Book of Remembrance 5782 2021

120 Corey Street

West Roxbury, Massachusetts

“There is nothing more whole than a broken heart.”Rabbi Menachem Mendl of Kotzk

Book of Remembrance5782 ✡ 2021

Temple Hillel B’nai Torah invites you to take this Book of Remembrance home after services today. You may turn to these readings when you light yahrzeit candles or at other times of prayer or reflection. These books will also be used for the yizkor services on Shemini Atzeret, Pesach and Shavuot.

May their souls be bound up in the bond of life.

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Our lives are a wilderness

uncharted and unpredictable—

untimely deaths, unexpected blows,

unsuitable matches, unfulfilled dreams.

And yet, by gathering our heartaches together with others

we find something transformative happening—

our sorrows become windows of compassion.

Paths through the wilderness

hewed and marked by past generations

give us our bearings.

Patterns of meaning and significance emerge.

We are moved from self-pity to love.

Our individual heartbeats merge

with the pulse of all humankind.

Suddenly we no longer tremble like an uprooted reed.

Rabbi Alexander Schindler


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Almighty One, what are human beings that You take note of them, Children of the flesh

that You should think of them?

A human being is like a breath,A person’s days are but a passing shadow. At dawn, life blossoms and renews itself,

At dusk, it withers and dries up.

You return a person unto dust.You say, Return, O children of humanity! Would that we were wise, and understood

what will happen to us in the end,

For when we die we take nothing away,Our glory will not descend along with us. So teach us to number our days

That we may gain a heart of wisdom.


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Source of Life and death, be with us now and always.

In Memory of Relationship Remembered by

ABRAMS, Jane E. Cousin The Rubin Schleifer Family

ABRAMS, Joan Aunt The Rubin Schleifer Family

ABRAMSON, Frances Mother/Grandmother The Kassler Mamuya Family

ABRAMSON, Robert Father/Grandfather The Kassler Mamuya Family

ABRICH, Esther Aunt Debi Adams

ABRICH, Jacob Uncle Debi Adams

ADAMS, Herb Father Ashley Adams

AINES HADLEY, Stephanie Sister Ron Aines

AINES, Joseph Father Ron Aines

AINES, Virginia Mother Ron Aines

AJL, Adele Mother Leslie Ajl

AJL, Samuel Father Leslie Ajl

ALBERT, Jason Father Benjamin Albert

ALPERIN, Miriam Mother Dorothy Levine

ALPERIN, Samuel Father Dorothy Levine

AMEY, Len Father/Grandfather Cynthia, Richard & Philip Cohen

AMEY, Louisa Mother Cynthia, Richard & Philip Cohen

ARIEL, David Brother Nita Aines

ARVIO, Heikki Cousin Jocelyn Gordon & Bruce Mallory

ASTER, Leah Aunt Benita Block

AWIN, Evelyn Sister Shirley Goldberg

AWIN, Walter Brother-in-law Shirley Goldberg

BARBER, Erna Mother Henry Barber

BARBER, Ethel Stepmother Henry Barber

BARBER, Wolf Father Henry Barber

BAUER, Kornelis Father Trudy Bauer

BAUER-VAN KLEEF, Bertha Mother Trudy Bauer

BEAN, William S. Father Dianne Heitin

BECKER, Lottie Grandmother The Kassler Mamuya Family

BELL, Sheila Friend Cynthia, Richard & Philip Cohen

BERELSON, Yale Father/Husband Lisa & Lillian Berelson

BERGER, Lucille Ruth Grandmother Elana Elstein

BERGER, Samuel Grandfather Elana Elstein

BERMAN, Harriet Mother Jessica & Eric Boatright

BERMAN, Harry Grandfather Deeana & Jeff Klepper


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Your absence has gone through meLike thread through a needle.Everything I do is stitched with its color. W.S. Merwin


BERMAN, Lottie Grandmother Deeana & Jeff Klepper

BERNSTEIN, Abraham Grandfather Robin Fox

BERNSTEIN, Janice Mother/Grandmother Dinon Family

BERNSTEIN, Rose Grandmother Robin Fox

BERNSTEIN, Sumner Father/Grandfather Dinon Family

BERSON, Arthur I. Grandfather Susan Tatelman & Anne Steinman

BERSON, Frances Grandmother Susan Tatelman & Anne Steinman

BESSER, Julius Father Wes Besser

BESSER, Lillian Mother Wes Besser

BETHUNE, Dominique Nephew Leon Bethune

BETHUNE, Dorein Brother Leon Bethune

BETHUNE, Joan Mother Leon Bethune

BLOCK, Howard Husband Benita Block

BORR, Bob Friend Gerry Cornez

BOUCHARD, Michelle Mother Cam, Joey & Jon Lopez Wilen

BOYAR, Hilda Mother/Grandmother Rachel Boyar, Michael, Tali &

Gabriela Smookler

BOYAR, Solomon Father/Grandfather Rachel Boyar, Michael, Tali &

Gabriela Smookler

BRAVER, Annette Aunt Claudia Harris

BRAVER, Arthur Uncle Claudia Harris

BRENNAN, Bob Friend Gerry Cornez

BRENNER, Rubin Father David Brenner & Katy Abel

BRIER, Ira Father Temmie & Eliot Brier

BRIER, Martha Mother Temmie & Eliot Brier

BRIER, Morris Grandfather Temmie & Eliot Brier

BRODSKEY, Frances Aunt Debi Adams

BRONITSKY, Frances Mother Madelyn Bronitsky & Sam Gelbtuch

BRONITSKY, Gerald Brother Madelyn Bronitsky & Sam Gelbtuch

BRONITSKY, Jesse Father Madelyn Bronitsky & Sam Gelbtuch

BROWN, Herbert Father Heidi Brown

BROWN, Sylvia Mother Heidi Brown

BRUDNO, Arkady L. Father Alex Brudno

BRUDNO, Galina Sister Alex Brudno

BRUDNO, Lubov P. Mother Alex Brudno

BURROWS, Lewis Father Adam Burrows


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Grief, when it comes, is nothing we expect it to be…. Grief has no distance. Grief comes in waves, paroxysms, sudden apprehensions that weaken the knees and bind the eyes and obliterate the dailiness of life. Joan Didion


BURROWS, Rochelle Mother Adam Burrows

CHAFFEE, Janette Aunt Alan Ronkin

COBEN, Fay Mother-in-law Sandra Coben

COBEN, Harry Father-in-law Sandra Coben

COBEN, Larry Father The Perkins Coben Family

COBEN, Larry Husband Sandra Coben

COHEN, Bea Nana Benita Block

COHEN, Florence J. Mother/Grandmother Cynthia, Richard & Philip Cohen

COHEN, Harold “Ace” Friend Cynthia, Richard & Philip Cohen

COHEN, Helene Mother Susan & Robert Kalish

COHEN, Lenard Brother/Uncle Cynthia, Richard & Philip Cohen

COHEN, Mark Friend Sheila & Alan Ronkin

COHEN, Marshall Father Susan & Robert Kalish

COHEN, Melvin Father/Grandfather Cynthia, Richard & Philip Cohen

COHEN, Norman Father George & Yolanda Cohen

CONKLIN, William “Bill” Friend The Rubin Schleifer Family

COPELAND, Donald Father Deeana & Jeff Klepper

COPELAND, Helen Grandmother Deeana & Jeff Klepper

COPELAND, Rochelle Sister Deeana & Jeff Klepper

CORNEZ Arthur A. Father Gerry Cornez

CORNEZ, Marion Mother Gerry Cornez

CRANBERG, Gilbert Father Lee Cranberg

CRANBERG, Norma Mother Lee Cranberg

DANCE, Rochelle Daughter Linda Dance

DAVIDOW, Lila Mother Ari Davidow

DAVIDOW, Robert Father Ari Davidow

DAVIS, Anne Mother Tim Heeren & Ruth Lederman

DAVIS, Milton Father Barbara & Barry Davis

DERMAN, A. Albert Father/Grandfather Steven, Ava, Joshua & Jeremy

DERMAN, Eleanor F. Mother/Grandmother Steven, Ava, Joshua & Jeremy

DORFMAN, James Friend Nomi Herbstman

DORFMAN, Robert Friend Robin Fox

DREYFUSS, Kurt Stepfather Donna & Gary Schweon

DROGIN, Ida Grandmother Joyce Wardle


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When we are dead, and people weep for us and grieve, let it be because we touched their lives with beauty and simplicity. Let it not be said that life was good to us, but, rather, that we were good to life. Jacob P. Rudin


DROGIN, Judy Aunt Joyce Wardle

DROGIN, Robert Uncle Joyce Wardle

EDELSTEIN, Joseph Father Jay Edelstein

EHRENBERG, Arlene Aunt Ari Davidow

ELLIS, Osborne Father Jan Ellis Snitzer

ELLIS, Virginia Mother Jan Ellis Snitzer

ELSTEIN, Aaron Grandfather Elana Elstein

ELSTEIN, Rae Grandmother Elana Elstein

ELSTEIN, Rochelle Mother Elana Elstein

EPSTEIN, Ida Alice Grandmother Leonard & Carol Markowitz

EPSTEIN, Jacob Grandfather Leonard & Carol Markowitz

EPSTEIN, Joseph Uncle Leonard & Carol Markowitz

EPSTEIN, Shulamit Aunt Leonard & Carol Markowitz

FARBSTEIN, Paul Father Ken Farbstein

FEIERSTEIN, Lenore Mother Nita Aines

FEIERSTEIN, Rabbi Milton Father Nita Aines

FISHBEIN, Mel Father Debi Adams

FISHBEIN, Rose Mother Debi Adams

FISHMAN, Bernice Sister Sam Gelbtuch & Madelyn Bronitsky

FLASHMAN, Camille Mother Sherry Flashman

FLASHMAN, Dora Grandmother Sherry Flashman

FLASHMAN, Jacob Julius Grandfather Sherry Flashman

FLASHMAN, Manuel Zelig Father Sherry Flashman

FOX, Bella Grandmother Robin Fox

FOX, Eileen Mother Robin Fox

FRANKEL, Adam Grandson Merle Wolofsky

FRIEDMAN, Alex Father Nomi Herbstman

FRIEDMAN, Arlene Mother Nomi Herbstman

FRIEDMAN, James Brother Nomi Herbstman

FRIEDMAN, Laurence Uncle Nomi Herbstman

FRIEDMAN, Samuel Grandfather Nomi Herbstman

FRIEDMAN, Tessie Grandmother Nomi Herbstman

FULLER, Doug Cousin Jocelyn Gordon & Bruce Mallory

FULLER, Sharon Cousin Jocelyn Gordon & Bruce Mallory


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More precious was the light in your eyes than all the roses in the world. Edna St. Vincent Millay, “Dirge Without Music”


GADON, Felissa Beth Daughter Fred Gadon

GADON, Nancy Ellen Wife Fred Gadon

GELBTUCH, Freda Mother Sam Gelbtuch & Madelyn Bronitsky

GELBTUCH, Oscar Father Sam Gelbtuch & Madelyn Bronitsky

GELLER, Bernard Father Joyce Wardle

GELLER, Esther Mother Joyce Wardle

GERBER, Albert Father Amy Gerber

GLIKSMAN, Anna Grandmother Anne Steinman & Susan Tatelman

GLIKSMAN, Charles Grandfather Anne Steinman & Susan Tatelman

GOLD, Sharon Aunt Jill Klowden

GOLDBERG, Bernard Husband Shirley Goldberg

GOLDBERG, Jim Husband Trudy Bauer

GOLDBERG, Morris Father-in-law Shirley Goldberg

GOLDBERG, Sarah Mother-in-law Shirley Goldberg

GOLDMAN, Edward Father Linda Dance

GOLDMAN, Esther Mother Linda Dance

GOLDSMITH, Phyllis Aunt Benita Block

GOLDSTEIN, Bernard Father Family of Lee Goldstein

GOLDSTEIN, Helen Mother Family of Lee Goldstein

GOODSTEIN, Julian Father Ronald Goodstein

GORDON, Bernard Father Jocelyn Gordon & Bruce Mallory

GORDON, Esther Mother Jocelyn Gordon & Bruce Mallory

GORDON, Julius Grandfather Jocelyn Gordon & Bruce Mallory

GORDON, Molly Grandmother Jocelyn Gordon & Bruce Mallory

GREEN, Helaine Mother Claudia Green

GREEN, Mark Husband Jan Green

GREEN, Natalie Mother-in-law Jan Green

GREENBLATT, Max Grandfather Beth Greenblatt

GREENBLATT, Neil Father Beth Greenblatt

GREENBLATT, Sally Grandmother Beth Greenblatt

GRINBERG, Mordehay Father Adel Brudno

HARMON, Henry Father Larry Harmon & Susannah Sirkin

HARMON, Rosalind Mother Larry Harmon & Susannah Sirkin

HARRIS, Alex Grandfather Claudia Harris

HARRIS, Ella Grandmother Claudia Harris


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God is that aspect of reality which elicits from us the best that is in us and enables us to bear the worst that can befall us. Mordecai M. Kaplan


HARRIS, Harold Father Claudia Harris

HARRIS, Sheila Mother Claudia Harris

HARRIS, Shosh Sister Claudia Harris

HARRISON, Trude Aunt The Rubin Schleifer Family

HEEREN, Ernest Father Tim Heeren & Ruth Lederman

HELLER, Ida Great Grandmother Miriam Messinger

HENKIN, Benjamin Grandfather Leonard Henkin

HENKIN, Blanche Mother Leonard Henkin

HENKIN, Jacob Father Leonard Henkin

HENKIN, Mary Grandmother Leonard Henkin

HERBSTMAN, Essie Grandmother Nomi Herbstman

HERBSTMAN, Joseph Grandfather Nomi Herbstman

HIPSMAN, Hy Father Michael & Audrey Hipsman

HIPSMAN, Hyman Husband Elka Hipsman

HOLM, Anne Friend Julie Korostoff & Christer Larsson

HOROWITZ, Edward R. Husband Laurie Schloff

HURTIG, Helen Mother Christer Larsson

IVLER, Frances Grandmother Claudia Harris

IVLER, Samuel Grandfather Claudia Harris

KALIKOW, Alan Uncle Mark Wilen

KALISH, Diane Mother Susan & Robert Kalish

KAPLAN, Eileen Best Friend Judith Levine

KARP, Dr. Herbert Father Beth Karp

KASSLER, Louis Husband/Father The Kassler Mamuya Family

KLEPPER, Bernard Grandfather Deeana & Jeff Klepper

KLEPPER, Larry Father Deeana & Jeff Klepper

KLEPPER, Tessie Grandmother Deeana & Jeff Klepper

KLOWDEN, Evelyn Grandmother Jill Klowden

KLOWDEN, Jack Grandfather Jill Klowden

KOORIS, Anna Mother Shirley Goldberg

KOORIS, Hyman Father Shirley Goldberg

KOPEC, Helen Mother Leonard & Carol Markowitz

KOPEC, Henry Father Leonard & Carol Markowitz

KOROSTOFF, Edythe Aunt Julie Korostoff & Christer Larsson


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Love is not changed by Death,And nothing is lost and all in the end is harvest. Edith Sitwell, “Euridice”


KOROSTOFF, Norman Uncle Julie Korostoff

LANSANA, Ojinna Spouse Judith Levine

LARSSON, Stig Father Christer Larsson

LAZARUS LEVY, Irene Mother Audrey & Michael Hipsman

LAZARUS, Sam Father Audrey & Michael Hipsman

LEBETKIN, Rachel Cousin Elana Elstein

LEDERMAN STOLZER, Shirley Mother Tim Heeren & Ruth Lederman

LEDERMAN, Milton Father Tim Heeren & Ruth Lederman

LEVI, Nichol Friend Henri Saupin

LEVINE, Celia Grandmother Judith Levine

LEVINE, Herbert Father Judith Levine

LEVINE, Joseph Father Amy Levine Edelstein

LEVINE, Robert H. Husband Dorothy Levine

LEVINE, Ruth Mother Judith Levine

LEVY JR., Edward Stepfather Audrey & Michael Hipsman

LEVY, Barbara Mother Larni Rosenlev

LIBOW, Freida Grandmother Sheila Ronkin

LIBOW, Jacob Grandfather Sheila Ronkin

LIFLAND, Martin Father Dianne Heitin

LIFLAND, Selma Mother Dianne Heitin

LIPMAN, Hannah Mother Scott Lipman

LOURIE, Rose Aunt Laurie Schloff

MACK, Celia Aunt Debi Adams

MAGAZINER, David Father Jonathan Magaziner

MARCUS, Norman Father Hilary Marcus

MARCUS, Roslyn Mother Hilary Marcus

MARKOWITZ, Charles Cousin Leonard & Carol Markowitz

MARKOWITZ, David Uncle Leonard & Carol Markowitz

MARKOWITZ, Hannah Mother Leonard & Carol Markowitz

MARKOWITZ, Isadore Father Leonard & Carol Markowitz

MARKOWITZ, Samuel Grandfather Leonard & Carol Markowitz

MARKOWITZ, Sophie Grandmother Leonard & Carol Markowitz

MARKOWITZ, Sylvia Aunt Leonard & Carol Markowitz

MARKOWITZ, Sylvia S. Aunt Leonard & Carol Markowitz


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How shall the heart be reconciled to its feast of losses? Stanley Kunitz, “The Layers”


MARMER, Gertrude Aunt Debi Adams

MASSEY, Marvin Father Michael Massey

MASUR, Marlena Mother Dale Sokoloff & Larry Masur

MASUR, Wallace Father Dale Sokoloff & Larry Masur

MAURER, Ann Aunt Laurie Schloff

MELBIN, Nina Friend Claudia Harris

MESSINGER, Edna Grandmother Miriam Messinger

MESSINGER, Eli Charles Father Miriam Messinger

METTAUER, Phyllis Aunt Ari Davidow

MIROWITZ, Leo Father Lisa Mirowitz

MIROWITZ, Shirley Mother Lisa Mirowitz

MOCHE, Judy Mother Rich Moche

MOCHE, Morris Father Rich Moche

MOSTOW, Evelyn Davidoff Mother Carol Mostow

MOSTOW, George Daniel Father Carol Mostow

NELSON, Jeanette Grandmother Michael Massey

NELSON, Walter K. Grandfather Michael Massey

OSBORNE, William Brother-in-law Ron Aines

PEARLMUTTER, Arthur Father Renee Albert

PEARLMUTTER, Joan Mother Renee Albert

PEARSON, Eloise Mother Jan Green

PENZNER, Edith Mother Rabbi Barbara Penzner

PENZNER, Jerry Father Rabbi Barbara Penzner

PENZNER, Stephen Brother Rabbi Barbara Penzner

PERLSTEIN, Eva Great-Aunt Robin Fox

PINNOLIS, Eileen Mother Judith Pinnolis

PINNOLIS, Samuel Father Judith Pinnolis

POLLACK, Frances S. Aunt Gerry Cornez

PORETZ, Bernard Father Donna & Gary Schweon

REIF, Mel Father Sandra Coben

REIF, Mildred Mother Sandra Coben

RICH, John Father Tracy Rich


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No matter how powerful death is, however terrifying the grave is, however nonsensical and absurd everything appears, no matter how black one’s despair is, we declare and profess publicly and solemnly that we are not giving up, that we are not surrendering, that we will carry on the work of our ancestors… Rav Joseph B. Soloveitchik


RICHBERG, Leela Grandmother Miriam Messinger

ROBBINS, George Uncle Shelley Stevens

ROBBINS, Miriam Aunt Shelley Stevens

ROBINSON, Anna Grandmother Leonard Henkin

ROBINSON, Saul Grandfather Leonard Henkin

RONKIN, I. Edward Father Alan Ronkin

RONKIN, Irene M. Mother Alan Ronkin

RONKIN, Samuel Grandfather Alan Ronkin

RONKIN, Sara Grandmother Alan Ronkin

ROSEN, Helen Grandmother Heidi Brown

ROSEN, Phyllis Mother-in-law Larni Rosenlev

ROSEN, Rebecca Grandmother Temmie & Eliot Brier

ROSENBLATT, Anna Mother-in-law Deborah Rosenblatt

ROSENBLATT, Louis Father-in-law Deborah Rosenblatt

ROSENBLATT, Norman Husband Deborah Rosenblatt

ROSENBLATT, Norman Father Raquel Rosenblatt

ROSENKRANZ, Ada Mother Henry Rosenkranz

ROSENKRANZ, Gregory Father Henry Rosenkranz

ROSS, Maureen Sister Ian Sher

ROTMAN, Anita Mother Laurie Rotman

ROTMAN, Art Father Laurie Rotman

ROTMAN, Meyer Grandfather Laurie Rotman

ROTMAN, Mollie Grandmother Laurie Rotman

RUBIN, Bernard Father The Rubin Schleifer Family

RUBIN, Patsy Mother The Rubin Schleifer Family

SALTMAN, Benjamin Uncle Sheila Ronkin

SALTMAN, Brenda Gail Sister Sheila Ronkin

SALTMAN, Dorothy Mother Sheila Ronkin

SALTMAN, Jacob Friend Sheila Ronkin

SALTMAN, John Grandfather Sheila Ronkin

SALTMAN, Milton Father Sheila Ronkin

SALTMAN, Minnie Grandmother Sheila Ronkin

SAMMETT, Eli Father Keren Sammett

SAMMETT, Shirley Mother Keren Sammett

SANCHEZ, Melinda M. Grandmother Rafael Galva


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To know healingis to know thatall life is oneand there is no beginningand no endand the intention is loving. Margaret Torrie, “For Miriam”In Memory of Relationship Remembered by

SARANGA, Fay Grandmother Jocelyn Gordon & Bruce Mallory

SARANGA, Jack Grandfather Jocelyn Gordon & Bruce Mallory

SAUPIN, Cecile Mother Henri Saupin

SAUPIN, Celine Ademar Grandmother Henri Saupin

SAUPIN, Philogene Uncle Henri Saupin

SAUPIN, Pierrelus Gaston Grandfather Henri Saupin

SCHAPIRO, Aline Cousin Serena, Nechama & Margalit

SCHAPIRO, Anna Aunt Serena, Nechama & Margalit

SCHAPIRO, Isaac Uncle Serena, Nechama & Margalit

SCHECHTER, Harry Grandfather Laurie Rotman

SCHECHTER, Rose Grandmother Laurie Rotman

SCHLEIFER, Eli Uncle The Rubin Schleifer Family

SCHLEIFER, Maxwell Father The Rubin Schleifer Family

SCHLOFF, Gertrude Mother Laurie Schloff

SCHLOFF, Milton Father Laurie Schloff

SCHNEIDER, Nelson M. Father Craig Schneider

SCHNEIDERMAN, Mischa Louis Father Sam Schneiderman & Kristin Wivagg

SCHORR, Daniel Father Lisa Schorr Kaplan

SCHWEON, Sylvia Mother Gary & Donna Schweon

SCHWEON, William Father Gary & Donna Schweon

SEGELMAN, Deborah Grandmother Marcy Segelman

SEGELMAN, Edward Father Marcy Segelman

SEGELMAN, Harriett Mother Marcy Segelman

SEGELMAN, Morris Grandfather Marcy Segelman

SHANKLER, Jules Grandfather Deeana & Jeff Klepper

SHANKLER, Laura Grandmother Deeana & Jeff Klepper

SHAPIRO, Sydney Husband Merle Wolofsky

SHEAR, Alan Father Benita Block

SHEAR, Elaine Mother Benita Block

SHER, Freda Aunt Joyce Wardle

SHER, Howard Brother Ian Sher

SHER, Sadie Mother Ian Sher

SHINE, Cornelius Brother-in-law Judith Levine

SHUMAN, Ethel Grandmother Marcy Segelman

SHUMAN, Morris Grandfather Marcy Segelman

SILBERT, Anita Mother Larry Silbert


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So teach us to number our daysThat we may obtain a heart of wisdom. Psalm 90


SILBERT, Jerry Father Larry Silbert

SILVERMAN, Stan Father Michael Silverman

SIRKIN, Abraham Father Susannah Sirkin & Larry Harmon

SIRKIN, Helen Mother Susannah Sirkin & Larry Harmon

SMOOKLER, Edward Father/Grandfather Michael, Tali & Gabriela Smookler,

Rachel Boyar

SMOOKLER, Phyllis Mother/Grandmother Michael, Tali & Gabriela Smookler,

Rachel Boyar

SNITZER, Alan Brother Steven Snitzer

SNITZER, David Father Steven Snitzer

SNITZER, Ruth Mother Steven Snitzer

SOKOLOFF, Janet Mother Dale Sokoloff & Larry Masur

SOKOLOFF, Paul Brother Dale Sokoloff & Larry Masur

SOKOLOFF, Seymour Father Dale Sokoloff & Larry Masur

SOLOWAY, Gerald Friend Sheila & Alan Ronkin

SOLOWAY, Ruby Friend Sheila & Alan Ronkin

STAHLER, Frances Mother Emily Stahler

STAHLER, Frances Mother Barbara Stahler-Sholk

STAHLER, Sidney Father Barbara Stahler-Sholk

STAHLER, Sidney Father Emily Stahler

STEIN, Lewis Uncle The Rubin Schleifer Family

STEINMAN, Betsy Grandmother Anne Steinman & Susan Tatelman

STEINMAN, Blanche Mother Anne Steinman & Susan Tatelman

STEINMAN, Isadore Grandfather Anne Steinman & Susan Tatelman

STEINMAN, Saul Father Anne Steinman & Susan Tatelman

STEVENS, Lawrence Father Shelley Stevens

STEVENS, Sophie Mother Shelley Stevens

STOLOW, Judy Mother The Stolow Family

SVERDLOVA, Lubov N. Mother Adel Brudno

SWARTZ, Edward Grandfather Tracy Rich

SWARTZ, Rose Grandmother Tracy Rich

TABACHNIK, Jacob Father David Tabachnik

TABACHNIK, Priscilla Mother David Tabachnik

TARSHIS, Esther Great Aunt Leonard & Carol Markowitz

TATELMAN, Anna Grandmother Susan Tatelman & Anne Steinman

TATELMAN, Bessie Aunt Susan Tatelman & Anne Steinman


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One shared sigh, one common cry, one rhythm of release.We are all one—in our pain, in our grief, in our tender suffering.We take solace and support from the presence of others, the comfort and compassion of living in community, acknowledging death is always personal. Rabbi Sheryl Lewart


TATELMAN, Cynthia R. Mother Susan Tatelman & Anne Steinman

TATELMAN, Harvey Father Susan Tatelman & Anne Steinman

TATELSTEIN, Lady Family Susan Tatelman & Anne Steinman

TATELSTEIN, Maccabee Family Susan Tatelman & Anne Steinman

TEPPERBERG, Jerome Father The Stolow Family

TROUTMAN, Anne Aunt Ken Farbstein

TROUTMAN, Bernice Aunt Ken Farbstein

TROUTMAN, Leon Uncle Ken Farbstein

TWICKLER, Millie Friend Jill Klowden

VERGADOS, Charles Friend Cynthia, Richard & Philip Cohen

WEINREB, Rebecca Grandmother Mark Wilen

WEINSTOCK, Jeane Friend Jocelyn Gordon & Bruce Mallory

WEINTRAUB, Gertrude Mother Mordie Weintraub

WEINTRAUB, Hyman Father Mordie Weintraub

WIENER, Lilyan Mother Stephanie Sher

WIENER, Lilyan Mother/Grandmother Steven, Ava, Joshua & Jeremy

WIENER, Lilyan Grandmother/Great GM Randi, Ethan & Shayna Simon

WIENER, Milton A. Father/Grandfather Steven, Ava, Josua & Jeremy

WIENER, Milton Abraham Grandfather/Great GF Randi, Ethan & Shayna Simon

WIENER, Milton Abraham Father Stephanie Sher

WIVAGG, Frederic P. Father Sam Schneiderman & Kristin Wivagg

WIVAGG, Ruth J. Mother Sam Schneiderman & Kristin Wivagg

WOLOFSKY, Frieda Mother Merle Wolofsky

WOLOFSKY, Max Father Merle Wolofsky

WULFSOHN, Norman Father-in-law The Rubin Schleifer Family

WULFSOHN, Shirley Mother-in-law The Rubin Schleifer Family

WYLER, Marjorie Grandmother Miriam Messinger

WYLER, Wilfred Grandfather Miriam Messinger

ZACKMAN, Fred Father Roberta Zackman

ZACKMAN, Michael Brother Roberta Zackman

ZACKMAN, Molly Mother Roberta Zackman

ZELMAN, Charles Grandfather Jill Klowden

ZELMAN, Ida Grandmother Jill Klowden

ZUCKERT, Leon Father Deborah Rosenblatt

ZUCKERT, Renie M. Mother Deborah Rosenblatt


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In the stillness of the Yizkor service, we take time to remember our losses, one by one. Whether a family member or relative, pause to recall a story, an image, a favorite saying or any cherished memory. Some losses are more complicated than others. Not all memories are sweet. Acknowledge your own grief and the emotions that arise as you recite the Yizkor prayers. Though our thoughts are private, we stand together as a congregation, embracing one another with compassion.


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God filled with mercy,dwelling in the heavens’ heights,bring proper restbeneath the wings of your Shechinah,amid the ranks of the holy and the pure,illuminating like the brilliance of the skiesthe souls of our beloved and our blamelesswho went to their eternal place of rest.May you who are the source of mercyshelter them beneath your wings eternally,and bind their souls among the living,that they may rest in peace.And let us say: Amen.


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PSALM 23A Psalm of David

Adonai is my shepherd, I shall not want.

God makes me lie down in green pastures

God leads me beside the still waters

God restores my soul;

God guides me in straight paths for God’s name sake

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death

Your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies.

You have anointed my head with oil; my cup runs over

Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life

And I shall dwell in the house of Adonai forever.


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יתגדל ויתקדש שמה רבא בעלמא די ברא כרעותא

וימליך מלכותה בחייכון וביומיכון

ראל ובחיי דכל בית ישבעגלה ובזמן קריב

ואמרו אמן.

יהא שמה רבא מברך לעלם ולעלמי עלמיא.

יתברך וישתבח ויתפאר

ויתרומם א ויתנשויתהדר ויתעלה ויתהלל

קדשא שמה דבריך הוא.

)between RH & YK add לעלא )ולעלא מן כל ברכתא ושירתא

תשבחתא ונחמתאדאמירן בעלמא

ואמרו אמן.

יהא שלמא רבא מן שמיא ראל וחיים עלינו ועל כל יש

ואמרו אמן.

ה שלום במרומיו עושה שלום הוא יעש

ראל עלינו ועל כל ישועל כל יושבי תבל

ואמרו אמן.

Reader: Yitgadal ve’yitkadash shemey raba be’alma di ve’ra khirutey ve’yamlikh malkhuteybekhayeykhon uv’yomeykhon uv’khayey de’khol beyt yisra’elba’agala u’vizman kariv ve’imru amen.

Cong: Yehey shemey raba mevarakh le’alam ul’almey almaya.

Reader: Yitbarakhve’yishtabakhve’yitpa’arve’yitromamve’yitnaseyve’yit-hadarve’yit-alehve’hit-halalshemey dekudshaberikh hu.

Le’ela (between RH & YK add u’le’ela) min kol birkhata ve’shiratatushbekhata ve’nekhematada’amiran be’alma ve’imru amen.

Yehey shelama raba min shemayave’khayim aleynu ve’al kol yisra’elve’imru amen.

Oseh shalom bim’romavhu ya’aseh shalom aleynu ve’al kol yisra’elve’al kol yoshvey tevelve’imru amen.

Let God’s name be made great

and holy in the world that was

created as God willed. May God

complete the holy realm in your

own lifetime, in your days, and

in the days of all the house of

Israel, quickly and soon.

And say: Amen.

May God’s great name be

blessed, forever and as long as

worlds endure.

May it be blessed, and praised,

and glorified, and held in honor,

viewed with awe, embellished,

and revered;

And may the blessed name of

holiness be hailed, though it be

higher (between RH & YK add: by far)

than all the blessings, songs,

praises, and consolations that

we utter in this world.

And say: Amen

May heaven grant a universal

peace, and life for us,

and for all Israel.

And say: Amen

May the one who creates

harmony above, make peace

for us and for all Israel,

and for all who dwell on earth.

And say: Amen.

Mourners Kaddish קדיש יתוםIt is customary for mourners, and those observing Yahrzeit, to stand for Kaddish.

In some congegations, everyone rises.


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At the rising of the sun and at its going downwe remember them. At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter we remember them.At the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of springwe remember them. At the shining of the sun and in the warmth of summer we remember them.At the rustling of the leaves and in the beauty of autumnwe remember them. At the beginning of the year and when it ends we remember them.

As long as we live, they too will live: for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.

When we are weary and in need of strengthwe remember them. When we are lost and sick at heart we remember them.When we have joy we crave to sharewe remember them. When we have decisions that are difficult to make we remember them.When we have achievements that are based on theirswe remember them. As long as we live, they too will live; for they are now a part of us as we remember them.

Stanley Kamens and Jack Riemer


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All Souls

Did someone say that there would be an end,An end, Oh, an end, to love and mourning?Such voices speak when sleep and waking blend,The cold bleak voices of early morningWhen all the birds are dumb in dark November-Remember and forget, forget, remember. After the false night, warm true voices, wake,Voice of the dead that touches the cold living,Through the pale sunlight once more gravely speak.Tell me again, while the last leaves are falling:“Dear child, what has been once so interwovenCannot be raveled, nor the gift ungiven.” Now the dead move through all of us still glowing,Mother and child, lover and lover mated,Are wound and bound together and enflowing.What has been plaited cannot be unplaited-Only the strands grow richer with each lossAnd memory makes kings and queens of us. Dark into light, light into darkness, spin.When all the birds have flown to some real haven,We who find shelter in the warmth within,Listen, and feel new-cherished, new-forgiven,As the lost human voices speak through us and blendOur complex love, our mourning without end.

May Sarton


Book of Remembrance 5782 2021

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