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W I T H L A U R A E L L E N
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Pleasure Queen
David Deida"The way a man penetrates the world
should be the same way he penetrates hiswoman: not merely for personal gain orpleasure, but to magnify love, openness,
and depth."
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Your True Goddessence
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Write down your three authenticgoddessence traits. Stick them on your
mirror, use them as a screen saver,surround yourself with this energy...
M E D I T A T I O N + J O U R N A L
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The Real Magic
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Journaling, affirmations + visualisationsare amazing AND if you want to super
charge your desires and actually EMBODYwhat your calling in you need to integrate
it into your body.
E M B O D I M E N T
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Y O U R H E A R T SD E S I R E S F O RL O V E ,C O N N E C T I O NA N D T R U EB L I S S ,A L W A Y S .
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Remeber
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How do you want to love?How do you want to feel while having sex?How do you want to show up during the day?What are you wearing, eating, interacting?Who do you want to be in the bedroom?How do you want to feel in your body?What energy do you want to emit in the bedroom?What does it feel like to tap into your FULLEST potential of GIVING?Giving is supposed to fill you up. What would actually nourish and fill youwhen it comes to giving from your heart?How do I want to give love?How do I want to give pleasure?How do I want to give to the world?How do you want to be received by your partner?How do you want the world to receive you?How do you want to trust? How do you want to YOURSELF?
Remember, your heart’s desires are sacred, magnetic and powerful!
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Embodying Consent+
Loving Like You Wantto be Loved
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T H E T H R E E S T A G E S O FE P I C L O V E R D O M
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Doing so from the people-pleaser inside you.Doing it to reciprocate (obligation).Doing it because it turns you the fuck on.
Which one do you resonate with?
You're an empowered sexgoddess remember, so if youneed to cry, scream, hiss, lickor stop... Then you do it.
N E V E R H I D E
Aka don't hand your pleasureresponsibility over to yourpartner. Your turn on is yoursand yours to maintain.
P L E A S U R E F I R S T
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You're not here to proveanything sis, this is purelyabout pleasure and divinelove. This flows from youeffortlessly because you AREit.
S T O P T R Y I N G
This is the first step inanything, awareness anddeciding to not settle foranything less. It's your choice!
D E C I D E
Your sexuality is like you,ever evolving, alwaysgrowing, ever changing.
O P E N H E A R T , O P E NM I N D , O P E N P U S S Y
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E N D I N G E M A S C U L A T I O N
How emasculation patterns keep you stuck in your lower selfThe root of emasculation - it's all you...Healing from jealousy and allowing him to
be his greatest expression.
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H O W ?
Remember who you are. Forgive the past. Breathe!Give Him Freedom to Be.Feel into the Positive Possibilities..Remind Yourself that you Want Him to Feel Good.
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T H E B E S T B L O W J O B T I PY O U ' L L E V E R G E T
Love. your. mans. cock.
With every cell in your body. Tap into the heart and soul ofcock love, this life-changing power comes from within.
Love your mans cock so wild and so hard that they forget whothey were and are self-actualised into who they truly are.
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T H E R E I S N O V I D E O T U T O R I A L , N O S C R I P T , A N D N OD E M O N S T A R T I O N T H A T C A N S H O W Y O U T H E T R U EM A G I C O F W H A T T O D O . . . .
Creating epic sexual experiences, being an exquisite loveris all about intuition.
There is no other way. It has never been done before.
Sex magic exists in deep presence. So finely in tune withyour intuitive wisdom.
Your body knows what to do. Trust it.
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E X P E C T A T I O N C H E C K - I NDon't forget, that this is a practice and notone that anyone gets good at straight away.Things could feel awkward, clunky, scary andweird - that's OK!Accept this as part of the process + enjoy thejourney of learning one anothers bodies.
Let's get your mindset right before diving in any deeper...
This is to worship and to serve fromthe deepest desires of your heart…
NOT to impress.
Goodbye obliged people pleasing K.
O N E M O R E T H I N G . . .
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I'm a big believer in preparation.I'm also a big believer in flow.
I encourage you schedule &prepare, but also allow yourself tobe open to the magic unfolding inmysterious ways...
See workbook for your fullpreparation checklist.
Everything You need
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Continuous consentFears and DesiresPleasure Scale Practice
This not just for the beginning of the session, this level of communication cancontinue throughout - when it feels right.
Communication & Setting the scene
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Eye gazingLingam Gazing.Worshipping his entire body energetically with your whole heart.Take gentle authority Let him know you’ve got him.Activate the throat and voice early.Breathe together.
This is the beginning of the dancing meditation...
Connect First
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Before focusing on the lingam, start with a full body massage.Heart-centered.Look into his eyes.Rub his body with your body.Let the arousal build like WOAH between the two of you.Continue breathing togetherPenetrate him energetically & TAKE HIM.
Men may be “ready” sooner than women but that doesn’t mean theydon’t garner from full-body pleasure.
Remeber you can always COME BACK to this place. This experienceisn't a linear jounrey. It ebbs and flows, go with it and if you start tofeel disconnected come back to this sacred anchor.
Whole Body Bliss
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When Massaging, start at the perineum, then the scrotum, and then the shaft, then
the frenulum, and then the tip.
Like the clitoris, the tip of the penis is usually too sensitive to start with.
Build up to the tip, taking your time, and letting the erotic energy grown.
Just like direct, constant clitoral stimulation can block other sensations of pleasure
available, going straight for the tip can do the same.
The frenulum loves light touch, adore and love and get sooo sensual with this area.
On the underside of the shaft, in the frenulum area is the “male clitoris” and often
the quick-to-cum option.
Scrotum caressing, massaging, and licking... Check-in with the Pleasure Scale
Practice.
The perineum is a sensitive runway between the anus and the scrotum. By massaging
(with pressure) you can indirectly reach the prostate and encourage engorgement.
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Take your comfort into consideration
Connect his Lingam to his heart
Strokes & techniques
Ebb & Flow
Edging and riding the waves
Erect vs soft Lingam - No judgment + no pressure
If prostate pleasure isn’t on the menu...
Mindful Ejaculation
Final Integration
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Listen, Trust & Flow
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HygieneTaboo & shamePain
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B L O C K A G E S
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Premium massage
Butt cheek massage - the Ass-age
Using a handslide technique first
Warming up the sphincter without actually touching it
This part is better done with the receiver on his front, or on his side.
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Warming Up The Anus
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Take a deep breath and hold your hand on your heart.
How do you want to feel while being penetrated?
Penetration is energy!
Tapping into your own sacred masculine.
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Penetrating the Masculine
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Try both ways over various experiences
Encourage no orgasm goals
Encourage self pleasure
Relax in the subtleness
Encourage sounding, breathing, releasing, expressing
With our without lingam touch.
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Two ways to practice prostate Pleasure
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Make sure the sphincter is relaxed
Never penetrate the anus without warming up the sphincter first.
Keep a constant connection with the receiver as you penetrate.
Encourage the receiver to relax.
Go slow.
Ask for consent.
Finger condom or glove.
Enter with your palm/fingers facing up toward his belly button.
Open the sphincter in a star stroking position, stretching it open gently and with loving care.
The second anal sphincter - slow down breathe and relax and use the star stretching technique.
Don’t have any goals for how deep to go.Never move out quickly.
The prostate is the size of a walnut and feels like the tip of your nose
Ask the receiver to lay back down on their backs and sit comfortably below the hips with their legs open
and over yours. You can also ask then to position them selfs in a tabletop position, whatever is most
comfortable.
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Love like you want to be loved.
You know what the feminine needs.
Allow your masculine to hold him.
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Holding Space For His Feminine
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Your take home workbook has the strokes in there for you to practice.
Have fun, keep trying, and let me know how you go!
I love you
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To Finish
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