KETERLIBATAN AYAH DALAM PENGASUHAN, KEMAMPUAN

COPING DENGAN RESILIENSI REMAJA YANG IBUNYA

SEBAGAI TENAGA KERJA WANITA

TESIS

Untuk Memenuhi Sebagian Persyaratan Mencapai Derajad

Magister Sains Psikologi

Diajukan oleh :

MOH. DEDY SUSANTO

NIM 201010440211021

PROGRAM PASCASARJANA

UNIVERSITAS MUHAMMADIYAH MALANG

2013

KATA PENGANTAR

Puji dan syukur penulis panjatkan kehadirat Allah SWT yang telah memberikan

rahmat dan hidayah-Nya sehingga penulis dapat menyelesaikan Tesis ini dengan judul

“Hubungan Keterlibatan Ayah dalam Pengasuhan, Kemampuan Coping dengan

Resiliensi Remaja yang Ibunya Sebagai Tenaga Kerja Wanita”.

Penyusunan Tesis ini diajukan untuk memenuhi syarat akademis dalam rangka

menyelesaikan Studi S2 Program Studi Sains Psikologi di Program Pascasarjana

Psikologi Universitas Muhammadiyah Malang.

Dalam penyusunan Tesis ini, penulis banyak sekali menemui hambatan dan

kesulitan, namun berkat motivasi dan bantuan dari berbagai pihak, maka hambatan

tersebut dapat teratasi dengan baik. Pada kesempatan ini penulis mengucapkan terima

kasih yang sebesar-besarnya kepada :

1. Dr. Latipun M.Kes, Direktur Pascasarjana dan Ketua Prodi Magister Psikologi

yang telah banyak membantu kelancaran tesis ini.

2. Dr. Dwi Priyo Utomo M.Pd, selaku Dosen Pembimbing I yang dengan ikhlas

telah banyak mengorbankan waktu dan tenaga untuk memberikan pengarahan,

petunjuk, serta saran demi terselesainya penyusunan tesis ini.

3. Yudi Suharsono M.Si. P.Si, selaku Dosen Pembimbing II yang dengan sabar

memberikan pengarahan dan petunjuk kepada penulis yang terkadang perlu

beberapa kali penjelasan hingga penulis mampu memahaminya.

4. Keluarga TKW yang telah menfasilitasi tempat dalam penelitian ini.

5. Bapak, Ibu tercinta, yang selalu memberikan petuah-petuah dan dukungan moril

sehingga penulis bisa menyelesaikan kuliah S2 Ini.

6. Buat Istriku tercinta Rofiatul Aisyah S.PdI yang dengan ikhlas, setia,

mengorbankan waktu dan tenaga untuk memberikan dukungannya dalam

menyusun tesis ini.

7. Buat Anakku Muhammad Faiq dan Muhammad Fawwaz semoga dengan gelar

S2 ini memacu semangatmu dalam meraih prestasi.

8. Teman-teman seperjuangan mahasiswa pasca sarjana Psikologi Universitas

Muhammadiyah Malang, trimakasih atas kebersamaannya selama ini.

9. Para Subjek yang terlibat dalam penelitan ini, trimakasih telah membantu dalam

penelitian ini semoga bermanfaat buat kehidupan yang akan datang.

10. Kepada semua pihak yang terlibat dalam penelitian ini yang tidak dapat saya

uraikan satu persatu.

Malang, 8 Januari 2013

Penulis

Moh. Dedy Susanto

DAFTAR ISI

HALAMAN JUDUL …………………………………………………………… i

LEMBAR PENGESAHAN ……………………………………………………. ii

LEMBAR PERYATAAN ……………………………………………………… iv

KATA PENGATAR ……………………………………………………………. v

ABSTRAK ……………………………………………………………………… vii

DAFTAR ISI ……………………………………………………………………. viii

DAFTAR TABEL ………………………………………………………………. ix

DAFTAR LAMPIRAN …………………………………………………………. x

LATAR BELAKANG …………………………………………………………... 1

KETERLIBATAN AYAH DALAM PENGASUHAN ……………………….... 5

KEMAMPUAN COPING ………………………………………………………. 7

RESILIENSI …………………………………………………………………….. 8

KETERLIBATAN AYAH DALAM PENGASUHAN DAN

KEMAMPUAN COPING DENGAN RESILIENSI …………………………… 9

METODE PENELITIAN

Subjek ……………………………………………………………….... 13

Prosedur ………………………………………………………………. 13

Instrumen ……………………………………………………………... 14

Analisis Data ………………………………………………………….. 14

HASIL DAN PEMBAHASAN

- Hasil uji regresi ganda keterlibatan ayah dalam pengasuhan dan

kemampuan coping secara bersama-sama dengan resiliensi ……….… 15

- Korelasi antara keterlibatan ayah dalam pengasuhan dan

kemampuan coping dengan resiliensi ………………………………… 15

- Pembahasan …………………………………………………………... 16

KESIMPULAN DAN IMPLIKASI

- Kesimpulan ……………………………………………………………. 21

- Implikasi ……………………………………………………………….. 21

DAFTAR PUSTAKA

LAMPIRAN

DAFTAR LAMPIRAN

Lampiran 1 : Surat Pernyataan Kesediaan Subyek

Lampiran 2 : Skala Try Out Keterlibatan Ayah dalam Pengasuhan

Lampiran 3 : Skala Try Out Kemampuan Coping

Lampiran 4 : Skala Try Out Resiliensi

Lampiran 5 : Skala Penelitian Keterlibatan Ayah dalam Pengasuhan

Lampiran 6 : Skala Penelitian Kemampuan Coping

Lampiran 7 : Skala Penelitian Resiliensi

Lampiran 8 : Resilience Scala

Lampiran 9 : Hasil Try Out

Lampiran 11 : Hasil Korelasi

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