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CONTRIBUTORSBarbora MayerHelen CarruthersBetsy LangbergPriyanka AgarwalJanet E. MiddlemissKate WeismanBhakti MathurPriya IyerPriya SubberwalPolly McgovernRobin Neiterman

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ContentsNews From the Board - Barbora Mayer 2 Welcome New Members 3 AWA Enjoys 3 Member Insights – Liana Sadhwani 6Updates From Education Committee 8 Charitable Donations Committee 2021 10Empty Nesters 11Up Up And Away 12Starting A Business From Home 13Spiritual Literacy Group 14 Summer Reads 16AMP Up Your Likability 18 News And Updates From AWAGS 19To Hong Kong With Love 20Integrated Brilliant Education Ltd 21AWA Contact Information 22

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NEWS FROM THE BOARD Barbora Mayer – Director Of Operations

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SUMMER HAS DEFINITELY ARRIVED in Hong Kong and many of us would normally be getting ready for our summer vacations. However, this year will be different as many of us are instead choosing to stay and brave the heat and humidity of the Hong Kong summer.

“What is there to do in Hong Kong during the summer?” you may ask. Fear not, our Local Tours committee has organized a wide variety of activities to keep everyone busy – you can join us for movie afternoons in the office, various lectures & talks, cooking classes and more – there is something for everyone on the activities calendar.

Government restrictions permitting, we are still meeting for social drinks at OWL every Tuesday evening and a cup of coffee at CHAT on Thursday mornings. Please come and say hi if you’re in the area, no registration is necessary.

Many of our ongoing sports and clubs are also continuing throughout the summer – go on a short hike, explore some exhibitions with Art Lovers, play mahjong or attend a neighborhood coffee – whatever you fancy doing, our website has the most up to date information.

We encourage you to share all that the AWA has to offer with your friends too – bring them along as a guest and let them experience the connection and friendship within our organization.

Have you followed and liked the AWA social media pages? We will be putting some “pop-up” events on there, so don’t miss out! You can find us on Facebook under @awahk and Instagram under @awahongkong. Also, did you know that the AWA has an Alumni Facebook page? Just search for AWA Hong Kong Alumni to keep in touch with us and each other if you are leaving Hong Kong.

The AWA office will remain open throughout the summer (Monday – Thursday, 9:30 am – 3:30 pm), so please come in out of the heat to say hello and have a cup of coffee or a glass of cold water – we will be delighted to see you.

Fall 2021 is also shaping up to be very exciting for the AWA with the official launch of the AWA Foundation and more celebrations to mark the AWA’s 65th anniversary. Our website is currently under re-development and we hope to launch the new, improved version in the fall.

Whether you are traveling or staying put, I wish you all to have a wonderful summer and see you soon!

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How long have you been with AWA?It has been 14 years since we moved to Hong Kong.

How many fundraising events have you supported, participated and run?I have been part of the Charitable Donations Committee (CDC) and Fundraising right from the start. I can’t remember all of the events, but some include the AWA Charity Bazaar and various galas for many years. I’ve emceed our fashion shows and ran the auctions, including the spin class fundraisers, jewelry shows and the last two Bollywood nights.

What or who inspired you to raise your hand for fundraising at AWA?I was on the CDC committee and had the opportunity to visit local charities here in Hong Kong which inspired me. When I saw the need for the funds, I knew that they were going into the right hands for the right reasons. I have a background in advertising and marketing, so fundraising is something that comes naturally to me. I have two names that come to mind when I think about my start at AWA: Celine O’Connor and Ilene Levy. Both are spectacular women.

You have not only been on the committees for fundraising but also chaired or co-chaired events. What inspired you to take up a leadership role? I am extremely passionate about raising funds and I like

getting things done. Sometimes you just need one hand to be extended to develop an idea or start

a project. Very soon, there are so many more who join in. I’ve never been

concerned if I decide to lead a project that I won’t have enough support. Knowing that I have so many people back ing me g ives me the confidence to lead an event.

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these fundraisers?The best part of fundraiser events is that

guests enjoy them and feel happy. They have a good time, they have fun, they

socialize with friends, plus they’re doing it all for a great cause. I have too many fond memories to list, but the

best part of these fundraisers is hosting our awards tea and having these charities come and collect their checks. The smile on their faces and the look of gratitude are just very satisfying.

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Have your AWA experiences helped you grow or learn?Yes, they have definitely changed me for the better. Working and coordinating events with so many wonderful strong and smart women is mentally stimulating. I have learned how to be a better team player.

Do you think the best fundraising results are when we collaborate with other teams throughout the organization, such as CDC, activities and dragon boating?I think coordinating with other teams helps because you support all the other clubs and teams within the AWA.

We weren’t able to host our big fundraising events like the Charity Bazaar and the gala during the pandemic. So we adapted to different fundraising ideas like giving gifts with partner vendors, art shows, and virtual auctions. Do you think this is the future for AWA? This is a tricky question, given we don’t know how long this

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pandemic situation will continue. That said, we may not have the large galas, but we can have multiple smaller mini fundraising events, which follow the Hong Kong government’s rules and guidelines.

What are you looking forward to on the AWA calendar this year?I’m not too sure if this is on our calendar this year but since it is our 65th anniversary, I would absolutely love it if we could have a grand 65th celebration and raise a substantial amount of money. Because this year, with the pandemic, many local charities have not been able to raise funds with small-scale events, so they need our support.

What are the essential qualities of a great fundraising team?A team that comprises different talents makes the best fundraising team because everybody can bring what they are passionate about and what they’re good at to the event. I think the team needs to have a strong leader – someone who is willing to take responsibility, positive or negative.


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At Renaissance College Hong Kong (RCHK), educators areusing remote learning tools and skills they have honed duringthe pandemic to enhance the return to face-to-face learningas well as showcase the great work RCHK is doing as a collegecommunity to a wider audience. "We do have opportunities to celebrate, collaborate and gather together through online learning and resources that we didn't realise before," says Secondary Vice Principal andMYP Coordinator Brandy Stern. "Don't rule out what online cando to support bringing the community together."

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AS MOST OF us are aware, education is the cornerstone of societies. It is highly prized throughout the world and particularly in Hong Kong. The primary purposes of education are critical thinking, creativity, interpersonal skills, a sense of social responsibility, work and citizenship. It is a gift that significantly impacts life chances and is a springboard into society.

Sadly, it’s been about 18 months since the AWA education programs were put on hold due to the global pandemic. However, with the rollout of the vaccine and schools gradually returning to normality, we are hopeful that these programs will recommence this coming autumn.

Currently, the AWA has involvement with three secondary schools, two primary schools, a mock interview program, not forgetting the charity Dialogue in the Dark, which works with visually impaired young people from China. All these programs have sought to give confidence with communicating in English that both students and their teachers have greatly appreciated. From reading stories to young children to enabling teenagers to express themselves in conversation or learn interview techniques, all these varied opportunities have become building blocks for young people in their educational journeys.

Back To BasicsHelen Carruthers

Education and Scholarship Chair

Since my involvement with the AWA’s education programs in 2016, I have met numerous volunteers who have very much enjoyed the contact with children and young people and have loved being able to contribute as native English speakers. It’s not an exaggeration to say that the presence of AWA volunteers has engaged and inspired hundreds of young people. So why not considering becoming a ‘game-changer and join one of our programs when we are ready to restart?

The AWA also contributes to education in Hong Kong by awarding annual scholarships to hard-working young people from disadvantaged economic backgrounds. The AWA’s work in raising funds throughout the year enables us to continue to gift talented youngsters.

Cemile Armas is taking over as Community Service Chair in July and she will be encouraging you to become involved in our volunteering programs. The AWA’s motto is to “connect and contribute,” which is a sure-fire way to make new friends in Hong Kong and give back to our local community. Nothing could be better!


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"IT'S JUNE, and as is traditional, the Charitable Donations Committee has completed their work and discussed how AWA funds might best be spent. This year we received 33 applications from very worthy charities.

Not surprisingly, many of the projects reflect fallout from two years of protests and Covid-19, especially in the area of mental health and direct financial assistance. With our partners at the AmCham Charitable Foundation, we hope to fund as many of them as possible.

Though some of AWA's 2019 awards experienced delays in implementation, the majority were completed successfully. Here's an example of how contributions from our members were put to work during this challenging time:

Keeping Kids in Kindergarten (K3) is a sponsorship program under Branches of Hope (BOH) that enables a refugee or asylum seeker child to attend kindergarten in the city of Hong Kong regularly. Refugee and asylum seeker children are permitted, on a case-by-case basis, to attend kindergarten tuition-free under the Free Quality Kindergarten Scheme (FQKS) in Hong Kong. However, the waiver does not cover expenses like the uniforms, books, snack fees, school activity fees and transportation that make it possible to access the FQKS schools. BOH discovered that parents were selling food vouchers to ensure their children have access to school. This program was launched to meet the funding gap and keep kids in school.

During the academic year of 2019-2020, 68 children from the refugee and asylum seekers have benefited from K3 sponsorship. The AWA supported ten of them. These children's schooling is only possible because of members' generosity amongst other individuals and foundations. By implementing this program, BOH achieved the following outcomes:• Ensured Basic Rights for Young Children in Refugee

Families Receiving Education via Mainstream School System – According to Article 26 Universal Declaration of Human Rights by United Nations, "Education shall be directed to the full development of the human personality

and the strengthening of respect for human rights and fundamental freedoms. It shall promote understanding, tolerance and friendship among all nations, racial or religious groups, and shall further the activities of the United Nations for the maintenance of peace."

• Promoted the children's holistic development - Ensuring kindergarten education among highly vulnerable communities such as asylum seekers and refugees improved the development of each child's social, emotional, cognitive and physical needs to build a solid and broad holistic foundation for lifelong learning and wellbeing.

• Alleviated the financial burden of refugee parents. While the government provides each asylum-seeker family with monthly stipends in lieu of permission to work, they are extremely meager to meet the actual, basic needs of the families. K3 sponsorship empowered parents to manage their children's educational expenses and alleviate the financial burden and stress. Parents felt they were able to support their child's learning

and engage the children in new ways of home learning, which strengthened family self-esteem and relationships.

Thank you all for your ongoing support of AWA and our charity partners year after year.

Your ContributionsMake A Huge Difference

Charitable Donations CommitteeBy Betsy Langberg

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‘Sometimes love means leting go when you want to hold on tighter.” – Melissa Marr “I walked into the grocery store like usual and started picking the raspberries as it’s Mehek’s (my daughter) staple snack when it suddenly hit me! I no longer need to stock up on blueberries, raspberries, ice-creams and flavored yogurts. Mehek had flown away by herself, in the midst of the pandemic, to start her undergrad journey in the USA.

We were so engrossed in planning that it didn’t occur till that moment that if she was moving on, it also meant that I would be left behind. I was officially becoming an empty nester! There were no more pick-ups and drop-offs, fights over which show to watch, messy bedrooms to walk into, negotiations and renegotiations on curfew times. One fine day, just like that, they go, and you are left wondering, standing in that grocery aisle, how to replan grocery now for just a husband-and-wife household.

Much against my wishes, the tears welled up in my eyes, and I had to abandon my grocery plans that day. But, in reality, it is not that one does not see it coming. We all know that our kids will grow up and leave one day and make their own life. In fact, isn’t that what we all aspire for? To prepare them well enough to leave the little nest and fly away, grow up as responsible citizens and live independent lives. We also, deep down somewhere, know that a different life awaits us once the kids leave. It’s just that many of us do not realize how different it can be. I guess you can only be prepared so much for unchartered territory.

It’s that time of the year again, and I see yet another set of parents getting ready to drop their children off at college. Looking back now, post one year, in hindsight and wisdom, I have a few insights that I hope will help some of you, yet to become empty nesters. 1. First and most importantly, be kind to yourself. Recognize

your emotions and do not negate them. If you are feeling low, it is pretty normal to feel so. While it’s not as if your child will never return, whereas the life you led up until now may not. You will be creating a new life for yourself, so be gentle with yourself.

2. Use this time to grow your bond with your partner, with your parents, with your siblings. It is a golden time to rebuild on relationships. My husband calls it our second honeymoon!

3. Pick a new hobby. Use your time for all that you couldn’t have done. Learn Mahjong, Bridge, pick up that painting brush you haven’t touched all those years, read more books, explore your neighborhood, in short, keep yourself

Life As An Empty NesterPriyanka Agarwal’s insights as a relatively new empty nester

productively busy and in positive spirits. Pamper yourself and give yourself time to relax and enjoy the solitude.

4. Give back! As per my Hindu traditions, this is the stage in life when the whole world becomes your family (Vasudev kutumbam)! It gives you a sense of purpose and surprisingly a lot of happiness! Volunteer your time and your skill in whatever way you desire.


PRE-COVID SUMMER HOLIDAYS meant visiting a new country where parents and children balanced sightseeing touristy hotspots with exploring the culture and history of a place. In the summer of 2021, the pandemic means that many destinations are off-limit. Travel-free summer holidays loom large for parents who are looking for electronic-free activities to keeping children occupied.

As Mason Cooley said, "Reading gives us someplace to go when we have to stay where we are."

Here are five book recommendations from KidsMustRead.com to help your children travel the world and learn about a new country and culture from the comfort of their homes -

Rickshaw Girl by Mitali Perkins A beautiful story shows how a young girl, Naima, plays to her strengths to help her family out of difficult circumstances though she belongs to a poor Bangladeshi family. Rickshaw Girl teaches young children about the cultural aspects in Bangladesh and the importance of traditional alpana paintings. Age appropriateness - 6-11 years

Inside Out, And Back Again By Thanhhà LaiFor all the ten years of her life, Ha has only known Saigon in Vietnam. But now, the Vietnam War has reached her home. Forced to escape as Saigon falls, Ha and her family board a ship headed to immigrate to America. Travel with a young girl as she flees from her beloved Vietnam to America, in a novel written in free verse. Age appropriateness - 8-12 years

The Boy Who Harnessed the Wind by Bryan Mealer and William Kamkwamba This book is a brilliant memoir that chronicles the persistence and resilience of a young William Kamkwamba who is determined to bring change to his circumstances and his community set in a tiny village in Malawi in Africa. Age appropriateness - 8-12 years

A Night Divided by Jennifer NielsenThis historical novel chronicles life under the Soviets in East Germany. Divided by the rise of the Berlin

Wall in Germany, Gerta, her mother, and her brother must risk everything – even their lives – if they want to unite as a family. A nail-biter of a book!Age appropriateness – 9-13 years

Shooting Kabul By N H SenzaiWhen Fadi's father is asked to join the Taliban in Afghanistan, he chooses to take the dangerous option of fleeing the country with his family. On the evening of their escape, Fadi's six-year-old sister, Mariam, is accidentally left behind in Afghanistan. How does the family cope? Age appropriateness - 10-14 years

Among the best in the world, these books will make you laugh and cry, and some will have you on the edge of your seat. Get on board and fasten your bookmarks to begin this wondrous journey.

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Priya Iyer of Kids Must ReadFor more such wonderful book recommendations that

span genre, diversity and themes, please check out the custom build search engine at KidsMustRead.com. Priya Iyer, Founder of KidsMustRead.com, has over 14 years of experience reviewing and curating children's books. She also conducts reading workshops for parents and book clubs for children. Write to her at [email protected].


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RUNNING A BUSINESS from home is something that must have crossed our minds.

Countless startups have begun from a spare room or kitchen table, and it's easy to understand why. Starting a business from home saves you time and money. You can keep costs low without expensive premises. Better yet, cutting out the daily commute frees you up to spend more time on your business.

Although operating from home requires self-discipline, you benefit from the freedom to work when you want from a convenient location. So, if you like the idea of a work-from-home business, here are ten pointers to get you started.

TIP 1: Focus on What You EnjoyChoose a business you're passionate about, but make sure there's demand for your idea. Does your idea fill a gap in the market, solve a problem or offer a better experience than currently available? Could you turn your passion, hobby or skill into a way of making a living?

TIP 2: Find Your NicheMany home businesses make it big by focusing on a niche community. With a clear target audience, you know where to find your customers. You could even become an expert in your field and build a loyal following.

TIP 3: Have a RoutineThere can be distractions when working from home, so have a routine and stick to it. Define blocks of time to dedicate to your business. It helps to set daily goals and cross them off as you achieve them.

TIP 4: Create a Dedicated WorkspaceTo prevent interruptions, identify a space that offers privacy where you won't be disturbed. Your dedicated area should be functional, efficient and inspire productivity. Invest in a suitable desk, chair and technology.

Tip 5: Keep it LegalNo matter if you own or rent, you must not violate zoning laws or lease agreements. Ask yourself - is my home suitable for this purpose? e.g., a food operation has to adhere to more regulations than if you work from a laptop in a bedroom.

Tip 6: Stay ProfessionalEven if you work from home, professionalism is vital. It influences how you answer calls and where you choose to meet clients. If you prefer not to use your home as your business address, opt for a virtual office or ask your accountant.

Tip 7: Make Sure You're Online The Internet is still the best way to reach potential customers. Build an online presence through a website, blog, digital products or store. Not only that, selling online also allows you to access global consumers.

Tip 8: Embrace Social MediaFacebook, Instagram, LinkedIn and Twitter are great for connecting with contacts and customers. Use social media to drive traffic, generate leads and engage with your community. Promote your business through video content on platforms like YouTube.

Tip 9: Build a Support NetworkRunning a business from home can be lonely. A supportive network of peers, colleagues, friends and family can ease the burden. These are people with whom you can discuss concerns or turn to when facing tough decisions.

Tip 10: Get Out of the HouseA change of scenery provides perspective and can help address mental blocks. Take screen breaks, practice self-care, and engage in mood-lifting social activities. Prevent isolation by having coffee with other business owners. Join support groups and networks.

Starting A Business From HomeBy Janet E. Middlemiss

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About the AuthorJanet E. Middlemiss is an author and business expert who

has lived the last twenty-five years in Hong Kong. Following a successful career in public relations, Janet has worked for startups since leaving corporate life in 2002. She is the founder of the JEM Group, a social enterprise spearheading a unique movement to inspire and ignite talent across different disciplines from entrepreneurship and fashion to photography and the arts. The organisation's Born to be the Boss campaign aims to help people start and grow their own businesses by providing information, guidance and support. Find out more at: www.thejemgroup.org.



SINCE ITS INCEPTION in September 2012, AWA’s Spiritual Literacy Group has evolved into something truly unique, according to Founder and long-time AWA member Kate DeStefano Weisman. In the following interview Kate reflects upon SLG in its tenth year!

What was your inspiration for the creation of SLG? We lived in Hong Kong for nearly twenty years back in the late 80s, returning in 2011. That first time my life revolved around the world of adoption as a founding member of Adoptive Families of Hong Kong, singing with the Hong Kong Women’s Choir and raising four kids. When a friend posed a question: "If you could do anything this time?" my response was immediate – gather a group of interfaith women to read and discuss the extensive library of spiritually-themed books I had collected. SLG was born as a result.

What words come to mind when you think of SLG?SLG is a sisterhood. It’s about pausing, centering, turning inward, and connecting. It is about experiencing joy and finding inner peace.

Can you say something about the SLG participants? SLG is a microcosm of AWA – multinational, interfaith, of different ages and professional backgrounds. Our collective spiritual traditions include Baha’i, Buddhist, Christian, Hindu, Jain, Muslim and None. We are American, Australian, British,

Canadian, Mainland Chinese, German, Indian, Japanese, Malaysian, Pakistani, Scottish, Singaporean, South African, and Turkish. Our meetings truly celebrate unity in diversity!

What does an SLG morning consist of?One member calls SLG her “spiritual spa day!” We start with a guided meditation followed by discussion of a book selected for its life lessons and practical spiritual tools and practices that help us navigate the challenges of everyday life. The overarching objective is to develop Spiritual

Intelligence while learning to be spiritually literate in the world.

What do you mean by Spiritual Intelligence and Spiritual Literacy?In her book SQ 21: The Twenty-one Skills of Spiritual Intelligence (SLG Summer/F a l l 2 0 2 0 ) – C i n d y W i g g l e s w o r t h d e f i n e s Spiritual Intelligence as the ability to behave with wisdom and compassion whi le maintaining inner and outer

peace, regardless of the circumstances. Spiritual Literacy is being able to read the sacred meaning in everyday life. (See insert).

What have been your most memorable SLG books? The Book of Forgiving: The Fourfold Path of Healing Ourselves and Our World by Rev Desmond Tutu and his daughter is very powerful and unforgettable. I loved the story of Rumi in The Forty Rules of Love by Elif Shafak. Two books perfect pandemic guides were Pema Chodron’s When Things Fall Apart and Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times, by Katherine May. Many consider our current

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Meet Spiritual Literacy Group Founder and long-time AWA member Kate DeStefano Weisman

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book A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle to be genuinely life-changing and transformative.

Has SLG continued to operate throughout the pandemic?Considering SLG a significant support system throughout the pandemic, members unanimously voted to continue meeting via Zoom. In December, SLG switched to afternoon sessions to accommodate our members who traveled and got stuck abroad over the Christmas holiday. This in turn, led to the launch of SLG Global Zoom! Former AWA/SLG members who had moved away from HK joined as well. Resuming in-person meetings in Hong Kong, we’ve continued the global zoom link with our former SLG sisters from England, Scotland, France, South Africa and Jordan participating! Frida Khan, now in Jordan, wrote: SLG sisters helped me through some of the most difficult periods of my life. Their compassion, their prayers, their concrete help, and just their very presence were a source of strength I drew upon often. So, when I left Hong Kong, though there were many things to miss - the hikes, the food, the energy - what I missed most was the Wednesday morning retreat from it all, the SLG. This quiet space, where we chatted and laughed, meditated and contemplated. Together we discussed faith and questioning, diversity and unity, adversity and acceptance, this world and other worlds, all guided by the thoughts of Eckhart and Rumi, Watts and Baha’u’llah, the Dalai Lama and Bishop Tutu, and so many others. With SLG moving online, it has given me, sitting in Jordan, the privilege to be part of that space again.

As SLG approaches its tenth anniversary, what thoughts come to mind?How blessed am I to have joined paths with this incredible group of diverse women! We’ve laughed and celebrated together – children’s marriages and grandchildren’s births, and we’ve cried together from grief and loss, divorce and cancer, and now the pandemic. As we prepare to leave Hong Kong for good, I do so with feelings of deep gratitude, for all that we’ve experienced together and for bonds that have been forged will not end with a move.

Check out Kate’s podcast talking about SLG with former AWA Board and SLG member Mary Barbara Hanna who currently lives in West Virginia. https://www.facebook.com/bookshelfshelfies/videos/913927882741586

Considering SLG a significant support system throughout the pandemic, members unanimously

voted to continue meeting via Zoom.


What is Spiritual Literacy? Being literate is more than being able to read and write in

a particular language. It is also a key that opens to a world of hidden meaning.

While books are the first thing one thinks of in terms of being literate; Literacy is more than books. Being literate makes one’s world significant, understandable and meaningful, navigating everyday life, from reading street signs to a restaurant menu. Spiritual Literacy works the same way in the world of spirit. On one level, it refers to a great multi-cultural and interfaith repository of holy writing - sacred scripture, both ancient and modern. Most of us are only exposed to those teaching of our parents’ faith traditions passed down through generations. Spiritual Literacy promotes the notion that the collective holy writings from all the sacred traditions are the repository for all humankind of our entire civilization.

Spiritual Literacy is being able to read/interpret the world and what happens in life through a spiritual lens: to attain guidance through nature, in everyday life occurrence, in silence; to access a parallel world of spirit; to receive inspiration, guidance, fulfillment, joy; to recognize our interconnectedness with each other and the world of nature; to recognize divine confirmations, the intimations of “something more;” that still small voice within.


The Story Of Ferdinand by Munro LeafOne of my favorite books that I read aloud to my kids when they were younger was ‘The Story Of Ferdinand.’ Written by Munro Leaf and illustrated by Robert Lawson, it tells the story of a bull, Ferdinand, who would rather smell flowers than participate in bullfights. The book spoke to me of letting my children be and encouraging them to find their own path, no matter how unconventional it may be.

The Giving Tree by Shel SilversteinThe Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein is another favorite book that evokes memories of bed time reading. The book follows the lives of a tree and a boy, who develop a friendship. The tree always gives shelter and fruits to the boy all through their lives, as the boy grows into a teenager, a middle-aged man, and finally an old man. The story speaks about generosity, friendship and the trappings of selfishness.

Amma Take Me To The Golden Temple by Bhakti Mathur – For ages 8 - 12Join Amma and her children as they travel to the famous Golden Temple in Amritsar. Take a tour through the wonderful sights, sounds and history of Darbar Sahib. Hear stories about the Sikh gurus. Savor a drink from the sacred waters at Har Ki Pauri and the langar from the world's biggest kitchen! Learn Guru Nanak's eternal message of equality, love and service.

Amma Take Me To The Dargah Of Salim Chishti by Bhakti Mathur - For ages 8 - 12Hear the story of why the great Mughal emperor Akbar visited the Sufi saint Shaikh Salim Chishti and then had a mausoleum built in his honor. Walk through the imposing Buland Darwaza and admire the majestic architecture of the sprawling quadrangle. Behold the dargah of Salim Chishti shining like a white pearl in an oasis of red sandstone.

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IT’S A WELL - known fact that being likeable makes life a lot easier. It can open otherwise far-reaching doors, people enjoy having you around and are delighted to see you succeed. Your ability to connect and communicate gets a boost and your relationships thrive!

Often during a consultation, clients will share that they feel a hostility, lack of support at home or work. Through fengshui, we make some simple adjustments and activate their Likeability sector, at home or in the office.

Given below are 3 such simple DIY techniques. You could use any 1 or all 3, depending on your interest or requirement.

OPTION #1ACTIVATE YOUR PERSONAL PEACH BLOSSOM SECTOR‘Peach Blossom’ this term comes from the peach blossom flower associated with Chinese imagery of poetry, love and romance.Refer to the chart below to find which location applies to you

Once you have identified the location corresponding to your year of birth, ensure that this area is clutter free, clean and pleasing to the eye. You could add some fresh flowers and nice pictures to further enhance this area.

A good peach blossom sector could help your charm 10X, people find you interesting and are drawn to you. Not only is this good for your love life but also gives you an advantage at workplace, especially if you are in the field of sales, marketing and customer service.

OPTION#2USING THE ANNUAL STAR#4 GREENBased on the planetary movements, the annual flying star#4 is in the EAST this year, making this an ideal area to use as a study or bedroom. Enhance it further by placing 6 bamboo stalks in a vase of clear water. This combination of wood and water is known to foster a pleasant compatible environment and heightened charisma - perfect for team-work and better relationships.

OPTION#3TAP INTO YOUR YAN NIAN DIRECTIONPlot your Bazi chart using the free online resource given below, find your personal Yan Nian direction as seen in the example.

https://bazibz2021.masteryacademy.com/

Yan Nian is a state of perfect balance between yin and yang. Ideal to calm emotions, bring balance and foster healthy relationships. Tap into your personal Yan Nian by facing the direction specified, while studying or working. Alternatively, the top of your head could be facing it while sleeping.

While Feng Shui can help create a potential environment for harmonious relationships and likeability - how you go about it depends on you...Remember, you don’t need to be conventionally good looking to be likeable - an interesting and pleasant personality goes a long way!

Amp Up Your LIKEABILITY With Fengshui


Priya SubberwalPriya is a qualified Classical Feng Shui practitioner. With a

background in interior design, she has trained in formal Chinese Metaphysics with Dato Joey Yap of Mastery Academy in Malaysia, Taiwan, Hong Kong and Singapore. In 2016 she formed the company, Disha which comes from the Sanskrit word Dishadhara which means direction.

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UNFORTUNATELY, it has been impossible to restart our weekly social golf at Kau Sai Chau and Deep Water Bay. However, we have continued to hold Clinics and sessions at Whitehead Driving range during this strange period and hold monthly tournament events. There is a very keen cohort of beginners nearing the end of their seven-week course of clinics with Jackie and we look forward to meeting them on the golf course soon.

On April 16, the AWA Golf Society took part in the Annual AIA Society Pairs competition held on the Eden Course at Fanling. This competition was initially scheduled for February 2020, but due to Covid had been postponed four times! We were very relieved when it finally went ahead and we were able to field nearly the same players who had initially signed up. Each Society entered three pairs and the scores from the two best pairs were added together to see which Societies did best. I am proud to say that the AWAGS came a very creditable 7th out of 16 teams. One of our pairs came 11th and another 16th out of 48 pairs. And, to cap it all, Ellen won Nearest the Pin on the tricky 17.

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Ellen McNally won Nearest the Pin at the AIA Pairs competition at Fanling on April 16

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April 27 KSC, South course It was an exciting day on the golf course for the lucky 12 AWAGS members who managed to secure a tee time on our latest golf outing in April.

Many of us were keen to warm up before the round, but we had forgotten that the driving range is closed on Tuesday mornings. Instead, we made do with plenty of putting practice and lots of extra time for chatting in the café.

We got lucky with the weather, with only a slight drizzle which made for a more challenging round and slower greens. The format was Stableford.

There were prizes for Nearest to the Pins on all four Par 3s. These were scooped up by Penny, Ellen and Caroline.

There was also a well-deserved win by Claire Ikeda – Thew for Nearest to the Pin in 2 on the fourth hole.

The Longest Drive was on Hole 14. Cecillia won this with Penny coming to a close second place and winning the prize as Cecillia could not stay for the ceremony.

There were several good Stableford scores for the day. Best overall was Polly with 39 points, followed by Cecillia with 37 points.

Prizes were awarded to Ellen with 35 points, Caroline 34 points and Claire Ikeda-Thew 32 points.

Golf Society Members representing the AWA at the AIA Pairs competition at Fanling on April 16. Left to Right: Ellen McNally, Sarah Barnett, Jillian Kent, Polly McGovern, Nicci Button, Alison Doran

Report by Nicci Button


I WISH YOU all much happiness, good health and a year filled with abundance and prosperity.

With a heavy heart, we have bid farewell to Hong Kong. We arrived home mid-December in the middle of a blizzard, hardly the “soft” landing we relished in 2017 when we arrived in Hong Kong! Many of you have asked how I’m feeling about returning home…I love our home, our family, our friends, but I’m sad to have left the gorgeous city, Hong Kong.

This note is to thank you for making my experience exceptional in so many ways. I’ve struggled to write this message because (my) words can’t express how I feel about Hong Kong and the people I’ve met there.

I’ve fallen in love with Hong Kong over the past three years. I distinctly remember my first impressions of the city: busy, hot, humid, and overwhelming. I now see Hong Kong through a different lens: a cosmopolitan city interlaced with the mountains and sea, gleaming modern skyscrapers alongside aging pastel buildings with external pipes and air conditioners, wet market stalls selling fresh fruits, vegetables & local delicacies next to gourmet markets with imported foods, the Ding-Ding sharing the road with Teslas…a place of rich contrasts.

We have experienced history in the making, living in Hong Kong. From the protests, the pandemic to the new national security law. But hoping that Hong Kong will retain its unique multicultural blend of Western life and Chinese customs. How incredible that we’ve lived in Hong Kong during this time, something we will reflect upon for the rest of our lives.

• Hiking the Peak via Old Peak Road (our backyard!)• Experiencing Big Buddha the first time and every time

thereafter• Taking in the view of Deep Water Bay and the Southside

en route to practice• Playing tennis on Courts 5 & 6 at the LRC (red clay courts

nestled amongst the Mid-levels high rise buildings)• Hiking (anywhere) with Rich Goldman guiding but a few

favorites include Sunset and Lantau Peaks and Tigers Head

• Practicing in Stanley and “that” feeling you get when you realize that you’re paddling with your teammates in the South China Sea

To Hong KongWith Love

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• Being a part of the AWA Globe Paddlers and the LRC Hotshots teams

• Winning a dragon boat race (Stanley Main 2019) – oh, what a feeling!

• Eating dim sum at Tim Ho Wan, Man Mo, Duddells, LRC, Dim Sum Library…

• Riding the Star Ferry to Kowloon and perusing the bird, flower, jade and Ladies markets (thanks, Cheryl)

• Raising millions of dollars for local HK charities with the AWA and the dynamic duo (TL & Annie) – highlights include the East Meets West Fashion Show, the Under the Sea Virtual Gala, Holiday Bazaars, Pink Walks and Pub Quizzes

• Traveling to northern and southern India and Bhutan with the AWA

• Commuting to practice every Tuesday & Thursday with my Dragon Boat carpool (Sarah, Debbie, Andrea, Amy & Margot)

• Drinking vodka martinis at Wolfgang’s (thanks Lyn!) and Mo Bar

• Getting (daily!) foot massages at Happy Foot (Hollywood Road)

• Playing mahjong anywhere, anytime with anyone• Boozy brunches and Junk boat outings• Being a Category 5 groupie at The Wanch • Frequenting Melomist Spa as often as possible (Jumi’s the

best!)• Eating anything made by Gilda

I loved living in Hong Kong, but mostly because I met all

of you. I am sad that our time has ended but I will cherish my expatriate experience. When you do make it to the east coast of the US, do ping me.

Sending lots of love,Robin & Adam


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SINCE JANUARY 2015, the Integrated Brilliant Education Ltd (IBEL) – a registered charity in Hong Kong (IR 91/16221), with Section 88 Inland Revenue Ordinance tax-exempt status has been providing academic support, with particular emphasis on Chinese language learning, via a pragmatic and systemic educational model to Hong Kong's underserved and educationally marginalized non-Chinese speaking children. IBEL's team works tirelessly to mitigate the academic marginalization of more than 240 children in Hong Kong monthly via their two education centers in Jordan and Cheung Sha Wan.

While providing solutions to the steep academic challenges faced by these children, who are bereft of equal and inclusive learning opportunities, has always been quintessential to IBEL's DNA, the testing tenure starting December 2019 required them to improvise social innovators further. With the social unrest and the ongoing covid pandemic pushing schooling to online mode, their humble socio-economic demographics severely restricted their ability to access or sustain online learning platforms. The academic marginalization threatened to further exacerbated, which was impending and real.

Amidst these testing and relentless circumstances, IBEL showed immense resolve, resilience through its ability and willingness to swiftly pivot, adopt and adapt to the dynamic situations and ensure that its education centers remained fully functional and accessible to its students and their parents.

IBEL's model evolved from being an after-school support service to facilitating the children's main online schooling routine at their centers, including taking on the additional responsibilities of educating the parents and guiding them to better support their children. All this during a period when schools remained closed for months on end. Our student enrolment numbers grew from 190 in November 2019 to 245 in November 2020 despite inhospitable conditions. It is evident enough to perceive IBEL showed tremendous pre-emptive foresight by paying utmost attention to the educational support and the student community's mental, emotional and physical well-being. IBEL continued to provide sporting opportunities for its students, even during the most challenging months – all thanks to the tremendous support provided by the Hong Kong Rugby Union.

All this was possible solely due to IBEL's enthusiasm to be a frontline social innovator by developing and deploying effective solutions to challenging pandemic issues while ensuring continuing social progress. For well over six years,

IBEL continues to be a solution provider by improving its capabilities and grassroots-level service delivery as a progressive organization. It showcased our society's capacity to act swiftly and in the most impactful manner possible.

IBEL is a firm believer of the American writer and political activist Eldridge Cleaver's quote, "You're either part of the solution or part of the problem."

Integrated Brilliant Education Ltd.


IBEL's Resilience In Continuing To Support Students During Challenging Times

For information on IBEL - Contact Monaj Dhar at [email protected]; https://www.facebook.com/ibelhk.org , https://www.linkedin.com/company/ibelhk , https://ibelhk.org/ , https://www.instagram.com/ibeducation

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ARTS/HOBBIESAfternoon Book Club Claire Miller: [email protected] Art Lovers Natasha Bochorishvili: [email protected] Tamara Gorgas Pacton: [email protected] Photography Group Angela Bellas: [email protected]

GAMESGames Galore (Mahjong Or Bridge) Beth Hall: [email protected] Mahjong Madness Katherine Fenton: [email protected]

TOPICALEnvironmental Committee Suzanne Younan / Amanda Fiteny: [email protected] Literacy Group Mina Weight [email protected] Women’s Forum Joyce Murdoch: [email protected]

FOODGalloping Gourmet Maria Higgins: [email protected] Penny Soder: [email protected] Lunch Bunch Connie Albracht: [email protected]

SPORTSGlobe Paddlers (Dragon Boat) Sarah Brundan: [email protected] Laura Farquhar: [email protected] Society Nicci Button and Tanya Keg: [email protected] Hiking GroupModerate/Social Hikes Kathryn Abbott: [email protected] Tina Over: [email protected] Veerle Roseeuw: [email protected]

Ongoing Clubs and SportsThe AWA’s many ongoing clubs and sports offer the most popular and easiest ways for members to make new friends. Keep busy and expand your network of friends with these activities, organized by AWA members for AWA members. One-time registration (at www.awa.org.hk) is required in order to receive updates about scheduled activities.

AWA BUDDY PROGRAMThe AWA Buddy Program pairs interested new members with a “Buddy” who helps answer questions about life in Hong Kong and/or the AWA. WHEN: OngoingCOORDINATOR: Alison May, [email protected]

FOON YING – HONG KONG INSIGHTSFoon Ying means “welcome” in Cantonese and the whole idea of these sessions (three sessions over a three-week period) is to embark on adventures and embrace new friendships. The program is great for both brand-new “Hong Kongers” and those of us who have been here a while and watched our first batch of friends and contacts head home or off to new pastures. WHEN: Every monthWHERE: AWA office or alternate location as agreedCOORDINATOR: [email protected]

AWA WISE A supportive, nurturing networking and professional development group for women, offering workshops on trending topics and networking meetups with other like-minded women’s groups. AWA WISE events are open to non-members.WHEN: Email coordinators or follow AWA WISE on

Facebook @awawisehk for event announcementsCOORDINATORS: Priya Bhasker and Josephine Paris, [email protected]

Membership Programs and MeetupsCHAT (COME HAVE A TALK)CHAT is an informal drop-in gathering for members, newcomers, and non-members. A weekly ZoomCHAT is also held every other week for those currently overseas or unable to come to CHAT; email [email protected] for information.WHEN: Thursdays, 10:30 AM – 12:00 PM (except public holidays) WHERE: Café 8 (rooftop of Central Pier 8, above the Maritime Museum) COST: No fee (all food and drink at personal expense)COORDINATORS: Rachel Bacilla, [email protected] Susan Orchard, [email protected]

NEIGHBORHOOD COFFEESIf you live, work or play in any of the following neighborhoods, join others in your area for a monthly coffee. Contact your local coordinator for details of forthcoming coffees.

HK SOUTHSIDEMaria Higgins, [email protected] FU LAM AND SHOUSON HILLAnnie Fifer, [email protected] BAYKathryn Abbott, [email protected]

OWL (OUT WITH THE LADIES)Come join us any week or every week – same time, same place (except public holidays).WHEN: Tuesdays, 5:30 PM – 7:00 PMWHERE: Oolaa, 20 Bridges Street, SohoCOORDINATORS: [email protected]

MID-LEVELSAna Cahill, [email protected] KUNGKatherine Fenton, [email protected] Soder, [email protected]


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Joining the AWA is easy, and all women are welcome! Just visit our website at awa.org.hk or call 2527 2961.

COMMUNITY

COMMUNITY SERVICE [email protected]

Chairperson Lee Parr: [email protected] Kitchen Rachel Bourke: [email protected] Society for the Blind Lee Parr: [email protected] McDonald House Renee Cheung: [email protected] Kong Hosts:Adopt a Marine/Sailor Tiffany Broeckelman: [email protected] Merchants Wharf Tiffany Broeckelman: [email protected]

EDUCATION & SCHOLARSHIP [email protected]

Chairperson Helen Carruthers: [email protected] Programs: Kwun Tong Marti Law: [email protected] Shui Po Barbara Iannazzone: [email protected] Wan [email protected] Foo Reading Program [email protected] Lai King Karen Prosser: [email protected] Coaching Program Katherine Payne: [email protected] in the Dark Jenlen Ng: [email protected]

OFFICEPhone 2527 2961/2Fax 2865 7737Hours 9:30 AM – 3:30 PM Mon-ThuAddress No.5, 11th floor, Arion Commercial Centre, 2-12 Queen's Road West, Hong KongWebsite www.awa.org.hkDirector of Operations Barbora Mayer: [email protected] Representative Joanne Lam: [email protected]

MEMBERSHIP [email protected]

2nd Vice President Tiffany Broeckelman: [email protected] Discounts [email protected]

SOCIAL

ACTIVITIES [email protected] Vice President Natasha Bochorishvili: [email protected] Tours Jessica Cheng [email protected] Annie Fifer: [email protected] Tours Kathryn Abbott: [email protected]

EXECUTIVE BOARD

EXECUTIVE BOARD [email protected] Priyanka Agarwal: [email protected] 1st VP Fundraising Poonam Mahindre: [email protected] VP Membership Tiffany Broeckelman: [email protected] VP Activities Natasha Bochorishvili: [email protected] Alison Doran: [email protected] Secretary Morlene Page: [email protected] Donations Betsy Langberg: [email protected] Service Lee Parr: [email protected] Education & Scholarship Helen Carruthers: [email protected] Chairperson Vasavi Seethepalli: [email protected] Branding and Marketing Chair Karen Gollob: branding @awa.org.hk Wise Liaison Priya Iyer: [email protected]

About the AWAThe AWA (American Women’s Association) is a dynamic community of women of all nationalities, with more than 650 members from 40 countries. Our mission is to welcome and empower women to connect and contribute in Hong Kong. We are sure you will find your niche through our diverse range of activities, events and opportunities to volunteer.

Current members: you are our best ambassadors. Please introduce new arrivals and old friends to AWA – over wine at OWL, at a Neighborhood Coffee or CHAT, or an AWA WISE event.

If you have any questions about the AWA, please contact the office or any of the Executive Board members.

SOCIAL MEDIA AND BRAND COMMUNICATIONS [email protected]/E-Blast Coordinator Vasavi Seethepalli: [email protected] and Marketing Chair Karen Gollob: [email protected]

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