MAKE ANY MAN

YOURS FOR LIFE

Sneaky techniques that will force him to forget about

every other woman and stay loyal to YOU and ONLY you...

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Thisbookisaspecialfreereportby

AmyNorth,authorofthebest-sellingwomen’s

programcalledTheDevotionSystem.

www.DevotionSystem.com

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AboutTheAuthor

AmyNorthisaworld-renownedwomen’s

datingcoachwithnearlyadecadeof

experiencehelpingwomenbuildhappy,

lovingrelationshipswiththemanoftheir

dreams.

Sheisalsotheauthorofthe#1best-

sellingprogram“TheDevotionSystem,”

whichiswidelyregardedasthebestand

mostcomprehensiveguideforwomenfedupwithdatingandfrustratedbyan

endlesscycleofheartbreakafterheartbreak.

AmyNorth’sYouTubechannelboastsover60,000subscribersandmillionsofviews,

andherwebsitefeaturesafull-lengthfreevideopresentationsharinganumberof

sneakypsychologicaltacticstomakeamanfallinlovewithyou….andforgetabout

everyotherwomanonearth.

Click here to watch Amy’s free full-length “how-to” video »

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Whenyoumeet“TheOne,”you’llprobablybethehappiestyou’veever

felt...buttheideaoflosinghimtosomeoneelsemayalsobea

terrifyingthoughtforyou.

Thegoodnewsisthatthere’sawaytokeepyourmanhappily

monogamous.Bylearninghowto“cheat-proof”yourrelationship,you’ll

neverhavetoworryabouthimleavingyouorbeingunfaithful.

Tohelpyouunderstandwhatyoucandotokeephimloyal,I’vedivided

thisbookintofoursections.

● WhyDoMenCheat?

● WhatMakesALastingLove?

● SignsYourManIsCheating

● HowtoPreventCheatinginYourRelationship

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WhyDoMenCheat?

Cheatingandinfidelitycanhappeninanyrelationship—weakorstrong,

oldornew.Sometimesaffairsareforlove,andothertimes,it’sjustabout

thesex.

Whilethere’snosinglereasonforwhyamanmaychoosetobeunfaithful,

thereareahandfulofreasonsandexcusesthatariseagainandagain.

ToAvoidIntimacyThisreasoncanbeconfusing,especiallyifyourmanisalreadyinan

intimaterelationshipwithyou.However,psychiatristshavesaidthat

oftentimesmencheattoavoidrealintimacy.Inotherwords,theydoitto

avoidrelyingononeperson,which,intheireyes,meanstheycanavoid

gettinghurt.Ironic,right?

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ToHaveVarietyThiscanbeatoughtruthtoswallow,butsomemencheatjustbecause

theycravevariety.Sure,hemaylovethebonesofyou,butsinceyou’re

justonepersonitcanbetoughto

fulfillallofhisdesires,especially

ifthosedesiresaretobewitha

varietyofwomen.

ToGainPowerSomemencheatbecausethey

feelitempowersthemintheir

relationship;theyhavetheupper

handbybeingunfaithful,andthereforehavelesstolose.NowI’mnot

sayingthisisright,andasawomanthismayseemoutrageous,butstudies

haveshownthatthisishowsomeguysdefendtheiractions:Itmakes

themfeelmanly.

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ToFindIntimacyOntheotherendofthespectrum,somemensearchforintimacyoutside

oftheirrelationship.Sincecouplescandriftapartovertime,somemen

finditeasiertofulfiltheirsexualandintimacyneedsbyfindingthem

elsewhereratherthantalkingwiththeirpartneraboutthedeclineintheir

sharedintimacy.Thisisaprimeexampleofwhycommunicationisso

important!

ToSpiceThingsUp

Inthebeginningofarelationship,couplescan’tseemtogetenoughof

eachother.However,astimepasses,andpartnersbecomemore

comfortablewithoneanother,it’snotuncommonforsextogetless

exciting,too.Thisiswhysomemencheat:becausetheycravethat

newnessandexcitementagain,andsincetheycan’tgetitfromtheir

partner,theygolookingelsewhere.Thatsaid,therearewaystoprevent

thisfromhappeningandtokeepyourrelationshipfreshandexciting,

whichI’veexplainedinmoredepthinthefreevideoonmywebsite.

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ToPleaseOthersMenaren’talwaysasincontrolasyouthink.Acommonreasonwhymany

mencheatissimplybecausetheylackthewillpowertosayno.So,ifa

beautifulwomancomesontothem,they’reweak,andgoalongwithit.

Insteadofstayingfaithfultotheirpartner,theygiveintoasexualaffair

simplybecausetheopportunityaroseandtheyweren’tstrongenoughto

turnherdown.

ToRelivetheRushNoteverycheaterisarepeatoffender,butchancesareifyourmanhas

cheated—andgotawaywithit—thenhe’lllikelythinkhecandoitagain.

Inordertobreakthishabit,it’scrucialthathefiguresoutwhatdrovehim

tocheatinthefirstplace.Whoknows,hecouldbecheatingbecausehe

onlycaresabouthimself,orbecauseyourrelationshiplackssomething

importanttohim.

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WhatMakesaLastingLove?Whenitcomestoahealthy,lovingrelationship,therearecertainmental

andphysicalcomponentsthatneedtobeinplaceforittogothedistance.

Tohelpcheat-proofyourrelationship,makesurethatthesecomponents

areaneverydaypartofyourlivestogether.It’swhenthesekeyelements

starttodissipatethattroublearises.

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KissEveryDayAsCharlesDickensoncesaid,“Nevercloseyourlipstothosewhomyou

havealreadyopenedyourheart.”Inotherwords,keepkissingtheman

youlove.

Tokeepyourmanfaithful,it’simportantthatyoukeepthesparkalive

betweenyou.Sooftencouplesmakeitpastthehoneymoonstageand

slowlystopkissingeachother.Tokeeptherelationshipfresh,makea

pointtokissyourpartnerdaily.

CreateaLovingMindsetIt’sbeenproventhatwhenyouseeyourpartnerasthehandsomest,

smartestorfunniestpersonintheroom,yourrelationshipwilllastlonger,

andbemoreemotionallysatisfying.Todothis,makeapointtoremind

yourselfhowwonderfulyourmanis,andlethimknowhowyoufeelabout

him.Whenyoudoit’llworkwondersoncheat-proofingyourrelationship.

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GrowTogetherThisoneisabigone.Whenrelationshipsgetstagnantit’scommonfor

couplestobreakup,cheat,oratleastconsiderthepossibilityofanother

partner.

Tokeepyourrelationshipontrackit’simportantthatyouandyourman

arealwaysgrowingtogether.Pickingupnewinterests,exploringnew

places,andtryingnewthingstogetherwillhelpyougrowbothas

individualsandasacouple.

BePositiveSomanypeopleletthelittleannoyancesinlifebringthemdown,and

withoutrealizingitthatnegativeenergycreepsintotheirlovelife.Tokeep

yourrelationshipontherighttrack,focusonthepositivesandtofinda

waytofallinlovewithyourlifeeveryday.Byfindingyourpassionsand

practicingthemoften,they’llnotonlyreflectpositivelyinyour

relationship,butthey’llalsomakeitstronger.

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KeepYourIndependenceEarlyinarelationshipitcanbeeasytogetsweptupinwantingtospend

allyourtimewithyourman.However,astemptingasitmaybeto

monopolizeoneanother’stime,it’simportantthatyougiveeachother

spaceandkeepyourpersonalinterestsandhobbiesalive.Spendingevery

wakingmomenttogethermaysoundnice,butovertimeitwillresultin

someonegettingbored.What’sworseisthatwhenboredombreeds,

troublearises.Toavoidthisfromhappeningencourageyourmantotake

onhisownpersonalpursuits.

BeRomanticKeepingthesparkalivebetweenyouandyourmaniscrucialforcheat-

proofingyourrelationship.Sinceromanceandintimacyaretwoofthe

mostimportantcomponentsofalovingrelationship,youshouldalways

belookingtofornewwaystokeepyourflameburning.Itcanbetough

andrequiresanopenmind,butit’stotallyworthit.

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Ifyounoticethesignsofarelationshipthat’sstartingtobecomestale,

TAKEACTION!Startbyvisitingmywebsiteandwatchingthefreevideo

thatI’vepostedonthehomepage.

CreateSharedInterestsSincecouplesthatbuildahistorytogetherhavesomethingtolose,it

makescheatinglesslikelytohappenintheirrelationship.Thisiswhy

creatingsharedexperiencesandinterestscanhelpcheat-proofyour

relationship.

Togetstarted,pickanactivityanddoittogether.Whetherit’sacooking

classorco-edFrisbeeleague,tryingnewthingswithyourmanisoneof

thebestwaystokeepyourrelationshipexcitingandfulloflove.

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SignsYourManIsCheatingWhenyoususpectthatyourmanmaybecheatingonyou,it’snot

uncommontofeelcrushinglydevastated.Asyouscrambletomakesense

ofyouremotionsandtheories,youmayevenconsidersharingyour

concernswithhim.Ifyoudogothisrouteandhebrushesoffyour

worries,itmaybehardtobelievehim.Intheseinstancesit’simportant

thatyoutrustyourgut,andkeepaneyeoutforthesesigns.

He’sMoodyIfyourmanischeatingonyou,thenhemaybefeelingguiltyorashamed

ofhisactions.Ifthisisthecase,thenhe’llprobablylookforsomewhereto

unloadthosefeelings.Sothen,ifyounoticethatyourmanhasbeen

moodyorispickingfightswithyou,thenitcouldbehiswaytodestress.

Insteadofridingouthisemotions,gettotherootoftheproblemby

askingwhyhe’sbeingsoargumentative.

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Alsotakenoteifcommunicationbetweenthetwoofyoustartstofade.If

yourmanisthekindofpersonwhoalwayshassomethingtosayandyet

he’sbecomequietordistant,thenitmaybebecausehe’sscaredof

slippingup.Thishappensoftenwhensomeonehashadanaffairorhas

madeashamefulmistake.

He’sDistant,PanickedorDistraughtHandlinganaffairisabalancingact,whichmeansthatifyourmanis

cheating,he’sgoingtohavetobeextracarefulwhenitcomestokeeping

hisstoriesstraight.So,ifyounoticethathisscheduleischanging,orhe

scramblesforwordsanytimeyouaskhimaquestion,thenalarmbells

shouldberinging.Thatsaid,sometimeschangeisinevitable,sodon’t

jumptoassumptionstooquickly.

Alsonotehisbodylanguage.Ifyourmanisworriedaboutyoufindingout

whathe’sbeenupto,thenyoumaycatchhimlookingdistantorfearful.

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HeSmellsDifferentThisonesoundscliché,but

clichésexistforareason.Ifyour

partneriscominghomesmelling

likeaperfumeorlotionyou

don'twear,thenhe’sprobably

beenclosewithsomeonewhois

wearingit.

You’veDiscoveredEvidenceIfyou’venoticedrandomhairs,lipsticksmudges,orotherunknown

belongingskickingaroundhishouse,carorofficethenyoushouldbe

askingquestions.Thatsaid,it’simportantnottogetwrappedupin

playingdetective;ifyou’remistakenthenstartingsomethingoutof

nothingcanbedestructivetoyourrelationship.

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HeAdoptsNewLingoHaveyouevernoticedthatwhenyouspendenoughtimearound

someoneyoustarttospeaklikethem,orpickuptheirinterests?Well,it’s

true!

Ifyounoticethatyourmanhasbecomeinterestedinthingshehatedor

ignoredbefore,orstartsusingnewwordsorphrases,itcouldbebecause

heisabsorbingsomeoneelse’sinterests.Whilethisdoesn’tprovethat

he’shavinganaffair,itisanimportantsigntowatchoutfor.

HeWantstoFlySoloIfyouandyourmanusedtoenjoyrunningerrandstogetherorattended

eventssidebyside,andnow,hewantstodo“hisownthing,”thenit

couldbebecausehe’suptonogood.

Ifitfeelslikeyourmanisworriedaboutbeingseenwithyouthenitcould

bebecausehe’safraidofwhoelsemaysee.Nowthissoundsridiculous,

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afterall,you’rehiswoman!...Butthenagain,ifhe’scheatingonyouthen

whoknowswhathe’stoldwhoeverelseisinvolved.

HisSexDriveIncreasesWhenitcomestocommittedrelationships,it’snormalforacouples’sex

lifetohaveitsshareofhighsandlows.However,ifyourpartner

simmereddowninthebedroomthensuddenlyhasaninsanesexdrive,

it’spossiblethathislibidohasbeenreawakenedbysomeoneelse.Keep

aneyeoutforanynewsexmovesordirtytalkthathemayhavepicked

up.

HisFinancesAreUnexplainable

Thoughitmaynotbeyourplacetocommentonhoworwherehespends

hismoney,payattentiontoanysuspiciousorunexplainedpapertrailshe

leavesbehind.Forexample,ifyoufindreceiptstonicerestaurantsor

hotelbillslayingaround,thenyoumaywanttoaskhimaboutwherehe’s

beenspendinghismoney.Ifhebrushesoffyourquestionsorbecomes

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defensive,thenyouknowsomethingisup.

HisFriendsAreonEdgeIfyouwereclosewithhisfriends,butlatelythey’vebeenactingnervous

oruncomfortablearoundyou,thenitcouldbebecausetheyknow

somethingyoudon’t.Howyourman’sfriendstreatyouspeaksvolumes.If

they’veflippedfromhottocoldonyou,thendon’ttakethissignlightly.

He’sTalkingAboutBreakingUpIfyourmanstartsaskingquestionslike,"Whatwouldyoudoifwebroke

up?"ormakesstatementslike“You’dbefinewithoutme,”thenhemay

behintingthatheisconsideringendingthingsbetweenyou.Don’tlet

theseslightremarksgounnoticed.Instead,keeptrackeachtimehe

makesacommentlikethisandseeifapatternemerges.Withtheright

puzzlepieces,youmaybeabletocatchyourpartnerredhanded.

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He’sSecretiveDoeshehidehisphonefromyou,deletemessages,ortuckitquicklyout

ofsightthemomentyouentertheroom?Ifso,thenyourcheating-radar

shouldbegoingoff!

Payattentiontothecallshetakesbehindcloseddoorsandwhohesays

hascalledortexted.Hisbodylanguageanddefensivetonewilltellyouif

somethingisgoingon.

HeJustifiesAffairsYourbestfriend'sboyfriendischeatingandyousharethenewswithyour

man.Toyoursurprise,hebecomesdefensiveandsaysthingslike“Wellhe

wasn’thappyanyways,”or“Peoplehaveaffairsallthetime.”Takeheed,

thiscouldbeawarningsignofwhat’sgoingonbehindyourback,too.

Afterall,condemningothersforcheatingwouldmeancondemning

himselfaswell!

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Ifyourmanbrushesoffthesubjectofcheatinglikeit’snobigdealorgets

awkwardanytimethetopiccomesup,thenyoumayhavetheanswers

you’relookingfor.

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StoppingHimFromCheatingAsmentionedearlier,there’snoonesinglereasonwhypeoplecheat.The

goodnewsthough,isthatthereareahandfulofprovenwaystoprevent

itfromhappeningtoyou.

Beforereadingahead,keepinmindthatthebestself-defenseagainst

cheatingisagreatrelationship.Inotherwords,ifyouwanttocheat-proof

yourrelationshipthenyouneedtodothework.

AgreeOnWhatConstitutesas“Cheating”Topreventcheatinginyourrelationshipit’scrucialthatyouandyourman

areonthesamepagewhenitcomestowhatqualifiesascheating.To

ensurethis,talkaboutyourbeliefsandcomeaclearagreementonwhat

isandisn’tacceptableinyourrelationship.

Initiallypartnersmaynothavethesamefeelingsandopinionsonthe

subject,whichiswhyit’ssocrucialtocometoanagreementtogether.

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It’salsoimportanttodiscussandagreeonhowyouwilleachhandle

advancesfromothers,andhowquicklyyouwilltelloneanotherabout

romanticorflirtyexperiences.Doingsocanhelppreventemotional

affairs,andwillkeeppartnersfeelingopenwithoneanother.

OpenlyCommunicateTopreventcheatinginyourrelationship,youandyourmanmusttalkto

oneanother.Havingopenandhonestconversationsabouthowyou’re

feeling,whatyouexpectfromoneanother,andwhatisandisn’tworking

betweenyouwillkeepyoufeelingcloseandconnected.

Tohaveeffectiveconversationswithyourpartnerit’simportanttolethim

knowthathecansharehisfeelings,thoughtsanddesireswithyou,freeof

judgement.Whenyoudoso,you’llbegivinghimsomethinghedoesn’t

havewithjustanyone:asafeoutlet.Beingthepersonhecanranttoand

explorehisdreamswithmakesyouavaluablepartofhislifeandthatisa

greatdefenseagainstcheating.Tokeepyourloveburning,keepthe

communicationlinesclearandopen.

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AppreciateYourPartnerTakethetimetoappreciateyourmaneveryday,evenforthelittlethings.

Infact,it’susuallythoselittlethingsthatmeanthemost,whichiswhy

appreciationgoessuchalongwaywhenitcomestocommitment.

Sincenoonewantstobewithsomeonewhomakesthemfeelpoorlyona

regularbasis,expressingappreciationtoyourmanisaneffectivewayto

preventcheating.Ashumans,wewanttofeellovedandvalued—

especiallybythosewe’vechosentoshareourlifewith.Makesureyoutell

yourguyhowmuchhemeanstoyou,evenwhenyou’renotinthemost

romanticofmoods.

KeeptheSparkAliveThekeytoprotectinganyromanticrelationshipiskeepingyourspark

alive.Thismeansbeingintimate,havingsexregularly,kissingoften,

touchingasmuchaspossible,andtalkingcomfortablyaboutsex.

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Bybeingopentonewideasandexperimentation,notonlywillitkeep

yoursexlifefreshandexciting,butyourmanwillappreciateyour

willingnesstotrynewthings,andinturn,belesslikelytocheat.While

you’reatit,askhimabouthisfantasiesandfindoutwhatgetshimgoing.

Sure,thesethingsmaynotsoundlikeyourcupoftea,butgivethema

shot,andwhoknows,youjustmightlikethem,too.Knowingwhathe

likeswillgiveyoualegupwhenitcomestokeepinghimfeelingfulfilled.

GrowTogetherSincechangeisaconstant,it’simportanttorollwithwhatcomesyour

way,takeonnewchallenges,andtrynewthingstogether.Keepingyour

relationshipfeelingfreshandaliveisapowerfulwaytopreventcheating.

Ifyouignoretheinevitabletolloftimeandexpectwhatworkedinthe

firstmonthofyourrelationshiptostillworkyearslater,yourrelationship

couldverywellbedoomed.

Abigpartofgrowingwithyourpartnerisfindingnewthingstodo

together.Beapartofthethingsyourmanenjoysdoinginhisfreetime,

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bondoverandcreatesharedinterests,andspendqualitytimetogether.

Keepingthingsinterestingwilllessenhislikelinesstocheat.

AvoidJealousy

Inmostrelationships,therewillcomeatimewhenyouquestionyour

man’sfeelingsorbehaviortowardssomeoneelse.Astoughasitmaybe,

it’simportantnottobecomeangryorcriticaltowardshimortheperson

hegivesattentionto.

Sinceactingjealoustowardssomeoneyourmanshowsinterestinwon’t

winbackhisattention—instead,you’lllookimmatureandfoolish—it’s

importanttoshifthisattentionbacktoyoubywooinghimwithyour

talentsandcapabilities.

Givehimareasontoloveandvalueyoubysteppingupyourgamerather

thanthreateningtoleaveorbecomingcritical.

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EmphasizeCommitmentAlthoughyouandyourpartnerarealreadyinacommittedrelationship,

it’sstillimportanttoremindeachotherofthebenefitsofbeingacouple.

Youbothhavesomeonewhoknowsyoubetterthananyoneelse;

someoneyouhaveasharedhistoryandlifememorieswith;someoneyou

canrelyon;someonetogrowoldwith.

Remindingyourmanofthemanyreasonsyoubothdecidedtocommitto

oneanothercanrevivenostalgicfeelingsandhappymemories.Many

times,simplyrecognizinghowluckyyouaretohavesuchalovingpartner

isenoughtopreventinfidelitylongbeforeitbecomesanissue.

BeRomanticItonlytakesasmallgesturetoberomanticandshowyourmanhowmuch

youcareabouthim,butthesesmallgesturesgofarwhenitcomesto

keepinghimcommitted.Fromsurprisedinnerstopassionatebackrubs,

lovingactionswillshowhimhowmuchyouappreciatehim,whichinturn

canhelptocheat-proofyourrelationship.

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Complimentinghislooks,praisinghissuccesses,andrecognizinghis

potentialwillalsodowondersforhisconfidenceandhappiness.Theseare

importantbecausewhenamanfeelsgoodabouthimselfandhis

relationship,thelikelihoodofhimlookingforromanceelsewhereisslim

tonone.

BeaGoodGirlfriend!Asyouprobablyknow,whenyourman’sneedsarephysicallyand

emotionallymet,hewon’tbeasinterestedinlookingelsewhere.To

ensurethatheissatisfiedinyourrelationship,takealookathowwellyou

aremeetinghiswantsandneeds,andstepupintheareasthatare

lacking.Sinceit’shumannaturetopursueone’sneeds,ifyou’renotgiving

himwhatheneedsthenhemaygolookingelsewhere.

Tobeagoodpartnerandsuccessfullycheat-proofyourrelationship,think

ofyourrole(ashiswoman)asajobthatyouareapplyingforeveryday.

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Askyourselfwhyyourmanshouldkeepyouaroundandnotfireyou,and

ifthere’sanythingyoushouldbedoingthatyou’renot.

Notmanywomenrealizeit,butbeingyourman’sdreamwomanisWAY

easierthanyoumightthink…ifyouknowafewsneakytechniquesto

makesureheseesyouas“TheOne”.ClickheretoviewavideoI’ve

madetoexplainsomeofthesecoverttactics…watchitASAP,sothatyou

canbeginusingmytechniquesTODAYtomakesurehestaysintoyou(and

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