a cisgender manand a transgender woman on Monday receivedthe blessing of the Madras High Court in amanner of speaking Sitting at the MaduraiBench Justice GR Swaminathan observed ldquoAmarriage solemnized between a male and atranswoman both professing Hindu religion isa valid marriage in terms of Section 5 of theHindu Marriage Act 1955 and the Registrar ofMarriages is bound to register the same

By holding so this Court is not breakingany new ground It is merely stating theobvious Sometimes to see the obvious oneneeds not only physical vision in the eye butalso love in the heartrdquo

The Court had been moved byArunkumar and Srija after the state authoritiesrefused to register their October 2018marriage In this case Srija was a transgenderwoman While she had been born intersex shehad identified herself as a woman which wasalso reflected in her state Ids

The government authorities took thestance that the marriage between Arunkumarand Srija could not be recognised as Srija is atransgender person This was interpreted by

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the authorities to mean the Srija is not awoman

Justice Swaminathan howeverdisagreed emphatically particularly in view ofthe Supreme Courtrsquos 2014 NALSA judgmentwhich had recognised the self-identificationrights of transgender persons He states in hisjudgment

ldquoI am unable to agree with the stand ofthe learned Government Advocate hellip As rightlypointed out by the learned counsel appearingfor the writ petitioner the issue on hand is nolonger res integra In the decision reported in(2014) 5 SCC 438 (National Legal ServicesAuthority vs Union of India) the HonrsquobleSupreme Court upheld the transgenderpersonsrsquo right to decide their self identifiedgender The central and State governmentswere directed to grant legal recognition of theirgender identity such as male female or thirdgenderhellip hellipWhen the right of the transgenderpersons to marry has been upheld by theHonrsquoble Supreme Court in the very nature ofthings they cannot be kept out of the purviewof the Hindu Marriage Act One can have a civilmarriage One can also have a sacramentalmarriagehelliprdquo

Sex and Gender are not the same

Recalling the principles affirmed in theNALSA judgment Justice Swaminathanproceeded to observe ldquoSex and gender are notone and the same A personrsquos sex is biologicallydetermined at the time of birth Not so in thecase of genderhellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Courtheld that Article 14 of the Constitution of Indiawhich affirms that the State shall not deny toldquoany personrdquo equality before the law or theequal protection of the laws within the territoryof India would apply to transgenders also

Transgender persons who are neithermalefemale fall within the expression lsquopersonrsquoand hence entitled to legal protection of laws inall spheres of State activity as enjoyed by anyother citizen of this country

Discrimination on the ground of sexualorientation or gender identity thereforeimpairs equality before law and equalprotection of law and violates Article 14 of theConstitution of India Article 19(1)(a) and Article21 were expansively interpreted so as toencompass onersquos gender identity alsordquo

It was noted that the NALSA judgmentwas also cited with approval in the Right toPrivacy case as well as Navtej Joharrsquos caseconcerning the decriminalisation ofhomosexuality in India

Coming to the instant case the Courtpointed out that after Srija identified herself asa woman the state does not have the power todeny her of that identity

ldquoIn the case on hand the secondpetitioner herein has chosen to express hergender identity as that of a woman As held bythe Honrsquoble Supreme Court this falls within thedomain of her personal autonomy and involvesher right to privacy and dignity It is not for theState authorities to question this selfdeterminationrdquo

ldquoBriderdquo under Hindu Marriage Actincludes transwomen

The Court went on to reject the Statersquoscontention that a transgender woman couldnot be viewed as a ldquoBriderdquo under the HinduMarriage Act

ldquoThe expression ldquobriderdquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955cannot have a static or immutable meaning As

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noted in Justice GPSinghrsquos Principles ofStatutory Interpretation the court is free toapply the current meaning of a statute topresent day conditions A statute must beinterpreted in the light of the legal system as itexists todayhellip hellip Seen in the light of the marchof law the expression ldquobridersquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 willhave to include within its meaning not only awoman but also a transwoman It would alsoinclude an intersex persontransgender personwho identifies herself as a woman The onlyconsideration is how the person perceivesherselfrdquo

Transpersonrsquos right to marry has beenrecognised by the Supreme Court

The Court further pointed out that theSupreme Court has specifically recognised theright of marriage for transgender persons inparagraph 119 of the NALSA judgmentMoreover the right of persons to marry aperson of choice has also been specificallyendorsed in Hadiyarsquos case the High Courtjudgment highlights

The Court proceeded to remark ldquoFortoo long the transgender personsintersexpeople have been languishing in the marginsThe Constitution of India is an enablingdocument It is inviting them to join themainstream Therefore it would be absurd todeny the transgenders the benefit of the socialinstitutions already in place in themainstreamldquo

In view of these observations the Courtallowed the writ petition and directed the stateto register the marriage of the petitioners

Further the judge also pointed out thatthe marriage in the case was an inter-castemarriage Therefore the petitioners were alsoeligible for benefits provided by the state to

encourage inter-caste marriages under theDrAmbedkar Scheme for Social Integrationthrough Inter- Caste Marriages

Issue GO against forced SexReassignment Surgery (SRS) on Intersexchildren

While dealing with the case JusticeSwaminathan also took note that the SupremeCourtrsquos mandate against forced surgicalprocedures on intersex children was beingobserved more in breach than compliance Asobserved in his judgment rdquo [intersex children]must be given their time and space to find theirtrue gender identity But the parents make theinfant undergo sex reassignment surgery (SRS)hellip hellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Court in NALSA casecategorically stated that no one shall be forcedto undergo medical procedures including SRSsterilisation or hormonal therapy as arequirement for legal recognition of theirgender identity But what is happening inreality is more in breach of this judgementgiven by the Honrsquoble Supreme Courtldquo

He went on to observe that a particulargender cannot be forcibly thrust on non-binarypersons

ldquoA person who is in the Third Category isentitled to remain beyond the duality ofmalefemale or opt to identify oneself as maleor female It is entirely the choice of theindividual concernedrdquo

In view of the same the Court has nowdirected the Tamil Nadu government to issue aGovernment Order to uphold the NALSAjudgment and to ldquoeffectively ban sexreassignment surgeries on intersex infants andchildrenrdquo The government is expected tosubmit a compliance report regarding thissame within eight weeks

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The Court also noted that the stateshould undertake awareness programmes tode-stigmatise the birth of intersex children

ldquoThe parents must be encouraged to feelthat the birth of an intersex child is not a matterof embarrassment or shame It lies in the handsof the Government to launch a sustainedawareness campaign in this regardldquo

In this backdrop the Court alsoexpressed its appreciation for recent Tamilfilms that involved transgender characters

ldquoRecent Tamil Films such as ldquoPeranburdquowhere Mamooty marries a transgender andldquoSuper Deluxrdquo where Vijay Sethupathi plays therole of a transgender and is also a parent to thechild he has fathered are encouraging trendsrdquoremarked Justice Swaminathan

Before parting with the matter JusticeSwaminathan also expressed gratitude tointersex activist Gopi Shankar from Madurainoting that his work has had been a humblingand enlightening experience for the Court

Madras HC

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Crime News MeToo movement Police closes Nana Patekarrsquos sexualharassment case filed by Tanushree Dutta

June 13 2019

After Tanushree Dutta rubbished reports of police givinga clean chit to actor Nana Patekar on the sexualharassment case filed by actress it is now official that theNana Patekar sexual harassment case has been closed bythe police This marks the first official MeToo case thathas reportedly collapsed

According to reports in Times Now the sexualharassment case filed against actor Nana Patekar wasclosed by cops on grounds that there was no lsquono primafacie case against the actor

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

June 12 2019

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

आशिक क साथ मिलकर पतनी न परी रात पतित को पीटा सबह उतारा ौत क घाट

June 08 2019

फिललौर (भाखड़ी) फिललौर क गाव अकालपर म पतनी न परमी सग मिमल कर पहल पफि की बरी रह स मारपीट की और उसक बाद उस मौ क घाट

उार दिदया पराप जानकारी अनसार पलिलस को दी लिकाय म मक खपाल सिसह (40) क भाई कलव सिसह और गरमल सिसह न बाया फिक

उसक भाई की ादी 15 वरष2 पहल सखविवदर कौर क साथ हई जिजसक दो बचच ह उनहोन बाया फिक 4 वरष2 पहल उनका भाई काम क सबध म साउदी अरब चला गया

मक क भाईयो न बाया फिक ग आधी रा को उनह पा चला फिक उसक भाई क घर स रोन और चीखन लिचललान की आवाज बाहर क आ रही ह

वह दोनो भाई बबस अपन घर म पड़ रह कयोफिक वह जब भी उनक झगड़ म घर जा ो उनकी भाभी उनको ही बरा भला बोल कर वाफिपस भज दी थीपरा 8 बज उनक चाचा न उनह ोन कर कहा फिक खपाल क साथ उसक

घर म काी मारपीट हो रही ह पड़ोसी न भी उनह रोकना चाहा लफिकन

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उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

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provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

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Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

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Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

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The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

HC of MADRAS

Divorced wife cannot file application underDomestic Violence Act application filed underSs 12 and 18 rejected in absence of ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo

Apr 18 2019

The High Court refused to interfere withan order of the Judicial Magistrate asconfirmed by the Sessions Judge whereby theapplication filed by the applicant under Section12 and 18 of the Protection of Women fromDomestic Violence Act 2005 was dismissed

The applicant married to the respondentin 1999 However a decree of divorce underSection 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 hadbeen passed by the family court in 2008 at theinstance of the husband The application underthe DV Act was filed by the applicant in 2009ie subsequent to the grant of divorce Therespondent resisted the application on theground that there was no ldquodomesticrelationshiprdquo between them and therefore anyapplication under DV Act was not maintainableThe application was rejected by the JudicialMagistrate as well as the Sessions JudgeAggrieved thereby the applicant filed thepresent revision application

After perusing a conspectus of decisionsof the Supreme Court as well as High Courtsthe Court came to the conclusion that no reliefcould be granted to the applicant It wasobserved ldquoIn the present case divorce wasgranted by the family Court vide order dated30-06- 2008 Application under the DV Actwas filed in the year 2009 At the time of filingof application under the DV Act the applicantwas not the wife There was no domestic

relationship between them Hence orderspassed by the learned JMFC Nagpur andmaintained by Additional Sessions JudgeNagpur in Criminal Appeal No 235 of 2015 areperfectly legal and correctrdquo In such view of thematter the revision application was dismissed

HC of Maharastra

Transwoman a Bride under Hindu MarriageAct

Apr 22 2019

The marriage between a cisgender manand a transgender woman on Monday receivedthe blessing of the Madras High Court in amanner of speaking Sitting at the MaduraiBench Justice GR Swaminathan observed ldquoAmarriage solemnized between a male and atranswoman both professing Hindu religion isa valid marriage in terms of Section 5 of theHindu Marriage Act 1955 and the Registrar ofMarriages is bound to register the same

By holding so this Court is not breakingany new ground It is merely stating theobvious Sometimes to see the obvious oneneeds not only physical vision in the eye butalso love in the heartrdquo

The Court had been moved byArunkumar and Srija after the state authoritiesrefused to register their October 2018marriage In this case Srija was a transgenderwoman While she had been born intersex shehad identified herself as a woman which wasalso reflected in her state Ids

The government authorities took thestance that the marriage between Arunkumarand Srija could not be recognised as Srija is atransgender person This was interpreted by

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 4

the authorities to mean the Srija is not awoman

Justice Swaminathan howeverdisagreed emphatically particularly in view ofthe Supreme Courtrsquos 2014 NALSA judgmentwhich had recognised the self-identificationrights of transgender persons He states in hisjudgment

ldquoI am unable to agree with the stand ofthe learned Government Advocate hellip As rightlypointed out by the learned counsel appearingfor the writ petitioner the issue on hand is nolonger res integra In the decision reported in(2014) 5 SCC 438 (National Legal ServicesAuthority vs Union of India) the HonrsquobleSupreme Court upheld the transgenderpersonsrsquo right to decide their self identifiedgender The central and State governmentswere directed to grant legal recognition of theirgender identity such as male female or thirdgenderhellip hellipWhen the right of the transgenderpersons to marry has been upheld by theHonrsquoble Supreme Court in the very nature ofthings they cannot be kept out of the purviewof the Hindu Marriage Act One can have a civilmarriage One can also have a sacramentalmarriagehelliprdquo

Sex and Gender are not the same

Recalling the principles affirmed in theNALSA judgment Justice Swaminathanproceeded to observe ldquoSex and gender are notone and the same A personrsquos sex is biologicallydetermined at the time of birth Not so in thecase of genderhellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Courtheld that Article 14 of the Constitution of Indiawhich affirms that the State shall not deny toldquoany personrdquo equality before the law or theequal protection of the laws within the territoryof India would apply to transgenders also

Transgender persons who are neithermalefemale fall within the expression lsquopersonrsquoand hence entitled to legal protection of laws inall spheres of State activity as enjoyed by anyother citizen of this country

Discrimination on the ground of sexualorientation or gender identity thereforeimpairs equality before law and equalprotection of law and violates Article 14 of theConstitution of India Article 19(1)(a) and Article21 were expansively interpreted so as toencompass onersquos gender identity alsordquo

It was noted that the NALSA judgmentwas also cited with approval in the Right toPrivacy case as well as Navtej Joharrsquos caseconcerning the decriminalisation ofhomosexuality in India

Coming to the instant case the Courtpointed out that after Srija identified herself asa woman the state does not have the power todeny her of that identity

ldquoIn the case on hand the secondpetitioner herein has chosen to express hergender identity as that of a woman As held bythe Honrsquoble Supreme Court this falls within thedomain of her personal autonomy and involvesher right to privacy and dignity It is not for theState authorities to question this selfdeterminationrdquo

ldquoBriderdquo under Hindu Marriage Actincludes transwomen

The Court went on to reject the Statersquoscontention that a transgender woman couldnot be viewed as a ldquoBriderdquo under the HinduMarriage Act

ldquoThe expression ldquobriderdquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955cannot have a static or immutable meaning As

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 5

noted in Justice GPSinghrsquos Principles ofStatutory Interpretation the court is free toapply the current meaning of a statute topresent day conditions A statute must beinterpreted in the light of the legal system as itexists todayhellip hellip Seen in the light of the marchof law the expression ldquobridersquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 willhave to include within its meaning not only awoman but also a transwoman It would alsoinclude an intersex persontransgender personwho identifies herself as a woman The onlyconsideration is how the person perceivesherselfrdquo

Transpersonrsquos right to marry has beenrecognised by the Supreme Court

The Court further pointed out that theSupreme Court has specifically recognised theright of marriage for transgender persons inparagraph 119 of the NALSA judgmentMoreover the right of persons to marry aperson of choice has also been specificallyendorsed in Hadiyarsquos case the High Courtjudgment highlights

The Court proceeded to remark ldquoFortoo long the transgender personsintersexpeople have been languishing in the marginsThe Constitution of India is an enablingdocument It is inviting them to join themainstream Therefore it would be absurd todeny the transgenders the benefit of the socialinstitutions already in place in themainstreamldquo

In view of these observations the Courtallowed the writ petition and directed the stateto register the marriage of the petitioners

Further the judge also pointed out thatthe marriage in the case was an inter-castemarriage Therefore the petitioners were alsoeligible for benefits provided by the state to

encourage inter-caste marriages under theDrAmbedkar Scheme for Social Integrationthrough Inter- Caste Marriages

Issue GO against forced SexReassignment Surgery (SRS) on Intersexchildren

While dealing with the case JusticeSwaminathan also took note that the SupremeCourtrsquos mandate against forced surgicalprocedures on intersex children was beingobserved more in breach than compliance Asobserved in his judgment rdquo [intersex children]must be given their time and space to find theirtrue gender identity But the parents make theinfant undergo sex reassignment surgery (SRS)hellip hellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Court in NALSA casecategorically stated that no one shall be forcedto undergo medical procedures including SRSsterilisation or hormonal therapy as arequirement for legal recognition of theirgender identity But what is happening inreality is more in breach of this judgementgiven by the Honrsquoble Supreme Courtldquo

He went on to observe that a particulargender cannot be forcibly thrust on non-binarypersons

ldquoA person who is in the Third Category isentitled to remain beyond the duality ofmalefemale or opt to identify oneself as maleor female It is entirely the choice of theindividual concernedrdquo

In view of the same the Court has nowdirected the Tamil Nadu government to issue aGovernment Order to uphold the NALSAjudgment and to ldquoeffectively ban sexreassignment surgeries on intersex infants andchildrenrdquo The government is expected tosubmit a compliance report regarding thissame within eight weeks

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 6

The Court also noted that the stateshould undertake awareness programmes tode-stigmatise the birth of intersex children

ldquoThe parents must be encouraged to feelthat the birth of an intersex child is not a matterof embarrassment or shame It lies in the handsof the Government to launch a sustainedawareness campaign in this regardldquo

In this backdrop the Court alsoexpressed its appreciation for recent Tamilfilms that involved transgender characters

ldquoRecent Tamil Films such as ldquoPeranburdquowhere Mamooty marries a transgender andldquoSuper Deluxrdquo where Vijay Sethupathi plays therole of a transgender and is also a parent to thechild he has fathered are encouraging trendsrdquoremarked Justice Swaminathan

Before parting with the matter JusticeSwaminathan also expressed gratitude tointersex activist Gopi Shankar from Madurainoting that his work has had been a humblingand enlightening experience for the Court

Madras HC

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 7

Crime News MeToo movement Police closes Nana Patekarrsquos sexualharassment case filed by Tanushree Dutta

June 13 2019

After Tanushree Dutta rubbished reports of police givinga clean chit to actor Nana Patekar on the sexualharassment case filed by actress it is now official that theNana Patekar sexual harassment case has been closed bythe police This marks the first official MeToo case thathas reportedly collapsed

According to reports in Times Now the sexualharassment case filed against actor Nana Patekar wasclosed by cops on grounds that there was no lsquono primafacie case against the actor

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

June 12 2019

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

आशिक क साथ मिलकर पतनी न परी रात पतित को पीटा सबह उतारा ौत क घाट

June 08 2019

फिललौर (भाखड़ी) फिललौर क गाव अकालपर म पतनी न परमी सग मिमल कर पहल पफि की बरी रह स मारपीट की और उसक बाद उस मौ क घाट

उार दिदया पराप जानकारी अनसार पलिलस को दी लिकाय म मक खपाल सिसह (40) क भाई कलव सिसह और गरमल सिसह न बाया फिक

उसक भाई की ादी 15 वरष2 पहल सखविवदर कौर क साथ हई जिजसक दो बचच ह उनहोन बाया फिक 4 वरष2 पहल उनका भाई काम क सबध म साउदी अरब चला गया

मक क भाईयो न बाया फिक ग आधी रा को उनह पा चला फिक उसक भाई क घर स रोन और चीखन लिचललान की आवाज बाहर क आ रही ह

वह दोनो भाई बबस अपन घर म पड़ रह कयोफिक वह जब भी उनक झगड़ म घर जा ो उनकी भाभी उनको ही बरा भला बोल कर वाफिपस भज दी थीपरा 8 बज उनक चाचा न उनह ोन कर कहा फिक खपाल क साथ उसक

घर म काी मारपीट हो रही ह पड़ोसी न भी उनह रोकना चाहा लफिकन

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उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 15

provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

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Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 19

समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

the authorities to mean the Srija is not awoman

Justice Swaminathan howeverdisagreed emphatically particularly in view ofthe Supreme Courtrsquos 2014 NALSA judgmentwhich had recognised the self-identificationrights of transgender persons He states in hisjudgment

ldquoI am unable to agree with the stand ofthe learned Government Advocate hellip As rightlypointed out by the learned counsel appearingfor the writ petitioner the issue on hand is nolonger res integra In the decision reported in(2014) 5 SCC 438 (National Legal ServicesAuthority vs Union of India) the HonrsquobleSupreme Court upheld the transgenderpersonsrsquo right to decide their self identifiedgender The central and State governmentswere directed to grant legal recognition of theirgender identity such as male female or thirdgenderhellip hellipWhen the right of the transgenderpersons to marry has been upheld by theHonrsquoble Supreme Court in the very nature ofthings they cannot be kept out of the purviewof the Hindu Marriage Act One can have a civilmarriage One can also have a sacramentalmarriagehelliprdquo

Sex and Gender are not the same

Recalling the principles affirmed in theNALSA judgment Justice Swaminathanproceeded to observe ldquoSex and gender are notone and the same A personrsquos sex is biologicallydetermined at the time of birth Not so in thecase of genderhellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Courtheld that Article 14 of the Constitution of Indiawhich affirms that the State shall not deny toldquoany personrdquo equality before the law or theequal protection of the laws within the territoryof India would apply to transgenders also

Transgender persons who are neithermalefemale fall within the expression lsquopersonrsquoand hence entitled to legal protection of laws inall spheres of State activity as enjoyed by anyother citizen of this country

Discrimination on the ground of sexualorientation or gender identity thereforeimpairs equality before law and equalprotection of law and violates Article 14 of theConstitution of India Article 19(1)(a) and Article21 were expansively interpreted so as toencompass onersquos gender identity alsordquo

It was noted that the NALSA judgmentwas also cited with approval in the Right toPrivacy case as well as Navtej Joharrsquos caseconcerning the decriminalisation ofhomosexuality in India

Coming to the instant case the Courtpointed out that after Srija identified herself asa woman the state does not have the power todeny her of that identity

ldquoIn the case on hand the secondpetitioner herein has chosen to express hergender identity as that of a woman As held bythe Honrsquoble Supreme Court this falls within thedomain of her personal autonomy and involvesher right to privacy and dignity It is not for theState authorities to question this selfdeterminationrdquo

ldquoBriderdquo under Hindu Marriage Actincludes transwomen

The Court went on to reject the Statersquoscontention that a transgender woman couldnot be viewed as a ldquoBriderdquo under the HinduMarriage Act

ldquoThe expression ldquobriderdquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955cannot have a static or immutable meaning As

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 5

noted in Justice GPSinghrsquos Principles ofStatutory Interpretation the court is free toapply the current meaning of a statute topresent day conditions A statute must beinterpreted in the light of the legal system as itexists todayhellip hellip Seen in the light of the marchof law the expression ldquobridersquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 willhave to include within its meaning not only awoman but also a transwoman It would alsoinclude an intersex persontransgender personwho identifies herself as a woman The onlyconsideration is how the person perceivesherselfrdquo

Transpersonrsquos right to marry has beenrecognised by the Supreme Court

The Court further pointed out that theSupreme Court has specifically recognised theright of marriage for transgender persons inparagraph 119 of the NALSA judgmentMoreover the right of persons to marry aperson of choice has also been specificallyendorsed in Hadiyarsquos case the High Courtjudgment highlights

The Court proceeded to remark ldquoFortoo long the transgender personsintersexpeople have been languishing in the marginsThe Constitution of India is an enablingdocument It is inviting them to join themainstream Therefore it would be absurd todeny the transgenders the benefit of the socialinstitutions already in place in themainstreamldquo

In view of these observations the Courtallowed the writ petition and directed the stateto register the marriage of the petitioners

Further the judge also pointed out thatthe marriage in the case was an inter-castemarriage Therefore the petitioners were alsoeligible for benefits provided by the state to

encourage inter-caste marriages under theDrAmbedkar Scheme for Social Integrationthrough Inter- Caste Marriages

Issue GO against forced SexReassignment Surgery (SRS) on Intersexchildren

While dealing with the case JusticeSwaminathan also took note that the SupremeCourtrsquos mandate against forced surgicalprocedures on intersex children was beingobserved more in breach than compliance Asobserved in his judgment rdquo [intersex children]must be given their time and space to find theirtrue gender identity But the parents make theinfant undergo sex reassignment surgery (SRS)hellip hellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Court in NALSA casecategorically stated that no one shall be forcedto undergo medical procedures including SRSsterilisation or hormonal therapy as arequirement for legal recognition of theirgender identity But what is happening inreality is more in breach of this judgementgiven by the Honrsquoble Supreme Courtldquo

He went on to observe that a particulargender cannot be forcibly thrust on non-binarypersons

ldquoA person who is in the Third Category isentitled to remain beyond the duality ofmalefemale or opt to identify oneself as maleor female It is entirely the choice of theindividual concernedrdquo

In view of the same the Court has nowdirected the Tamil Nadu government to issue aGovernment Order to uphold the NALSAjudgment and to ldquoeffectively ban sexreassignment surgeries on intersex infants andchildrenrdquo The government is expected tosubmit a compliance report regarding thissame within eight weeks

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 6

The Court also noted that the stateshould undertake awareness programmes tode-stigmatise the birth of intersex children

ldquoThe parents must be encouraged to feelthat the birth of an intersex child is not a matterof embarrassment or shame It lies in the handsof the Government to launch a sustainedawareness campaign in this regardldquo

In this backdrop the Court alsoexpressed its appreciation for recent Tamilfilms that involved transgender characters

ldquoRecent Tamil Films such as ldquoPeranburdquowhere Mamooty marries a transgender andldquoSuper Deluxrdquo where Vijay Sethupathi plays therole of a transgender and is also a parent to thechild he has fathered are encouraging trendsrdquoremarked Justice Swaminathan

Before parting with the matter JusticeSwaminathan also expressed gratitude tointersex activist Gopi Shankar from Madurainoting that his work has had been a humblingand enlightening experience for the Court

Madras HC

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 7

Crime News MeToo movement Police closes Nana Patekarrsquos sexualharassment case filed by Tanushree Dutta

June 13 2019

After Tanushree Dutta rubbished reports of police givinga clean chit to actor Nana Patekar on the sexualharassment case filed by actress it is now official that theNana Patekar sexual harassment case has been closed bythe police This marks the first official MeToo case thathas reportedly collapsed

According to reports in Times Now the sexualharassment case filed against actor Nana Patekar wasclosed by cops on grounds that there was no lsquono primafacie case against the actor

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

June 12 2019

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

आशिक क साथ मिलकर पतनी न परी रात पतित को पीटा सबह उतारा ौत क घाट

June 08 2019

फिललौर (भाखड़ी) फिललौर क गाव अकालपर म पतनी न परमी सग मिमल कर पहल पफि की बरी रह स मारपीट की और उसक बाद उस मौ क घाट

उार दिदया पराप जानकारी अनसार पलिलस को दी लिकाय म मक खपाल सिसह (40) क भाई कलव सिसह और गरमल सिसह न बाया फिक

उसक भाई की ादी 15 वरष2 पहल सखविवदर कौर क साथ हई जिजसक दो बचच ह उनहोन बाया फिक 4 वरष2 पहल उनका भाई काम क सबध म साउदी अरब चला गया

मक क भाईयो न बाया फिक ग आधी रा को उनह पा चला फिक उसक भाई क घर स रोन और चीखन लिचललान की आवाज बाहर क आ रही ह

वह दोनो भाई बबस अपन घर म पड़ रह कयोफिक वह जब भी उनक झगड़ म घर जा ो उनकी भाभी उनको ही बरा भला बोल कर वाफिपस भज दी थीपरा 8 बज उनक चाचा न उनह ोन कर कहा फिक खपाल क साथ उसक

घर म काी मारपीट हो रही ह पड़ोसी न भी उनह रोकना चाहा लफिकन

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उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 15

provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 16

Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 19

समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

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यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 23

MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 32

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

noted in Justice GPSinghrsquos Principles ofStatutory Interpretation the court is free toapply the current meaning of a statute topresent day conditions A statute must beinterpreted in the light of the legal system as itexists todayhellip hellip Seen in the light of the marchof law the expression ldquobridersquo occurring inSection 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 willhave to include within its meaning not only awoman but also a transwoman It would alsoinclude an intersex persontransgender personwho identifies herself as a woman The onlyconsideration is how the person perceivesherselfrdquo

Transpersonrsquos right to marry has beenrecognised by the Supreme Court

The Court further pointed out that theSupreme Court has specifically recognised theright of marriage for transgender persons inparagraph 119 of the NALSA judgmentMoreover the right of persons to marry aperson of choice has also been specificallyendorsed in Hadiyarsquos case the High Courtjudgment highlights

The Court proceeded to remark ldquoFortoo long the transgender personsintersexpeople have been languishing in the marginsThe Constitution of India is an enablingdocument It is inviting them to join themainstream Therefore it would be absurd todeny the transgenders the benefit of the socialinstitutions already in place in themainstreamldquo

In view of these observations the Courtallowed the writ petition and directed the stateto register the marriage of the petitioners

Further the judge also pointed out thatthe marriage in the case was an inter-castemarriage Therefore the petitioners were alsoeligible for benefits provided by the state to

encourage inter-caste marriages under theDrAmbedkar Scheme for Social Integrationthrough Inter- Caste Marriages

Issue GO against forced SexReassignment Surgery (SRS) on Intersexchildren

While dealing with the case JusticeSwaminathan also took note that the SupremeCourtrsquos mandate against forced surgicalprocedures on intersex children was beingobserved more in breach than compliance Asobserved in his judgment rdquo [intersex children]must be given their time and space to find theirtrue gender identity But the parents make theinfant undergo sex reassignment surgery (SRS)hellip hellipthe Honrsquoble Supreme Court in NALSA casecategorically stated that no one shall be forcedto undergo medical procedures including SRSsterilisation or hormonal therapy as arequirement for legal recognition of theirgender identity But what is happening inreality is more in breach of this judgementgiven by the Honrsquoble Supreme Courtldquo

He went on to observe that a particulargender cannot be forcibly thrust on non-binarypersons

ldquoA person who is in the Third Category isentitled to remain beyond the duality ofmalefemale or opt to identify oneself as maleor female It is entirely the choice of theindividual concernedrdquo

In view of the same the Court has nowdirected the Tamil Nadu government to issue aGovernment Order to uphold the NALSAjudgment and to ldquoeffectively ban sexreassignment surgeries on intersex infants andchildrenrdquo The government is expected tosubmit a compliance report regarding thissame within eight weeks

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The Court also noted that the stateshould undertake awareness programmes tode-stigmatise the birth of intersex children

ldquoThe parents must be encouraged to feelthat the birth of an intersex child is not a matterof embarrassment or shame It lies in the handsof the Government to launch a sustainedawareness campaign in this regardldquo

In this backdrop the Court alsoexpressed its appreciation for recent Tamilfilms that involved transgender characters

ldquoRecent Tamil Films such as ldquoPeranburdquowhere Mamooty marries a transgender andldquoSuper Deluxrdquo where Vijay Sethupathi plays therole of a transgender and is also a parent to thechild he has fathered are encouraging trendsrdquoremarked Justice Swaminathan

Before parting with the matter JusticeSwaminathan also expressed gratitude tointersex activist Gopi Shankar from Madurainoting that his work has had been a humblingand enlightening experience for the Court

Madras HC

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 7

Crime News MeToo movement Police closes Nana Patekarrsquos sexualharassment case filed by Tanushree Dutta

June 13 2019

After Tanushree Dutta rubbished reports of police givinga clean chit to actor Nana Patekar on the sexualharassment case filed by actress it is now official that theNana Patekar sexual harassment case has been closed bythe police This marks the first official MeToo case thathas reportedly collapsed

According to reports in Times Now the sexualharassment case filed against actor Nana Patekar wasclosed by cops on grounds that there was no lsquono primafacie case against the actor

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

June 12 2019

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

आशिक क साथ मिलकर पतनी न परी रात पतित को पीटा सबह उतारा ौत क घाट

June 08 2019

फिललौर (भाखड़ी) फिललौर क गाव अकालपर म पतनी न परमी सग मिमल कर पहल पफि की बरी रह स मारपीट की और उसक बाद उस मौ क घाट

उार दिदया पराप जानकारी अनसार पलिलस को दी लिकाय म मक खपाल सिसह (40) क भाई कलव सिसह और गरमल सिसह न बाया फिक

उसक भाई की ादी 15 वरष2 पहल सखविवदर कौर क साथ हई जिजसक दो बचच ह उनहोन बाया फिक 4 वरष2 पहल उनका भाई काम क सबध म साउदी अरब चला गया

मक क भाईयो न बाया फिक ग आधी रा को उनह पा चला फिक उसक भाई क घर स रोन और चीखन लिचललान की आवाज बाहर क आ रही ह

वह दोनो भाई बबस अपन घर म पड़ रह कयोफिक वह जब भी उनक झगड़ म घर जा ो उनकी भाभी उनको ही बरा भला बोल कर वाफिपस भज दी थीपरा 8 बज उनक चाचा न उनह ोन कर कहा फिक खपाल क साथ उसक

घर म काी मारपीट हो रही ह पड़ोसी न भी उनह रोकना चाहा लफिकन

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उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 15

provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 16

Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 19

समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

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यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 23

MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 32

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

The Court also noted that the stateshould undertake awareness programmes tode-stigmatise the birth of intersex children

ldquoThe parents must be encouraged to feelthat the birth of an intersex child is not a matterof embarrassment or shame It lies in the handsof the Government to launch a sustainedawareness campaign in this regardldquo

In this backdrop the Court alsoexpressed its appreciation for recent Tamilfilms that involved transgender characters

ldquoRecent Tamil Films such as ldquoPeranburdquowhere Mamooty marries a transgender andldquoSuper Deluxrdquo where Vijay Sethupathi plays therole of a transgender and is also a parent to thechild he has fathered are encouraging trendsrdquoremarked Justice Swaminathan

Before parting with the matter JusticeSwaminathan also expressed gratitude tointersex activist Gopi Shankar from Madurainoting that his work has had been a humblingand enlightening experience for the Court

Madras HC

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 7

Crime News MeToo movement Police closes Nana Patekarrsquos sexualharassment case filed by Tanushree Dutta

June 13 2019

After Tanushree Dutta rubbished reports of police givinga clean chit to actor Nana Patekar on the sexualharassment case filed by actress it is now official that theNana Patekar sexual harassment case has been closed bythe police This marks the first official MeToo case thathas reportedly collapsed

According to reports in Times Now the sexualharassment case filed against actor Nana Patekar wasclosed by cops on grounds that there was no lsquono primafacie case against the actor

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

June 12 2019

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

आशिक क साथ मिलकर पतनी न परी रात पतित को पीटा सबह उतारा ौत क घाट

June 08 2019

फिललौर (भाखड़ी) फिललौर क गाव अकालपर म पतनी न परमी सग मिमल कर पहल पफि की बरी रह स मारपीट की और उसक बाद उस मौ क घाट

उार दिदया पराप जानकारी अनसार पलिलस को दी लिकाय म मक खपाल सिसह (40) क भाई कलव सिसह और गरमल सिसह न बाया फिक

उसक भाई की ादी 15 वरष2 पहल सखविवदर कौर क साथ हई जिजसक दो बचच ह उनहोन बाया फिक 4 वरष2 पहल उनका भाई काम क सबध म साउदी अरब चला गया

मक क भाईयो न बाया फिक ग आधी रा को उनह पा चला फिक उसक भाई क घर स रोन और चीखन लिचललान की आवाज बाहर क आ रही ह

वह दोनो भाई बबस अपन घर म पड़ रह कयोफिक वह जब भी उनक झगड़ म घर जा ो उनकी भाभी उनको ही बरा भला बोल कर वाफिपस भज दी थीपरा 8 बज उनक चाचा न उनह ोन कर कहा फिक खपाल क साथ उसक

घर म काी मारपीट हो रही ह पड़ोसी न भी उनह रोकना चाहा लफिकन

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उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 15

provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

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Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 19

समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 23

MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 32

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

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Crime News MeToo movement Police closes Nana Patekarrsquos sexualharassment case filed by Tanushree Dutta

June 13 2019

After Tanushree Dutta rubbished reports of police givinga clean chit to actor Nana Patekar on the sexualharassment case filed by actress it is now official that theNana Patekar sexual harassment case has been closed bythe police This marks the first official MeToo case thathas reportedly collapsed

According to reports in Times Now the sexualharassment case filed against actor Nana Patekar wasclosed by cops on grounds that there was no lsquono primafacie case against the actor

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

June 12 2019

Man 25 commits suicide at his lovers home inBengaluru

आशिक क साथ मिलकर पतनी न परी रात पतित को पीटा सबह उतारा ौत क घाट

June 08 2019

फिललौर (भाखड़ी) फिललौर क गाव अकालपर म पतनी न परमी सग मिमल कर पहल पफि की बरी रह स मारपीट की और उसक बाद उस मौ क घाट

उार दिदया पराप जानकारी अनसार पलिलस को दी लिकाय म मक खपाल सिसह (40) क भाई कलव सिसह और गरमल सिसह न बाया फिक

उसक भाई की ादी 15 वरष2 पहल सखविवदर कौर क साथ हई जिजसक दो बचच ह उनहोन बाया फिक 4 वरष2 पहल उनका भाई काम क सबध म साउदी अरब चला गया

मक क भाईयो न बाया फिक ग आधी रा को उनह पा चला फिक उसक भाई क घर स रोन और चीखन लिचललान की आवाज बाहर क आ रही ह

वह दोनो भाई बबस अपन घर म पड़ रह कयोफिक वह जब भी उनक झगड़ म घर जा ो उनकी भाभी उनको ही बरा भला बोल कर वाफिपस भज दी थीपरा 8 बज उनक चाचा न उनह ोन कर कहा फिक खपाल क साथ उसक

घर म काी मारपीट हो रही ह पड़ोसी न भी उनह रोकना चाहा लफिकन

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उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 15

provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

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Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 19

समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

उसकी पतनी मान नही रही थी इसक बाद जस ही दोनो भाई उसक घर पहच ो वह हरान रह गए

Delhi Woman Kills Husband With Help of TwoMen All Three Arrested

June 09 2019

New Delhi A woman and two other men werearrested for reportedly murdering her husbandin Delhirsquos Rohini area stated the police Thebody of the victim was recovered by the policein a decomposed manner inside a gunny bag onJune 5 from a drain in Aman Vihar area statedan officer

The victim identified as Munna Lal was a 38-year-old man who was missing since May 5stated senior police officer Ingit Pratap Singh

Though Munna Lalrsquos wife Komal (namechanged) refused that the decomposed bodywas her husbandrsquos his mother identified hersonrsquos body stated the police officer

Sexual harassment allegations against CJIRanjan Gogoi

Apr 2019

In the year of 2018 the tsunami ofMeToo movement hit India Large number ofwomen specially from bollywood comes outand made alligations on Indian men True ofFalse that matter is saved for trial amp evidencesbut primarily most alligations were made onsocial media and most times it was juststatements And intresting part is manyalligations claimed were many decade oldWith time the digital men lyncing slow down

Once again the sexual hrashmentalligations are highlighted when allegations ofsexual harassment by an employee of SC onChief Justice of India Ranjan Gogoi Yes CJInow facing the same alligation once faced bycommon men of India

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Rohit Shekhar Murder Case

Apr 2019

पव2 राजयपाल और उततराखड क मखयमतरी एनडी फिवारी (Narayan Dutt Tiwari) क बट रोफिह फिवारी

(Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) की हतया क मामल म दिदलली पलिलस न रोफिह की पतनी अपवा2 फिवारी (Apoorva Shukla

Tiwari) को फिगरफार कर लिलया ह पलिलस का दावा ह अपवा2(Apoorva Shukla) रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar) क साथ

ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी इसलिलए झगड़ क बाद उसन रोफिह की हतया कर दी उसन अपना जम2 कबल कर लिलया ह पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 (Apoorva Shukla Tiwari) न अकल रोफिह (Rohit Shekhar Tiwari) का मह और गला दबाकर हतया की पलिलस का दावा ह फिक रोफिह (Rohit

Shekhar Tiwari) क साथ ादीदा जिजदगी म ख नही थी और हतया की यही वजह बनी दोनो की ादीदा जिLदगी ठीक नही थी जो सपन दख थ वो पर नही हो रह थ

इदौर की रहन वाली 34 साल की अपवा2 (ApoorvaShukla Tiwari) प स वकील ह 11 महीन पहल दोनो एक

मटरोमोनीयल साइट क जरिरय जड़ और फिर ादी कर ली पलिलस क माफिबक अपवा2 न ादी रोफिह की हलिसय और

रसख दखकर की थी लफिकन वो जो सपन दखकर आयी थी वो एक एक कर चकनाचर होन लग दोनो क बीच रोफिह की

आदो सपततितत और पारिरवारिरक रिरशो क लकर झगड़ा होनलगा झगड़ा इना बढ़ गया फिक एक ही घर म रोफिह और

अपवा2 अलग अलग कमर म रहन लग10 अपरल को रोफिह परिरवार क लोगो क साथ काठगोदाम वोट डालन गया और 15

अपरल की रा वापस लौटा ब अपवा2 दिदलली म ही थी

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 9

Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 12

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

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provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

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Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

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Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

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The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

Information 7 Out Of 10 Women Cheat On Spouses In India

A general believe about Indian Women is lsquothey are

faithful to their Husbandrsquo When someone says

something opposite to this people normally deny and

donrsquot believe And interesting part is mostly men deny

this

Many time i said that Indian Women already

entered in 21st century but men still living in 18th century

Looks like the statement going to be proved true soon A

recent survey suggest that women are not that much

faithful to their Husband as we believe Survey suggest

that 77 of Indian women choose to cheat their

Husbands Their reason can be different some of them

choose affair outside marriage because their marriage

become monotonous and some other because extra

marital affair allow then to add excitement

The survey was conducted by Gleeden which has

over 5 lakh users in India revealed that metros like

Bengaluru Mumbai and Kolkata have the maximum

number of women who cheat on their spouses The

survey was conducted under the title Why do women

commit adultery

Gleeden app was launched in France in 2009 It

arrived in India in 2017 and today 30 per cent of its

members in India are married women in the age group of

34-49 years

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Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 13

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 15

provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 16

Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

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Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

Daaman WelfareSociety (Regd)

A n u p a m D u b ey amp D i n e s h C h a n d r a

Satyagrah for Men ndash 2019 -

Daaman participated in Satyagrah for Men thenational protest by Save Indian Family Movement atJantar Mantar on 3rd of March that looked like a Kumbhof mens rights movement

Apart from Daaman activists and members of SIFNGOs from Chandigarh Bhopal Nagpur LucknowJammu and Kashmir Ludhiana Jalandhar PatnaJharkhand Chennai Agra Bareilly Indore Gujarat(about 30 cities in India) too participated that means thatalmost the entire country came down to Delhi to raisetheir voice demanding National Commission For Men

Speeches were delivered ideas shared mediainteractions inter-chapter discussions the brotherhoodthe togetherness was evident with the huge crowdincluding men women children in support Nowhere inthe world these many people mustve ever gathered forsuch a cause

Memorandums were already sent to 51 regionalpolitical parties and 8-9 national parties asking them toinclude our demand in their manifestos and also thememos were sent to PMO and President of India throughtheir officials at Jantar-Mantar

With such a powerful show of strength we believethe SIF has set another milestone and weve gone to astep higher in our quest to bring peace to the genderdiscourse in India

Fatherrsquos Day -

Daaman celebrated FathersDay on 16th June2019 at Rave 3 Mall Parvati Bagla Road Kanpur in thehonor of Fathers to admire fatherhood strengtheningpaternal bonds and to illustrate the role of a father in thefamily unit and in the society

The celebration of Fatherrsquos Day holds morerelevance in todayrsquos scenario as the Father devotes hislife discharges his responsibility and executes his dutiestowards his children without expectations He is first andthe best mentor and friend for his child Though in thepresent scenario his role is undermined and taken forgranted He has been burdened with all the forcedliabilities but devoid of any right in the name oferadicating gender biases by the lawmakers The

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lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

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MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

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provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

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Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 32

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

lawmakers are biased toward one gender and applying the wicked policy of divide and rule in thefamily system under the garb of vote bank politics attracting leftists and feminists

A need is felt to spread awareness in the society that the father should be protected first inorder to protect the family Daaman is making all possible efforts for recognition of healtheconomic and legal rights of the father and to ensure his well-being in the society

There was a series of interactive activities in the program like SelfieWithFather Videomessage to Father drawing placards for the Father etc There were very positive response andhuge participation involving all kind of people irrespective of gender and age With high visionthoughtful and detailed planning and the meticulous execution by the members Daaman wasable to execute such a prestigious program

On behalf of Daaman family we convey our thanks and appreciate all the participantsmedia persons and members of the trust for making this event a success We also convey ourthanks to the management team of Rave 3 for their warmth response hospitality andcoordination to make this event a memorable experience

Dinesh Chandra

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MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

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provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 16

Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

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Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

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provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

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Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

MRA ndash Catch Them Young

MRA is short for Mens Rights Activist A mensrights activist is referred as a person who campaigns foror supports the protection of mens rights and interestsMRAs argue that as human beings men should havehuman rights due process in legal matters and shouldnot be subject to reverse discrimination in favor ofother groups as Men face daily discrimination from thegovernment the media and the justice systemrsquo MRA is aperson who supports ending sexism towards men Oftenmade into a joke by closed-minded individuals who cantaccept that sexism towards men exists

I became an MRA when I realized thatmale abuse victims usually arent taken as seriously astheir female counterparts

As MRA I find very few who are fighting for thecause under SAVE INDIA FAMILY MOVEMENT (SIFM)Across India in different cities under SIFM approx 50NGOrsquos held meeting for counselling of male victim WhatI have observed over these years is that all male victimscome to weekly meeting are not MRA neither theyconvert into MRA accept a few and when theirpurposecase solved they left organisation amp never lookback

Conversion of victim into MRA is very negligiblethis is the main reason that head count is low in any MRAsponsored eventSatyagrahaActivism and still lack or notable to become a vote bank Why Vote Bank Because

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your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 15

provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 16

Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

your voice will not be heard inside parliamentas your cause will not be picked by any Politicalparty neither by Govt Agencies or Judicialsystem To become vote bank we have to drawattention of masses for our causes and for thiswe have to create strong MRA community interms of Quality and Quantity

Due to slow-n-low rate of conversion ofMRA from victim we have to rethink on ourplan of action strategies amp on Activism as wellMain three reason for this low rate ofconversion is selfishness shame to face themass and Time-n-Earning -

Selfishness Under SIFM NGO organiseweekly free meeting at several cities acrossIndia Some person in this NGOs take this as anopportunity as money making organisation bydupe and cheat the new victims Due to thesevictims turn away from the meeting when thefeel cheated

Also there are selfish victim too Theythink that they are the only victim and othersare culprit never comes to weekly meeting andwant all info on just a phone call as per theirneeds and requirement They never care forothers

Shame Several victims never come infrontline as he feels shame to face the societyas what will society say if someone sees withthe organization what people will think abouthim etc so they cut off from mainstreamwhich leads to massive suicide of males in thesociety

Time-n-Earning Itrsquos the commonproblem of all the victims is financial crunchThey have to earn for livelihood paymaintenance look after the dependents fightmultiple cases etc To earn he has to go officework place spend time with parents-n-dependents give time to fight cases provide

time to society etc Due the said reason victimhas lack of time and so not able to becomeMRA

Also its observed that mindset ofgeneral people is the greatest obstruction forMenrsquos Right movement We have to overcomethe obstruction and break the myth prevail inthe society by feminism that they beingoppressed and men are their enemy throughmass education We have to remove feminismas it is cancer for our society and its main causefor breaking of family system in India All thisrubbishness of feminism are induced fromschool level in the young minds of boys andgirls We have counter false narrative offeminism with correct datarsquos and literatureavailable If we are able to catch the youngminds and clear all doubts We have to use twothings first EGO and second PSYCHOSISAlso we have to develop separate syllabus forthis activism as catch them young We have totry for induction of Menrsquos Right in schoolcurriculumsyllabus as well

Itrsquos widely propagated that when a girl iseducated then one entire family is educated insimilar way if we can educate a boygirl onmenrsquos right then entire family will be aware ofMenrsquos Right which in turn will be a male votebank Feminist with their false narratives havereached at this level not in a day they havetaken decades still time has not gone out ofour hands

Every revolution started from collegeWe have to organise seminar at universities ampcolleges We have to deliver lecture on Menrsquosright regular interactions with studentorganise quiz at different level welcomewriteupblogpoem from student open centrefor male victim at college appointment of self-help activist organise dramamini play engagestudent for different typelevel of surveys

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provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

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Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 23

MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

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The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

provide internship encourage specialize courseon men etc So in first place we have toeducate college going student on Menrsquos Rightsecondly we have to promote student forchoosing and taking subject on Menrsquos Right ampcause for specialized research work thirdly wehave push for have subject or specializedstream in colleges and universities as well andlastly we should push hard to have a curriculumat school level on Menrsquos Right and their causes

This will help in creating awarenesstowards true gender-neutral society and breakthe myth of feminism created by feminist

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 16

Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

सविनशचि]त की विाह नमक ससथा का एक 2ारमिमZक पहल भी दिदखाई दता ह और शायद विाह नमक ससथा क लमब लन

क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 32

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

Marriage amp Divorce

Dr GSingh amp Sandeep Sharma

A Sword is a Sword Even if I call it Needle

विाह एक ऐसा शबद ह जिसस तकरीबन हर वयकति परिरकतित ह परनत समसया यह ह की विाह का असली मतलब शायद ही विकसी को पता

हो | उसस भी बड़ी बात शायद विाह हमार सामन इस तरह स रखा गया ह की शायद ही कोई वयकति ( परष ए मविहला दोनो) ऐसा हो जिसन विाह

करन क बार म न सोा हो कछ वयकति ( अधि2काश भारतीय) तो इसस भी आग ाकर यह सोत ह की यदिद विाह नही विकया तो ीन बबा6द हो

ायगा इस सो क पीछ कारण भी आसानी समझा ा सकता ह अभी कछ दिदन पहल एक बहत पराना सीरिरयल महाभारत दखन का असर धिमला

बपन म कभी महाभारत दखा था परनत उस क़त उमर क उस दौर स गर रह थ की मनोरन ही अधि2क महतपण6 था आ उमर का ह दौर ह ब

मनोरन क साथ सो विार की आ2ी भी लती ह तो महाभारत दखत क़त एक घटना का ीकर विकया ाना आशयक ह ब महारा पाणड अपनी पतनितनओ क साथ गल म क़त गर रह थ उस क़त एक ऋविष उनको विपत ऋण क बार म बतात ह ो की सतान उतपवित क दवारा ही उतरा

ा सकता ह ब पाणड शराप क कारन सतान उतपवित म असमथ6 हो ात ह तब महारा पाणड इतन अधि2क वयाकल दिदखत ह कयोविक उनका इस ससार

म आना पण6 रप स सफल नही हआ और सग6 म परश नही हो सकता

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

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शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

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क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

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अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

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ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

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Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 32

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 33

MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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महारा पाणड एक सफल और परापालक राा और हर तरह स समपन वयकति ह परनत उनक सामन सतान उतपवित

इतनी अधि2क महतपण6 ह को ह खद को असफल वयकति मानना आरमभ कर दत ह जिस क़त महारा पाणड हए उस

क़त शायद यह सो सही रही हो उस क़त भारत की नसखया काम रही होगी और लड़ाइयो ए अनय कारणो स

की विबमारिरयो क कारण मतयदार काफी अधि2क रही होगी इसीकतिलए सतान उतपवित survive करन क कतिलए आशयक रहा

होगा शायद इसी कारण सतान उतपवित को 2म6 क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया

परनत कया यह इतना आशयक रहा होगा की यदिद कोई सतान उतपन नही कर सकता को अपना ीन ही वयथ6

समझन लग शायद ऐसा इसीकतिलए था कयोविक सतान उतपवित को 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया त6मान म हमारी नसखया बहत

अधि2क ह तो त6मान म भी सतान उतपवित उतनी ही आशयक ह मर विार स नही परनत अधि2काश इस 2म6 स ड़ होन क

कारन आ भी अवित आशयक मानत ह

ब सतान उतपवित एक अवित आशयक बन कर सामन आती ह तो विाह भी एक अवित महतपण6 ससथा क

रप म उभर कर सामन आती ह सतान उतपवित क कतिलए विाह आशयक नही ह परनत भारतीय ससकवित म विाह ही सतरी

परष समबनध का एकमातर रप रहा ह आ बदलत क़त क साथ सतरी परष समबनध कतिसफ6 विाह तक ही सीधिमत नही रहा गया ह ऐस म कया विाह उतना ही महतपण6 रह गया ह

शायद नही

परनत यह विाह नमक ससथा की कलपना विकसन की कया इस भगन न बनाया

हमार समा म विाह की आशयकता को इस हद तक हाी हो की ह की अधि2काश लोग इस भगन विनरमिमZत

मानत ह एक बहत ही सामानय इसतमाल करन ाली सटटमट ोविड़या सग6 म बनती ह परनत यह सतय नही ह शायद आ

कोई नही ानता की विाह नमक ससथा की परिरकलपना विकसन की परनत यह विनशचि]त ह की विकसी मान न हज़ारो साल

पहल विाह नामक ससथा की कलपना की ताविक उसका समा अचछी तरह ल सक और यह कलपना इतनी अधि2क पॉपलर हई की सामानयता हा हा मान समा विनरमिमZत

हआ विाह विकसी न विकसी रप म परकतिलत हो गया

शायद इस ससथा क सफल होन का मखय कारन यह रहा की इस ससथा क विनयम और कायद बहत सो समझ कर

बनाय गए थ हर ससथा कछ विनयमो पर लती ह विबना विनयमो क कोई ससथा बनाई तो ा सकती ह परनत उस लाया नही

ा सकता शायद विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम बहत सो विार कर बनाय गए थ की उन विनयमो न ससथा की सफलता

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क पीछ एक कारन यह भी रहा की इस 2रम क साथ ोड़ दिदया गया और वयकति या समा 2म6 का पालन करन म

गौरानविनत महसस करत ह

मरी तरफ स म यह दाा तो परसतत नही कर सकता की मन विाह क सभी 2ारमिमZक ए सामाजिक पहलओ का

अधयन विकया ह परनत काफी हद तक समझन की कोकतिशश अशय की ह सभी पहलओ पर विार करन का अथ6 शायद

विकसस को बहत लमबा खिखZ दगा इसीकतिलए कतिसफ6 एक मसल पर विार करना उकतित ह ोविक विाह स डी हई जिममदारिरयो

स ड़ा हआ ह

अगर पराीन भारत स ड़ हए साविहतय महाभारत रामायण आदिद का अधयन विकया ाय तो एक बात सपषट रप स

सामन आती ह की विाह नामक ससथा म जिममदारिरयो को ३ भागो म बाटा ा सकता ह (१) घरल जिममदारी (२) बाहरी

जिममदारी (३) 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी शायद 2ारमिमZक जिममदारी( रामायण म एक परकार आता ह जिसम राम एक यघ करना

ाहत ह और उनको सीता की मरतितZ बना कर रखन यघ म बठन का आदश मानना पड़ता ह कयोविक पतनी क विबना यघ पण6 नही

हो सकता) ऐसी ह जिसम पवित ए पतनी दोनो सहयोविगक रप स विनभात ह इसक अलाा घरल जिममदारी ( घर की वयसथा

स की भोन) परी तरह स पतनी पर तथा बहरी जिममदारी( भोन क कतिलए आशयक 2न आदिद की वयसथा) पवित पर

डाली गयी ह

कया यह वयसथा सही ह

शायद यहा पर सही अथा गलत का परशन नही ह बलकिलक परशन कतिसफ6 वयसथा का ह ब तक समा एक वयसथा पर ल रहा

ह समा स समबधि2त लोग विनयमो पर लत रहग परनत यदिद समा म बदला आता ह तो समा स समबधि2त लोगो को भी बदलना पड़गा बदला आशयक भी ह कयोविक क़त बदलन

पर यही विनयम नही बदल ात तो विनशचि]त रप स ससथा लमब समय तक नही रह सकती यदिद यह बदला सतकतिलत रप स हो

तभी सथायी हो सकता ह अनयथा ससथा क विधस का कारन बन सकती ह

त6मान समा इसी परकार क विधस को दख रहा ह विशष रप स विाह नमक ससथा त6मान समा क विनयम

बदल रह ह बदलन की रफ़तार शायद बहत तज़ ह शायद इसका मख कारण साइस क कषतर म होन ाली करावित स ह परनत

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 23

MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 28

A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 29

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 32

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

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समा बदल रहा ह इसीकतिलए आशय यह ह की विाह स समबधि2त विनयमो म भी बदला हो परनत यह बदला सतकतिलत

होना ाविहए अगर असनतकतिलत बदला होगा तो विनशचि]त रप स विाह नमक ससथा लद ही ख़तम हो ाएगी

कया विपछल कछ दशको म हआ बदला काफी हद तक असतकतिलत हआ ह साल यह पदा होता ह की कौनस

बदला की यहा बात हो रही ह इसस पहल की हए बदलाो की बात की ाय यह ररी ह की कछ घटनाओ का विार

विकया ाय

स तो बहत सारी घटनाए ह शायद अनविगनत परनत म कतिसफ6 २ घटनाओ का ीकर करना ाहगा पहली घटना

रामायण स ह रामायण क ३ पातर लकषमण हनमान ए राण ब राम लकषमण स सीता क गहनो को पहानन क कतिलए कहत

ह तो लकषमण कहता ह की उसन कभी सीता का हर की तरफ नज़र उठा कर नही दखा इसी परकार हनमान ब सीता स

धिमलता ह तो सीता को माता कह कर पकारता ह इसीपरकार राण भी ीकर भी महतपण6 ह कहा ाता ह की राण की

कद म सीता कई महीनो तक रही परनत कद क दौरान राण न सीता को बइजजत नही विकता इसक अलाा सरविग ए ानर

सना भी पीछ नही रही यह सब घटनाय मविहला क परवित परष की इज़ज़त को परदरशिशZत करती ह

यदिद विकसी को राण गर ज़मान की घटना लग तो उसक कतिलए महारानी पशचिwनी का उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह

हा पर महाराा पशचिwनी को विरो2ी राा क हाल करक आसानी स अपनी ए सना की ान बा सकत थ परनत महाराा न महारानी पशचिwनी की इज़ज़त बन क कतिलए खद की

ए सनको की ान की पराह नही की

एक और उदधरण दिदया ा सकता ह ोविक १८५७ की आादी की लड़ाई क क़त का ह ब कई अगर तनिसतरया

भारतीय कतिसपाविहयो की कद म फस गयी तो उनहोन मविहलाओ को सरशचिकषत अगर छानी तक पहा दिदया ( इस तरह की

घटनाय बहत ह परनत म जिस घटना का ीकर कर रहा ह ह दिदलली स समबधि2त ह ए उस क़त की ह ब भारतीय कतिसपाही मरठ स दिदलली पह कर कबज़ा कर लत ह इस घटना

का ीकर न कल साविहतय म बलकिलक इगलड म छपन ाली कई विकताबो ए नयज़ पपर म भी धिमलता ह)

ब हम इन घटनाओ का ीकर कर रह ह तो सीता ए पशचिwनी का वयवहार की विारणीय ह सीता न राण क

परसता ना मानकर ए पशचिwनी न ोहर करक महाराा का साथ दिदया ए बहतरीन उदधरण पश विकया

परनत यह घटनाए कतिसफ6 द घटनाए नही ह परा भारतीय इवितहास ऐसी ही घटनाओ स भरा हआ ह यदिद कोई

अधयन करना ाह तो लाखो या शायद उसस भी जयादा परमाशचिणत उदधरण दिदए ा सकत ह

यह सभी घटनाए भारतीय परषो क उचच रिरतर का उदधरण ह परनत अानक दशय कस बदल गया अानक ही

परष ो बहतरीन रिरतर का माकतिलक था सभी बराइयो की ड़ बन गया रविपसट बन गया आखिखर ऐसा कया हआ

ऐसा नही ह की परिरत6न म हज़ारो साल लग हो बलकिलक मखय परिरत6न विपछल २० सालो म ही हआ ह शायद इसका कारण समपक6 सा2नो म हए अपरतयविषत जिदध ह विपछल २० या

३० सालो म सपक6 सा2न बहत बढ़ गए ह और अनय ससकवितया ो की भारतीय ससकवित को परभावित करन की

सथिसथवित म आ गयी जिसन बहत तज़ी स असनतकतिलत रप स परिरत6न को बढ़ाा दिदया जिसक परिरणाम सरप परिरभाषाय

भी बदल गयी ो विनयम या वयसथाए विकसी क़त उननवित या सामसय का कारन रही ही नीयम विडतनिसकरधिमनशन दिदखाई दन

लग इस कतिलए नही की यह विडतनिसकरधिमनशन था बलकिलक इस कतिलए कयोविक परिरभाषा बदल गयी एक उदधरण स इस समझा ा सकता ह स की मन पहल कहा की घरल वयसथा दखना

मविहलाओ क विहसस म आया था और बहरी जिममदारी परषो क विहसस आयी और यह वयसता सदिदयो तक सफल सामाजिक

वयसथा का विनमा6ण कर सकी कयोविक मविहलाओ न अपना विहसस की जिममदारी और परषो न अपन विहसस की जिममदारी अचछी तरह स विनभाई परनत ही बदलत क़त क साथ परष

दवारा मविहलाओ पर विकय अतयाार क रप म दखा ान लगा

बदलत परिरदशय न मविहलाओ को अपनी जिममदारी स म करन क परयास शर कर दिदया परनत यह बदला

असतकतिलत बन गया कयोविक मविहलाओ को उनकी जिममदारी स मकत कर दिदया गया परनत परषो को उनकी जिममदारी स म

नही विकया गया ऐस म यह खा ा सकता ह बदला असनतकतिलत हो गया यदिद हआ बदला दोनो को जिममदारिरयो

स मकति परदान करता तब शायद बदला असतकतिलत ए विधसकारी नही होता बलकिलक परगवित दायक होता परनत ऐसा हो

नही सकता

यह ममविकन ह की कछ लोग बदलाो क समथ6क हो और कछ अनय बदलाो क समथ6न म न हो ऐस म दोनो पकषो म

खीतान साभाविक ह ऐसी खीतान परमविाह बालविाह आदिद कई मामलो म पहल भी दखन को धिमली ह परनत

खीतान विनाश का कारन तभी बन सकती ह ब की परिरत6न असतकतिलत हो त6मान न कई कारणो स की

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

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Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 32

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 33

MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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रानवितक ( ोट बक) ए सामाजिक ( अविशवास ए साथ6) कारणो स परिरत6न सतकतिलत नही हो पा रहा

उदधरण क तौर पर बहत सार लोगो को यह कहत हए सना ाता ह की मन अपनी लड़की को लड़को की तरह पाला

ह या मरी लड़की लड़को स काम नही ह अधि2काश मामलो म इस परकार की लड़विकया घरल जिममदारी विनभान क लायक नही

बनाई ाती और न ही बाहरी जिममदारी विनभान लायक भारतीय वयसथा म लड़को को बपन स ही बहरी जिममदारी

उठान लायक बनाया ाता ह त6मान म लड़को को घरल जिममदारी क लायक बनान की अपकषा भी की ाती ह मतलब

की दोहरी जिममदारी परनत लड़विकयो की दोनो जिममदारिरयो स म विकया ा रहा ह शायद काफी लोग सहमत न हो तो ऐस म कछ उदधरण पश विकय ा सकत ह

१) भोन की वयसथा करना परष की जिममदारी थी त6मान म यह वयसथा या उसस भी एक कदम आग बाद कर

अपना ली गयी ह त6मान म ऐस कानन पास कर दिदए गए ह की पतनी कही भी रह ाह ह पवित क साथ रह या कही और उस ख6 दन की जिममदारी पवित की ह

२) पतनी अगर अपन परमी क साथ physicalrelation बनाना ाह तो पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता बलकिलक

आपशचि करन का मतलब कतिसफ6 म6 करना ह

३) बचचो की समसत जिममदारी उठान क बाद उस बचचो स धिमलन का अधि2कार पतनी की मज़ पर विनभ6र करता ह

४) बट ब १८ ष6 क हो ाय तब उनकी जिममदारी उठाना विपता की मज़ पर रखा गया परनत बटी आग ५० की भी

हो तो भी उसकी जिममदारी काननन विपता पर राखी गयी और यदिद विाविहत हो तो पवित पर

5) पतनी विकसी भी अनय परष स समबनध बना सकती ह ए पवित आपशचि नही कर सकता

6) पतनी अगर पवित स समबनध न बनाना ाह तो यह उसका अधि2कार ह परनत अगर पवित समबनध न बनाना ाह तो

यह पतनी क परवित कररता ह

यह कतिसफ6 ाद एकसामपल ह जिनस सपसट ह की विाह नमक ससथा क विनयम एकतरफा बदल गए ह ो की

अनयायपण6 ह त6मान म ोट बक की रानीवित क कारनTTT विबल ा6 म ह इस विबल क दवारा एक बार विफर स न

कल परष ग6 स उसक अधि2कार छीन कतिलए गए ह बलकिलक परष ग6 को अपरा2ी घोविषत करन की नयी परिरभाषा भी बना

दी गयी ह और ऐसा पहली बार नही हआ बलकिलक लगातार होता रहा ह जिसस की परष ग6 को अपरा2ी रिरतरहीन आदिद

घोविषत विकया ाता रहा ह सपसट ह की परष ग6 अपरा2ी नही ह बलकिलक उस अपरा2ी घोविषत करन क कतिलए परिरभाषाए बदल दी गयी ह

विाह नमक ससथा परी तरह एकतरफा बना दी गयी ह ऐस म इस ससथा का भविषय कया ह

यह साल महतवपरन ह परनत यदिद समा म ाकर लोगो स पछा ाय की ह विाह करना ाहत ह या नही तो एक मददा

सामन आता ह की अधि2काश लोग विाह स तो परिरकतित ह परनत विाह क साथ ड़ हए काननो स विबलकल परिरकतित नही

ह ऐस म समा स आय हए इनपटस क आदर पर विकया गया विनण6य सही नही हो सकता हम ागरक इनपटस स ही विनण6य करना पड़गा और ागरक इनपट स धिमला हआ ाब कतिसफ6

एक ही बात कहता ह की Sword is a Sword Even ifwe call it Needle It is risky to get marry Thereare great great chances that you may loos yourrepotationmoneylife everything you have

ऐस म कया विाह इतना आशयक ह की सब कछ गा कर भी विाह विकया ाय मर विार स यह सभ नही ह बहत सार परष इस समझ क ह और ो नही समझ रह ह

भी लद ही समझ ायग ए अत म विाह नमक ससथा का समापत होता तय ह यदिद भारतीय समा स बाहर विनकल कर

दख तो पाएग की अधि2काश परष विाह को पराथधिमकता नही दत भारतीय अभी इस परिरसथिसथवित स थोड़ा दर ह परनत इतना दर नही की इस दखा ही न ा सकता हो

ऐस म सोा ा सकता ह की कया विाह नमक ससथा को बाना ररी ह या बाया ा सकता ह

यह महतपण6 नही ह की इस साल का ाब कया ह महतपण6 ह की यह साल उठ खड़ा हआ ह ऐस म ाब

समझन क कतिलए एक परिरसथिसथवित पर विार करत ह

मान लीजिय की विकसी कमर म 3 करशिसZया मौद ह और उस कमर म 6 लोग आत ह तो 6 लोग 3 करशिसZयो का

इसतमाल कस करग समसया विकट ह परनत इस समसया क कई हल हो सकत ह

bull सभी 6 लोग 3 करशिसZया share karke बठ सकत ह

bull सभी लोग ज़मीन पर बठ सकत ह

bull 3 लोग करशिसZयो पर और 3 ज़मीन पर

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

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bull 3 लोगो को मार दिदया ाय तो ब हए 3 लोग 3 करशिसZयो पर बठ सकत ह (By Thonas)

bull 3 लोगो को कमर स भगाया ा सकता ह

bull 3 नई करशिसZया बनाई ा सकती ह (Iron Men)

इसक अवितरिर भी अनय कई उपाय आ सकत ह और स भी यही ह की अलग अलग लोग अपन समझ क

अनसार अलग अलग उपाय अपनाएग

करीब करीब यही वयसथा विाह क कतिलए भी ह विाह क साथ ड़ खतरो को दखत हए विनशचि]त ह की विाह

एक ऐसी ससथा बन ायगा ोविक अाकतिछत होगी परनत कछ लोग सभी खतरो को नज़रअदाज़ करक भी विाह करत रहग यही आ हम अमरिरकी समा म दख रह ह अमरिरका म

अधि2काश या विाह नही कर रह ह और कछ कर भी रह ह शायद यही भारतीय विाह का भी भविषय ह

तो कया यह एक बरा भविषय ह

नही इसका बरा या अचछा होन स कोई विशष लना दना नही ह समसया कतिसफ6 त6मान ह बविक परष ागरक नही ह उनको नही पता की विाह करक दा पर कया लगाया

ा रहा ह और विकतनी बड़ी कीमत ह कान ा रह ह एक बार ागरकता आ ाय तब परष अगर दा खलना ाहगा

तो यह उसकी अपनी इचछा अनसार होगा ब ा खला ाता ह तो खलन ाल को पता रहता ह की ह दा हार भी सकता ह परनत विाह नाम क ए म त6मान म दा विबना

riskfactor की ानकारी क ही लगाए ा रह ह

ऐस म ो लोग दा लगा क ह परनत ह दा बाहर आना ाहत ह उनक कतिलए समसया गभीर हो सकती

ऐस लोगो क कतिलए न कल इमोशनल लल पर समसया ह बलकिलक सामाजिक ए काननी तौर पर भी समसया ह कयोविक

परष अनान म विाह नमक ससथा ोविक उसक कतिलए एक ाल बन की ह उसम फसा ह उसक कतिलए ाल स विनकलन

का विनण6य इमोशनल लल पर घातक ह कयोविक उस विाह क ो सपन समा न दिदखाए या य कह की समा न उस

गमराह विकया विाह ह सनहरा सपना नही विनकला ऐस म परष क कतिलए यह इमोशनली एक झटका ह इसक अलाा उसक सामन सामाजिक ए लीगल दबा भी ह

सामाजिक तौर पर तलाक को अभी उस हद तक सीकाय6ता नही धिमल पायी ह विहनद ससकवित म विाह का

परा2ान तो रखा गया परनत तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया कयोविक जिस क़त क समा न विहनद ससकवित का

विनमा6ण विकया उस क़त विाह ीन बलकिलक ७ नम का

ब2न माना गया इसीकतिलए तलाक का परा2ान नही रखा गया बदलत क़त न तलाक क परा2ान को काननी रप दिदया

परनत परनत सामाजिक तौर पर अभी भी कछ लोग इस सीकार नही कर पाए ह ए तलाक को बरी ए बदनामी

लायक हरकत मानत ह

ऐसा ही एक उदधरण मर सामन आया जिसम कीcall करन ाल परष न कहा की उसक परिरार ए रिरशतदारो

म विकसी का तलाक नही हआ इस तरह की सो परष पर भारी समाीक दबा का काम करती ह

इसक अलाा एक अनय परष भी मर धिमतर ह ोविक हमशा इस बात पर ोर दत ह की विहनद ससकवित म तलाक का

परा2ान ही नही ह हए बदलाो को ह हमशाइगनोर असीकार कर दत ह इस तरह का वयवहार अधि2क

कॉमन ह इस वयवहार को समझन क कतिलए अधिमश वितरपाठी की कतिशा दिओलोगय अथा शचिकषवित की सतान एक बहतरीन

पसतक हो सकती ह इसक अलाा भी कई पसतक ह ो बदलाो की असीकवित को बहतरीन तरीक स एकसपलन कर

सकती ह

इसक अलाा काननी दिद भी ह जिनका सामना परष को करना पड़ता ह मखय तौर पर परष को कई तरह क

आपराधि2क आरोप भी कोट6 म झलन पड़ सकत ह इसक अवितरिर न कन काननी परा2ान बलकिलक काननी परा2ानो

की पलना करान ाल भी बहत अधि2क झका रखत ह और यह झका परषो क विरो2 म ह इसकतिलए यही कोई परष विाह रपी ाल स विनकलन की सो भी ल तो इस परयास म उसका तमाम ज़िज़Zदगी की महनत ए इज़ज़त और

कई मामलो म तमाम जिज़नदगी गर सकती ह एक उदधरण क तौर पर हम उस वयकति को ल सकत ह जिसन ३३ साल की आय म तलाक की अ दाखिखल की और आ उसकी आय

४५ ष6 ह परनत अभी तक उसकी आलकिपलकशन लोअर कोट6 म ही पडिडZग ल रही ह बविक विपछल १२ सालो क दौरान

उस पर ४ आपराधि2क मामल दायर विकय गए जिनम स उसको बाइज़ज़त बार विकया गया

इस समसत घटनाकरम का एक पहल नफरत का और भी ह जिसपर शायद अधि2काश लोग सोना भी नही ाहत विफर स

उसी वयकति का उदधरण ल सकत ह जिसका तलाक का कस १२ साल बाद भी पडिडZग ह ब म उस वयकति स बात की तो

सामन कतिसफ6 इतना ही आया की अब उस वयकति क दिदल म लड़की और परिरार क कतिलए इस हद तक नफरत भर की ह

की ह विकसी भी कीमत पर कोई भी फ सला नही करना ाहता बलकिलक ह लड़की क परिरार क हर सदसय को अपना दशमन मानता ह और दशमनी अपनी मतय तक विनभान का इचछक ह ाह इसकी कोई भी कीमत उस कानी पड़ यह उदधरण वयकतिगत दशमनी का ह अगर इस उदधरण को छोड़

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दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

दिदया ाय भी दिदया ाय तो अनय कई उदधरण सामन आय ह सबस नया उदधरण मीत क बाद आया ब कई परषो न

मविहलाओ क साथ काम करन स इकार कर दिदया कयोविक ह इस अपन कतिलए सरशचिकषत नही मानत अतः सपसट ह की मविहला अ परष क विब दरिरया बाद रही ह ब तक परिरत6न

सीकाय6 होगा तब तक मविहला अ परष इस हद तक दर हो क होग की शायद कोई वयसता दरिरयो को भर न पाए और ऐसा कतिसफ6 इसीकतिलए कयोविक परिरत6न सतकतिलत न होकर परष

विरो2ी रह गया ह

शायद यही क़त ह बविक हम सीकार करना होगा की विाह का अथ6 अपना परा ीन की महनत दा पर

लगाना ह और यही नयी नरशन को बतान की ए ागरक करना ही क़त की ररत ह

Now the question is if this apply on Menonly

I would say as long as we are talkingabout legal issues yes it apply on men onlyBut if we are talking about emotional amp socialissues my answer is simple and old enoughtlsquoWomen already entered into 21st centuary butmen still roming in 18th centuary men can notcryrsquo so yes it affact badly men compare thenwomen

Marriage is A Sword accept it before it is tooLate

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MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 28

A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

MeToo Dead Last Rites Performed

Saurabh Singh amp Abhay Bharunt

In the middle of August 2018 in Varanasi thenationwide SIFIANrsquoS Men Right Activistrsquos (MRArsquos) whohad assembled for the 10th Natcon under the aegis ofSave Indian Family Movement had successfully donePisachani Mukti Yaagh amp Pind- daan of their dead Maritalrelations which had reached a ldquodead endrdquo

SIFIANrsquoS MRA being unbiased men and lawabiding citizen of the country had given the babypisachani named MeToo relief abiding by the IndianPenal Code and Juvenile Justice (care and Protection ofChildren) Act The SIFIANrsquoS believed in MeToo sweetswords that it wonrsquot harm anyone in India and to spare heras she was very very young

But an evil that too of a feminist mindset wouldalways remains an evil

The MeToo pisachani didnrsquot take days to gain anadult body to demonstrate her wickedness The evilnessof MeToo all over the globe was of such a misusedsuccessful massacre on the menrsquos plight that the feministused it as their only weapon left behind to persecute menand his entire family Menrsquos reputation honesty dignitycreditability amp ethics by which men has always lived bywas being dilapidated to it edges leading to male suicidesnot just limited to their carriers but of lifersquos as like neverbefore the males family was getting devastated by suchmindless amp vindictive allegations

MeToo had ruined menrsquos life all across the globeamp now it turned it wicked frame of mind and devil eyesupon Indian Menrsquos but as the SIFIANrsquoS had alreadyperformed a triumphant pisachani mukti yaagh theMeToo could not spread it mesh as it had been aspiredto be MeToo worn out all its gas fell short of respirationin result failing miserably amp lastly succumbing to her owninjuries

The SIFIANrsquos who were assembling in the NationalCapital on 03-03-2019 Satyagrah4Men learned thenews on 01st March 2019 that MeToo which was inventilation had a very horrifying aberrant death and no socalled feminist had been at her death bed It is to be notedthat the MeToo which had been grossly misused by

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unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

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Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

unscrupulous womenrsquos the same devious womenrsquos distanced them from MeToo as MeToocould not achieve their targets and wickedness (well as it has been noted amp recorded that thefeminist only use women for their benefits)

After all devastating effect of MeToo in India which gave rise to a culture of Digital MobLynching it was time to say RIP MeToo On 02nd of March 2019 the SIFIANrsquos as always who aredevoted to the Indian Culture decided not the leave the decomposed body of MeToo as orphanbut perform the last rites rituals as per the Hindu rituals ie the shav-yatra dehsanskar pind-daan of MeToo as MeTooFuneral followed by MeTooKaPindDaan at the Kalindi Kunj GhatDelhi

Figure 1 MeeToo Dead Body Figure 2 Preparation for the Shavyatra of MeeToo

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Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

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Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

Figure 3 SIFIANrsquoS assembling near MeeTooFigure 4 MeeToo dead body lifted for the shav yatra dead body

Figure 5 MeeToo Shav-yatra begins

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Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

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Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

Figure 6 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar Figure 7 MeeToo last rite for dehsanskar

Figure 8 Dehsanskar - MeTooFuneral

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 27

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 28

A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 32

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

Figure 9 MeTooKaPindDaan

The authors of this article where present at the last rites of MeToo at the Kalindi KunjGhat Delhi and whatever happened at the moment the authors realized that ldquojaisi karni wasibharnirdquo the Indian well know proverb was indeed true

To the author astonishment amp quandary the MeToo last right was so beaming that eventhe river Yamuna was praying for alternatives as though inquiring with the SIFIANrsquoS why it had toaccept the ashes of MeToo in his holy river bed

Even Lord Indra - the lord of rain was in its full fury as if he didnrsquot wanted the MeToowicked soul neither in heaven nor in hell The circumstances for Lord Indra was such as if all thesouls from heaven and hell had prayed with folded hands to the lord Indra to do anything oreverything by hook or crook to stop the last rites of MeToo so that they could be saved from thevehemence of MeToo The rains were really so ruthless trying to play havoc at its paramount

The Menrsquos Right activist of Delhi NCR and other national activist willpower ampdetermination as always being strong (tested time amp again) performed the shavyatra anddehsanskar of MeToo by overcoming all the hindrances At last the SIFIANrsquoS were successful incremation of MeToo dead body but it was not over yet the last rites that was the pind-daan wasstill to be performed and indeed MeToo soul short lived at the hand of unscrupulous womenturned out to be impious of them all The Pandit ji who was performing the pind- daan informedthe activist that ldquorain hindrances do occurs only when a soul is wicked amp has ruined the life of asmany as it couldrdquo

Being the last rites of MeToo performed it turned out to be evening

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A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

A movement which became a tool to name shame and satisfy personal vendetta bymaligning and destroying men by falsely alleging sexual misconduct after years and that toowithout any direct indirect or circumstantial evidence

No formal complaintinvestigation no court trails but on mere testimony men werestamped as sexual predators molesters rapists and what not

Carrier spoiled families destroyed and few men even committed suicide

The movement has done no good to the gender discourse and environment at work placesis all more tensed and unhealthy

Such a movement when cremated and last rites performed will only bring in peace andharmony Om Shanti Om Shanti Om Shanti

Media Articles as below

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And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 30

And Miles to Go

Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

I was low for some bad thoughts

The spark had ended that my mind had brought

But I woke up with a fire again

Irsquoll rise like before with no complaint

Started my journey coz i never back down

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 32

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

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Life is all about the goals

You want to achieve tirelessly

No matter what are the ways

No matter how hard the days

I am just grinding so that i can shine

Only the best i want to design

Therersquos a long long line

But thatrsquos just fine

After some struggle it will all be mine

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The spark had ended that my mind had brought

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God took my hand and showed me the crown

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

God took my hand and showed me the crown

Now I am ready running fast and steady

Irsquoll never stop writing for my fate

The destiny of life that Irsquoll myself create

Because miles to go to hit the goal

For that Irsquoll put my life and soul

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 33

MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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MARRIAGE

Most people believe marriage is a lsquoSacred Relationshiprsquo but in reality marriage is just a legal agrement Agrement in which women having all the rights and men has all the duties Legally Marriage can be defined as

Marriage in India under Hindu Marriage Act - Marriage According to general definition Marriage is a state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or a wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law

MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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MARRIAGE

Hindu Marriage Act A marriage can take place between the two consenting individuals of opposite sex who are of sound mind

Bride - More than eighteen years of ageGroom - More that twenty one years of age

Even if Boy or Girl have not attained the requisite age the marriage may remains valid

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

MARRIAGE

Prohibited Marriages

If one is a lineal ascendant of the other if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant

or descendant of the other if one was the wife of the brother or of the fathers or

mothers brother or of the grandfathers or grandmothers brother of the other

if the two are brother and sister uncle and niece aunt and nephew or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

MARRIAGE

If a spouse leaves other -

If a spouse leaves other without just or reasonable cause the other spouse can move to the court for restitution of conjugal rights This is provided under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act

Once a decree under section 9 is passed it is obligatory for the spouse to come back to other and if the souse fails to do so even after one year of the decree it becomes a ground for divorce for other spouse

Note In my view this section is useless

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

MARRIAGE

Ground for Divorce under HMA

Adultery Cruelty Desertion Conversion Insanity Leprosy Venereal Disease Presumption Of Death Grounds For Wife only

Rape Sodomy Or Bestiality (for wife onle) Non-Resumption Of Cohabitation After A Decree

Order Of Maintenance Repudiation Of Marriage

MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

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MARRIAGE

Maintenance There are many provision for Maintenance for wife on different Grounds

Domestic Violence Act Cruielty Sec 125 of CrPC Cruielity HMA 24 Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act Section 18 of GWA etc

MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

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MARRIAGE

Madras HC -

Transwomen is a lsquoBridersquo under Hindi Marriage Act

23 Apr 2019

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 53

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

The legal definition of live-in-relationship is ldquoan arrangement of living under which couples which are unmarried live together to conduct a long-going relationship similarly as in marriagerdquo

SC of India recognize Live-in-Relationship as a Valid Marriage

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 46

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 50

51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

MARRIAGE

SC of India -

Section 497 states that if a man has sexual intercourse with a married woman without her husbands consent he is punishable by law The man could be imprisoned for five years or more and even pay a fine

Supreme Court judgment on adultery law scraps Section 497

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

MARRIAGE

Divorce by Men -

If men ask for divorce he can be in trouble because he can be implimented into various criminal cases (more then 5) It is because Indian Matrimonial Law is gender biased and wife can register criminal cases without evidence Men has no option other then bow down to wifersquos demands which include a lot of cash payment

If Wife ask for divorce still the condition remain same man has to face a lot of criminal cases

Inshort we can say It is next to impossible to get divorce for men while women can enjoy divorce with a huge cash paid by Husband without any fault

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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For Help Call SIF-One

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Rahul Neelam Mera USA ka Visa Lag Gaya Hai PrantuMain Nhin Ja Rha Hoon

Neelam USA ka Visa bahut Badiya Tumhe Jana Cahiye

Rahul Nhin Main Apne Pita ko Nhin Chhod Sakta

Neelam Aisa Karo 4-5 Saal USA laga Aao ForeignReturn Ban Jaoge to Yhan Par Koi Bhi Badi CompanyNaukari De Degi HAMARI LIFE BAN JAYEGI

Rahul Tumhara Matlab Hai Ki Meri (Hamari Nhin Meri)Life Ban Jayegi

Rahul Main Keshav Ka Ladka Hoon Is Trap Main NhinFasne Wala Ki Tumhe Aish Karwane Ke liye MehnatKaroon

Rahul Tumse Shaadi Tabhi Karoonga Jab TumharaStatus Equal Hoga aur Shaadi Ke Baad tum EquallyContribute Kar Pao

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 48

Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 54

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

Keshav amp SharmaLife Set Ho JayegiEP - 073

Sharma Keshav Ji Apne Prakash Ji Se Mulakat Hui AajBajar Main Bahut Pareshan Dikhe

Keshav Kyo Kya Pareshani Hai Unko

Sharma Apne Ghar Ke Haalat Se Pareshan Hai UnhoneApni Sari Kamai Bachon Par Laga Di Ek Makan Bana Payebas

Sharma Ab Bache unka dhyan nhin rakte aur Roz ki KhichKhich se Pareshan Hai

Keshav Sharma Ji Unhone bachon ko Pada Diya abBache apne Pairon par Khade Hai Unki Jimedaari puri hochuki hai ab unko Apne Adhikaron ke Liye jagna ChahiyeMakan Unka apna banaya hua hai aur usme unko SHANTIPURVAK rhne ka pura hak hai

Keshav Unko Aawaz Uthane ki Jarorat Hai SpeakLoudly Against Any Violence against you Even if it issmall like shooping

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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Menrsquos Panchtantra

Why Love Marriage amp ArrangeMarriage failing

Once marriage was a relation for 7 births today marriage if it worked for 1 birth that only means boy was luckyenough Why boy was lucky is not it about girl Yes it is more about boy because boy loose almost everything if marriage failed

Marriage is marriage it does not matter if it is Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage Both marriage fail and there arechances that both may be successfull too Today we see a lot of failed marriage soon the failed marrige will be more There are many reasons behind a failed marriage Although unlimited number of reasons can be counted but most common reasons can be noticed from discussing with different peoples

Here are few examples taken from social media Marriage is a Business Indian Marriage has turned into

a business transaction these days and some people are chapter and verse with the requirements of this business

Too much of expectation irrespactive of what herdaughter is A typical Indian father blessed with a beautifuldaughter who is old enough to get married as per our societystandards Father is swamped now a days in search of a suitablematch for his daughter He is primarily looking for these twomajor characteristics in his future Son-in-Law The prospectivegroom must possess his own home He should be endowed witha consistent cash flow (Predominantly a Government Job or AnEstablished Business) In addition he wants his son-in-law to

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comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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51

DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

comes of a reputed family maintain a nice socialcircle no unhealthy practices etc etc Neverthelessa house and a secured future are the intrinsic needs

High and unrealistic expectation My cousinis working as a software engineer in a very smallcompany that is not so famous and so he wasearning a decent salary neither high nor low Thisgirl wanted him to surprise her for even smallthings Buy costly gifts Take for dinner outsidevery often

Highly egoistic Narcissistic It was the girlwho proposed my cousin and married Aftermarriage she started belittling her by saying that hewas not capable enough to earn more not able totake care of her properly saying that her family isrich and there were so many good boys longing forher etc etc

Demanding gender equality(which shouldcome naturally) She doesnt do any cooking athome my cousin has to come from office and dothe cooking If my cousin is in second shift thenthey mostly eat outside food She says am I a slaveto you and your family

Not able to compliment each other Clearlyshe was not able to appreciate my cousin on theeffort that he took to satisfy her

Not able to support each other She was notsupportive at all and my cousin had to facehardships in his job as well because of her behaviorOften she says that he goes in shifts and not takingher out

Physical abuse Usually the guy abuses thegirl physically but here its quite oppositehellip the girlused to slap him for no reason beat him whenevershe gets angry for no reason My cousin tolerated allthese for two years just because he loved her He did

not even inform to the parents as he thot it was notthe right thing to do

Not interested in sex The girl was moreinterested in giving birth to a child abroad otherthan the native country so that she can have a highend life style Due to this she was not at allinterested in SEX but got pregnant Fortunately orunfortunately it got aborted(still not sure about thereasons) Also cursing my cousin for not satisfyingher sexually

Social media Social status Until mycousin brought this matter out they were postingfancy pictures in FB whatsapp which clearlyshows that she was fantasized by the social media

The above reasons general apply only tomost of couples they are the broad reasons formarriage failure in India

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DO YOU KNOW

Almost 77 Indian Wife Cheat with Their Husbands

Based on Resent Research

Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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Keshav amp SharmaLife After DivorceEP - 074

राहल नमसकार कशव जी

कशव आइय राहलजीकहा सआ रह ह

राहल वोट डाल कर रहा ह मोदी जी को ताकिक वह दबारा पावर

म आ सक और रक हए किबल पास किकय जा सक

कशव मोदी जी सरकार बनाय या राहल जी दोनो अचछी

बात ह परनत आपका इशारा शायद किकसी ख़ास किबल की

तरफ ह

राहल जी हा म टरि$पल तलाक किबल क बार म बात कर रहा था

कशव टरिampपल तलाक को SC पहल स ही अमानय घोकि(त कर

चकी ह

राहल मरा मतलब ह की टरि$पल तलाक को आपराधि)क घोकि+त

किकय जान क किबल स था

कशव आप तलाक को आपराधि+क मामला कयो बनाना

चाहत ह

राहल आपराधि)क मामला तो ह ही आप बताइय कशव जी कोई

लड़का आपकी लड़की या बहन की ज़ि0दगी बबा3द कर द तो आप

उसको छोड़ दग कया

कशव तलाक स आपकी लड़की की ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

जाएगी कया

राहल और नही तो कया

कशव औरतलाक क धिलएआपलड़को भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल आप नही कहग की जो आपकी लड़की की ज़ि0नदगी बबा3द

कर उसको जल भिजवाया जाय

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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कशव चधिलए कछसवालो क जवाब टरिदजोय

राहल कोनस सवाल

कशव शादी क वक़तलड़कीकी उमर २०- २५ कआसपास होती हऔर वह मा बाप क साथ रहती ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव लड़कीको पड़न धिलखन का कामलड़की क मा बापकरत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह

कशव उसकाकिबल बनान का काम मा बाप ही करत ह

राहल जाकिहर ह और कौन करगा

कशव तलाक जयादातर कसस म ५ साल क अदर ही हो जाता ह

राहल शायद

कशव तोअगर तलाक स लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द हई तो उसक ज़िजमददर तो मा बाप हए ना की पकित

राहल कया

कशव तो ऐस म जलअगर भि5जवाना ह तो मा बापको भि5जवाना चाकिहए नकी पकितको

राहल कया फालत बात कर रह ह कशव जी

कशव चधिलए यह बताइय की लड़की को ज़िनदगी कस जीनी ह यह सीखन की ज़िजममदारी मा बाप की ह

या किकसीऔरकी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव और मा बाप सीखा रह ह की अगर शादी ना की जाय या तलाक हो जाय तो ज़िनदगी बबा1द हो

गयी तो ऐस म लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होगी या नही

राहल शायद

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कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

कशव अगर लड़की को काकिबल बनाया होता उस धिसखाया होता की ज़िनदगी धिसफ1 शादी करन क धिलए

नही ह बलकिGक इसम और 5ी बहत कछ ह लड़की को अपन परो पर खड़ा होना धिसखाया होता तो कया

लड़कीकी ज़िनदगी बबा1द होती

राहल शायद नही

कशव अब इसको लड़ककी तरफ स दखत ह

राहल कस

कशव लड़क कोआतम किन51र बनाया गया थाऔर उस धिसखाया गया था की वह धिसफ1 शादी करन क

धिलए पदा नही हआबलकिGक ज़िनदगी क मायन शादी स अलग5ी बहत कछ ह

राहल हा शायद

कशव तो लड़क न एक किबगड़ हए रिरशत किन5ाए चल जान स बहतर समझा की अलग होकर शात

ज़िनदगी जीजाय

राहल शायद हा

कशव मतलबयहकी लड़कको ज़िनदगी जीनाआता थाऔरलड़कीको नही

राहल हा

कशव अबबताइय को लड़कऔरलड़कीको ज़िनदगी क धिलए तयार करन की ज़िजममदारी किकसकी थी

राहल मा बाप की

कशव तो किफर जल मा बापकोजाना चाकिहए या पकितको

राहल पता नही आपन confuse कर टरिदया

कशव चधिलए यह तो मानग की अगर मा बाप न २० साल लड़कीकी लाइफ बनाई होतो तो कोई 5ी उस

१ या २ साल म बबा1द नही कर सकता था अगर बबा1द हई तो इसका मतलब हकी ज़िनदगी बनाई ही नही

गयी थी

राहल शायदआप सही कह रह ह

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कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 55

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

कशव औरजो ची बनाई ही नही गई उसक धिलएआपपकितको जल भि5जवाना चाहत ह

राहल

कशव हा हा हा हा हा हा चधिलएचाय पीत ह चचा1 किफरक5ीकरग

राहल ठीक ह

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Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 56

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

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Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

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Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

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lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

Articles or any other relivantcontent can be submitted bysending Email at

mhubdamangmailcom

Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

The Watching Dog

Free ride for Women by AAP

परिय मितर कजरीवाल amp सहयोगी दल आजकल नयज़पपर amp सोशल मीडिया पर मटरो एवम अनय पबलिलक

टरासपोरट क साधनो म मडिलाओ क लिलए फरी यातरा सबधी समाचार बहत चरचिचत इसी सबध म म MensHUB की तरफ स आपका धयान डिनमन

बातो की तरफआकडि3त करना चात

1 सडिवधान डिकसी भी रप म डिकसी भी वयलि7 को gender डिवश3 क कारण discriminate करन का अधिधकार नी दता एवम म इस

परावधान को जो डिकसी को लिसफ मडिला ोन क कारण सावजडिनक सपततिgt का इसतमाल फरी म करन की इजाज़त द पर3ो क परडित

दभावना पण एवम डिसकरिसDधिमनशन मानन

2 मडिला एव डिवकास डिवभाग दवारा डिकय गए शोध स य सामन आया की पर3 बचचो का सकसअल harassment मडिला बचचो स

अधिधक ोता ऐस म य मानना की मडिला पर3 की तलना म अधिधकखतर म य लिसफ पर3ो क परडित दभावनापण

3 शोध स य भी सामन आया डिक मटरो म मडिला जबकतरो की सखया पर3 जबकतरो स बहत अधिधक ऐस म य मानना की मटरो

म पर3 मडिलाओ की तलना म अधिधक असरततिLत सवथा उलिचत मालम ोता

4 मटरो म मडिला अपराधी जयादा सखया म लिसफ करती इसीलिलए मडिला अपराधिधयो को फरी सफर की सडिवधा दना पर3 याडितरयो को

दभावना पण नीडित क तत खतर म ालन क सामान माना जा सकता

5 जब डिकसी वग डिवश3 को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दी जाती तब इसका अथ यी डिनकलता डिक वग डिवश3 की टिरटकरट क पसा दसर

वग स वसल डिकया जाएगा य पसा टिरटकरट की कीमत बढ़ान अथवा सबलिसी दन क रप म ो सकता पर3 वग क परडित य दभावना

पण वयवार

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6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

Articles or any other relivantcontent can be submitted bysending Email at

mhubdamangmailcom

Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

Articles or any other relivantcontent can be submitted bysending Email at

mhubdamangmailcom

enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

6 अधिधकाश मडिलाए आज की तारीख म नौकरीपशा और वो अपन पर3 सकमV क बराबर ी कमान लगी ऐस म डिकसी को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना

नयायसगत नी का जा सकता

7 पर3 एवम मडिला दोनो डिकसी परिरवार स सबधिधत अगर डिकसी परिरवार की मडिला गरीब तो उस

परिरवार का पर3 भी उतना ी गरीब ऐस म मडिला को डिवश3 रिरयायत दना और पर3 को न दना उस

परिरवार क खिखलाफ अनयायपण वयवार

8 डिकसी भी मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दन की अपLा अगर आप डिनमन आय वग क सभी वयलि7यो

को ( डिबना जर बस डिसकरिसDधिमनशन) फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दत तब उस सामाजिजक नयाय माना जा सकता

था परत आपकी नीडित 100 रपय र रोज कमान वाल पर3 पर अडितरिर7 बोझ ालन वाली जबडिक

1000 रपय र रोज़ कमान वाली मडिला को फरी यातरा की सडिवधा दती जोडिक सामाजिजक नयाय नी बलकिक पर3 वग क परडित AAP की दभावना पण नीडित

को परकरट करती

AAP की वतमान नीडित न कवन आरचिथक रप स दश क डित क डिवरदध बलकिक य नीडित पर3 वग क खिखलाफ

AAP की दभवनाओ को भी उजागर करती तथा यmenrsquor right का उलघन भी पव म भी AAP कई अवसरो

पर पर3 वग क परडित दभावना पण वयवार कर चकी Menrsquos HUB AAP की इस नीडित की आलोचना

करत तथा डिमा करत हए AAP स अपLा करती कीAAP न कवल अपनी पर3 डिवरोधी नीडितयो को बदल कर उन

सामाजिजक नयाय आधारिरत नीडितयो को बढ़ावा दगी बलकिक पर3 वग स सारवजडिनक माफ़ी भी मागगी

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019 58

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

Articles or any other relivantcontent can be submitted bysending Email at

mhubdamangmailcom

Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

Articles or any other relivantcontent can be submitted bysending Email at

mhubdamangmailcom

enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

Indian Society003

All is Well

lsquo lsquo उममीद करता ह क एक डायलॉग आलॉ इस वलॉ जोकिक थरी इकिडायट मीव स ह सबक यद हग | मीझ भी यद था परनता आजो अचानक ताज़ा ह गय

यह डायलॉग हमारी रोजमया13 की ज़िदगी म बहत महतवपरण13 ह मझ आज ही अहसास हआ शर कतता भाल हर जानवर को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया इनम स कोई भी गलाम नही ह परनत मनषय मल रप स मनषय

भी आाद पदा हआ या य कह की आदमी को कदरत न आाद पदा किकया परनत सिसरफ13 आाद पदा हआ आाद रहा नही हमशा स आदमी दसर

आदमी को गलाम बनान क परयास म लगा रहा कभी सामराजय किवसतार क रप म कभी धारमिमक परचार क रप म गलामी कोई नई ची नही

आदमी हमशा स गलाम बनता रहा ह और रहगा और आादी क सिलए सगरष13 भी जारी रहा ह

परनत आादी क सिलए सगरह न कहकर इस तरह खा जाय की एक गलामी स किनकलन क सिलए सगरष13 जारी रहा ह कभी भी आाद होन का

सगरह नही किकया गया

परनत एक ऐसी गलामी भी ह जिजसस न तो कभी आाद होन का सगरह हआऔर न ही कभी गलामी स किनकलन का सगरष13 हआ यह गलामी ह अपन किवचारो की गलामी

घटना बहत ही सामानय ह एक मिमतर स बातचीत हो रही थी शादी और पयार क बार म परनत मिमतर यह नही बता पाए की जब शादी स पहल पकित पतनी एक दसर को नही जानत न ही मिमल तो शादी का पयार स कया और कसा लना दना हआ यह तो सीधा सदा वयापर ह जो आरथिथक सरकषा को धयान

म रख कर किकया जाता ह

जब मिमतर इस सामानय सवाल का जवाब न द सक तो पयार शबद को पसद म बदलन म ही उसिचत जान करआग बाद गए खर

Articles or any other relivantcontent can be submitted bysending Email at

mhubdamangmailcom

Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

Articles or any other relivantcontent can be submitted bysending Email at

mhubdamangmailcom

enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

Some key information about the VENUS

Venus is 2nd Planet from SUN

Venus has Longest Rotation Period 243 days in our Solar System

Venus Rotate is Oposite Direction that means SUN rises in the EAST

Venus does not have any Natural Satellites

Venus is 2nd Brightest Natural Object in Night-Sky after the Moon

Venus is sometime called Earthrsquos Sister Planet because of their similar size

mass proximity to Sun

The Atmospheric Pressure on Venusrsquos surface is 92 times more then Earthrsquos

Venus is Hottest Planet is Solar System with mean surface temperature of

735K

Venus was the Plenet to have its motions ploted across the sky

Venusrsquos mass is 48675 x 1024 kg which is almost 0815 times Earth

Mean Density on Venus is 5243 gcm3

Surface Gravity on Venus is 887 ms2

Venus has 965 CO2 and 35 N2

SCIENCEVENUS

G-WARYou Can Do it Yourself

TRUE EQUILITY

Men started Living Their Own Life

EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

Articles or any other relivantcontent can be submitted bysending Email at

mhubdamangmailcom

enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

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EP 003

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

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enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

The Land of Kings

Agyat Sanyasi

The Land of Kings is a story or the life of a kid who bornand live in difficult conditions but finally rise to rule Thetime period of story is very very old even when the time

was not even counted

Chapter 001 THE CAVE

Long long time ago when human society was notso developed human just started to live in groupsdevelopment in science was just started machine wasjust invented human were doing his work by hands menand women both were equal no-one was dependent onothers major work in hand was to earn food At the edgeof Himalayas in a small even very small village of 9 or maybe 10 houses a kid was born

No-one knows the real name of the kid but thevillage name was Navrang and when the kid was younghe get the same name The village today may not exist onmap but at that time it was a small but very beautifulvillage surrounded by hills

North side of village was having a series of snowcovered hills and the south side was having a series ofhills covered with greenery Greenery was extended tillthe human eye can see and snow was extended till theend of hills But natural conditions toward hill was sodifficult that no-one crossed it Those hills when notcovered with ice provide leafs of medical importanceSame time the forest was so dense that no-one dare to

Articles or any other relivantcontent can be submitted bysending Email at

mhubdamangmailcom

enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

enter into that Still the trees at the edge offorest provide them fruits

No-one from the village remember ifsomeone entered deep into the forest stillstories circulate about the existence of badcreatures and monsters No-one saw thosemonsters no-one knows the truth but theybelieve in stories Rest two sides were humanfriendly Third side of village was blocked byriver the river not only provide them drinkingwater but also support their fields This sidewas most important for village but same timethe river also block villagers path The last sidewas a plain field most useless for villagersUseless because stories tell the end of the plainfield was a big village but it is so far that no-one had traveled in living memories

We donrsquot know the name of newly bornkid but his future name is Navrang so we willuse the same right from beginning

Navrang was a kid just an ordinary kidbut physically stronger then neighbor kids Heis just 10 year old but he looks like 15 year oldBecause of his physical strength only he wasaccepted as a leader in between neighbor kidsThe leadership was just limited to playing inriver and on hills It was Navrangrsquos right tojump into river first he was first who get rightto catch fish from river But fortunately henever pushed his right it was just accepted byother kids No-one remember how and whenNavrang was accepted as a leader but most kidremember one incident which might be firstwhere he get throne of leadership

It was summer a little hotter then pastfew years even calling it year is not justifiedbecause year or month is not the unit of timeyet we can say season although it is rare to getfish in river but sometime people get smallfishes It was lucky day for the group of 20 kids

when a young kid jumped into river and caughta big fish Same time it was kidrsquos bad luck thathe could not come out because of water flowOther kids helped him to come out and thatcost him share in fish which he didnrsquot botherBut issue rise when two kids demanded alarger share just because one jumped into riverand second because he made it eatable Theissue was resolved peacefully by Navrang bysharing in between 18 kids Two fighting kidsdidnrsquot get any share same time they dare not torise voice against Navrang because of hisphysical power Probably that was thebeginning of Navrangrsquos leadership

One day when it was almost dark kidsback to home stoves ready for dinner suddenlya loud bang was witnessed by manyunfortunately they didnrsquot bother just becausesuch sounds was common in hills Sometimefalling ice and sometime creature in forestcreate such noise that was the common excusefor villagers But today was not an ordinary daytoday the sound started but never ended formany The sound was not unusual but it wasbecause of natural disturbance the end ofdisturbance was also the end of village Nextmorning when nature calm down the villagewas under tons of ice

Nature is cruel enough to end entirevillage but same time it allow to surviveNavrang and 3 of his friends The remaining ofvillage is nothing more the four kids Village isunder ice their food stock is under ice theirfield is under ice river is also missing eitherchanged path or just stopped in short there isnoway to survive further at-least not here It istime when Navrang need to extend hisleadership from just playing to survive Otherthree kids depends on him now

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

Although Navrand is also kid but heknow he has to find the way to survive and takestand against nature Here they can surviveduring day time but the night going to killthem Itrsquos time to believe the stories and reachnext village which is somewhere in the end ofplain field very very far Without food andcloths it is impossible to reach The only wayleft is going inside forest where they can getfruits and they can spend night if they get caveBut what about the creatures living insideforest

Navrang choose to enter the forest asusual rest three friends follow him Well beforethe evening all four kids entered inside forestSoon they realize that the forest is so densethat sunlight not even touching ground and asthey are moving inside the darkness risingAfter couple of hours when Navrang with hisfriends reached at the top of a small hill it isalmost night and light canrsquot be seen anywherenear but they see the empty cave to serve themfor night But what if the stories of unknowncreatures are true

It is almost end of night when suddenlyNavrang saw fog all around the cave fog hehas seen thousands of time but what he hasnot seen in past is fog limited in a small regionThe fog Navrang witnessed was just around thecave rest of the forest was free Next morningwas good for them because they find almostevery necessary thing nearby and cave wasenough hot to survive

It is time to decide if they can stay herefor rest of life or they should go further intoforest As usual Navrang was leader and hisdecision was accepted by all and his choice wasto stay in hot amp calm cave and same time hedecide to explore the forest This place wassuitable for them because they get food from

nearby trees cave provide them warm and safestay for medicine they can visit hillsoccasionally and last night was peaceful Hisonly worry is the regional fog What he can doif he saw the fog again tonight

The place where Navrang saw fog lastnight was not far from the cave but the place isseparated from cave by a small river whichthey canrsquot cross Also the place it slightlyhigher therefore there is no way to investigatethe place Even I am not sure if the fear allowthem to investigate There was nothing specialduring that day except they searched nearbyplaces for the foot-steps of creatures theycollected fruits and water for night also theymade few arrangements to cover the cave

Unfortunately the four kids searchednearby cave but they didnrsquot bother to see theend of cave where someone was waiting forthem in dark

Menrsquos HUB Issue 014 1st July 2019

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge

For Help Call SIF-One

8882 498 498Rise to the challenge